The fifth annual Gender Census is now open!

gendercensus:

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[ Link ]

It’s open until 1st March 2018, it’s open to everyone, and last year we got about 10,000 participants – you can see the results here.

After the survey is closed I’ll process the results and publish a spreadsheet of the data and a blog post summarising the main findings. Then anyone can use them for academic or business purposes, self-advocacy, tracking the popularity of language over time, and just feeling like we’re part of a huge and diverse community.

If you think you might have followers who’d be interested, please do reblog this blog post, retweet this tweet or boost this Mastodon post. Every share is extremely helpful – it’s what helped us get 10,000 responses last year.

Thank you so much!

-Fy

Hello Anon! I am terribly sorry for that, we might have missed it, or tumblr ate it…

Anyways! There aren’t any genders that we know of that are tied to lonliness. You can always coin a term though! 

Hope this helps!

Mod Jace

Neuroasexual: feeling attraction or wanting to participate in actions associated with that type of attraction but you are scared or repulsed by YOUR OWN neurodivergence/mental illness.

Term creator: Unknown

Flag maker: pride-flags on DA

-Vasilisa

Quasigender: having two demigenders combined, simular to bigender. (ex 25% demiboy 25% deminobinary and 50% something else.), this is an alternative flag.

Term creator: Unknown

Flag maker: pride-flags at DA

-Vasilisa

Hello Followers!

We would like to know your opinion on some new terms we want to coin!

Maedic ~ a term for women/partial women who are attracted non binary people (AKA wlnb) ~ This is from the term maenads, who were female followers of Dionysus, and consorts of Hermaphrodite (Greek God/Godess of androgyny) ~

Adonic ~ a term for men/partial men who are attracted to non binary people (AKA mlnb) ~ This is from Adonis, who was a male lover of Dionysus ~

Please let us know what you think! ALSO BE RESPECTFUL WITH YOUR OPINIONS!

@transgalaxies @xenogenderpositivity @xeno-aligned @ask-pride-color-schemes

Mod Jace

Hello Followers!

We would like to know your opinion on some new terms we want to coin!

Maedic ~ a term for women/partial women who are attracted non binary people (AKA wlnb) ~ This is from the term maenads, who were female followers of Dionysus, and consorts of Hermaphrodite (Greek God/Godess of androgyny) ~

Adonic ~ a term for men/partial men who are attracted to non binary people (AKA mlnb) ~ This is from Adonis, who was a male lover of Dionysus ~

Please let us know what you think! ALSO BE RESPECTFUL WITH YOUR OPINIONS!

@transgalaxies @xenogenderpositivity @xeno-aligned @ask-pride-color-schemes

Mod Jace

Factive Pride Flag

Factive: a member of a system who is modeled after a real life person.

-Fy

Fictive Pride Flag

Fictive: a member of a system who originates from a work of fiction.

-Fy

Sensory Processing Sensitivity/Highly Sensitive Person Flag

Sensory Processing Sensitivity (SPS): characterized by a high level of sensitivity to external stimuli; tends to correlate with a greater depth of cognitive processing and high emotional reactivity.

Highly Sensitive Person: a person with a particularly high measure of Sensory Processing Sensitivity.

-Fy 

I wanted to make an alternate version of the musicgender flag, if you don’t mind, haha. Sorry it’s messy..


Not at all! Thanks for the submission!

-Fy

Grey-Ace Xenosexual Demipanromantic Pride Flag

Gray-Asexual: being between asexual and allosexual; feeling sexual attraction rarely, vaguely, or weakly.

Xenosexual: sexual attraction to extraterrestrials 

Demiromantic: where one does not experience romantic attraction to a person until they have developed an emotional connection to them.

Panromantic: romantic attraction to all genders or regardless of gender

-Fy

Pansexual Werewolfkin Pride Flag

Pansexual: sexually attracted to all genders or regardless of gender

Werewolfkin: identifying partially or entirely as a werewolf

-Fy

Nonbinary Sexuality Masterpost

diamoricnymphia:

Hey there! The enby community has been busy! And I love that. However a lot of the new identities, blogs, and tags can be hard to keep track of! So I’m going to keep here and update them as I get word! Since it’s a lot I’m gonna throw it all under a read more

Keep reading

-Fy

alumence:

flag design for sevisgender
colors have no particular meaning, they’re just the colors i think of when i think of my gender
@beyond-mogai-pride-flags
@uncommongenders

Sevisgender: having or experiencing several or more genders simultaneously, but feeling they are each a separate part of one’s identity- like puzzle pieces (not to be confused with pangender, polygender, or multigender)

-Fy

alumence:

flag design for sevisgender
colors have no particular meaning, they’re just the colors i think of when i think of my gender
@beyond-mogai-pride-flags
@uncommongenders

Sevisgender: having or experiencing several or more genders simultaneously, but feeling they are each a separate part of one’s identity- like puzzle pieces (not to be confused with pangender, polygender, or multigender)

-Fy

Transgender Werewolfkin Pride Flag

Transgender: An umbrella term covering all gender identities or expressions that transgress or transcend society’s rules and concepts of gender. To be trans usually means to identify as a gender other than the gender one was assigned at birth.

