What’s your perspective on the argument about whether or not sapiosexual is ableist?

While I can understand where that argument is coming from, I personally see it in the same way as the argument against pangender. And that is, just because someone can use an identity in way that is ableist (or racist, as the argument goes with pangender), that doesn’t mean that identity is inherently that way. Someone could certainly use it in a way that is ableist, but I don’t think that is the case for every single instance of its use. It’s just something that you just need to check yourself on if you’re going to use it.

But that’s just the way I see it. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

hey uhhhhh is there like a gender based off like, okay so I feel like man, woman and a nonbinary right. I’m really confused right now and there’s so much hate in the nb community ighhhhh. I don’t know what I am.

yourmemehell:

beyond-mogai-pride-flags:

The term that sounds to the closest would be Galaxian.

Galaxian: a combo of Stellarian, Solarian, and Lunarian.

Stellarian: With as many possible identities and presentations as there are stars in the sky, a Stellar Nonbinary Person, or Stellarian, would be someone who does not experience strong alignment with either binary gender, or who rejects such alignment.

Solarian: In many cultures and religious systems, the sun is associated with masculinity, and male energy. As a result, a Solar Nonbinary Person, or Solarian, would be someone who has similarities in identity or experience with men. The term functions as a less easily abused form of “male aligned.”

Lunarian: In equally many cultures, where the sun is man, the moon is woman and feminine energy. As a result, a Lunar Nonbinary Person, or Lunarian, would be someone who has similarities in identity or experience with women. It functions as a less easily abused term for “female aligned.

No hate here, friend! Feel free to come back anytime. 🙂

Okay so I’m going to clarify this but @beyond-mogai-pride-flags , lunarian, solarian, stellarian, and all of their related terms are NOT genders, but actually alignments. What anon might be feeling could be a fluid gender or trigender!

Thank you for the clarification!

Edit: Although I have seen some non binary people use an alignment term to describe their gender, so I think it would be fine if that anon decided to do so. 🙂

Let Me Make Something Very Clear

That way I hopefully won’t have to discuss this again…

The main blog of Beyond MOGAI Pride Flags is a safe place.

It is for anyone who wants to figure out their identity, or have a flag found or made for them.

The notes, however, are NOT SAFE.

I rarely block anyone. So you can, for the most part, reblog or comment on any of my posts and say whatever you want about me or the blog. I do not care. 

That being said, I will not post negative asks. Again, it is a SAFE PLACE.

Even if you like my blog you WILL NOT agree with every single thing I post. This is almost guaranteed. Because this blog is designed to be incredibly inclusive. Therefore, you will almost 100% disagree with at least one of my posts.

And that is okay! That’s just how this blog is made. It is run by one person, and, as such, will reflect the views of this one person.

But this blog is not where I debate those views. It is for whoever wants to use it to find a label and/or flag for themselves. And it is more inclusive than many other similar blogs. That’s not a good or bad thing, that is just what I made the blog for.

So you can put whatever you want in the notes (within reason). That’s perfectly fine. But that is where such negativity will stay. 

I’m very sorry, I do not want to sound rude or mean. I just want everyone, not just that last anon, to understand. With any luck, this will be the only time I have to address this.

Thank you, and thank you for following Beyond MOGAI Pride Flags.

Sincerely,

Fy, founder of Beyond MOGAI Pride Flags

Is there a reason you never publish or respond to any criticisms of your blog? Some are probably trolls, but I think I’ve sent some valid ones personally that I would like to see a response to.

Let us consult the magic FAQ.

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As it states, this is not a discourse or debate blog. You may think your criticisms are valid, but it’s probable that I disagree. This is not the blog for such negativity. If I agree with your criticism, you can be sure that I will answer it (example: When I wrote the wrong definition on the Gender Non-Conforming flag).  

Can you explain all the -kin stuff? I’m trying to have an open mind, but everything I’ve seen on tumblr seems kind of outrageous or illogical? I’d not be anonymous, but I kinda don’t to get involved in discourse; just want to learn.

Well I’m glad that you’re trying to learn and keep an open mind!

Being otherkin just means to, in some way, identify as non-human. Some believe its due to something spiritual (reincarnation/multiple universes/etc.), while others think it’s due to their psychology/neurology. Some have dysphoria, some don’t. Some have memories of some past life, some don’t. So there is no one way to be otherkin/fictionkin/etc. and each one has a different experience! 

so i have no clue what my gender is, but im not really questioning in the normal sense. i just dont know if what im calling my gender is my gender, like i could be mixing up “what gender id like to present as” or something with my acctual gender. i cant really explain it. the closest match i could find to how i feel was a joke (Sng12ender: When you don’t want to put labels on yourself because you’re not sure what you actually feel like) sorry if it sounds like im joking im not i promise

Don’t sweat it, I definitely believe you. 🙂 I’ll try and throw some labels that sound kinda like that and hopefully one will fit!

