Viri: A “catch all” term for those who identify as a woman/fem-aligned (such as: cisgender woman, trans woman, non-binary fem aligned, venufluid, among the MANY other feminine-based identities). The term can be used as an individual term OR umbrella term. It’s pronounced “vear-ee”

Flag creator: myself (wanted to capture “traditional” and “nontraditional” colors associated with femininity)

Term creator: myself

-Vasilisa

Parosexual: A SEXUAL orientation in which you experience different methods of attraction to the genders you are attracted to.

Flag creator: myself

Term creator: @beau-is-gai

-Vasilisa

gaywrites:

Today is the Trans Day of Visibility! Transgender, genderqueer, and nonbinary people are and have always been a beautiful, irreplaceable part of our movement, community, and history. I see you, I honor you, I love you. 

Hope everyone of any gender has a good Trans Day of Visibility!

-Fy

gaywrites:

Today is the Trans Day of Visibility! Transgender, genderqueer, and nonbinary people are and have always been a beautiful, irreplaceable part of our movement, community, and history. I see you, I honor you, I love you. 

Hope everyone of any gender has a good Trans Day of Visibility!

-Fy

mogaiflagswithbenton:

Bigenital/Salmacian- One who desires/seeks to have a mixed genital set of some kind. (example: Penis and a vagina, or anything in-between that could be considered mixed genitalia (breasts and a penis for example)) This may or may not be a form of nonbinary dysphoria depending on the person. A bigential person may also identify as binary gender. Sex/genitals =/= Gender identity.

Bigenitalflux/Salmacianflux– desiring a mixed genital set, but that desire fluctuates in intensity. Perhaps due to conflicting dysphorias

(ex hating having a vagina at times but wishing for a penis as well as a vagina at others)

, or from bursts of body repulsion,or for any other reason.

Coined by: me @bentonthefoxkin (Bigenitalflux specifically, not the original term Bigenital) 

Flag designed by: me, using the bigenital flag as the base/middle. Nothing too special done on my end.

The second flag is all the colors just lightened to give a more fluctuation feel to it I guess?

-Vasilisa

stop conflating femininity with being female or woman-aligned etc and masculinity with being male or man-aligned etc. being feminine/masculine isnt inherently linked to what gender identity someone is. masculine women exist, feminine men exist. also stop conflating presentation with identity. “feminine presenting” means shit, anyone can be feminine presenting, man-aligned etc nb people can be feminine presenting. If you mean ppl aligned with womanhood, say that instead of “feminine presenting”

I’m not sure what this is in response to, but I absolutely agree with you. 

MAB: “male at birth”
Another way to say AMAB or DMAB. Some people don’t like the way they’re phrased. “male at birth” is the short way of saying “you were born with what doctors consider ‘traditionally masculine’ genitalia.”

Green is for masculinity. White is for community. The blue/teal color is for birth.
-Vasilisa

FAB: “female at birth”
Another way to say AFAB or DFAB. Some people don’t like the way they’re phrased. “Female at birth” is the short way of saying “you were born with what doctors consider ‘traditionally feminine’ genitali.”

Purple is for femininity. White is for community. The blue/teal color is for birth.
-Vasilisa

2018 Inquiry into Gender and Sexuality Experiences

qesurvey:

The 2018 survey is now public and live.

You’ll notice some fairly dramatic changes from the initial 2017 survey, including a more traditional agree/disagree scale, randomized question order within each section, a greater number of shorter sections, and a more thorough explanation of how data is being used after collection.

Another significant change: all demographics questions are now optional. The only mandatory questions are those regarding how you want your data handled.

Demographics are also considerably more detailed than last year. In particular, the highly requested autistic and disabled trends will now be easier to identify. 

Again, all demographics questions are optional.

We highly encourage you to crosspost this survey to any platforms you like.

This includes forums, reddit, chat groups, twitter, social media, youtube, so on and so forth. You are welcome to spread this link far and wide. We will be doing our best to crosspost everywhere we can, but we’re only 6 people. There’s only so far we can reach.

As with last year, data will be compiled and released at 100, 250, 500, and 1000 respondents, then every additional 1000 respondents. 

This survey will be closed at either 15,000 respondents or 31 December 2018, whichever comes first. Until the survey is closed, you are welcome to edit or delete your responses at any time.

As of this posting, the 2017 survey has been closed.

New survey!

-Fy

2018 Inquiry into Gender and Sexuality Experiences

xeno-aligned:

Soldaric & Solduric

Solaric is flag 1 (orange stripe); Solduric is flag 2 (purple stripe).Soldaric: a trans woman who is attracted to other trans people (of any gender – nonbinary people included).

Solduric: a trans man who is attracted to other trans people (of any gender – nonbinary people included).

Colour meanings:
Orange: close to pink, stereotypical “female” colour
Purple: close to blue, stereotypicl “male” colour
White: attraction to nonbinary people
Yellow: attraction to women, lunarics & women-aligned people

Grey: represents the ‘grey-ness’, ambiguity, of gender & sexual orientation
Green: attraction to men, solarics & men-aligned people

Black: attraction to unaligned nonbinary people & agender people

The names come from the word soldarity, meaning unity.

Term & flag credit: me @xeno-aligned

!!!

-Fy

xeno-aligned:

Soldaric & Solduric

Solaric is flag 1 (orange stripe); Solduric is flag 2 (purple stripe).Soldaric: a trans woman who is attracted to other trans people (of any gender – nonbinary people included).

Solduric: a trans man who is attracted to other trans people (of any gender – nonbinary people included).

Colour meanings:
Orange: close to pink, stereotypical “female” colour
Purple: close to blue, stereotypicl “male” colour
White: attraction to nonbinary people
Yellow: attraction to women, lunarics & women-aligned people

Grey: represents the ‘grey-ness’, ambiguity, of gender & sexual orientation
Green: attraction to men, solarics & men-aligned people

Black: attraction to unaligned nonbinary people & agender people

The names come from the word soldarity, meaning unity.

Term & flag credit: me @xeno-aligned

!!!

-Fy

gracios-generodesigual:

Do you identify with arsgoegender?

Arsgoegender: A gender that holds strong feelings of kinship with demons/devils/dark beings.

This gender often leads to someone feeling or being kind on the outside but selfish on the inside, or mischievous on the outside and caring on the inside (or any similar variation).

Note: Preferably only to be used by demon/devil/god/spirit/angel – kin folk (and similar kin) but it’s open to anyone who wants to use it.

I’m making a pool to choose which flag(s) to be upload on deviantart.

Here’s the link to it on quiz-maker. Please vote if you’re interested in them. Thank you!

Flags after the read more below.

Keep reading

Ooo! I like option 5 personally!

-Fy

MOGAI- Pride Flags

MOGAI-: attraction only to those who aren’t cisgender AND heterosexual AND heteroromantic AND perisex; attraction only to those who fall under the LGBT+/MOGAI umbrella. Only for use by those who are LGBT+/MOGAI.

MOGAI- Pride Flag

MOGAIsexual Pride Flag

MOGAIromantic Pride Flag

MOGAIplatonic Pride Flag

MOGAIsensual Pride Flag

MOGAIalterous Pride Flag

MOGAIqueerplatonic Pride Flag

MOGAIaesthetic Pride Flag

-Fy

Hi there, and yes the two are different. Nox Vampire is a general alterhuman identity while vampire/vampyrekin is in the otherkin/therian community. Alterhuman might feel “not human” as an overall identity (one way of interpreting it, but alterhumans still know biologically and physiologically, they’re STILL human). Therian/otherkin definitions vary from person to person, but one of the most “popular” definitions is believing your soul is not human.

Hope this helps!

-Vasilisa

@femininus-is-beauty props to them for the list!