Werewolfkin: identifying partially or entirely as a werewolf

-Fy

Demisexual Aromantic Goblinkin Pride Flag

Aromantic: not experiencing romantic attraction

Demisexual: where one does not experience sexual attraction to a person until they have developed an emotional connection to them

Goblinkin: identifying partially or entirely as a goblin

-Fy

alumence:

beyond-mogai-pride-flags:

Hello Alumence! There isn’t a current term for this, (at least not that we have found), would you like to coin one?

Mod Alec

yes i would! it would just be bambisexual, and could include anyone who feels like they are ‘bambi lesbian’ but are not lesbians themselves

So it would be worded as such?

Bambisexual ~ someone who prefers cuddling, kissing, and similar activities over sexual activites

Mod Alec

alumence:

beyond-mogai-pride-flags:

Hello Alumence! There isn’t a current term for this, (at least not that we have found), would you like to coin one?

Mod Alec

yes i would! it would just be bambisexual, and could include anyone who feels like they are ‘bambi lesbian’ but are not lesbians themselves

So it would be worded as such?

Bambisexual ~ someone who prefers cuddling, kissing, and similar activities over sexual activites

Mod Alec

Inbox is Cleared Out

Thanks to Mod Jace/Alec, we’ve been able to get through a lot of your asks! However, there have been a lot of requests piling up and, as I’ve stated, requests are still closed

So I have cleared out the inbox entirely. Please do not send us any requests for the time being! You may still ask questions, but the other mods and I need to finish the current requests we have on our Request List. 

Thank you everyone!

-Fy

Hello Alumence! There isn’t a current term for this, (at least not that we have found), would you like to coin one?

Mod Alec

Hello Anon! No your gender doesn’t sound like it is a troll! There is a xenogender that encompasses all genders related to music or music theory called musicgender. I hope this helps!

Mod Alec

Hello Anon! There are achillean, mlm, and proquu ~ . There are other terms to describe non binary people who are attracted to men, but not specifically masculine non binary people. If you could like those terms please come back!

Mod Alec

Demiplatonic Animekin Pride Flag

Demiplatonic: where one does not experience platonic attraction to a person until they have developed an emotional connection to them

Animekin: identifying partially or entirely as an anime character

-Fy

Pansexual Long-Distance Relationship Pride Flag

Long-Distance Relationship: an intimate relationship between partners who are geographically isolated from one another

Pansexual: sexual attraction to all genders or regardless of gender

-Fy

rhythmotrainbow:

We are a new community that will be opening to the public shortly! ROTR will be featuring:

  • LGBT+ identity of the week
  • A community to safely explore your identity
  • Gender discussion area
  • An 18+ area for the “adult” conversations (kink, fetish, BDSM, etc.)
  • An area to explore polyamorous relationships
  • A library that features posts from users in relationship to the LGBT+ community (coming out advice, what it’s like to be their identity, etc.)
  • Public chatbox for guests to say hello
  • PRIDE events, gear, trading post, etc.
  • Dating area

The only requirement is that you’re 14+ and are respectful of different types of identities!

Signal boosting here since our followers might be interested in this!

-Vasilisa

rhythmotrainbow:

We are a new community that will be opening to the public shortly! ROTR will be featuring:

  • LGBT+ identity of the week
  • A community to safely explore your identity
  • Gender discussion area
  • An 18+ area for the “adult” conversations (kink, fetish, BDSM, etc.)
  • An area to explore polyamorous relationships
  • A library that features posts from users in relationship to the LGBT+ community (coming out advice, what it’s like to be their identity, etc.)
  • Public chatbox for guests to say hello
  • PRIDE events, gear, trading post, etc.
  • Dating area

The only requirement is that you’re 14+ and are respectful of different types of identities!

Signal boosting here since our followers might be interested in this!

-Vasilisa

Hello Anon! There are some terms that could fit!

Dysphorasexual ~ 

Capable of feeling sexual attraction (consistently or not,) but sex repulsed/averse or asexual due to the act of sex triggering dysphoria

Dissexual ~ 

where one has a disconnect between themselves and a sexual target/object of arousal, specifically because of the gender dysphoria one feels.

I hope these help!

Mod Alec

Hello Anon! There is a term for wanting no genitalia call Angenital. I do want to remind you that genitalia does not mean gender. (sex =/= gender). If you still feel a connection to man/boyhood, then you could call yourself ftm, demiboy, agender, ect. If your gender fluctuates from boy to agender, then you might want to consider the term boyflux/mascflux. 

Hope this helps!

Mod Alec

Hello Anon! Although I am not quite sure if you are asking for a gender term or something else, but I do want to remind you that everyone has on and off days with dysphoria. I would say that the Agender (a lacking of gender) spectrum might suite you. If you would like to know more identities on the agender spectrum or clarify what you are asking, please come back!