Pomogender: A gender where one denies or does not fit any labels for any particular gender. 

Arigender or Ariesgender: A complicated gender identity that you cannot explain or is very hard to explain. A gender that does not fit under any labels. An unfathomable gender.

Varumgender or Avarumgender: A gender for a person who feels that, while many terms may be used to describe their gender, they don’t feel like identifying with them may be right for them–due to uncertainty, anxiety, or just neurodivergency in general. Alternatively, a term for use where many labels may fit, and one’s gender may fit all the criteria for these labels, but the traits are all static and never seem to overwhelm each other.

Genderfree or Gender-free: A gender identity which is generally ambiguous, but definitely queer in nature. The owner will tend to pursue expressions, presentations and such without concern for gender associations associated with them. Can also embrace days presenting as very femme, very masc, etc. A blurry, cloudy, whimsical, free sense of gender. Can/often does co-exist with other gender identity labels: Dysphoria can, but does not have to, motivate the sense of gender and/or gender expression of this person on any given day. More of an exploration of different aspects of the same identity. 

Scorpigender: A gender that is a mystery, and very difficult to understand. lots of labels vaguely fit it, but almost none can fully describe it.

hey uhhhhh is there like a gender based off like, okay so I feel like man, woman and a nonbinary right. I’m really confused right now and there’s so much hate in the nb community ighhhhh. I don’t know what I am.

The term that sounds to the closest would be Galaxian.

Galaxian: a combo of Stellarian, Solarian, and Lunarian.

Stellarian: With as many possible identities and presentations as there are stars in the sky, a Stellar Nonbinary Person, or Stellarian, would be someone who does not experience strong alignment with either binary gender, or who rejects such alignment.

Solarian: In many cultures and religious systems, the sun is associated with masculinity, and male energy. As a result, a Solar Nonbinary Person, or Solarian, would be someone who has similarities in identity or experience with men. The term functions as a less easily abused form of “male aligned.”

Lunarian: In equally many cultures, where the sun is man, the moon is woman and feminine energy. As a result, a Lunar Nonbinary Person, or Lunarian, would be someone who has similarities in identity or experience with women. It functions as a less easily abused term for “female aligned.

No hate here, friend! Feel free to come back anytime. 🙂

i’m a maladaptive daydreamer and my identity in my daydreams (which are extremely important to me) is different from my IRL identity (i’m a gay transman). could there be a flag for that? or just a flag for maladaptive daydreamers?

You’re in luck, there are flags for that!

Malagender: A gender which is created or influenced by maladaptive daydreaming or fantasy prone personalities.
For example a malagender person might feel male usually but their gender may feel more nonbinary during a maladaptive daydreaming episode.

Malasexual: An orientation which is created or influenced by maladaptive daydreaming or fantasy prone personalities.
For example a Malasexual person might feel pansexual usually but may feel more asexual during a maladaptive daydreaming episode.

Just quickly, what is sensual attraction? I’m kinda confused

No probs, dear anon. 

Sensual attraction: Having a desire to engage in sensual acts with a certain individual (kissing, cuddling, hugging, hand holding, etc). Useful for people on the ace/aro spectrum who are uncomfortable with romantic or sexual acts or feel little to no sexual or romantic attraction but do desire sensuality or do feel sensual attraction.

Ecosexual Pride Flag

Ecosexual Pride Flag #3

Ecosexual: an environmentally conscious person whose adherence to green living extends to their sexual life

rasgklrainbows:

This is just a SMALL taste of the diversity within the LGBT+ community. We aren’t asking you to accept the identities, we are just asking you to not be a gatekeeper and/or identity police. Don’t be an asshole about these identities. Human sexuality is EXTREMELY diverse, as well as complicated. Will some of these terms be discarded in the future? Probably, as we learn more about the science (social and biological) behind sex, sexual identity, and similar things, but as of now, we are still changing our vocabulary on a daily basis.

can you find the pride flag for vexesexual?

Here you go!

Vexe- / Vex-: When one’s orientation is in the a-spectrum, but pinpointing it beyond that is impossible because the individual does not understand the concept of that kind of attraction.

How do you go about making flags? Like how do you know how you want it to look, what colors or designs, etc.?