  • Amigirl: an individual who doesn’t consider themself female (even if theyre born female or not) but feels more in touch with femininity.
  • Condigirl: A gender identity for when someone feels like a girl under very unique/specific circumstances, such as being surrounded by specific people or a specific enviornment.
  • Demigxrl: a combination of gxrl and demigender
  • Dodransgirl: A type of gender identity where one feels 75% girl and 25% something else. That “something else” can be anything else.
  • Eclipsian / Sollunarian: A solar-based gender identity that combines different elements of male aligned (solarian) and female aligned elements (lunarian).
  • Erotogirl: A gender or genders that are felt specifically under sexual circumstances, felt specifically in sexual contexts, different to what is generally felt in other contexts and situations. A significant shift in gender/s during sexual situations or context. Someone who identifes as this may feel different gender/s in a sexual context compared to the rest of the time.
  • Faesari:  a gender identity where one feels most comfortable within the gender neutral spectrum, but still feels a strong attachment to femininity. This is similar to the idea of “fegender” (nonbinary with emphasis on femininity). Pronounced “fay-sar-ee”
  • Fegender: A nonbinary gender that’s feminine in nature, somewhat similar to faesari.
  • Fingender: Umbrella term for all genders feminine in nature. Also a term to refer to a gender that isn’t fully defined but definitely feminine, or a gender in which femininity is its defining feature (but the gender is not binary female). May simply be used as “fin”, ie. “my gender is fin”.
  • FTF: an ALTERNATIVE for “mtf”. A FTF is someone who does NOT feel comfortable acknowleding the fact that they were born with “boy parts” whenever they popped out of their mother.
  • Girlprox: a term made to includewomen (cis and trans, just to affirm that) and
    trans folks who are not necessarily women (or are not 100% women as some demigirls may ID, or are not always women as some genderfluid folks may ID, etc etc) but who experience a connection to girlhood, but not girlness.
    women (group 1) experience girlness because they are girls. they will usually also experience girlhood. girlprox non-women (group 2) experience girlhood, but not girlness, because they are not women.
  • Ghostgirl A FEMININE gender that feels faint, like it’s there and not there, but it was once something stronger- Like it’s just become faint, but it’s stagnant at this faint feeling, which is strongly reminiscent of a ghost.
  • Gxrl: A gender that is both girl and agender/no gender. You can be a girl and agender/no gender at the same time, go between them, or fluctuate between feeling female and not feeling gender.
  • Hemigirl: Feeling like your gender identity is exactly 50% girl and 50% something else. That “something else” can be anything else.
  • Illusogirl: When you know you’re a certain gender, but there’s still the feeling of ‘fakeness’ there, either due to neurodivergency and/or due to outside pressure from parents, society, etc. These feelings and/or pressures can be part of the gender experience.
  • Juxera: A gender relative to female, but is something separate and entirely on it’s own. it is not outside the gender spectrum. [jux from “juxta”, latin adverb for near, “era” feminine noun for lady, mistress or goddess.“
  • Librafeminine: Feeling agender, but with a particular connection to femininity
  • Lunettian: A nonbinary gender that is linked to softer celestial feminine energy.It is never hyper feminine and it’s not female-aligned nonbinary, but instead is simply linked. Someone who is lunettian can feel different amounts of feminine energy at different times.
  • Mascgirl: A woman/girl that may present herself as a male, or dress in masculine clothing. A mascgirl may or may not use he/him pronouns, but still considers herself a female. This does not necessarily mean she’s a lesbian or not straight. Or A masculine woman
  • Minumegirl: A gender identity where one feels 75% agender and 25% girl.
  • Netgirl: A gender identity for those who feel that their gender is more prominantly “revealed/showen” online and in this case is feminine.
  • Nonpuelle/Nonera: Someone who is not female at all in any way, shape, or form, but feels a strong connection to femininity within their gender.
  • Offgirl: A gender that closely represents/is most closely represented by femininity/girlhood but is not feminine/girly. Can be likened to what the color off-white is to white for descriptive purposes.
  • Quartogirl: A type of gender where one feels 25% girl and 75% something else. That something else can be anything.
  • Rerumgirl: A gender identity for those who feel that their gender is more prominantly “revealed/showen” in the real world (as compared to online) and in this case is feminine.
  • Schrodigirl: A gender identity where you feel simulataniously like a girl and not a girl at the same time.
  • Scorigirl: A fluid gender where one is fluid between three feminine gender identities.
  • Venusarian: A nonbinary gender that is linked to the void and fluctuates with softer celestial femenine energy.
  • Vexegirl: A type of gender where one isn’t sure what exactly their gender is, but knows there’s a feminine quality to them.
  • Xirl: Someone who identifies in some was as a nonbinary girl or nonbinary girl-adjacent. Someone who identifies with some part of woman/girlhood but who wants a more nonbinary and neutral sounding word because they aren’t entirely girls or don’t want to be associated with the typical ideas brough up by the word “girl.”

-Vasilisa

Yes you can. Genderfluidity is the closest thing I can think of that might fit your situation. Hope this helps!

-Vasilisa

are there any genders related to clouds?

There’s a few!

Skygender: A feeling of gender that varies in clarity. One day it may be clear and easy to read and process, but then it may cloud over and become confusing.

Nubegender: A gender that is very similar to the movement of clouds. Some days, one’s gender is completely clear, similar to being genderless. However, formations of different attributes will float into one’s gender, moving across until out of sight, like clouds in the sky. Sometimes, these formations look like certain genders, and sometimes they are fuzzy and abstract. Sometimes they cover your whole gender experience and overwhelm it.

Stratogender: Comes from the prefix “strato”, which means “layer”. stratogender would be when your gender has different layers. It could also possibly be used for cloud/skykin, since “strato” is like “stratosphere”

Nox Vampire: An individual who identifies with a vampire on some level (spiritual or other) who gets their energy from being exposed (directly or indirectly) by the night sky (and sometimes, by tangent, the moon). Some Nox Vampires feel most energetic by full moons and least energetic by new moons.

The colors for the flag is based on different “night sky” color palettes. I grew a dislike for the previous flag color design, so I made this one instead 😀 This is NOT equivalent with “therian” or “otherkin”

-Vasilisa

madprideflags:

Schizophrenia: 

  • A group of severe mental disorders in which a person has trouble telling the difference between real and unreal experiences, thinking logically, having normal emotional responses to others, and behaving normally in social situations. Symptoms include seeing, hearing, feeling things that are not there, having false ideas about what is taking place or who one is, nonsense speech, unusual behavior, lack of emotion, and social withdrawal.
  • A severe emotional disorder of psychotic depth characteristically marked by a retreat from reality with delusion formation, hallucinations, emotional disharmony, and regressive behavior.
  • Class of psychoses with disturbance mainly of cognition (content and form of thought, perception, sense of self versus external world, volition) and psychomotor function, rather than affect.
  • Schizophrenia is a severe, lifelong brain disorder. People who have it may hear voices, see things that aren’t there or believe that others are reading or controlling their minds. In men, symptoms usually start in the late teens and early 20s.  For women, they start in the mid-20s to early 30s

**NOTE**

Some people didn’t like the description we put on the original schizophrenia flag posting, DESPITE how it was taken STRAIGHT from the ICD-10 clinical description (ICD is used for billing and transcription purposes within the medical world). So we decided to add additional information to this one (again, PULLING FROM THE ICD-10 clinical description)

I love the flag for this!

-Vasilisa

madprideflags:

Schizophrenia: 

  • A group of severe mental disorders in which a person has trouble telling the difference between real and unreal experiences, thinking logically, having normal emotional responses to others, and behaving normally in social situations. Symptoms include seeing, hearing, feeling things that are not there, having false ideas about what is taking place or who one is, nonsense speech, unusual behavior, lack of emotion, and social withdrawal.
  • A severe emotional disorder of psychotic depth characteristically marked by a retreat from reality with delusion formation, hallucinations, emotional disharmony, and regressive behavior.
  • Class of psychoses with disturbance mainly of cognition (content and form of thought, perception, sense of self versus external world, volition) and psychomotor function, rather than affect.
  • Schizophrenia is a severe, lifelong brain disorder. People who have it may hear voices, see things that aren’t there or believe that others are reading or controlling their minds. In men, symptoms usually start in the late teens and early 20s.  For women, they start in the mid-20s to early 30s

**NOTE**

Some people didn’t like the description we put on the original schizophrenia flag posting, DESPITE how it was taken STRAIGHT from the ICD-10 clinical description (ICD is used for billing and transcription purposes within the medical world). So we decided to add additional information to this one (again, PULLING FROM THE ICD-10 clinical description)

I love the flag for this!