Mod Alec

Hello Anon! After speaking it over, the other mods and I thought that Uni~ (attraction only to one person and one person only). If this doesn’t fit you then please come back and we will try again!

Mod Alec

Hello Anon! There are some sexualities that you could combine!

Aceflux ~ someone who’s sexual orientation fluctuates from, experiencing sexual attraction, some sexual attraction, & experiencing no sexual attraction

Ari ~ An orientation where one is unable to articulate how or to whom they feel a type of attraction

Atho ~ Experiencing infrequent attraction, but lacking drive entirely

Hesi ~ 

When you feel a certain kind of attraction hesitantly and uncomfortably. Not repulsed by it, but it is somewhat off-putting

Pre ~ A placeholder term for when someone feels that they have not experienced attraction enough to know their orientation yet

I hope these help! If not come back and we will try again! 

Mod Alec 

Regissexual: Being sexually attracted to royalty (kings, queens, etc. fictional or otherwise), can be combined with gendered preferences (boy royals, girl royals, etc.)

Term creator: Unknown

Flag maker: Pride-flags on DA

-Vasilisa

Circsexual: Sexual attraction to magik/magic (can include witches/wizards or the idea of magicians as well).

Flag maker: Pride-Flags at DA

Term maker: Unknown

-Vasilisa

Observigender: A gender which changes from its normal state when being observed; based on the observer effect

Flag Maker: Pride-Flags on DA

Term marker: unknown

-Vasilisa

Impesgender: A gender that flips quickly and impulsively, often too quickly to be traced.

Term maker: unknown

Flag maker: pride-flags on DA

-Vasilisa

Genderflight: A fluid gender that feels fleeting, that vanishes before one can define exactly what it is.

Flag maker: unknown, possibly pride-flags on DA

Term maker: unknown

-Vasilisa

Abrogender: A gender that changes so fast that it can not be pinned down and/or having so many tiny aspects that you feel like you are continuously discovering your gender.

Coined by: telescopephil
Designed by: abrogender and uncommongenders

-Vasilisa

Errgender:  A stray gender, one you can’t quite get a hold of

Term creator: unknown

Flag maker: pride-flags on DA

-Vasilisa

Ectogender: A gender identity that is elusive, constantly out of one’s grasp, and/or hard to pin down.

Flag maker: unknown 

Term maker: nookwhiffers

-Vasilisa

Bambi Lesbian: A lesbian who prefers cuddling, kissing, and similar activities over sexual activities.

The flag was inspired by one of the numerous flags for lesbians as well as combining a color palette based off of a doe/deer.

-Vasilisa 

Hello Anon! There are a few terms that fit that description!

Ectogender ~ 

A gender identity that is elusive, constantly out of one’s grasp, and/or hard to pin down.

Errgender ~ 

A stray gender, one you can’t quite get a hold of

Abrogender ~ A gender that changes so fast that it can not be pinned down and/or having so many tiny aspects that you feel like you are continuously discovering your gender

Genderflight ~ A fluid gender that feels fleeting, that vanishes before one can define exactly what it is.

Impesgender ~ A gender that flips quickly and impulsively, often too quickly to be traced.

Observigender ~ A gender which changes from its normal state when being observed; based on the observer effect

Snakegender ~ When your gender slips away every time you try to reach for it to figure it out, and it’s always changing and it’s really scary to confront so you just try to avoid it.

Hope this help!

Mod Jace

Hello Anon! There a couple of terms that could describe your experience!

Espigender ~ 

A gender which is related to being a spirit or exists on higher or extradimensional planes

Galaxiegender ~  

A nonbinary gender that is vast and mysterious like the galaxy. Reserved for people who are both neurodivergent and spacekin/kin with anything related to space.
You must ask the person who coined the gender, @galaxyprincet, to use this term before doing so.

Gendercosm ~ "A gender identity encompassing and surpassing the limits of the earth/society, but doesn’t incorporate existing genders from society; a gender identity so grand and huge it cannot be explained by words.

Xenogender ~ a gender that can not be contained by human understandings of gender.

Hope these help!

Mod Jace

Hello Anon! There are a few that describe your experiences!

Neurogender ~ an umbrella term to describe when ones neurodiergency/mental illness affects the gender.

Affectugender ~ A gender that is affected by ones neurodivergency, especially mood. (ONLY FOR NEURODIVERGENT PEOPLE the non inclusive gender would be emotugender)

Those are the non specific mental illness/neurodivergence ones. There are more specific ones mainly for people with BPD. Hope this helps!

Mod Jace

Hello Anon! There are few terms that might help!

Kin ~ being attracted to a certain type of kin (in your case demonkin~) or just kin types in general

There is also alloda~ which is being attracted to otherkin in general.

I hope this helps! And thank you for the compliment!

Mod Jace

Helo Anon! I will say the way your wording was a little difficult to read so I do not really know what you are asking. I will try my best though!

You could simple be genderfluid, polygender, or multigender. 

For your sexuality there is an orientation called nocisma~ which is attraction to every gender accept for cisgender men due to trama.