Good question! If I’m not given any ideas via the requester, I’ll usually try and use colors that have specific meanings attached to them. And many colors have multiple meanings, or I could use different shades of these colors. But its definitely the most difficult part for me if I’m not given any ideas because there are soooo many ways one can design a flag and then I’m like @-@

After some thought and research, I decided to coin a new term related to ARCsexuality, as a similar/alternative identity to “eriscarnal”.

Aporisexual – from the term “aporia”; describes someone who experiences inner conflict about their sexual orientation or acting on it, sometimes due to past experiences, internalized issues or beliefs. These beliefs may be religious or traditionalist in nature, for example, being attracted to the same gender but feeling conflicted about acting on it due to personal beliefs one was raised in. However, the existence of such beliefs is not a prerequisite to using the aporisexual label, and may simply describe a conflicted feeling of repulsion to sexual acts.

Apori- may also be use as a descriptor alongside orientation (hetero-, homo-, pan-, etc) and attraction (demi-, gray-, etc) prefixes, and may be applicable to the split attraction model (-romantic, -sensual, etc).

As for the flag’s design, I used the color yellow for conflict; gray for reservation; and black and white for contradiction. The white may also be seen as “newness” or “hope”, for some aporisexuals who may wish to grow beyond their inner conflict, and for the aporisexuals who accept their reservations about sex and determine to live a fulfilled life, with or without it.

Edit: Removed the triangle.

Can I just say how great it is to find the blog which threats platonic attractions seriously? Most people concider platonic attraction be default and experienced in the same ways even by asexuals and aromantics, but feeling platonic attraction has always been a huge struggle for me (unlike other types of attraction) and it’s impossible to explain it to people

Of course! Platonic attraction is just as valid as any other type of attraction, and platonic relationships can be just as important and fulfilling (sometimes more so!) as romantic or sexual relationships.

I’ve been looking around and questioning my sexuality lately, could you see if you could find/make a term and/or flag for a attraction to romance being complicated and being repulsed by attraction but still desire to feel it by being an integral part of another couple

Inact-/Inacto-/Initia-: When someone experiences attraction and wants a relationship but doesn’t want or is repulsed by actions associated with that type of attraction.

Aco- / Acor- Experiencing attraction that one wants to act on, but at the same time having a strong aversion to engaging in it due to bad experiences, apprehension, or other misgivings about being involved in romantic relationships or sexual activity, etc.

What is the difference between transmasculine and demiboy? I’m just a bit confused here ^_^

Transmascline is a term used to describe transgender people who were assigned female at birth, but identify with masculinity to a greater extent than with femininity. They could be either trans men or nonbinary.

Demiboy is an umbrella term for nonbinary gender identities that have a partial connection to a certain gender. This includes the partly female identity demigirl, and the partly male identity demiboy. There are other partial genders using the “demi-” prefix for the same reasons. The “other part” may or may not be known.

hey I requested it but I tried to do it myself, this is what I did for a gryphonhearted flag! what do you think? I borrowed the symbol from @kin-sigils


Hey! I did get your request, and I was keeping it in my inbox until I got around to it, but I’m honestly so glad you made your own! I think it looks great!! :0

This is for dependent personality disorder (DPD). The colors are based off of a still-shot from a music video I really like that I think really connects to the symptoms for DPD. 


Nice, looks great! Thank you for the submission, this is one that was requested so I can cross it off the list.

I’m just a simple heterosexual trans man and I don’t understand most of these identities but I’m happy that you guys are figuring out yourselves! Woo!

Hey hey hey there’s nothing simple at all about figuring yourself out!! Figuring out that you’re any part of the LGBTQIAP+/MOGAI community is a complicated process, so don’t sell yourself short. 🙂 I think that’s an almost universal experience when it comes to being part of the community, so it’s honestly really great to hear your support! Woo!!

uh..did you get my half-human half-android ask..?

Yes I did, I still haven’t gotten through all of my asks I’ve gotten yet. Were you asking for something like an androidkin or robotkin flag? I haven’t made one like that yet, so if that’s what you were asking for you can send in another ask to specify the request and I can get to it when I start making flags again. 🙂

Edit: Got your second message, so I’ll just keep it safe in my inbox until I can get around to making it. 😀

Can you please explain why people with physical and mental illnesses have flags? Like I get if it’s a autism+gay flag, but why does “chronic illness” have a flag like?????????? I thought you made lgbt pride flags??????

I’ve kinda answered this question here.

Of course I make LGBTQIAP+/MOGAI flags, and originally the intent was just to make flags for identities for those that don’t have them, but this blog is almost a year old (wow does time fly!) and it just kind of evolved with what was asked of me. So now I make all sorts of flags. 