-Vasilisa

Anlimnovidi: A type of sex repulsion where one is repulsed/unnerved/uncomfortable by video/pictorial depictions of cisgender, heterosexual individuals engaging in sexual acts. This can be from pornographic film, Hollywood movies, TV shows, etc. This term was created with asexual and asexual spectrum individuals in mind. 

Also, a reminder that you DO NOT know someone’s gender identity unless you physically ask them (or they tell people on their own accord). Otherwise, you’re stereotyping. 

The flag is inverted colors for the limnosexual flag. 

Term creator: myself (a good friend of mine was looking for a term specific to their situation)

Flag creator: myself

-Vasilisa

Singularic Orientations

Singularic: specific term for those who are attracted to just one gender.

I coined this term to be additional, as singularic gay/lesbian/h*mo, singularic hetero/duaric, singularic aspec (mona-), singularic vir/ma/andro, singularic femi/woma /gyne, singularic cetero/dia/neu/lin, among others FMN orientations (of gender-based attraction), and other singularities.

Since the person can be in the mono- umbrella while being pluralian and/or mspec.

But I still think that singularic persons can be attracted to a gender leaving open the importance by gender in attraction, as when attracted by people with external socialization/appearance associated with the gender by which the person draws.

Another important thing is that the singularic person for example may be attracted by the masculine gender, regardless of whether it is binary-aligned non-binary.


New term!

-Fy

Is it wrong to wish one was born with mixed genitalia or as intersex? Obviously that’s not something to wish for since intersex does come with a lot of health risks as well as intersex folk cant control that…I just feel like it would have been easier being accepted as NB/trans if I was born intersex. I know the term Bigenital exists for something like this…I feel like a jerk, but I would never actually call myself intersex or invalidate actual intersex people.

Its definitely not wrong to feel like your Salmacian/Bigenital, many non-binary people feel the same way! Its just not comparable to being intersex since thats such a broad term and many intersex folks don’t actually have “mixed genitalia”, and even intersex people aren’t somehow more easily accepted if they’re also trans/nb. 

But as I said, Bigenital dysphoria is a form of Nonbinary dysphoria and its totally okay! Its not your fault your body feels this way. 

About ‘opposite’ genders

Here’s a discussion I was just having on Tumblr that might help you understand my gender:

“Male and female are opposite genders”

No, some people are bigender or genderfluid from male to female

“But that still means they are distinct genders, there are many ways to be plurigender/multigender”

But that is not an intrinsic characteristic of the male and female genders.

A gender identity is only antigirl when it could be combined with any other gender identity but girl, leading to mutual self-destruction or a similar concept of nullifying. In my case, pangender x panungender/panantigender leads to the formation of infinite “zerogenders” as I call them (for being neither positive nor negative genders), or potential gender seeds, in both directions under potential circumstances, but it is still a spore gender state, they are inactive until interactions with other people make them blossom again.

The mutual destruction of pangender and panantigender leads to only a few intact genders that did not get fully dissolved away in the caustic combination, either genders that are based on how I logically and philosophically feel about gender as a concept:

1. I am alike everyone and close to their identities in how I signify myself as a human, preferring no particularly form, shape or taste (neutrois), and unlike everyone and alienated from their referentials of what gender is meant to be due to my mind being an experience other to theirs (maverique) in infinitely complex ways (metagender).

2. What I seek from gender as a social role, which is a trail of karma – fame, glory, power, recognition beyond the span of time, worship and knowing that my touch upon this world has changed it forever for the absolute best (narcissistic rahugender) as opposed to self-actualization and the wisdom to know that being pushy about my ego-driven goals will cause alienation for the people I’m attempting to help, or rather, pretending to attempt to help because making the world become a mirror of my own ideology and self-conception feeds my ego like nothing else (reflexive ketugender).

3. Awareness that living in a binary society makes me reproduce masculinity and femininity even as a mostly-unaligned abinary person, and I should feel okay about recognizing that, even if I feel apathy about it all, because there are nice elements to masculinity and femininity anyway, and in fact they are fun as long as they aren’t pushed onto people, the only genders allowed or involved in unconsensual roles and hierarchy detrimental to one of the parts (mollinonpuer, mollinonpuella); or even understanding that in some ways I am put in situations in which I act and am seen as the man in the room, or the closest to a womanly figure in comparison to themselves and what they expect of people like me, and this allows me to kind of relate to how they feel even though I still very much want to be recognized first and foremost as someone who is neither male nor female (molliproxvir, mollijuxera).

4. Blues about how I will never embody much of the gender spectrum as well as I wish I could (to me gender identity and what I take from other people through the vessel of this language is a sign of my attraction and empathy towards other people, which is rare and to be treasured as an autistic and narcissistic person who has grown cynical of most human interaction), because we live in a transmisogynistic and exorsexist society and my mind has adapted to it, which is not a privilege but still forces me to naturalize being seen as a man and ~functioning socially as one~ even if it is unconsensual, and maybe I am just overanalyzing things and this alienation is common for cis men but I run away because I want to defend the silenced and oppressed very very much (oblimasculine exiccopostboy illusononbinary) vs awareness of how my experience is alike other transgender people, how regardless of the outward visibility of my gender narrative I am every new day unlike men and growing closer to and within a global community of nonbinary dreams, love and ideological unison, how I was never a binary man and couldn’t be more unlike them, and was just led to believe though because people tried to force me to be a cog in their system of oppression, and that one day perhaps I will be free and people will be forced to recognize this new me (pretransneutral entropostboy).

5. Unless otherwise modified due to engagement with the rest of humanity through media consumption, empathy towards certain narratives, reaction against violence or control (generally people being exorsexist or transmisogynistic towards me under the guise of feminism make me go para(antigirl), sorry not sorry), persistent attraction to others or engagement in relationships of all sorts; or the other, hidden, unknowable and fantastical mes beyond this rationalistic ego that I call myself through dreams and daydreams or immersed as a gameplayer in a fictional reality, I am stuck with this core gender that is the black hole left from the (pangender x panantigender) supernova; as a cadogender, I always fall back to it (it has its pull, as gravity); as an abimegender, it is deep, profound and infinite (my mind could go in infinite directions and I would still damn myself before I could find a good reason to not feel like neutrois and maverique aren’t the sole rational answers to the gender question, from my humble perspective); and it even fits the definition for an apollogender! I can escape my gender for limited amounts of time, so does that mean that this black hole has routes to parallel universes? the parallel universes represented by the minds of other people, their wills, desires, afflictions, experiences, emotions, which I can never metasimulate through my own emotions in a meaningful way due to my neurodivergences.

I am antineutrois-maverique and antimaverique-neutrois as my core gemigender but those genders are not the exact opposite of each other. The stable core of my gender is always comgender, sort of bold, while a pure antimaverique would probably be soft as maverique is defined as a very autonomous and unorthodox gender identity that can’t easily be made sense of to outsiders and can’t be properly tied to the rest of the spectrum, and it is also by definition extant (albeit demimaveriques exist), and my gender always favors neutrality before masculinity and femininity, while a pure antineutrois would probably be all about the most ‘colorful’ genders that show themselves as unlike all the others (my flavor of maverique, while defining itself in opposition to neutrois, is paradoxically more loyal to the part of the definition of maverique that is /not male, female or agender/ than the one that defines it as /not neutral/).

As you can see, antigenders/ungenders are not a hard science (ciência exata) and they can be defined in ways that vary from person to person. I am antigender because I make sense of gender as groupings (often binaries) of logical choices and options, so it is natural that they logically conflict to me, even as I identify with both.

from @mogai-ringo

I think the mix of pan(anti)gender is a light color gender.


Thank you for the submission! This is really interesting, and I think it could be insightful for some people. 

-Fy

Hey there! Thank you, kind messages are always really appreciated. 🙂

-Fy

Do you know of any genders that are male but have a strong connection to femininity? I know that boys can be feminine without it changing their gender, but being feminine feels like it affects my identity. I’m sorry if I didn’t explain it good enough,, love ya guys!! 💕

I had to do some digging, BUT I think I found something that sounds the closest to what you’re looking for (if it still doesn’t work tho, feel free to come back and I’ll keep looking!)