I hope this helps? If not please send your ask again a little bit more clearly. Thank you!

Mod Alec

Helo Anon! I will say the way your wording was a little difficult to read so I do not really know what you are asking. I will try my best though!

You could simple be genderfluid, polygender, or multigender. 

For your sexuality there is an orientation called nocisma~ which is attraction to every gender accept for cisgender men due to trama.

I hope this helps? If not please send your ask again a little bit more clearly. Thank you!

Mod Alec

Hello Anon! There are some terms that might help you with your overall gender, and your space gender.

~ Overall ~

Trigender ~ Having three distinct gender, either at the same time, or at different times.

Polygender ~ Having multiple genders, either at the same time or at different times.

Quasigender ~ having two demigenders combined, simular to bigender. (ex 25% demiboy 25% deminobinary and 50% something else.)

~ Space Gender ~ 

Astralgender ~ A gender with a connection to space

It may also be a part of the galactian allignments. 

Hope this helps! If not come back. 

Mod Alec

Hello Anon! I have a few terms that  might work!

Requies ~ feeling little to no attraction due to emotional exhaustion

Neuroa ~ feeling attraction or wanting to participate in actions associated with that type of attraction but you are scared or repulsed by neurodivergence/mental illness

Inact/Initia ~ when one experiences attraction and wants a relationship but is repulsed due to neurodivergence/mental illness

Aco/Acor ~ experiencing attraction that one wants to act upon but doesn’t

Caed/Caedo ~ a feeling that one was able to experience a type of attraction but that ability was lost due to trama

I hope these help! 

Mod Alec

Hello Anon! There are some terms that might be useful!

Ambigender ~ 

A feeling of two genders simultaneously, without fluidity/shifting

Bigender ~ Having two distinct genders, either at the same time, or at different  times

Equigender ~ When you are multiple genders in equal parts.

Lamingender ~ 

A polygender identity that feels layered, or as if it is composed of distinct slices

Fissgender ~ A gender that is some way split

Hemigender ~ When you feel like you are half one gender, and half not. (simular to demigender)

I hope this helps!

Mod Alec

Hello Anon! Although there isn’t a gender that is influenced by clothing specifically, there are several genders in the genderfluid spectrum that are affect by outside stimuli.

Temporagender ~ A gender that shifts with the four seasons

Cyclogender ~ 

A gender identity that changes with one’s menstrual cycle (there is another definition for people with BPD)

Evaisgender/Locugender ~ 

A fluid gender that’s easily influenced by things, thoughts and beings around it, thus it tends to change a lot, even within a single day

Faegender ~ 

A gender that changes with the seasons, equinoxes, and 🌙 phases.

Mirrorgender ~ A gender that changes to fit the people you are around

Mutogender ~ 

describes when your gender changes depending on your situation

Sentigender/Emotugender ~ A gender that changes with your emotions, mood, and state of mind

Cadensgender ~ A gender influenced easily by music

There are many more but here are some! I hope this helps you and your GSA members!

Mod Alec

Hello Anon! Although I don’t quite know what the word “squinked” means I am going to assume that it means uncomfortable? ( If not please correct me). Here are some orientations that could fit.

Apothis/Apothi ~ being repulsed by the idea of being in the type of relationship of the attraction.

Dot ~ When someone is able to give a certain amount of affection but does not want it reciprocated

Hesi ~ When you feel a type of attraction hesitantly and uncomfortably

Inact/Initia ~ When someone feels attraction and wants a relationship but is repulsed by the acts that are associated with that type of attraction

Praesto ~ when one feels attraction, but due to nerodivergence/mental illness, they are repulsed by the thought of someone having to “deal” with them

Semi ~ someone who is Allo~(experiences attraction) but uses the concept of A~(not feeling attraction) ness to better describe their orientation

Timo ~ A fear of being in a relationship

Volti ~ feeling attraction but it isn’t directed toward anyone in particular

These are the terms I found that fit your description! If these don’t work please stop by again and I will try and figure it out more! 

Mod Alec

Tokophobia Flag

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Tokophobia: the pathological fear of pregnancy; of getting pregnant

-Fy

Agoraphobia Flag

Agoraphobia: fear of places and situations that might cause panic, helplessness, or embarrassment.

-Fy

Claustrophobia Flag

Claustrophobia: the fear of being enclosed in a small space or room and unable to escape.

-Fy

is there a thing where you go by a gender, but you go by the opposite pronouns???
ex: male goes by female pronouns?


Pronouns aren’t gendered, so you’d still be your gender! 🙂

-Fy

Viramoric: “a somewhat-interchangeable words that both refer to attraction to men, exclusively or primarily. This concept, like that of feminamoric, is intended for non-binary or genderqueer people who have trouble fitting themselves into the straight-gay binary as a result of not fitting into the male-female binary.”

Flag designed by Auriga La Fresne

-Vasilisa

Hello Anon! You could use viramoric as your orientation if you would like! It may be an umbrella term nut that shouldn’t stop ya! I wlll say there currently isn’t a term that is like proquu~ other than proqua~, and I am very sorry for that. But you could always use Viramoric!

