Gender Diverse: The term gender diverse or, historically, sex and/or gender diverse, may be used in place of, or as well as transgender. It can also be used to describe gender non-conforming or gender variant individuals, or to describe the diversity of gender in general.
And you would like a pride flag for Subversigender?
(Sorry if you asked that, it got eaten up if you did)
It sounds similar to Genderpunk, Genderfuck, or Gendermaverick. It does sound different enough, though, especially due to that last sentence about how “They may view their own gender(s) and gender in general with anger, disgust and contempt”.
Pomogender: short for “postmodern”, a way for a person to say that they believe the current vocabulary is not quite complex enough (or diverse enough) to accurately describe their own sense of gender identity.
Queer (or LGBT) Anarchism is described as is an anarchist school of thought which advocates anarchism and social revolution as a means of queer liberation and abolition of homophobia, lesbophobia, transmisogyny, biphobia, transphobia, heteronormativity, heterosexism, patriarchy, and the gender binary.
MOGAI Anarchism is similar in concept, but expanded to cover all who fall under the MOGAI acronym.
-Fy
Pomosexual pride flag!
Pomosexual is basically the “gray” area of the LGBT+ community. It is for the people who feel that the current vocabulary is not quite complex enough to accurately capture their own sense of identity in regards to sexual orientation and attraction. Pomo is short for “postmodern” and was coined in a booked in the late 1990s. Some people have used it to say “screw labels!” but this is the minority.
Pomosexuality does have an official blog as well and is currently crafting their own official website and book. The pomosexuality blog is (pomosexualpride.tumblr.com). The flag was originally designed by @pride-color-schemes, but the specific meaning behind the colors has been “lost” to the internet (as in, can’t be found)
Nonbinaryflux: refers to a group of people that identify as both transgender and non binary. It is similar to agenderflux except instead of fluctuating from the gender they were born with to non binary, they fluctuate between being an ftm / mtf transgender to non binary.
The term has only been used recently by a member of a group chat and they proposed the idea for the flag as well. The flag uses both the non binary flag colours and the trans flag colours.
The prefix accipio is Latin for: I accept, I take for myself, to recognize, to understand.
Accipiogender is a term that encompasses people who were born and grew up without the imposition of gender roles (with gender neutral parenting), and who may or may not identify themselves with some gender(s) later on.
The flag contains the following colors: black, symbolizing the mourning because of bad things caused by the imposition of gender; blue and pink, representing cisnormative and exorsexist/binarist imposition of gender; white, a neutral color, is layered behind the imposition of gender, and symbolizes the neutral or non-existent experience of gender. The the yelow bird means freedom.
Term created in 2016 by Rexistencia Não Binária (Nonbinary RExistence, a Brazilian collective)
Frigusgender: A gender where one feels a strong chilliness and a strong connection to multiple genders (at least two) or none at all and identifies with feeling cold and blue inside.
Caminusgender: A gender where one feels a strong warmth and a strong connection to multiple genders (at least two) or none at all and identifies with feeling warm and fuzzy inside.
Ultigender: not to be mistaken for pangender, wholly represents all genders including yet undiscovered genders; controversial.
Source: Gender Wiki
-Fy
Shapeshifter Otherkin/Therian Flag
The palette is taken from a chameleon. While the shapeshifter therian/otherkin is controversial, there are those who feel this accurately describe their kin-type. This palette was chosen because chameleons can change the colors of themselves.
*Clarification* Obviously it is impossible to physically shapeshift. The human body does not have the biological cells capable of that. Shapeshifter, here, is used as a KIN IDENTITY and THAT IS IT.
-SynHeart
Cupiroflux/Cupio-aroflux
Desiring and/or liking the idea of a certain type of relationship (sexual/romantic/etc) but the level of attraction/desire for the relationship fluctuating.
Black : experiencing no attraction.
Gray : experiencing little attraction.
Green : experiencing some attraction.
Light Green: experiencing a considerable amount of attraction.
White : experiencing attraction.
Light Pink : liking the idea of a relationship a relationship.