Mascil: A gender for males who have no alignment towards masculinity, and instead have a feminine alignment, with or without the existence of other nonmasculine alignments as well. Male refers to gender, and includes cis and trans men. 

Are you available to make flags for ethnicities, or is your blog specific to LBGT+?

Our blog is not specific to LGBT+/MOGAI flags. However, the categories we currently make flags for are: LGBT+/MOGAI, Alterhuman identities, and Neurodiversity. 

At this time, we are not making flags for races, ethnicities, physical disabilities, etc. Actually, we’re not even making flags much right now because all of the mods are pretty busy and we’re pretty short-handed.

Sorry about that!

Hi, I was wondering if there was a term for when your gender disappears when you listen to music. Like my gender is usually a chaotic mess but just sorta becomes nothing when I’m listening to any kind of music. (This isn’t a troll, I just don’t know what this would be besides maybe genderfluid?)

Unfortunately, I don’t know of anything that fits this specifically at the moment. You can still use genderfluid if you feel like that fits you, but if you want a more specific term then you’re always welcome to coin one. 😀

PomoAce: an individual who feels like there currently isn’t a word to accurately describe how they experience their own sexuality, BUT they feel most connected to the asexual community. This is NOT a way of saying they’re asexual or asexual spectrum, rather they can relate a lot to what asexual and asexual spectrum people experience and go through. The pomo prefixe acknowledges that there might be a term in the future as our understanding of human sexuality becomes more comprehensive.

The flag was made by combining the concepts and colors of the pomosexual official flag and asexual flag. The term is apart of the pomosexual umbrella and similar but NOT synonymous with Bunny Pomo.

Term creator and flag creator: myself
-Vasilisa

i know about sex ambivalent, sex negative, etc, and is there a term like that for folks with sensory issues that a lot of acts cause sensory overload? if that makes sense

I don’t think there is a similar term for that, but there is an orientation!

Diffi-:  When it is extremely difficult or even impossible for an individual to engage in sexual/romantic/etc. acts due to having issues with sensory processing.

If that’s not what you’re looking for, then you can definitely coin something! Maybe something like sex/romance/etc. overwhelmed?

Is there a sexuality/gender where im basically no gender/attraction when i have no emotions but when i feel a emotion strongly i know what i am/who im attracted to? Also is there a gender/orientation where im whatever gender/orientation my kin is when im in a kin shift? Thank you so much for this blog!!!

For your first question, for orientation, the closest I can find are:

Enseni-: only feeling attraction when emotional

Thym-: feeling attraction which varies on emotional state

For gender, I found:

Agenderfluid/Cancegender: A gender where one’s gender consistently comes back to agender, but fluctuates away from that center based on one’s emotions.

As for your second question, that sounds like Kingender, which is a term used to describe those whose gender is affected by their kintype.

Hope that helps!

What is genderfae and genderdae?

Genderfae is an experience of nonbinary gender, especially genderfluidity, that does not include any masculine or male genders. 

I don’t think I’ve heard of Genderdae though!

I designed these flags and coined a term! I hope it’s okay 🙂

Colors: blues represent masculinity, yellow represents uncertainty, and white doesn’t… really mean anything.

Puer – boy, Latin
Incerta- unsure, Latin

Inpuetagender: knowing your gender is mostly masculine, but still unsure of what labels fit.


Of course its okay, thanks for the submission! 🙂

-Fy

Heterosexual homoromantic: Experiencing solely sexual attraction to the “opposite” or a “different” sex. Experiencing romantic attraction solely to the same sex (however you wish to interpret wlw or mlm for the romantic attraction). 

While this combination is rare, it can legitmately happen. It might be “internalized -phobia” for some who later grow to realize that in life, but this type of thinking can NOT be applied to all heterosexual homoromantic individuals. 

The black/white/grey colored flag is one of many out there for heterosexuals. The rainbow is a common universal symbol for gays/lesbians/homosexual/achillean/sapphic (whatever word you are most comfortable with). The heart is a common shape used to denote romantic attraction.

-Vasilisa

arco-pluris:

Ultric or Ultramoric

/ˈʌltrɪk/ or /ˈʌltrə’mɔɹɪk/
Noun

  1. not strictly attracted to the other / different / ‘opposite’ gender;
  2. woman loving man (wlm) or man loving woman (mlw) non-straight identity;
  3. wlm/mlw relationship that is not “straight” due to the presence of one or more marginalized oriented people.

Ultra means beyond in Latin.

Flag meanings:

  • Purple: woman (binary or not)
  • White: following the pattern of the diamoric, sapphic and achillean flags.
  • Green: man (binary or not)
  • Sunflower: symbolizes the

    Myth of Clytie who loved

    Apollo.

🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻

Ultric identity means ultriques hasn’t a strict hetero-mono-zsexual periorientation¹. So they can be penulti-, pluralian² (m-spec), a-spec, amplusic³ (flexible or fluid attracted), pomo⁴

[undefined/unsure, questioning (’curious’)], queer, nonbinary or just knowing they aren’t Straights™. A straights in an ultric relationship still straight.

Keep reading

-Fy

arco-pluris:

Ultric or Ultramoric

/ˈʌltrɪk/ or /ˈʌltrə’mɔɹɪk/
Noun

  1. not strictly attracted to the other / different / ‘opposite’ gender;
  2. woman loving man (wlm) or man loving woman (mlw) non-straight identity;
  3. wlm/mlw relationship that is not “straight” due to the presence of one or more marginalized oriented people.

Ultra means beyond in Latin.

Flag meanings:

  • Purple: woman (binary or not)
  • White: following the pattern of the diamoric, sapphic and achillean flags.
  • Green: man (binary or not)
  • Sunflower: symbolizes the

    Myth of Clytie who loved

    Apollo.

🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻

Ultric identity means ultriques hasn’t a strict hetero-mono-zsexual periorientation¹. So they can be penulti-, pluralian² (m-spec), a-spec, amplusic³ (flexible or fluid attracted), pomo⁴

[undefined/unsure, questioning (’curious’)], queer, nonbinary or just knowing they aren’t Straights™. A straights in an ultric relationship still straight.

Keep reading

-Fy

i sent in an ask a bit ago about qplatonic vs alterous attraction. and i think i understand a little more, but im still a bit confused. so, alterous is an umbrella term, and qplatonic falls under the umbrella. what else is included under the umbrella? is there another kind of attraction or is it just a general umbrella for what you feel? what would you call another type of alterous partner/relationship that isnt qplatonic?

At the moment, I don’t think there are any other kinds of labeled attraction that would fall under the Alterous umbrella. But there are terms being coined all the time, so if anyone knows of any others, do let us know. 🙂

There isn’t one as of now but you’re always free to contact the @greysexuality (the creator of said terms) to see if they’ll make a term for it (or create one yourself!)

-Vasilisa

Systemgender: A gender which is defined as a sum of all the genders within a multiple or median system.A nonbinary gender experienced by members of a multiple and/or median system. Other systems can also come up with names. (i.e. headmates all have different nonbinary genders but are looking for something to describe the gender of the system as a whole.). This is known as a “neurodivergent” gender which means it’s to be used by people with MPD/DID only.

Hope this helps!

-Vasilisa

It sounds like you found the term that fits you best (omnique/omnigay). You’re always free to coin your own if you feel like there isn’t currently one in existance for you yet.

-Vasilisa

You could just use the term sapphic (girls who like girls, regardless of presentation) if you don’t feel comfortable with the term “lesbian”. 

-Vasilisa

(I’m not sure if tumblr ate the second part of this, so I’ll just be going off of this one)

It’s very possible you could be aromantic. Society puts a lot of pressure on people to fall into the categories: solely platonic, solely romantic, romantic + sexual, and purely sexual. If you feel like you need more time to figure yourself “out”, you could use the term grayromantic (RARELY feeling romantic attraction OR only feeling romantic attraction under very specific circumstances).