Mod Alec

Hello Anon! Just a reminder that your gender expression can be different than your gender but there is a term for this!

Transexpressive ~  Similar to genderfluid, except instead of one’s gender changing, their gender expression changes while their gender stays static.

Also for your orientation! There are these terms!

Noma/Noman ~ attraction to all genders but men.

Nomin ~ attraction to people who are not masculine identifying.

Those ae the most specific! Hope this helps! 

Mod Alec

psychotic-pisces:

beyond-mogai-pride-flags:

Hello Anon! There are a lot of terms that could fit your gender, and a few terms that could fit your orientation! 

 ~ Genders ~

Bigender ~ A gender identity with two distinct genders, either at the same time or at different times

Girlflux ~ 

When one feels mostly or all female some of the time but experiences fluctuating intensities of female identity.

Demigirl ~ 

(from demi “half” + “gender”) is an 🌂 term for nonbinary gender identities that have a partial connection to a certain gender.

Gxrl ~ 

A gender that is both girl and agender/no gender. You can be a girl and agender/no gender at the same time, go between them, or fluctuate between feeling female and not feeling gender.

~ Sexualities ~ 

Sapphic ~ 

Referring to women or woman-aligned NB people who are sexually and/or romantically attracted to other women(-aligned) people. 

Lesbian ~ 

A person who is a woman or partially a woman who feels attraction, to other women and partial women.

Fin ~ Being attracted to feminine identifying people

Fem/Gyne ~ Attraction to women or feminine genders

That’s all I could find. I hope this helps!

Mod Alec

There’s also nblw/trixic/orbisian!!

Thank you! I haven’t heard of Trixic or orbisian!

Mod Alec

Hello Anon! There are a lot of terms that could fit your gender, and a few terms that could fit your orientation! 

 ~ Genders ~

Bigender ~ A gender identity with two distinct genders, either at the same time or at different times

Girlflux ~ 

When one feels mostly or all female some of the time but experiences fluctuating intensities of female identity.

Demigirl ~ 

(from demi “half” + “gender”) is an 🌂 term for nonbinary gender identities that have a partial connection to a certain gender.

Gxrl ~ 

A gender that is both girl and agender/no gender. You can be a girl and agender/no gender at the same time, go between them, or fluctuate between feeling female and not feeling gender.

~ Sexualities ~ 

Sapphic ~ 

Referring to women or woman-aligned NB people who are sexually and/or romantically attracted to other women(-aligned) people. 

Lesbian ~ 

A person who is a woman or partially a woman who feels attraction, to other women and partial women.

Fin ~ Being attracted to feminine identifying people

Fem/Gyne ~ Attraction to women or feminine genders

That’s all I could find. I hope this helps!

Mod Alec

Here’s a Reminder!

Hey everyone! Hope you’re all having a good day today.

We’ve been getting some inappropriate asks again, so I’m making this post as a reminder that we:

1) Do not deal with the making of flags for fetishes or kinks. Do not ask us to make a flag for these, and do not ask us if there is already an existing flag for yours or what yours would be called. These asks will not be answered. The only flag blog I know of that deals with making these is kinkflagsrus, so please take any questions or requests about those there (obviously, its 18+).

2) Do not, and will never, make flags for incest, pedophilia, or zoophilia. Please do not send asks relating to these, they are highly inappropriate and especially uncomfortable for those who have trauma relating to them.

Thanks all!

-Fy

My friend couldn’t really find anything that fit them in terms of gender so, they made their own term of how they felt with themself and I made the flag for them!!

Tempugender: a gender that changes over the course of the day, fading by with every hour. (for ex: at night you feel agender, but you slowly fade into a female as the hours pass by)


That’s awesome! Thanks for the submission!

-Fy

Momentians Pride Flag

Momentians: Those who feel the spirit of another in a brief moment and connect deeply to that

Flag source here

-Fy

MOGAI Positivity Blog

mogai-positivity:

Hey there!  My name is Mage.  I identify as genderfluid (he/they/it), abrosexual, demipanromantic, and polyamorous.  I’m a mod at Beyond-MOGAI-Pride-Flags.  I decided to make this positivity blog because of the amount of hate for the MOGAI community in LGBT spaces.

With this blog, I hope to make people feel comfortable as a member of the MOGAI community and educate those who willfully seek out information about any aspect of the MOGAI community.

I will take requests for aesthetics/moodboards, advice, and pronoun validation.  I can even help you find your identity.  I’ll have a queue filled with positive affirmations, sometimes for specific identities.

This blog will be wholly discourse-free and I will not respond to hate.  If you want to avoid hate entirely, I suggest staying away from the notes sections.

I hope I will be nothing but help to the MOGAI community ♥

Follow my MOGAI positivity blog if you want!

-Mod Mage

Hello! Here are some that could fit that description!

Aliqua ~ only feeling attraction under certain circumstances.

Amicus ~ Where one only feels attraction to people they are already friends with.