Pink : actually desiring a relationship.
-Synheart
Cupioflux (kalosflux, also known as cupioaflux/cupioaceflux)
Desiring and/or liking the idea of a certain type of relationship (sexual/romantic/etc) but the level of attraction/desire for the relationship fluctuating.
Black : experiencing no attraction.
Gray : experiencing little attraction.
Violet : experiencing some attraction.
Light Violet : experiencing a considerable amount of attraction.
White : experiencing attraction.
Light Pink : liking the idea of a relationship a relationship.
I use they/them/their pronouns. I consider myself pomosexual (for most common terms, I believe I’m SOMEWHERE on the ace spectrum, but unknown where, specifically). I designed the questioning cupioromantic flag (among quite a few others). I’ve made a large handful of fetish flags on kinkflagsrus as well. I am helping put together RASGKL’s (responsibility and sexuality gender kink legality) forum and pomosexuality’s website and book!
I’m currently a graduate student and hope to go into research on sexology for universities. I’ve been on MANY Q&A type panels, as well as having been interviewed in a newspaper in regards to human sexuality, LGBT+, and the kink/BDSM community! I also work in the adult industry.
Hey all! I’m one of the new Mods; you can call me H. I am a homoromantic ace trans man; I am 20; I am the host of a diagnosed DID system, and I have several other diagnosed disorders that I won’t go into description of unless I feel it is necessary.
I’m excited to be a part of this blog and help spread awareness and support!
Hello! I am a student doing my undergrad thesis on asexual people in the LGBTQ+ community and I need participants (ages 18-35) that are on the asexual spectrum, and that are out of the closet.
If you are interested in taking part in this research, you can email me (Zoe Rankin) at zrankin@leomail.tamuc.edu.
Hey everyone! Wanted to update you all on the mod situation with another announcement.
I have decided to take on two new mods. They both have experience with graphic design. In fact, a few of the flags I posted within the last few days were ones they made!
They will both be of Member status, so they won’t have the ability to modify the blog itself. They will mostly be posting new pride flags, as well as any other posts relevant to the blog (such as positivity posts). Hopefully this’ll help the blog be more active as we get to fulfilling more flag requests.
It’ll certainly be a new experience for me, as I’m used to running this blog entirely on my own, but I think it’ll be good to have more people around so we can make more pride flags!
They will be accepted as mods within the next few days, and then they’ll be able to make their introductions. So look forward to it! 😀
Akoi- Akoine- Apo- Lith- Akoin-: Feeling attraction, but having no desire to have interactions or have feelings reciprocated, or a person who feels a particular kind of attraction, which fades if it is reciprocated or if they enter a relationship with the person they are attracted to.
Homoflexible: Identifying as predominantly gay, but being flexible in this identity.
Demiboy: a gender identity that feels partially like a boy/man, and partially like some other gender.
Akoi- Akoine- Apo- Lith- Akoin-romantic: Feeling romantic attraction, but having no desire to have interactions or have feelings reciprocated, or a person who feels romantic attraction, which fades if it is reciprocated or if they enter a relationship with the person they are attracted to.
Um, Hello! I’m hyperromantic and i couldn’t find a flag, so i decided to make one myself! its very simple, and uses light colors. this is just my own variation. feel free to use it if you’d like!
Um, Hello! I’m hyperromantic and i couldn’t find a flag, so i decided to make one myself! its very simple, and uses light colors. this is just my own variation. feel free to use it if you’d like!
NPD: an individual with narcissistic personality disorder exhibits extreme self-importance, inability to empathize with others and heightened sensitivity to criticism. Self-involvement and lack of empathy characterize this personality disorder.
Design choice: the artist chose pastel pinks and yellows as they are very eye-catching colors that feel like very “outgoing” colors. In line with the outgoing and self assured face that people with NPD project, the pink is associated with confidence and the yellow with insecurity and anxiety. The purple is for royal purple, in the center, to represent the focus on self.
NPD: an individual with narcissistic personality disorder exhibits extreme self-importance, inability to empathize with others and heightened sensitivity to criticism. Self-involvement and lack of empathy characterize this personality disorder.