“Why” something has a flag is more or less just that someone with said disability wanted one to represent them and so asked me to make one. Using the chronic illness flag as an example, there were apparently quite a few people that liked the concept (some of the comments are actually very interesting if you look through the notes). And that’s great, that’s what the flags are there for. For those that want them. If you don’t, that’s fine too! You are absolutely not obligated to use these flags. 

So that’s all it is, I just started making more kinds of flags because there was demand for it. 🙂

Do you know if there’s an official flag for questioning people?

This is actually a pretty tricky one as there is no ‘official’ questioning pride flag. There have been many many proposed ones, but many of these were during the older days of PFFU and now they’re all deleted. I don’t have any saved, so all I can offer are those I can still find.

Of course many of them are pride flags with question marks on them

One idea that came from PFFU that I still found was this really pretty color swirl flag, although it was still being talked about whether it was going to be for orientation or gender questioning (or just overall questioning).

This seems to be a newer one that was only recently pointed out to me, created by tumblr user androgyne-enjolras.

And this one is specific for gender questioning

So yeah, there hasn’t been a lot of consensus on what the flag(s) for those who are questioning actually are, but hopefully that helped somewhat.

Do you do flags for mental illness and stuff like that?

I do, but I’m not making flags at the moment as I have a lot going on. But that is a category I usually make flags for, yes, and if you’d still like to make a request for one it will be kept safely in my inbox until I can start making flags again. 🙂

what if you want a sexual relationship with men and a romantic relationship with women?

I’m sorry, I don’t think I understand your question. Are you asking if your feelings are valid or are you asking what possible labels you could use? Because the answer to the first question is a resounding yes 🙂 and the second depends on your own gender, so I could only say something like masexual and womaromantic (since you didn’t specify).

hinadumps:

@beyond-mogai-pride-flags is absolutely precious and helps every person who are unic or outed from the more common queer terms to feel valid and good about themselves. I feel happy there is someone so much accepting – not to mention they know hella queer terms and can pretty often name you a sexuality based off description. I also feel deep personal respect to them since they keep doing their own thing despite many people judging them, because I value a personal power like this. They have bravery to do what they believe in and they have made many people happy. If someone thinks that acceptance and locally helping those who need it is what makes queer community look ‘bad’ I really don’t care because I think providing the idea that you are valid however you feel is the best

Thank you so much! 

Hello! Thank you very much for that aceflux post, it was exactly what I’ve been looking for! I have a question. Is there a term/flag for a gender which changes depending on the specific situations? Like being ‘normally’ agender but ‘switching’ in girl when getting close with a boy, or switching in a boy when surrounded by too many girls, or feeling like both when lonely – and coming back to agender when complete and happy? Does ‘genderfluid’ apply here or? I mean it’s oddly specific switches…

Hi! You’re very welcome, I’m glad it was helpful. 😀 There are a few terms that may be useful to you, hopefully you’ll find one that fits you best. 🙂

Condigender: A gender that is only felt under specific circumstances; can apply to any existing gender such as girl, boy, non-binary, etc. For example, a condigirl may only feel like a girl during specific times or with specific people, a condiboy may only feel like a boy during specific times or with specific people, so on.

This is the general Condigender flag

Mutogender: 

A subset of genderfluid; describes when your gender changes depending on your situation.

Some more specific examples of this could be Aerogender or Evaisgender / Evainsgender / Locugender

Aerogender: Where an individual’s gender relies highly on their setting and/or atmosphere, which can be composed of a great number of things (ex. who they’re around, their level of comfort, the temperature, the weather, the time of day/year, etc.)

Evaisgender/Evainsgender/Locugender: A fluid gender that’s easily influenced by things, thoughts and beings around it, thus it tends to change a lot, even within a single day.

And finally, I also found the term Situational Genderfluid; someone who is situationally genderfluid moves between genders based on their environment. As a subsection of genderfluid, it implies a pattern. It’s the first time I’ve seen that term, but it could also be useful. There is not a flag for it, however. 

Anyways, I hope one or more of these work for you. 😀

Hi! Sorry if this bothers you or if this isn’t the right place to ask, but is there a term or a flag for people who want to feel sexual attraction but don’t? Thank you and I love your blog :-)

Thank you very much. 😀 It sounds like you may be Aego-, also know as Autochoris-.

Aego-/Autochoris-: An orientation that is centered around people other than yourself. When you enjoy the idea of a particular kind of attraction, or when that attraction is being experienced by other people, but do not experience it yourself. 

Ex: someone who is aegosexual may enjoy the idea of sex as an action, or may appreciate sex being had by other people, but does not feel sexual attraction or desire sex themself.