Kairo ~ Only feeling attraction when certain conditions are met.

I hope these help you, even though they are not exactly what you decribed. If needed, please come back and I will try again!

Mod Jace/Alec

Hello! Yes there are a few!

Earthgender ~ 

A gender identity that is directly affected, tied to, or influenced by the earth or nature. or; a gender identity similar to/the same as that of some form of earth deity

Worlgender/Homgender ~ 

A gender that feels connected to 🌍 and its nature

Biogender ~ 

A gender that is connected to nature in some way

I hope this helps! If not just stop by and I will try again!

Mod Jace/Alec

Hello Anon!

There are a few options that you could choose from!

Polysexual ~ feeling attraction to some but not all genders

Panaesthetic attraction ~ being attracted to all genders aesthetically (which is the attraction of how someone looks

You could use both, either, or neither. It’s up to you! Hope this helped or at least steered you in the right direction. If not just drop by again!

Mod Jace/Alec

Gaara Kin Flag

The dark reds are the shades associated with Gaara.  The light blue is his eye color and the dark grey is the dark circles around his eyes.  The stripe and circle in the middle are the color of his sand gourd.  And of course we included the kanji, meaning “love.”

To the lovely Gaara kin who requested this!

-Mod Mage

Felix (Red vs Blue) Kin Flag

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The red stripe on top and the blue on bottom are the title colors of the source.  The greyscale and orange are Felix’s armor colors.

For an anonymous requester!

-Mod Mage

Histori-

Histori- describes attraction to historical figures.

The colors on the following flags represent vintage or historical themes.

Historisexual
The sexual attraction to historical figures.
The purple stripes refer to sexual attraction.

Historiromantic
The romantic attraction to historical figures.
The green stripes refer to romantic attraction.

Historiaesthetic
The aesthetic attraction to historical figures.
The pink stripes refer to aesthetic attraction.

-Mod Mage

Mod Intro!

Henlo!  I’m the third (and late hhgh) mod!  Please call me Mage (not my real name).  I’m genderfluid FtM and abrosexual and use any pronouns except she/her.  I run another pride flag blog (for otherkin) at kinflags-r-us also!  I look forward to helping everyone out to the best of my abilities!

Mod Intro-

Hello, I’m one of the three new mods.. My name is Kitty, I’m a boy, and gay. I’m really glad to be on board with this blog, it seems like fun and all! I’m very, very paranoid, and won’t use my real name or post my real blog here, but I hope to get to know some of the followers on this blog!! ❤ ❤

Nox Vampire: An individual who identifies with a vampire on some level (spiritual or other) who gets their energy from being exposed (directly or indirectly) by the night sky (and sometimes, by tangent, the moon). Some Nox Vampires feel most energetic by full moons and least energetic by new moons. 

The colors for the flag is based on different “night sky” color palettes

-Vasilisa

Mod Intro!

Hey folks! I am one of the new mods! (yay much excitement!) So I wanted you to know some things about myself!

My name is Jace and Alec. I answer to both, but I might prefer one over the other, SO just have a heads up for either of those and that’s me. I use ve/ver and he/him pronouns. I am trans masculine (Pre T Pre Op), Abrogender, Abrosexual, Abroromantic, and polyamorous (DADT to be specific). I am Otherkin (polymorphkin) and am open to every type of kin (reguardless of what everyone else says). I have been professionally diagnosed with depression and anxiety, and self diagnosed with a Dissossiative Disorder. I am very open about everything and am willing to teach and spread my knowledge. My personal blog is @the-enby-witch but it doesn’t really have a lot on there that is my own.

I hope that I will be a useful part of the group and I can help all of you. Good byr for now!

Mod Jace/Alec

New Mods Have Been Added!

I just sent out the invites to our new mods. There will be 3 new mods, making us a team of 6! 

I couldn’t pick anymore than 3, so if you haven’t been chosen as a mod this time, be sure to try again next time we need some!

They will be making their introductions as soon as they have the chance to, and then will start making flags and helping our followers!

Hope everyone has a good day!

-Fy

Angenital: An identity in which you feel uncomfortable (potentially dysphoric) with having any sort of genitalia (sex) at all but do not mind gendered pronouns or having a gender label. You have a desire to be sexless but not necessarily genderless. Similar term is Nullo (where you want to get rid of your “sexed” organs, such as nipples and/or genitalia, a severe form of body modification).

-Vasilisa

Creaturomantic: Being ROMANTICALLY attracted towards characters that you create (literature/writing, visual arts, etc.). Flag taken from a scrap on pride-flags on DeviantArt

-Vasilisa

Creatusexual: Being sexually attracted towards characters that you create (literature/writing, visual arts, etc.). Flag taken from a scrap on pride-flags on DeviantArt

-Vasilisa 

SORRY FOR THE CRAPPY DRAFT

This is for Asexy! I wanted to use the same colors for asexual, but in a different way. Purple is a common color in flags for sexuality, so I used it for the outer layers to represent as being sexually appealing. The white represents having lack of attraction, and the black represents the inner dislike of being shown sexual attraction!