Design choice: the artist chose pastel pinks and yellows as they are very eye-catching colors that feel like very “outgoing” colors. In line with the outgoing and self assured face that people with NPD project, the pink is associated with confidence and the yellow with insecurity and anxiety. The purple is for royal purple, in the center, to represent the focus on self.
Scalie: a furry term use to describe anthropomorphic creatures of both the reptile and amphibian variety.
Design choice: the artist picked colors that are typically associated with reptiles and amphibians and then used a reptilian footprint in place of the paw on the furry pride flags.
That’s a combo flag for someone who requested one that included all of the orientation and gender labels that apply to them. Demiromantic, homoromantic, lithosexual, pansexual, venufluid, and demigirl. I put the definitions for each of these on the post.
Demi-: an a-spectrum orientation where one does not experience romantic attraction to a person until they have developed an emotional connection to them.
Homoromantic: romantic attraction to the same gender.
Litho-/Lith-/Akoi-/Akoine-/Apo-: feeling sexual attraction, but having no desire to have interactions or have feelings reciprocated.
Pansexual: sexual attraction to all genders, or regardless of gender.
Venufluid/Femfluid: genderfluid but mostly/only fluid with feminine genders.
Demigirl: a gender identity that feels partially like a girl/woman, and partially like some other gender.
Heterosexual: sexual attraction to the ‘opposite’ gender
Transgender: An umbrella term covering all gender identities or expressions that transgress or transcend society’s rules and concepts of gender. To be trans usually means to identify as a gender other than the gender one was assigned at birth, although not all who fall under this definition identify as trans.
Aceflux: A sexual orientation on the asexual spectrum & is defined as either someone who’s sexual orientation fluctuates but always stays on the ace spectrum, or someone who’s sexual orientation fluctuates from experiencing sexual attraction, some sexual attraction, and no sexual attraction.
Cupioromantic: desiring a romantic relationship, but not feeling attraction towards anyone in particular.
I deeply apologize, that was not my intention. I must not have read their posts well enough before reblogging them. I simply wanted to offer alternative terms for those who wish to use them, but there is absolutely nothing incorrect about the original terms.
I’ll keep the posts, but I have written disclaimers on the relevant posts. Since I’m not currently active in my flag designing, I want to showcase other blogs with pride flags that may have a smaller following.
I apologize again for any distress I may have caused.
Disclaimer: The Labrys lesbian pride flag is generally used as a flag for all lesbians (if they wish to; there are some problems with TERFs co-opting it)
Only for those who would wish to be described as masculine; not all butch lesbians or bear gay men may want to be described as such.
Represented here by the “Arrow” of Aromance and Asexuality, aromantic persons do not experience romantic attraction and do not desire romantic relationships.
Aromance is a spectrum of levels and possibilities.
Bisexuals experience attraction to two – any two, but only two – gendered partners, such as men and women, women and agender, or even genderfluid and ceterogender.
Umbrella term, under the multisexual umbrella, image is the flag with symbol overlay.
Disclaimer: This term is generally defined as the attraction to two or more genders.
Disclaimer: If using the common suffixes -sexual/-romantic/etc., these terms are called Polysexual, Polygender, and Polyromantic. There is nothing incorrect with using these terms; this is just an alternative for those interested.
Miscoined as abrosexual, persexuals have often changing sexuality and sexual attraction that cannot be pinned down to any specific attraction or partner type.
Persexuality is similar to flexsexuality and is a form of polyerotica.
Disclaimer: These is absolutely nothing incorrect about using the term Abro-; this is just an alternative.
Miscoined as abrosexual, persexuals have often changing sexuality and sexual attraction that cannot be pinned down to any specific attraction or partner type.
Persexuality is similar to flexsexuality and is a form of polyerotica.
Disclaimer: These is absolutely nothing incorrect about using the term Abro-; this is just an alternative.
Incorrectly coined as “autosexual,” autoerotic persons do not want a partner, and find pleasure in themselves and their solitude.