-Vasilisa

Implasexual could possibly fit you:

Someone who feels they are never quite sure of their sexual orientation due to self doubt or anxiety. Implasexuals will often have a history of experimenting with sexual orientation labels, often feeling like they could never find a label that quite fit their experiences with their own human sexuality. Other implasexuals feel that they have “settled” with the term Implasexual, essentially having “given up” on finding a term that fits them and are at peace with it.

-Vasilisa

There’s terms like:

  • Achillean
  • Hyacinthean
  • Queer (if you feel comfortable reclaiming this word)

Those are all I can think of off the top of my head. Hope this helps!

-Vasilisa

This sounds like a different spin on trisexual (sexual attraction to 3 different genders/sexes). We could make a flag specific to this kind of fluidity if you’d like?

-Vasilisa

There’s actually almost-exact instances of this with how some pomosexuals describe themselves (found in the book that coined pomosexuality), so pomosexual is probably a good fit for you.

*Please note* this is NOT meant to be in a deragatory or somehow insulting/mean way. This is just one experience of many in the human sexuality umbrella.

You can learn more about pomosexuality at: pomosexuality.org

-Vasilisa

There’s gender terms for feeling connected to things like weather that take place in certain area, and there’s also gender identities specific to “locations” on a compass (compassgender, northgender, southgender, eastgender, westgender) but beyond that I am not sure of those specific to a certain place.

-Vasilisa

There are terms for people who feel like they’re most comfortably “between” feminine-neutral and masculine-neutral, but these are the closest I could find to fit your situation.

Faesari:

a gender identity where one feels most comfortable within the gender neutral spectrum, but still feels a strong attachment to femininity. This is similar to the idea of “fegender” (nonbinary with emphasis on femininity). Pronounced “fay-sar-ee”

Cenrell:

a gender identity where one feels most comfortable within the gender neutral spectrum, but still feels a strong attachment to masculinity. This is similar to the idea of “manugender” (nonbinary with emphasis on masculinity). This is the “masculine” version of faesari.

-Vasilisa

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Idemromantic is the closest thing I found.  Categorizes relationships and feelings as platonic or romantic but experiences no notable internal differences. They may categorize certain relationships as romantic instead of platonic based on age, personality compatibility, emotional closeness, ease of living together, presence of sexual attraction, or other factors. But their feelings toward their romantic interests would not be particularly distinguishable from platonic feelings and may be similar to how they feel for a best friend or beloved family member. They may pursue platonic, quasiplatonic, romantic, or no relationships.

Idemromantics internally experiences romantic and platonic attraction similarly; categorizes relationships and feelings as romantic or platonic based on factors other than presence or lack of romantic attraction

Hope this helps!

-Vasilisa

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Idemromantic is the closest thing I found.  Categorizes relationships and feelings as platonic or romantic but experiences no notable internal differences. They may categorize certain relationships as romantic instead of platonic based on age, personality compatibility, emotional closeness, ease of living together, presence of sexual attraction, or other factors. But their feelings toward their romantic interests would not be particularly distinguishable from platonic feelings and may be similar to how they feel for a best friend or beloved family member. They may pursue platonic, quasiplatonic, romantic, or no relationships.

Idemromantics internally experiences romantic and platonic attraction similarly; categorizes relationships and feelings as romantic or platonic based on factors other than presence or lack of romantic attraction

Hope this helps!

-Vasilisa

There aren’t any terms specific to eating disorders. If you have sexual attraction but choose not to act on it in general is considered celibacy. Hope this helps!

-Vasilisa

I am unaware of a specific term for this, but our followers might help out. The closest thing I can think that this would fit would be the pomosexual community. Hope this helps!

-Vasilisa

The 12-13 forms of attraction

neutrois-maverique:

I promised to translate this to @kiloueka (I think?) of @pride-color-schemes and @ask-pride-color-schemes​ a long time ago, this might still be interesting to them. Recently @arco-pluris asked me about it because I mentioned as much on Facebook, so I decided to look it up again.

http://es.asexuality.org/comunidad/foro/reflexiones-asexuales/130-tipos-de-atraccion

Ok, so, back in the day (December of 2014 to early 2015), in the Spanish language version of AVEN, people defined certain forms of attraction as different from what the modern version of the a-spec community as known by MOGAI and our detractors came to adopt. The language might be problematic by modern-day standards but I find it nice as a general resource. One of the forum posters made certain ranking and internal classification systems but I do not necessarily think they fit everyone.

So here are them all, aligned in a rainbow of my own perception of closeness of each form of attraction (I feel like sensual and sexual are more perceptually similar to each other and so are romantic and alterous/queerplatonic or platonic, though, but I’m touch-positive or touch-ambivalent in all sorts of relationship):

Sexual (atracción sexual): defined by the need of maintaining sexual relations, and oriented towards those persons with whom there are bigger possibilities of pursuing a satisfying sexual relation.

Sensual (atracción sensual; in Brazil we often translate it as corpórea or física instead because sensual is too close in meaning to sexy in common parlance): capacity of forming an erotic-sensorial bond (that involves the senses) with certain individuals [sometimes] depending on their gender.

Amorous/romantic (atracción romántica): capacity of forming [usually pair-based] bonds that is characterized by idealization (vision of the other part or of the relationship as perfect) and of such socially attributed additions that are commonly characterized by romance (gifts, dates, need to reaffirm the feeling, corniness, daydreaming about weddings and married life, etc.). Sometimes might include possessiveness and that is when it becomes an unhealthy relationship. (But that is not necessarily the rule, there are healthy romantic relationships.) The bond that gives birth to such relationships is called falling in love/passion (enamoramiento).

Alterous/queerplatonic (atracción afectiva peculiar, platónica o arrobática): capacity of forming [usually pair-based] bonds characterized by admiration (fondleness for a person with an understanding of their virtues and defects) and a more rational view of the relationship where one seeks coexistence without a need for certain social conventions like dates and gifts. The bond that gives birth to such relationships is called ???? (arrobamiento).

(I would say that one of the main distinctions between these ones to me is that queerplatonic attraction is stable in goal, characteristics and benefits to both parties, while alterous is often liminal/transitional: it is no longer just amical but it is unclear whether or not we could call it romantic and/or if it is a valid target.)

Platonic/amical (atracción afectiva clásica o de amistad): capacity of creating friendship bonds with certain individuals.

Ecstatic/emotional (atracción emocional): capacity and desire of forming non-hierarchical, mutually nurturing emotional bonds with one or more people in a manner that might or might not depend on gendered preferrences. (Amorous/romantic, alterous, queerplatonic/quirkyplatonic/quasiplatonic, platonic/amical and intellectual/spiritual are all possible subtypes of this one, but there might be others.)

Social (atracción social): as it comes to the need of social relationships within the public life sphere, someone that shows themselves as socially closer and more alike you might inspire in you this form of attraction.

Intellectual/spiritual (atracción intelectual): capacity of forming an intellectual bond with one or more individuals. This bond is related to an exchange of wisdom, knowledge and interests of the involved. (It is NOT about what kind of mind one has, but rather how they use it.)

Aesthetic (atracción estética): given how there is no real biological need of contemplating something beautiful for it is own sake, there is a lot going on for the existence of this attraction. It might be an admiration for the forms of someone who you do not feel otherwise sexually or sensually attracted to, the attraction someone with an artistic mind feels toward a model, and in some cases the simple closeness to an attractive person as a symbol of personal status might be related to the existence of this form of attraction.

Protective (atracción de protección): it is the attraction one might feel towards a child, a pet or a vulnerable person. It is based in a need of feeling needed. Someone who shifts from a normal to a sad or defenseless situation arises in us not just sympathy but also a sense of attraction that gets us involved with them and their needs, without feelings of a need for it to be understood in our terms from their side.

Submissive (atracción hacia protector): the case that is the reversal of the former. In such circumstances in which I feel rather weak and vulnerable, the possibility that someone might protect me makes me feel an attraction towards some certain person. As a trans person, I believe that people who attract me in this way include such people that will understand and support me while doing so, for example.

Important note: the people who discussed what I am calling protective and submissive attraction here have explicitly distinguished it from the kinky kind of power relationship often seen in some sexual/romantic couples, there called atracción de rol.

Wow, this is really extensive and informational! 