So like this?

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Asexy: people who are physically attractive, but are asexual and don’t want any sexual attraction felt towards them.

Great! Thank you so much for the submission!

-Fy

Varioriented Pride Flag

Varioriented: A person whose sexual and romantic orientations do not ‘match’ (ex: aromantic pansexual).

-Fy

Perioriented Pride Flag

Perioriented: A person whose romantic and sexual orientations ‘match’ (ex: biromantic bisexual, aromantic asexual).

-Fy

What is transexpressive?

When one’s gender expression changes while their gender stays static. The individual would feel they couldn’t accurately express themselves with the presentation traditionally assigned to their gender.

I’ve been getting similar stuff on my kin blog, like people requesting stuff on anon for a character they like and saying they’re kin and then reblogging my finished product mocking me in their tags.

I’m really sorry to hear that. It can be pretty disheartening when people take advantage of what we offer, wasting the little time we have to even run our blogs, just to turn around and laugh at us. Don’t be discouraged though! There are plenty of people who appreciate resources like ours, so just keep doing what you’re doing! 🙂

We caught on.

-Fy

Hey, I’m trying to figure out my sexual/romantic orientation. I’ve been ace my whole life but there are a few characters who I wouldn’t say I’d bang because sex is gross but I definitely appreciate aesthetically and maybe more than that. As for romantic I think I have felt some romantic emotions in the past but I’m never sure because it’s always with close friends and really all I want to do is cuddle and nothing more. Thanks in advance and sorry for the long ask!

So you could look into other orientations other than -sexual or -romantic! So perhaps you’re Fictoaesthetic. And if you only feel like cuddling, perhaps look into -sensual orientations. 🙂

Can I ask why you do non-monogamous flags? While many some polyamorous relationships are definitely LGBT since even if all three individuals are three different genders (male/female/nonbinary) then there’s still at least some bi/pan going on. But some of those look like just straight relationships just not with a single person and the people involved are likely straight and not LGBT.

Some people consider non-monogamy to be part of the community, and even if you do not we make flags for many different identities.

Is there a gender that revolves around feeling more connected to certain colours?? Particularly red/orange and maybe green? I know there’s ones like genderfluff / gendercute, but is there one to do with fiery colours?? Its so hard to explain, sorry!! I just feel a big, big connection to warm colours, and my gender feels sort of warm i guess? But not like fire. Ahhhh i hope this makes sense! Sorry;;

Colorgender: A gender associated with one or more colors and the feelings, hues, emotions, and/or objects associated with that color. Can be used like pinkgender, violetgender, etc.

Hope that helps!

Is there a flag for Gendercold? I always feel a connection to cold tempratures and i’ve always loved being out in the cold. i hope this makes sense!

I don’t think so, but there’s also the terms Glaciogender or Frigusgender that you could look into if you’re interested!

Frigusgender: A gender where one feels a strong chilliness and a strong connection to multiple genders (at least two) or none at all and identifies with feeling cold and blue inside.

Glaciogender: A gender that is smooth, has a clear or flat feel, and cool, like the icy surface of a glacier. 

Edit: I forgot to mention Freezegender or Frostgender, check those out too!

So line relationships are like polygamy?

If it involves marriage, then it is a form of polygamy, since that is marriage to multiple people. If its just a relationship without marriage, then its just a form of polyamory. 

Line Relationship Info

Some people were wanting more information on what exactly a Line Relationship (or Line Family) is, so I reached out to creator of the flag and this is what they had to say:

“I can’t believe I have to explain this, but Line Relationships (otherwise known as Line Marriages or Line Families) have nothing at all to do with pedophilia. Every member involved must be a consenting adult just like in any non-monogamous relationship, or any relationship for that matter. It’s a form of Group Marriage in which the family unit continues to add new spouses of any gender over time so that the marriage does not end. It’s not exactly common, but it has fuck-all to do with pedos. No children are involved in the relationship, all members MUST BE consenting adults.”

Hopefully that helps clear some misconceptions up.

-Fy

Mod name change!

Hey everyone!

I will be changing my signing name. It will go from SynHeart to Vasilisa, pronounced Va-si-li-sa. I’ve been wanting to change it for awhile, I was just looking for a perfect name fit. I’m adopted out of Moscow, Russia, and wanted to honor Russia.

-Vasilisa

vanitasofficial:

kitsunealchemy:

Pyroshift (gender): A gender that acts as a flame. It can flicker to feeling varying degrees of masculine and/or feminine for short periods of time, yet it generally settles right back down into a neutral, burning, and calm state. The intensity of the gender you feel shifts with how hot this flame is.


Masc/Fem versions of the flag under the cut!

Keep reading

@uncommongenders @ask-pride-color-schemes @pride-color-schemes @transgalaxies @xenogenderpositivity

-SynHeart

Geographical Non-Monogamy Pride Flag

Geographical Non-Monogamy: Any relationship or arrangement whose partners permit one another to have other sexual partners while they are physically apart. Sometimes carries an understanding that when the couple is physically together again, the relationship will become monogamous, though not necessarily.