Under the asexual umbrella, image is the flag
Disclaimer: If using the common suffixes -sexual/-romantic/etc., this term would be called Autosexual. There is absolutely nothing wrong with using this term; this is just an alternative for those interested.
I know. Including myself. Ita was an early anonymous contributor and ally to this blog, around when I first made it. Thanks for trying to look out for me, kind stranger.
Adgenders experience weak attachment to a gender, a ratio of gender:agender that favors agender. Different from Demigenders that experience fluidity between gender and genderlessness.
Under the agender umbrella, image is adgender symbols for ad-andro, ad-gyne, ad-cetero
Adgenders experience weak attachment to a gender, a ratio of gender:agender that favors agender. Different from Demigenders that experience fluidity between gender and genderlessness.
Under the agender umbrella, image is adgender symbols for ad-andro, ad-gyne, ad-cetero
…I mean, that could also work. I’m pretty awful at taking hints, so are you suggesting that you (or someone you know) are interested in making such a blog? I can’t tell. xD It’s not a bad idea, though.
There isn’t as much risk if I were to just take someone on as a Member, but I’ll keep your idea on the backburner. I’d like to hear what some others think about the mod situation. 🙂 Thank you for your input!
If you’re that anon that talked about demilesbian before, I should probably tell you that that’s already a term that means demisexual lesbian. And there’s already a flag for that.
Demi-: An a-spectrum orientation where one does not experience attraction to a person until they have developed an emotional connection to them. There is no guarantee that this attraction will develop after an emotional connection is formed, but it is required in order for attraction to be possible. Some demi people may choose to further define their orientation in terms of genders they are attracted to (demipanromantic, demihomosexual). Others do not find this necessary, or feel that they have enough experiences of that form of attraction to figure out who they’re attracted to.
Hey guys! Hope you’re all doing okay. Staying safe, staying cool in the summer.
So as the title says, I am thinking about taking on another person to help me run the blog as a mod. I’ve actually been thinking about this ever since this blog became more popular, but I have been hesitant.This is for a couple reasons.
The first is because I made this blog with a specific reason in mind: to design pride flags for identities that other flag blogs would not make them for. As more people started coming to this blog, however, the types of requests I would take on expanded. So now this blog is for all sorts of pride flags. But this also meant that the number of requests I would take on increased, and now I have a large list of requests that would take me a very long time to fulfill.
Despite this, I am still hesitant, mostly for the second reason, which is that I don’t want this blog that I’ve taken so much time to work on to be hijacked. Pride-Flags-For-Us was one of my favorite blogs in its prime. I was always excited to see what new flags were made for these identities I hadn’t heard of before. Watching it get taken over was heartbreaking, and also made me extremely wary when it comes to my own blog. I’m just the kind of person who likes to keep to myself and try and do everything myself as much as possible.
But that’s not really fair to you guys. I know this blog constantly comes to a crawl because I don’t have a lot of time or energy, and it ends up taking me forever to get to all of your asks or to fulfill all of your requests. I only JUST finished answering the last ask that was sitting in my inbox, and I haven’t made a new flag in a long time.
So I want to know what you guys think. Would you prefer if I take on a mod? This blog is for you guys, and my lack of spoons is hindering its capabilities.
If I did have another person on, they would probably only just be a Member for awhile. Their main duties would be to design and post pride flags that are on the request list, so it would be preferable if they had better artistic capabilities than I.
This is already long enough as it is, so leave a comment or reblog with your opinion on the matter. Thanks everyone!
I personally think those who identify as objectum- and definitely valid, and I’d even go so far as to say that I think they also have a place in the LGBTQIAP+/MOGAI/QUILTBAG (whatever you wish to call it) community. They have a lovely pride flag and their attraction doesn’t affect anyone else other than themselves. There are plenty of awesome people who fall under the OS/OR umbrella on Tumblr.