-Fy

Hi.. is there a national specific phobia awareness day? I really think we need one due to how people think about phobias. They think it’s something that just makes us uncomfortable or grossed out. But it’s an actual anxiety disorder issue that causes real distress and anxiety. I’m tired of being see as a wuss or weak. We need a day for this. But I can’t do it alone if we don’t already have a day. Do you know anyone that would be interested in helping?

I couldn’t find any information suggesting there is such a date, but I think its a great idea! Maybe some of our followers would like to help? @madprideflags may be able to give some suggestions as well! 

Nagito Komaeda fictionkin: identifying partially or entirely as Nagito Komaeda from Super Danganronpa 2


Thanks for the submission!

-Fy

down-with-terfscum:

yaoilover6969:

genderpest:

lgbtq-information-center:

fanby-from-space:

roskiiart:

enid-against-fujoshis:

seraph-s:

nerdgul:

imtooqueerforyournonsense:

terflies:

vince-dafreak:

Being trans is not special or fun.

You need dysphoria to be trans.

Being cisgender is great.

Being trans is not your aesthetic.

Truscum/transmeds are the only ones who really care about trans people.

Hopefully, people like Skye are still a minority.
If you have gender dysphoria, I hope you will be alright. You can always talk to me if you feel bad

Also, sorry for my English mistakes

>> Visit my art blog [NSFW]

“Truscum/transmeds are the only ones who really care about trans people.”

Never mind that that’s not true; it’s outright manipulation of vulnerable people.

anyway, skye is a boy and i support him way fucking more than i would ever support truscum

I fixed it.

@vince-dafreak anyway you dont get to play god and decide peoples gender for them and you being a trans man doesnt give you authority over others peoples presentations and identities!

THANK YOU FOR FIXING THIS POST YOU’RE BLESSED

Truscums: wants you to hate yourself and kiss cis people’s asses

Trans people: want you to love yourself, dysphoric or little dysphoria

reblogging for the fixed editions.  

I got so pissed when I saw the OP, then got all happy at the reblogs. Skye is a man too dang it!

-Aemeon

@yaoilover6969 @pakitranny !!!!!!!!!!

I am here for the fixed versions lol

guess who finally got their new sketchbook lmao

anyways i love skye, he’s a cutie-patootie

I absolutely love all the artwork portraying the Damien x Skye fandom! But are there any fics being written about them, ‘cause I would read the hell outta those. :0

-Fy

down-with-terfscum:

yaoilover6969:

genderpest:

lgbtq-information-center:

fanby-from-space:

roskiiart:

enid-against-fujoshis:

seraph-s:

nerdgul:

imtooqueerforyournonsense:

terflies:

vince-dafreak:

Being trans is not special or fun.

You need dysphoria to be trans.

Being cisgender is great.

Being trans is not your aesthetic.

Truscum/transmeds are the only ones who really care about trans people.

Hopefully, people like Skye are still a minority.
If you have gender dysphoria, I hope you will be alright. You can always talk to me if you feel bad

Also, sorry for my English mistakes

>> Visit my art blog [NSFW]

“Truscum/transmeds are the only ones who really care about trans people.”

Never mind that that’s not true; it’s outright manipulation of vulnerable people.

anyway, skye is a boy and i support him way fucking more than i would ever support truscum

I fixed it.

@vince-dafreak anyway you dont get to play god and decide peoples gender for them and you being a trans man doesnt give you authority over others peoples presentations and identities!

THANK YOU FOR FIXING THIS POST YOU’RE BLESSED

Truscums: wants you to hate yourself and kiss cis people’s asses

Trans people: want you to love yourself, dysphoric or little dysphoria

reblogging for the fixed editions.  

I got so pissed when I saw the OP, then got all happy at the reblogs. Skye is a man too dang it!

-Aemeon

@yaoilover6969 @pakitranny !!!!!!!!!!

I am here for the fixed versions lol

guess who finally got their new sketchbook lmao

anyways i love skye, he’s a cutie-patootie

I absolutely love all the artwork portraying the Damien x Skye fandom! But are there any fics being written about them, ‘cause I would read the hell outta those. :0

-Fy

This blog accepts and validates that heteroromantic lesbians/gays and heterosexual homoromantics exist

greysexuality:

This attraction type is rare but it does exist! It makes relationships very difficul according to friends of mine that have this rare combination. 

For definitions (put it as simple as possible):

  • Heteroromantic gay/lesbian: wants romantic things with opposite sex but DOES NOT want sexual activities with opposite sex; wants sexual activities with same sex but DOES NOT want romantic activities with same sex
  • Heterosexual homoromantics: wants sexual things with opposite sex but DOES NOT want romantic actiities with opposite sex; wants romantic things with same sex but DOES NOT want sexual activities with same sex

-Vasilisa

Why is it

greysexuality:

That most “ACES ARENT LGBT” or “AROS ARENT LGBT” boil down to (basically)….

“They aren’t oppressed”

Honey, DO YOU EVEN KNOW THE DEFINITION OF SAID WORD? Not the social definition bullshit. 

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This is a screenshot from Dictionary.com, one of the “go-to” places on the web, to learn the definition of something.

According to ANY of these definitions, it fucking fits. I’d go into further detail here, but I don’t want to add more length to this post than I have to. 

“They don’t experience corrective sexual assault”

Yes they fucking do. Countless stories (anecdotal or otherwise) proves that asexuals have been sexually assaulted as an attempt to “change” them. Aromantics often are coerced into romantic relationships as a way to “attempt to force them to change”. 

“Cisgender heteroromantic asexuals are basically straight.”

Holy fuck, no. This would be like saying “AFAB {assigned female at birth} bisexual who prefers guys is basically straight”. Do you see how fucking offensive and wrong that is? Asexuals DO NOT experience sexual attraction. Period, end of story.

“Asexuals and aromantics don’t experience harrasement”

Take a peek at “exclusionist” tumblrs folks. 

“Asexuals are synonymous with cellibacy”

Hell to the fucking no. 

“Cisgenders don’t belong to the LGBT community”

Whelp, there’s goes a good chunk of cisgender lesbians/gays, bisexuals, pansexuals/omnisexuals, etc.

“Heteroromantics don’t belong to the LGBT community.”

Again, there goes a bunch of lesbians/gays, bisexuals, pansexuals/omnisexuals, etc.

“Asexuals don’t have a sexuality.”

Yes, they do. They just experience it differently. Having no sexual attraction doesn’t mean you lack the capacity of experiencing different types of “sexual” experiences (having sex for fun, to make a baby, experiencing fetishes and kinks, etc.)

-Vasilisa

arco-pluris:

Touch-ambivalent (1st flag): describes a person’s mixed feelings about touches or things related to it;

Touch-favorable/positive (2nd flag): a person who enjoys touching or participates in sensual acts for other reasons;

Touch-neutral/indifferent (3rd flag): having no strong opinions on touch; not pursuing touch but not averse to it;

Touch-repulsed/averse/negative (4th flag): describes a person’s extreme distaste or disgust of touch or things related to it; when you don’t want to engage in sensual acts.

All above are regardless of sensual orientation.
(Touch involves kissing, hugging, cuddling, etc.).

Keep reading

-Fy

arco-pluris:

Touch-ambivalent (1st flag): describes a person’s mixed feelings about touches or things related to it;

Touch-favorable/positive (2nd flag): a person who enjoys touching or participates in sensual acts for other reasons;

Touch-neutral/indifferent (3rd flag): having no strong opinions on touch; not pursuing touch but not averse to it;

Touch-repulsed/averse/negative (4th flag): describes a person’s extreme distaste or disgust of touch or things related to it; when you don’t want to engage in sensual acts.

All above are regardless of sensual orientation.
(Touch involves kissing, hugging, cuddling, etc.).

Keep reading

-Fy

arco-pluris:

Plato-ambivalent (1st flag):

describes a person’s mixed feelings about platonic relationships or things related to it;

Plato-favorable/positive (2nd flag): a person who enjoys platonicity or participates in platonic acts for other reasons;

Plato-neutral/indifferent (3rd flag):

having no strong opinions on platonicity; not pursuing platonism but not averse to it;

Plato-repulsed/averse/negative (4th flag): describes a person’s extreme distaste or disgust of platonism or things related to it; when you don’t want to engage in platonic acts.