Flag credit goes to Nonmonoprideflags

-Fy

Line Relationship Pride Flag

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Line Relationship: A relationship dynamic in which younger (consenting adult) partners are added to the relationship as older partners age.

Further information can be found here.

Flag credit goes to Nonmonoprideflags

-Fy

Casual Relationship Pride Flag

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Casual Relationship (also called Friends with Benefits or No Strings Attached): A relationship in which two or more people establish a friendship that includes sex or sexual activity, but without romantic love and typically without the same type or degree of expectations or other practical or emotional entanglements that typically accompany romantic relationships. More of a physical and emotional relationship between two or more people who may have casual sex or a near-sexual relationship without necessarily demanding or expecting the extra commitments of a more formal romantic relationship.

Flag credit goes to Nonmonoprideflags

-Fy

Singleish Pride Flag

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Singleish: a non-monogamous attitude towards intimate relationships where an individual, not in any form of primary, committed intimate or romantic relationship, wishes to experience dating or seeing multiple people at the same time, with no expectation of long term commitments. Such an individual is differentiated from being a ‘player’ through the honesty and integrity they bring to their dating approach, without concealing any of the relationships from the other people they are seeing.

Flag credit goes to Nonmonoprideflags

-Fy

Why does it take y’all so long to answer stuff

Because I (Fy) am the only one with access to the inbox and I go to school and have a job. I do love running this blog, but I can’t let it get in the way of those other things. I try to get easy-to-answer questions out of the way, but for tougher questions I need to do a little research. I’m sorry I’m taking so long, I’ll try to get through them faster.

So I identify as a lesbian but I realised I may be bisexual? But i am not sure. So I am attracted to girls but i have been attracted to a non-binary person due to thinking theyre a girl. After finding out they were non-binary, it did not change my attraction? (They were born female) It definitely is not just an attraction to femininity because i would not be attracted to a feminine guy because they are still male. So what is it?

I actually answered a similar question here, so I hope that helps. 🙂

hey do you know a term to describe people who ONLY feel attraction to others after someone else manifests their attraction (ie person a knew person b for a while but it was only after person c said they were attracted to b that a became attracted to b)

beyond-mogai-pride-flags:

I don’t know of any term like that at the moment, but you should coin it!! 😀

It sounds similar, but not quite the same. Recipro- would be if person a were only attracted to person b once person b was attracted to person a, so this sounds a bit different.

-Fy

Fictional Relationship?

Is there a flag for people who are attracted, not just sexually, but romantically attracted to fictional characters, whether it be from books, movies, TV, or any other form of media?


Sure are!

Ficto-: attraction to fictional characters

Fictosexual Flag

Fictoromantic Flag

Hope that helps!

-Fy

Plura- Pride Flags

arco-pluris:

Plura-: being on the aspec and the mspec at the same orientation; a mix of a- and multi-/pluri- or someone who is a- and multi- at the same time.

It’s very similar to schro-.
It also can be an umbrella for all plural asexualities (or aromanticities, asensualities, aqps, apls, etc), ex.: grey-panromantics, demi-polysexual, fray-omniqueerplatonic…

Plura = pluri + a.

Plurasexual Pride Flag

Grey-Pluri- Pride Flag

Grey-Multi- Pride Flag

Plura- Pride Flag

Pluraromantic

-Fy

Objectkin, Conceptkin, and Polykin pride flags pls and ty?

kinflags-r-us:

Objectkin

The colors are muted versions of the 3 basic colors (red, blue, and yellow) with green representing an affinity.  The cube represents a basic object.

Conceptkin

The blues represent the vagueness of some concepts.  The purple is the concepts that manifest into this plane.  The thought bubble represents the concepts.

Polykin

The colors are based off of this alterhuman pride flag.  The symbol is the otherkin symbol combined with the infinity symbol.

Hope you like these!

Here’s just a few examples of some of @kinflags-r-us amazing flags!

-Fy

Hi, there! I was wondering the other day if there is a term similar to achillean and sapphic, but for man+woman couples where one or both parts have different orientations (not hetero). And then I found out there is none (yet). So I would like to ask multi binary people if they think it is necessary to have a specific term for their relationship when they are with someone of the other binary gender (considering they are not ok with the word straight). What do you think about this?

Oh okay, so like a relationship between a pansexual man and bisexual woman, for example? That’s actually a really interesting idea, I’m on board. 

It should certainly also include, I should think, those who are perhaps not binary but who are in relationships that would be considered “straight” depending on what that person’s gender is (so for example a genderfluid multisexual person who’s gender is female at a particular point in time, and they are dating a multisexual man)

Thoughts from followers?

New Kin Flag Blog!

Just wanted to give a quick shoutout to a new pride flag blog that makes pride flags for Alterhuman Personal Identities! @kinflags-r-us makes flags for all sorts of identities, including fictionkin, factkin, conceptkin, detitykin, and many more! If that sounds like something you’re interested in, go check ‘em out! 😀

-Fy