However, as for those that label themselves as zoo-, I don’t have any comment on that. I’m not going to make any cruel jokes, but this isn’t really the blog for them. (I think they already made their own pride flags, anyways)
When I was talking about ppl who identify as lesbians but are attracted
more than one gender i wasn’t referring to the split attraction module. i
was talking about lesbians who are attracted to, say, both women and
demigirls
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Hey, I can definitely see your point of view on this, but
I’m just not the person to say it to. I’m sorry, I’m not trying to
argue. I’m just saying there doesn’t seem to be a consensus on this even amongst lesbians, and since I’m not a lesbian, it’s not my place to take a side on the issue. So for now, this blog will be accepting of those who identify as non-binary lesbians, as this blog is an inclusive one. And I apologize for misunderstanding what you were referring to.
I’m sorry, but not everyone agrees with you, including other lesbians. There is plenty of support for those who identify as non-binary lesbians or lesbians that use the split-attraction model.
You are certainly allowed to your opinion, but you’d be better off having this debate with other lesbians. I just give advice based off looking at forum posts and blogs that discuss whatever it is I’m looking for. And people who identify as a non-binary lesbian, or lesbians that use the split-attraction model, are welcome here.
This one may be a little tricky, but based on some of the research I’ve done, it looks like you should be able to identify this way.
Transmasculine: a term used to describe transgender people who were assigned female at birth, but identify with masculinity to a greater extent than with femininity. This includes:
Trans men
Demiguys.
Multigender people who’s strongest gender identity is a masculine one
Gender fluid people who are masculine most often
Any other non-binary gender who views themselves as significantly masculine
Since you’re non-binary, even if you relate more to being female, as long as you were afab but identify more with masculinity instead of femininity, I think you should be able to identify this way. I’ve seen many examples of non-binary lesbians, or other non-binary people who are more aligned with women and consider themselves wlw, who identify as transmasculine.
So yes, I think it would be okay to identify as a transmasculine sapphic female-aligned non-binary girl.
(Sorry for the late reply, btw)
Okay, but this is something I’ve been thinking about ever since CRISPR was developed and I haven’t seen many people discussing this (except perhaps in relation to intersex individuals).
But it’s something that really needs to be discussed, because its a really terrifying thought, especially when you consider the recent political environment.
Please watch this video if you’re not aware that this may someday actually be a thing. Stay vigilant.
I was excited to research this, so here’s what I can find! For the sake of completeness (for anyone else reading), the definition of a nounself pronoun is any pronoun set created based on an existing noun, but adjectives and verbs may also be used.
It appears that the first neopronoun that could be called a nounself pronoun is hu/hum/hus/huself, also called “humanist pronouns”. (You can also consider thon/thonself, which come from the phrase “that one”, but both of the words “that” and “one” are pronouns already and so “thon” may not be defined as a nounself pronoun.) Their creation is attributed to Sasha Newborn in 1982, and they are obviously based on the noun “human”. More information on this pronoun set can be found at hupronoun.org, a site run by Jake Shivery.
The majority of the nounself pronouns used within the non-binary community today originate from the time period between late 2013 to the present, as new pronouns are still created. According to the nonbinary.org wiki page “Pronouns” (mirror here):
Starting in early 2014, or perhaps late 2013, a community of non-binary gender people on the social blogging site Tumblr.com came up with the idea of “nounself pronouns”.[…] By adapting any noun of one’s choosing into a pronoun, one can create a wide variety of very personal and descriptive pronouns. The sets can be themed around concepts that have nothing to do with gender, such as nature, technology, or abstract concepts. Some of the earliest sets of nounself pronouns, which might actually be from earlier than 2014, are the fairy themed set “fae, fae, faer, faers, faeself”, and the bunny themed set “bun, bun, buns, buns, bunself”. During 2014, the community created about a hundred sets of such pronouns, and many were adopted as the pronouns of particular non-binary people…
That page lists the origins of many specific nounself pronouns, which can also be found on this page from askanonbinary (archive link). Here, I will explain a few of the older and more popular ones.
Fae/faer are attributed to Tumblr user shadaras in 2014, who states (archive link):
Why did I choose fae/[faer] as my pronouns?