I understand there are different types of attraction such as, alterous, romantic, sexual, platonic, aesthetic, emotional, intellectual, etc., but I don’t think I’ve been feeling *ANY* of these for a certain individual. Instead, I’ve felt like parenting them, nurturing them or raising them in a way. As if they were my own child. I’ve even “adopted” this person. I desire a parent-child relationship to this precious bean. Is this “familial” attraction/love? Curious to see if anyone else felt this.

Hi. It’s the “familial attraction” anon. I made a typo in my question. I meant to say, “with” instead of “to” when I mentioned my situation of wanting a parent-child relationship with someone. Also, I get that most people feel what I feel when actually adopting someone but what I meant more specifically is whether or not people have had the experience of desiring familial closeness with someone regardless of whether or not the target of affection can become a family member/relative.


I honestly wouldn’t be much help here as I don’t think I’ve ever experienced that before. Would any followers like to help anon out?

is there a term for a sexual orientation that changes with your gender? i’m only attracted to women when i identify as female-aligned and i’m only attracted to men when i’m masculine-aligned. i’ve never met anyone with the same attraction.

There are a couple of options. 

Novo-: An orientation that changes along with one’s gender. For use by individuals with fluid genders. Defining one’s particular shifts in orientation (ie what orientations correspond to the genders one experiences) is an option, but is not required.

Or Omnigay

Omnigay: Genderfluid, with one’s attraction to other genders changing with one’s gender so that the individual is always attracted to the same gender.

😀

I’m not sure if there’s a word that’s specific to how I am but you seem to know more about these things so I thought I might ask you. I’m not attracted to people but I still enjoy sex to some extent (primary anorgasmia is a bitch) as long as I’m with someone I care about and I feel comfortable with. I also have a hard time figuring out if any of this is just because of my anorgasmia. My romantic interest is more towards masculine presenting people as a cis woman if that makes a difference

While having no attraction certainly sounds like being asexual or perhaps demisexual, it sounds like your situation is a bit complicated due to your anorgasmia. If you feel like it’s influencing your orientation, just remember that there’s no need to rush to slap labels onto yourself. It sounds like you’re still figuring things out. It does sound like your somewhere on the asexual spectrum, but if you find out later that that’s not the case, that’s okay too. 🙂 

So I would recommend discussing this further with someone whose orientation is affected by a similar physical condition. Perhaps that could help put things into perspective? Followers?

Hi! Do you know what the official noviromantic flag is?

I don’t know if there’s any ‘official’ one, but here is one. 🙂

Noviromantic: 

Feeling complicated romantic attraction or lack thereof in such a way that it is difficult or impossible to fit into one word or term.

Hey everyone! Just wanted to drop in and hope you’re all having a great pride month. If you haven’t already, you should check out the calendar and make sure to celebrate your respective pride day(s)!

Also wanted to apologize for not being around much lately, but I’ve been incredibly busy lately. I haven’t really had time to manage the blog. I might be able to get some non-request related asks, but at this time I still don’t think I’ll be able to fill out any more requests. They’re still in my inbox though, don’t worry. 🙂 

Hey everyone. Sorry I haven’t posted or answered any asks in about a week or so forever. I’ve been pretty busy lately for multiple reasons. So if I haven’t answered your ask, I’ll try to get to it as soon as I can okay? 

Thanks for your patience as usual. 🙂

Edit: Just a couple more weeks and I’ll have way more time! D:

pride flag of eaternosexuals, people who are sexually attracted to beings that live forever (as do some species of fungi, amoebae, gods)

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While I get the feeling that you are trolling me due to the description, I can see that you’re an artist and I think it’s a nice flag. I think this could actually be useful for those who are only attracted to the divine, or perhaps the other way around.

 Since praegender is the term for those whose gender relates to being a divine being, maybe a better term for this flag could be praesexual?

Thoughts from followers?

do you have a flag for someone who only experiences sexual attraction on one specific day of the week (ex tuesday?)

I haven’t come across anything that specific, but that sounds like it could fall under aceflux (or perhaps some other identity that ends with -flux)

-flux: An identity that changes in intensity. This label can be applied to both orientations and gender identities to indicate that they feel their identity more strongly some times than others. For example someone who is aceflux may feel very strongly asexual one day, and not very asexual another day.

These are the aceflux flags

Hey, it’s nice to be inclusive, I mean no one likes being left out, but don’t you think this is all going a little too far? Isn’t this diluting the Pride message a little too much? Making a flag for each quirk in our personalities is overkill and leads to real LGBT+ issues and identities not being taken seriously. You are a great digital artist, maybe use your talents in a different way or to support real Pride movements?