All above are regardless of platonic orientation.

Keep reading

-Fy

arco-pluris:

Plato-ambivalent (1st flag):

describes a person’s mixed feelings about platonic relationships or things related to it;

Plato-favorable/positive (2nd flag): a person who enjoys platonicity or participates in platonic acts for other reasons;

Plato-neutral/indifferent (3rd flag):

having no strong opinions on platonicity; not pursuing platonism but not averse to it;

Plato-repulsed/averse/negative (4th flag): describes a person’s extreme distaste or disgust of platonism or things related to it; when you don’t want to engage in platonic acts.

All above are regardless of platonic orientation.

Keep reading

-Fy

arco-pluris:

Travesti Pride Flags

Travesti is a feminine identity, can be a genderness included in femininity and womanhood, but it isn’t necessarily a woman.

Travesty is not the same as transvestite, it’s a Latin America identity, can be considered as non-Western gender of South America, because they are an exclusive experience of the Latin-Brazilian historical-social context. 

Keep reading

It’s always nice to see flags for cultural specific identities being made. 🙂

-Fy

arco-pluris:

Travesti Pride Flags

Travesti is a feminine identity, can be a genderness included in femininity and womanhood, but it isn’t necessarily a woman.

Travesty is not the same as transvestite, it’s a Latin America identity, can be considered as non-Western gender of South America, because they are an exclusive experience of the Latin-Brazilian historical-social context. 

Keep reading

It’s always nice to see flags for cultural specific identities being made. 🙂

-Fy

femininus-is-beauty:

Asexuals and aromantics belong in the lgbt community

That is all. Carry on. 💋 Asexuality isn’t synonymous with celibacy either.

-Vasilisa

femininus-is-beauty:

Vexegirl: A type of gender where one isn’t sure what exactly their gender is, but knows there’s a feminine quality to them.

Flag and term maker: ???

This might help some of our followers!

-Vasilisa

Nyctogender: A gender consisting of darkness or related to it. 

If you can’t see the flag well: it is a grey flag with a circle in the center. The top of the circle has an orangish color, below that is a yellow-ish color, below that is a purple color and below that is a blue color. 

Term creator: ???

Flag creator: myself, technically, I found an old nyctogender flag and super-upped the brightness because on most screens/resolutions, it just looked like a black box otherwise

-Vasilisa

Lyss: pronounced li-ss. A way to address someone whose gender identity is between feminine and neutral. Based off the term “lass”.

“Hey lyss” or “That lyss went to the store” “the lysses are walking the dogs” are just some examples as a way to use the term in a sentence.

Term maker: myself
Flag maker: myself
-Vasilisa

Do you agree with accepting otherkin (and the sort) into the LGBT+ community?

From what I’ve seen, most (though not all) otherkin/fictionkin/etc. do not consider themselves part of the LGBT+/MOGAI community. In fact, that’s why the term Alterhuman is now used as an umbrella term as a category of personal identity which encompasses identification that is alternative to the common societal idea of humanity, which otherkin and related identities fall under.

However, someone’s Alterhuman identity CAN affect their gender and orientation, and those could be considered LGBT+/MOGAI. But these are different from the Alterhuman identity itself, despite being related to each other.

this is an original flag for a new sexual orientation, called andric

andric is for any enby/nonbinary that is attracted to the male gender

the colors are grey (meaning nonbinary) that fades to light blue (meaning male), the colors flow in the direction of grey to blue, mimicing the flow of attraction from a nonbinary person to a male.


Thanks for the submission!

-Fy

Androcupiosappho: Someone who might “sexually” consider themselves a gay man, but are willing to have sex withwo men, despite expericing NO sexual attraction towards women. The reason for sex could be (but not limited to this list): fun, trying to make a baby, revenge, for artistic expression, etc.

Androcupiosappho might best fit people whose sexual attraction (in this case, men) is very different from other types of attraction (heteroromantic, bisensual, etc.), so they don’t feel comfortable with the term “gay”, since their other types of attraction are not exclusive to men.

Term creator: myself

Flag maker: myself, based loosely on an alternative flag for cupiosexual/kalosexual

-Vasilisa

Sapphocupioandro: Someone who might “sexually” consider themselves a lesbian, but are willing to have sex with men, despite expericing NO sexual attraction towards men. The reason for sex could be (but not limited to this list): fun, trying to make a baby, revenge, for artistic expression, etc. 

Sapphocupioandro might best fit people whose sexual attraction (in this case, women) is very different from other types of attraction (heteroromantic, bisensual, etc.), so they don’t feel comfortable with the term “lesbian”, since their other types of attraction are not exclusive to women.

Term creator: myself

Flag maker: myself, based loosely on an alternative flag for cupiosexual/kalosexual

-Vasilisa

arco-pluris:

Multigenderfluid Pride Flags

A more specific subset of Genderfluid where you can only have more than one gender at the same time, ex. from trigender to pangender and polygender.

Keep reading

Very pretty!

-Fy

arco-pluris:

Monogenderfluid Pride Flags

A more specific subset of Genderfluid where you can only have one gender that changes, ex. from monoboy to monogirl and back.

As requested, I designed these flags, mixing the monogender with genderfluid flags, the second with another monogender version.

I like that first one!

-Fy

Neutric/NLN Flags

arco-pluris:

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Neutric (or neutray/neutrian) is a specific term for neutrois who likes neutrois (NLN), different from neu- and netrenale

Also can be a term for neucentered relations, and within NBLNB (enbian/diamoric) umbrella too.

The flags were based on lesbian and gay man flags. The last one lacks the neutrois symbols. Yellow is usually considered the neutral color.

-Fy

Monofluid Pride Flags

arco-pluris:

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Monofluid: attracted to one gender, the gender they are attracted changes.

Monofluid people can be multi-spec, but some may consider themselves just as mono, fluctuating between cetero, ma-, woma-, neu-, androgyne-, lesbian, gay, homo, hetero, straight,

etc. Different from

Single-Target, you can only feel attraction to one gender, but you still can feel attraction to more than one person.

Keep reading

-Fy

How does otherheartedgender Works? I’m kith with cows, if I was heartedgender would I feel like… My gender is cow? Sorry If it sounds rude, I’m a bit confused.. could you explain it better?

It’s okay! So in the same way that Kingender is an umbrella term for anyone who’s gender has to do with or is influenced by their kintype, Heartedgender would be for anyone whose gender has to do or is influenced by their heartedtype (if that’s the word?).

So, if you’re otherhearted, and you feel like this connection influences your gender, then you can use the term Heartedgender. 

Happy International Women’s Day!

Here’s to women of all races and ethnicities! To women of all religions! To women of all orientations, especially lesbian and multisexual women! To everyone whose gender incorporates womanhood, especially trans and non-binary women! To gender non-conforming women! To intersex women! To neurodiverse women! To physically disabled women! To women of all shapes and sizes, and to girls and women of all ages! You’re all amazing!

Seeing as we are a pride flag blog, here are some relevant flags. 😀

Woman Pride Flag, designed by @trintinic

Trans Woman Pride Flags

Lesbian Pride Flag

Feminist Flags

Anarcha-Feminist Flag

Hope everyone has a great day!

-Fy

Paraidemsexual: a person who is paraidemsexual feels like gay/lesbian is VERY CLOSE to defining their own sexual identity, but the person still might feel a little unsure or anxious about their identity. This can be due to a traumatic past, being unsure of how to apply the concept of sexual attraction to themselves,  they feel connected to same sex erotica visuals and written material but are unsure of how they experience sexual attraction (if at all) in the"real world", etc.

Another way to interpret this if that they feel attracted to the same sex MOST of the time, but VERY RARELY (5% of the time or less) they feel attracted to a different sex or gender (can be one identity in particular or multiple different sexes or genders). Due to how rare they experience attraction to other gender identities/sex, they don’t feel comfortable with terms like “bisexual, polysexual, or pansexual/omnisexual”
-Vasilisa

orbisian-prinxess:

beyond-mogai-pride-flags:

I dont think there’s a flag for gynxgender, so I found this! Credit goes to vinny_spice on Instagram!