Because I am fae. I am described as such by people who don’t know me – fae and feline and not-exactly-human. I do identify as faen, and in some ways angel as well, and fae and angel are the goals of my presentation. My choice of fae as a pronoun reflects this.[…]
To address the point about fae as binary or not – it depends on your source material. My personal view on this is that fae and fae creatures as stand outside the binary. They probably have some form of gender, but it’s most definitely not our human binary. Angels, on the other hand, are genderless. They have no sex and they have no gender. Together, fae and angels are the two sides of androgyny that are possible, and kind of form a secondary arc around the male/female binary: that of gendered/genderless.
…so in some ways, I’m using fae as a giant ‘fuck you’ to the gender binary and a refusal of much of the American culture surrounding gender. My gender is yes. Except when it’s no. Either way, it’s not male or female and using a pronoun that is very associated with creatures that stand outside humankind is, for me at least, a very good way to remind people of this constantly.
Bun/bunself and star/starself coined by user bonnibelbubblegum, but I cannot find the original post.
Dae/daem were coined by whelmedsuperkid (archive link), alongside ecto, necro, spiri, and haun pronouns, in February of 2014.
I couldn’t find the origin of kit/kits, but if anyone has it, let us know! Also let us know of anything I missed!
There are not, currently, but if you’d like I can add them to the list and make some for you. 🙂 If you have any design ideas, that’d help the process go much faster!
Hi! That’s really awesome, I love love love LGBTQIAP+/MOGAI educational videos!
Unfortunately, I would be no help here. So I hope you don’t mind if I post this for my followers, as it’s possible someone out there who sees this may know something.
If anyone has any information on the origin of nounself pronouns, please let this person know!
For some, being mentally ill/neurodivergent can affect one’s gender or orientation in ways that would not affect people that are neurotypical. And it’s really not all that complicated, as someone’s neurotype affects how their brain works and how they perceive themselves. Their are different neurogender/neuroqueer identities for different neurotypes, depending on how one specifically affects someone. And it’s not really my, or anyone’s, place to say what neuroatypical people should focus on; even if you yourself are neuroatypical, it’s really all down to the individual. For some it’s recovery, but for others it’s acceptance, or something else entirely.
No no, I get that. I was saying that feminamoric and viramoric are both terms for any non-binary person, while the term that other anon suggested (uomo-) were specifically for non-aligned/gender neutral non-binary people.
I personally think it sounds like a useful term because the only orientations related to neutral genders have to do with another person’s attraction to them. (Neu-: Feeling attraction to people who are genderless, and Nin-: Feeling attraction to neutral/androgynous identifying people.)
Oh! Perhaps I’m wrong, but I thought feminamoric and viramoric could be used by any non-binary person who is attracted to women or men, respectively. I don’t think they’re only for non-binary people who have no gender alignment/are gender neutral. Am I incorrect? If so, I apologize!
That sounds like a really useful term, actually! So would the equivalent for nb people with no gender alignment who are only into women be donnasexual?
I wonder what it could be for nonbinary people with no gender alignment who are only attracted to other nonbinary people with no gender alignment…
Sorry, went on a tangent there. xD What would you like the flag to look like?
Could you maybe specify what you mean? Are you like looking for a lesbian/apothisexual combo flag? Or something like the black line and X from the apothisexual flag transferred onto the lesbian flag? Sorry, just kinda confused on what you’re asking for. 🙂
So being otherhearted means that you have a strong fundamental connection with something, as opposed to identifying AS that something (which is otherkin).
So if you’re deerhearted, that means you have a strong spiritual connection to deer, but you don’t identify as a deer. But you would identify as a deer if you are deerkin.
No problem, that should be specific enough! (I’ll just post the flags related to sexual orientation, but they could be used for orientation in general)
Fem- / Gyne- / Gyno- / Femme-: attraction to women or feminine genders. Derived from the Greek word gyno which means “woman”, the term gyne- can be useful when describing the orientation of an individual with a non-binary gender identity.
Woma- / Woman-: Attraction to women. Useful for Nonbinary people who don’t want to use gay or straight.
But this blog makes those, if you’d like!
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