I understand if you personally think I’m too inclusive (as I’ve said, everyone has their own idea of who belongs in the “community”), but to say that I make flags for personality quirks doesn’t seem all that accurate to me.

At the current moment, I make flags for orientations, genders, kintypes, and mental illness / neurodiversity. (That does remind me, though, I really need to update my FAQ)

It’s okay if you disagree with me, but I made this blog in the first place for orientations and genders that even other flag blogs didn’t like (though obviously it has since expanded)

I appreciate your polite message though. However, I honestly really enjoy running this blog, even if it only makes a small portion of people happy.

I don’t understand the concept of being “kin” with anything. How do you identify as something, idk, the whole concept seems like a joke to me

It can be a bit hard to explain to someone who isn’t familiar with the concept (at least for me, I suck at explaining things @_@). The experiences of each otherkin/fictionkin/etc. are varied as there is no one way to be kin. Some believe its due to something spiritual (reincarnation/multiple universes/etc.), while others think it’s due to their psychology/neurology. Some have dysphoria, some don’t. Some have memories of some past life, some don’t. Being otherkin just means to, in some way, identify as non-human.

This looks like a good FAQ regarding the subject for those new to it.

Ok this is going to sound… really obscure and/or weird but like, I’m only attracted to people very rarely, like, every 1 in 250ish people that have traits I would be attracted to. Idk how to describe it. Do you have any flags related somewhat to that? (I’m also a music nerd, and partially because of my own sense of humor, I call it demisemihemidemisemisexual, after the 256th note, lolol)

lol nice, I like that! 

So there are a couple terms that could work for you.

If you rarely ever experience attraction, then grey-asexual could work for you (I’m assuming we’re discussing sexual attraction since that’s what you put for your term)

Grey-asexual/Greysexual: Being between a- and allo-; feeling attraction rarely, vaguely, or weakly.

Regarding your second comment about traits, you could also be Speciosexual if it doesn’t matter what the gender is and it’s only the traits that matter.

Speciosexual: where the individual is sexually attracted to individual traits regardless of gender.

If you feel like both fit you, that works too! They’re not mutually exclusive. 🙂

Sensory Processing Disorder Flags

SPD Flag

SPD: a condition in which the brain has trouble receiving and responding to information that comes in through the senses.

SPD Over-responsive Flag

SPD Over-responsive: being hypersensitive to sensory input

SPD Under-responsive Flag

SPD Under-responsive: being hyposensitive to sensory input

SPD Sensory-seeking Flag

SPD Sensory-seeking: a subtype of SPD that results in craving sensory stimulation

(Since I wasn’t given any color ideas to work with, I originally tried to base the flags off of the awareness ribbon colors. However, those didn’t seem to work out so well ((which is totally understandable)), so this time I just focused on trying to make flags with pastel blues, greens, and greys)

Asexual Aromantic Genderqueer Autistic Pride Flag

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Asexual: feeling no sexual attraction

Aromantic: feeling no romantic attraction

Genderqueer: 

an umbrella term for people whose gender identity is outside of, not included within, or beyond the binary of female and male; can also be used as a personal identity

Depersonalization Flag

Depersonalization: consists of a detachment within the self regarding one’s mind or body, or being a detached observer of oneself.

Chronic Illness Flag

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Chronic Illness: a health condition or disease that is persistent in its effects or a disease that comes with time.

(Requester wanted pastel reds and white)

hi! i asked a while ago but i haven’t gotten a reply, so tumblr may have eaten my message. is there a pride flag for people who are exclusively attracted to bioware video game characters?

I don’t think there’s anything that specific. Since they are fictional characters, you could go with Ficto-.

Ficto-: Experiencing only attraction to fictional characters

This is the Fictosexual Flag

If you want to be a bit more specific, there is the term Vime- which is for attraction to characters in Visual Mediums only. It’s new term that is not widely used yet so there isn’t a flag for it at this time.

do you think there’s an ace/aro/genderqueer autistic flag? people are finding more and more that there’s a correlation to “gray area” queerness (sorry if you find the q slur offensive) and autism.

Hmmm I wouldn’t think so, that would be quite the combo flag. I could make one, if you want, though it would take awhile. 

And I’ve heard that, yes! At least I definitely heard that about being trans specifically.

(Edit: I personally don’t have a problem with it, but I’ll still tag the post as “queer” :))

Help us out?

pride-flags-for-us:

lgbtrainbowdolls:

So here’s a list of shorthands that I am currently aware of for human sexuality umbrellas (NOT individual identities), am I missing any?