If you mean a pride flag for Gynx, there actually is! 

It doesn’t hurt to have an alternative though, so thanks for the submission!

-Fy

Hey folks. I’d really prefer it if you continue to refer to it as ‘gynx’ not ‘gynxgender’. For personal reasons, I didn’t want the term itself to contain the word ‘gender’.

I understand, that’s why I attempted to correct the submitter. 🙂

-Fy

orbisian-prinxess:

beyond-mogai-pride-flags:

I dont think there’s a flag for gynxgender, so I found this! Credit goes to vinny_spice on Instagram!


If you mean a pride flag for Gynx, there actually is! 

It doesn’t hurt to have an alternative though, so thanks for the submission!

-Fy

Hey folks. I’d really prefer it if you continue to refer to it as ‘gynx’ not ‘gynxgender’. For personal reasons, I didn’t want the term itself to contain the word ‘gender’.

I understand, that’s why I attempted to correct the submitter. 🙂

-Fy

Hi can I submit a shitty pansexual relationship anarchy pride flag?
💗💛💙


Absolutely! I think it looks great though!!

-Fy

demonessdollie:

Anisosexual:  a replacement term for Homoflexible; Mostly same or similar-gender attracted, with RARE exception.

Unknown flag maker or term maker.

This is not"just bisexual" or “biphobia”. Some people just don’t feel comfortable with the term bisexual (how linguistically it can be interpreted, how society has treated or interpreted the term, etc.). Others might not be a fan of the overall bisexual community (online or in person).

@mogai-flags @lgbt-pride-flags @pride-color-schemes @pride-flags-for-us @beyond-mogai-pride-flags

Pretty flag!

-Vasilisa

XTM Pride Flag

XTM: a transgender individual whose AGAB was neither male or female, but identifies as male.

-Fy

XTF Pride Flag

XTF: a transgender individual whose AGAB was neither male or female, but identifies as female.

-Fy

vrxskka:

anyways the argument that binary mlnb/wlnb are ‘fetishizing nb identities’ bc not all nb people ‘look the same’ (truscum code for dont have the same agab) or ‘have the same experience with gender’ (want to transition the same way or at all) is absolute fucking bullshit because its implying that all men/women have the same experience with gender or look the same either, which is, yknow, transphobic. anyways discourse fucking over.

-Fy

I just wanna say one thing

I love how we are living in a time of linguistics revolution with how we define ideas of gender and sexuality. I love that so many people are embracing different concepts of gender and sexuality (orientation, kink, fetish, bdsm, polyamory, sensuality, romantic, etc.).

-Vasilisa

XTX/NBTNB Pride Flags

XTX/NBTNB (non-binary to non-binary): a transneutral or otherwise non-binary individual who considers themselves as transitioning from non-binary to non-binary, as they have always been non-binary. An alternative to MTX/MTNB/MTN/etc. and FTX/FTNB/FTN/etc.

-Fy

Haphephobia (also known as aphephobia, haphophobia, hapnophobia, haptephobia, haptophobia, thixophobia) is a rare specific phobia that involves the fear of touching or of being touched.

Flag maker: myself

-Vasilisa

Mercsexual: One can not pinpoint their SEXUAL orientation for it is ever changing. 

Flag maker: myself 

Term coiner: unkonwn

-Vasilisa

(2/2) The heartedgender flag, in pastel colors.

They’re supposed to look similar to the kingender flag. Do they look alright?


Yes! This one is also very nice. ^-^

-Fy

(½)Hello! I made a flag with aestherians’ otherhearted symbol.

I’d like to coin Heartedgender- “A gender that is influenced by one’s otherhearted-ness.”

I’m not sure if it is a good term? I’d like to ask feedback on the colors too!

Thank you!!


Oh! I think that’s a great idea, personally!!

And I think the colors look great as long as it doesn’t have the same color scheme as another flag. 😀

-Fy

(½)Hello! I made a flag with aestherians’ otherhearted symbol.

I’d like to coin Heartedgender- “A gender that is influenced by one’s otherhearted-ness.”

I’m not sure if it is a good term? I’d like to ask feedback on the colors too!

Thank you!!


Oh! I think that’s a great idea, personally!!

And I think the colors look great as long as it doesn’t have the same color scheme as another flag. 😀

-Fy

Hello Anon!

(term)spec is short for (term) spectrum, which means everything in that spectrum would be part of that (term)spec. I would not suggest using that to describe your orientation. You could simple say you are the term (ex. I am abro~), or say you are (term) orientation.

 Do any of our followers/other mods have any suggestions outside of that? 

Mod Jace

Hello Anon! 

I do not believe there is a term for this but it does sound sort of like the opposite of Aego~ (correct me if I am wrong). Would you like to coin a term?

Mod Jace

Hello Anon! 

There are a few terms for your sexual orienation.

Abro ~ An orientation that is constantly changing, never stable.

Bi(sexual)fluid ~ Not exact defintion but when your preference changes over time, (I think)

Merc ~ One can not pinpoint their orientation for it is ever changing

Novo~ An orientation that changes along with one’s gender. For use by individuals with fluid genders. Defining one’s particular shifts in orientation (ie what orientations correspond to the genders one experiences) is an option, but is not required.

There is also Omnigay, which is like novo~ but changes so that you are always attracted to the same gender. 

I hope this helps!

Mod Jace

Hello Anon!

 Your gender coud be genderfluid, or bigender between boy and girl. I would look into different shifting/fluid genders. I can give you some specifcs if you would like.

Your orientations could be different from each other. Or just have a strong preference for one attraction with one gender than the other. Although you didnt say you were soley attracted to one gender, you could identify as womasexual maromantic, or bisexual/romantic, or polysexual/romantic, then say you have a preference. There is also Asco~ (Someone who feels sexual attraction to different genders than the ones they feel romantic attraction.)

I hope this helps! Come back if not!

Mod Jace

Unknown/Unborn Factkin Flags

arco-pluris:

Unknown Factkin Pride Flag

Unknown Factkin: identifying partially or entirely as an unknown person, someone who you don’t know yet.

Unborn Factkin Pride Flag

Unborn Factkin: identifying partially or entirely as an unborn person, someone who isn’t born yet.

Interesting!

-Fy

multigendered:

Since I’ve seen this discourse going around:

– if you are bi/tri/polygender and one of your genders is male, you can be mlm. If one of your genders is female, you can be wlw

– if you are genderfluid and only sometimes male, you can be mlm. If you are only sometimes female, you can be wlw

– yes, you can be mlm/wlw even if you experience both binary genders

– yes, you can be both mlm and wlw

– saying otherwise is exorsexist

👏👏👏

-Fy

mogaiflagswithbenton:

Mxsc Neutrois- Someone who feels Genderless(agender) masculine (But not necessarily male), and neutrois at the same time. any one of these gender feelings may fluctuate. (feeling less masculine but more neutrois and genderless, more genderless than anything else) but always feels at least one of these predominately.

Flag based off the bxy and gxrl flags

Similar identities; agenderfluid, Bxy, agender masculine

Color meanings:
Black: genderless
grey: Greygender/faint gender
Green: Neutral/Neutrois
blue: Masculine

Coined by: Me

Flag designed by: Me, with help from the bxy flag~

Tagging these blogs to show its existence: @beyond-mogai-pride-flags @pride-color-schemes

😀

-Fy

mogaiflagswithbenton:

Mxsc Neutrois- Someone who feels Genderless(agender) masculine (But not necessarily male), and neutrois at the same time. any one of these gender feelings may fluctuate. (feeling less masculine but more neutrois and genderless, more genderless than anything else) but always feels at least one of these predominately.

Flag based off the bxy and gxrl flags

Similar identities; agenderfluid, Bxy, agender masculine

Color meanings:
Black: genderless
grey: Greygender/faint gender
Green: Neutral/Neutrois
blue: Masculine

Coined by: Me

Flag designed by: Me, with help from the bxy flag~

Tagging these blogs to show its existence: @beyond-mogai-pride-flags @pride-color-schemes

😀

-Fy