  • LGBT (lesbian gay bisexual transgender) and the longer version LGBTQQIAAP, has flag
  • KAAHS (kink awareness and human sexuality), no flag
  • RASGKL (responsibility and sexuality gender kink legality), has flag
  • MOGAI (marginalized orientation gender and intersex), has flag
  • MGSROI (marginalized gender sexual and romantic orientation intersex), has flag
  • SAGA (sexuality and gender acceptance), no flag
  • GLOW (gay lesbian or whatever), no flag
  • GSM (gender and sexuality minorities), no flag

@beyond-mogai-pride-flags @pride-flags-for-us

Thank you for tagging us! The only other LGBT+ alternative I know of is QUILTBAG. Though I can’t recall what the letters stood for. GSM is sometimes spelled GSRM. And I’ve also heard of GSA for Gender & Sexuality Awareness. ~Mod Ignatius

Aw man, I’m always late to the party. I was gonna say GSRM, too! Oh well. That’s a pretty extensive list, though, I don’t think I know of any more. Maybe some of my followers do?

Your definition of being GNC is sort of wrong and exclusionary. You said “refers to people who do not follow other people’s ideas or stereotypes about how they should look or act based on the female or male “sex” they were assigned at birth” which implies all trans people are inherently GNC, ignores the fact that a butch trans woman are as GNC as butch cis women etc. It should say “based on their gender” not “based on their sex assigned at birth”!!!

You are absolutely right, I apologize for that oversight. I have edited the post, thanks for pointing that out!

Hello! I found a flag for technogender people.

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Cool! Do you know what the definition of technogender is?

Edit: Here are the definitions I found:

One who is only comfortable with one’s own gender when using technology (possibly because of social anxiety)

A gender described as someone who identifies with technology, as though they were not human, but instead machine (possibly due to being machinekin, robotkin, etc)

Hello! I recently started a fundraiser for the charity organization Special Olympics through the website gofundme. I chose to start this fundraiser because I have Aspergers and I felt an obligation to help give opportunities to deserving people who are just like me. You can find the gofundme campaign on my blog. I would really appreciate if you would reblog my post or post the link to the gofund me yourself. I know this is a lot to ask of you and I completely understand if you aren’t willing! :)

Aaaah that’s really great! Go check out @specialolympicssocal and donate if that sounds like something you’re interested in! 😀

Transgender Day of Visibility

Happy Transgender Day of Visibility everyone. 🙂

Whether you fit within the binary or not, or whether you’re out or in the closet, I hope you have a great day. ❤

Redo of the animalhearted flag, sorry if I made anyone upset by using the previous symbol, honestly didn’t know!

Custom Pride Flag

Hey everyone, just wanted to give @modestly-unique a shoutout. They make pride flags out of felt! They have multiple different flags already available, but are willing to make a custom flag if yours isn’t listed (which is the one I’ve linked to). Check em out if you’re interested!

Custom Pride Flag

Hi! I just found out my favorite comedian John Mulaney is doing a show near me soon, he’s really important to me as he’s the only person I’ve ever felt sexual or romantic attraction to, and I was hoping to maybe bring some kind of a pride flag for this to his show? Do you know if anyone’s done something like that or if you could maybe make something? Hope I’m not being a bother! Thanks and bless you!

If you’ve only been attracted to one person, then that’s called uniattraction (unisexual/uniromantic/etc.)

Uniattraction: Feeling attraction towards one person and one person only for advanced periods of time or one’s whole lifetime. You are attracted to them regardless of their gender/sexuality/changing appearance etc.

Hi it’s mogaiunderconstruction again, this time on my shiny new mogai discourse blog! I was wondering if you know any discourse blogs on the side of mogai?

Nice nice, I don’t know of any off the top of my head though… I tend to keep out of said discourse cause I just can’t really deal with that, but maybe if some of my followers are interested they could throw some names out?

(Perhaps on an obvious note, but be careful interacting with these blogs if you’re not up for some discourse)

I am currently unsure of my sexuality/romanticality. I have been in a few romantic relationships but I think I’ve never truly felt attraction towards the other person, but simply been intrigued by the idea that someone actually is attracted to me? And I’ve had sex once, and I didn’t really care for the whole ordeal. For now I identify as Heterosexual/Romantic, but recently I have been rethinking that. Could I be Asexual/Romantic? Or is there a more specific term that deals with my situation?

That definitely sounds like you could be asexual and aromantic, or at least somewhere on that spectrum. If you go to any asexual or aromantic advice blog, I’m sure they could give you more information. Go ahead and try out these labels if you think they fit you best, and remember it’s okay if you find a better one later! 

OCD Flag

OCD: where a person has uncontrollable, reoccurring thoughts (obsessions) and behaviors (compulsions) that he or she feels the urge to repeat over and over.

Based on this stamp.

What does -hearted mean as opposed to -kin? :)

Being otherhearted means that you have a strong fundamental connection with something as opposed to identifying AS that something (which is otherkin). So if you’re wolfhearted, that means you have a strong spiritual connection to wolves, but you don’t identify as a wolf. But you would identify as a wolf if you are wolfkin. Hope that explains it!

are there any brony pride flags?

Out of curiosity, I decided to actually look because I wanted to know if there actually was.

And there ARE! xD

I found like three.

And

And

And I also found some stuff on Redbubble that are like…pride flags for each specific pony. (They also have orientation and gender pride flag stuff as well, though! It’s pretty neat) Here’s the link.

So..apparently there is!?? The answer is yes.

Planthearted Flag, based off of the plantkin flag.

Celestialhearted Flag, based off of the Celestialkin flag.

Fictionhearted Flag, based off of the fictionkin flag.

Dragonhearted Flag, based off of the draconic flag.

Otherhearted Flag, based off of the otherkin flag.

Mythhearted Flag, based off of the mythkin flag.

why is there flags for mental illnesses ? Sorry if this question seems rude, but I don’t really see the need for flags

You’re fine. Simply, I took on requests for flags for neurodiversity and mental illnesses because people asked for them. And because there already are multiple “mad pride” flags for those that are neuroatypical, I agreed to the idea of making more specific flags for those that ask for them. You don’t have to use them if you don’t want to, though! They’re there for those that want them.

Can you make a flag for colourblindness and another for ocd?

I can definitely do one for OCD, but colourblindness would be considered a physically disability, correct? I mean, I don’t have a problem doing flags for that, that’d just be a whole nuther category. Maybe if there’s more of a demand? I’d be up for it if that’s what you guys want.

Hey all! I’m about to turn asks back on again. Sorry it took so long. I’m still gonna be pretty busy, but I’m entirely caught up with all of the requests so I’m all set for some more at the moment.

Just a quick reminder that if you don’t like the design of a certain flag, it would be very helpful if you could give me some idea of what you’d like it to look like. Otherwise I’m going to upload all of the flags made since my absence to my dA gallery. And, as I said, I’ll still be pretty busy, so if you’re going to request something please do so knowing it may take some time to get finished. Submissions are welcome, too!

Hey, is there already an ADHD flag?

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I just recently made one, actually. Here is the post. You can make a different one and submit it if it’s not to your liking. 🙂

beyond-mogai-pride-flags:

Sorry about the sudden influx of flags, I just finished the last one last night after veeeerrry slowly finishing all of the requests I had piling up. 

I might turn asks back on soon, but things in life are just not slowing down, so even if I do turn them back on I would be getting to them veeeeeerrry slowly.

Sorry guys, I just really gotta focus on other stuff right now. I’ll try and pop in and out whenever I get the chance, though.

Thanks for your patience! 

Hey guys, just a reminder about submitting flags:

1) PLEASE SUBMIT FLAGS

2) SERIOUSLY I would LOVE some submissions 

3) Especially if you don’t like a particular one. I usually make orientation and gender flags based off of different color meanings, and for neurodivergent ones I base them off of awareness ribbon colors, so if you don’t like, please submit!

4) If you want to submit but also wanna be anonymous, just say so in the submission. You can specify whether you want to be acknowledged as Anonymous or not acknowledged at all (so no one will even know someone else made it). All up to you.

5) Can’t make an actual design? That’s okay, too! You can also submit a design idea so I’ll have something to work off of once I get the chance (ex. I would like a flag of -sexual that has three stripes that goes, from top to bottom, grey, orange, white)

Usually making the flag is the easy part, it’s coming up with ideas that takes me the longest. So even just coming up with a design idea makes the process go a lot faster and ensures you’ll have you flag sooner (and designed how you want it!)

Pentho- Pride Flags

Pentho-: an orientation defined by it being affected by grief

Penthosexual Pride Flag

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Penthosexual: a sexual orientation defined by it being affected by grief

Penthoromantic Pride Flag

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Penthoromantic: a romantic orientation defined by it being affected by grief

Penthoplatonic Pride Flag

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Penthoplatonic: a platonic orientation defined by it being affected by grief

Penthosensual Pride Flag

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Penthosensual: a sensual orientation defined by it being affected by grief

Penthoalterous Pride Flag

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Penthoalterous: an alterous orientation defined by it being affected by grief

Penthoqueerplatonic Pride Flag

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Penthoqueerplatonic: a queerplatonic orientation defined by it being affected by grief