Decidi formular um rótulo de atração pensando em pessoas não-binárias. Para todes que considerem sua atração “viada” de alguma forma, que se considerem uma pessoa “viada” independentemente de qual seja sua identidade e como funcione sua atração, podem usar viade, podem se dizer viades, podem ser muito viades. Serve também para todes que priorizem o fato de serem não-bináries e terem uma atração que não seja hétero.
Sobre o significado da bandeira:
– asterisco laranja: o asterisco é associado com a não-binariedade, e a cor laranja representa individualidade. Então o símbolo expressa força própria e a reafirmação da atração. – faixa rosa: atração por gêneros e/ou identidades dentro das qualidades femininas. – faixa roxa: atração por gêneros e/ou identidades dentro das qualidades andróginas. – faixa azul: atração por gêneros e/ou identidades dentro das qualidades masculinas. – faixa verde: atração por gêneros e/ou identidades dentro das qualidades neutras. – faixa amarela: atração por gêneros e/ou identidades dentro de quaisquer outras qualidades (entre as citadas, ou totalmente novas, ou indefinidas, ou xeninas, etc).
A bandeira serve também para atrações fluídas, ou atrações que mudam de intensidade, ou atrações indeterminadas.
Créditos a @nbandproud que me ajudou muito com ideias e produziu a versão final da bandeira.
Hey English-speaking pals, check this out!
Viade: An identity similar to gai, but derived from “viado”, a word used at least in Brazil that is equivalent to the anti-gay f word in the US. Can be compared to queer in some ways. It’s for everyone that considers their attraction and/or identity viade, including (but not limited to) people who want to express their nonbinary identity and non-straight attraction in this way.
This identity is not exclusive to Brazilians/lusophones/whatever; anyone can use it if they feel like this is a good description of themselves.
Orange asterisk: the asterisk is from the nonbinary symbol, and it represents that this identity is for nonbinary people. It’s orange, and the color orange here represents individuality. Therefore, this symbol represents one’s own strength and reaffirmation of viade attraction. Pink stripe: attraction to genders/identities related to femininity. Purple stripe: attraction to genders/identities related to androgyny. Blue stripe: attraction to genders/identities related to masculinity. Green stripe: attraction to genders/identities related to neutrality. Yellow stripe: attraction to genders/identities related to anything else (undefined qualities, xeninity, maveriquinity, in-between others on the list, and so on).
This identity and flag are inclusive of fluid/flux attractions and a-spec identities.
(it’s pronounced sorta like vee-ah-day or vee-ah-gee depending on accent, btw.)
Decidi formular um rótulo de atração pensando em pessoas não-binárias. Para todes que considerem sua atração “viada” de alguma forma, que se considerem uma pessoa “viada” independentemente de qual seja sua identidade e como funcione sua atração, podem usar viade, podem se dizer viades, podem ser muito viades. Serve também para todes que priorizem o fato de serem não-bináries e terem uma atração que não seja hétero.
Sobre o significado da bandeira:
– asterisco laranja: o asterisco é associado com a não-binariedade, e a cor laranja representa individualidade. Então o símbolo expressa força própria e a reafirmação da atração. – faixa rosa: atração por gêneros e/ou identidades dentro das qualidades femininas. – faixa roxa: atração por gêneros e/ou identidades dentro das qualidades andróginas. – faixa azul: atração por gêneros e/ou identidades dentro das qualidades masculinas. – faixa verde: atração por gêneros e/ou identidades dentro das qualidades neutras. – faixa amarela: atração por gêneros e/ou identidades dentro de quaisquer outras qualidades (entre as citadas, ou totalmente novas, ou indefinidas, ou xeninas, etc).
A bandeira serve também para atrações fluídas, ou atrações que mudam de intensidade, ou atrações indeterminadas.
Créditos a @nbandproud que me ajudou muito com ideias e produziu a versão final da bandeira.
Hey English-speaking pals, check this out!
Viade: An identity similar to gai, but derived from “viado”, a word used at least in Brazil that is equivalent to the anti-gay f word in the US. Can be compared to queer in some ways. It’s for everyone that considers their attraction and/or identity viade, including (but not limited to) people who want to express their nonbinary identity and non-straight attraction in this way.
This identity is not exclusive to Brazilians/lusophones/whatever; anyone can use it if they feel like this is a good description of themselves.
Orange asterisk: the asterisk is from the nonbinary symbol, and it represents that this identity is for nonbinary people. It’s orange, and the color orange here represents individuality. Therefore, this symbol represents one’s own strength and reaffirmation of viade attraction. Pink stripe: attraction to genders/identities related to femininity. Purple stripe: attraction to genders/identities related to androgyny. Blue stripe: attraction to genders/identities related to masculinity. Green stripe: attraction to genders/identities related to neutrality. Yellow stripe: attraction to genders/identities related to anything else (undefined qualities, xeninity, maveriquinity, in-between others on the list, and so on).
This identity and flag are inclusive of fluid/flux attractions and a-spec identities.
(it’s pronounced sorta like vee-ah-day or vee-ah-gee depending on accent, btw.)
O nome é a junção das palavras “fragmento” e “espectro”.
Esse gênero pode ser comparado à luz no sentido de cores. Assim como a luz branca divide-se em um espectro de cores, esse gênero é único a princípio, mas então ele se separada em diversos outros (todos diferentes, mas unidos formam esse único gênero). A pessoa pode sentir cada gênero separado, dois ou mais ao mesmo tempo, ou fluir entre eles. E assim como o espectro da luz, a pessoa pode vivenciar gêneros identificáveis (espectro visível) e também não-identificáveis (infravermelho, ultravioleta etc). Mesmo quando se separada, a pessoa ainda tem noção de que o gênero inicial ainda é existe, e também pode voltar a sentir apenas ele.
As cores na bandeira – ciano, amarelo e magenta – são as cores base nas impressoras e representam todas as cores unidas ou separadas via tinta. E branco, a união e divisão das cores via luz.
Conceito criado por mim. Nome e bandeira criades por @nbandproud.
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Gender label: Fraspe
The name is a fusion of the words “fragment” and “spectrum”.
This gender can be compared to light in terms of colors. Just like white light can be divided in a spectrum of colors, this gender exists by itself at first, but then it divides itself into many others (all different, but together they form this one gender). One can feel each gender individually, two or more at the same time, or flow among them. And again just like light, one can experience identifiable genders (visible spectrum) ou non-identifiable genders (infrared, ultraviolet, etc). Even when divided, one feels the initial gender still present, and may also “go back” to feeling only that gender.
The colors in the flag – cyan, yellow and magenta – are the base colors in printers and also represents all colors united or separated via ink. And white, union and division of colors via light.
Concept created by me. Name and flag created by @nbandproud.
O nome é a junção das palavras “fragmento” e “espectro”.
Esse gênero pode ser comparado à luz no sentido de cores. Assim como a luz branca divide-se em um espectro de cores, esse gênero é único a princípio, mas então ele se separada em diversos outros (todos diferentes, mas unidos formam esse único gênero). A pessoa pode sentir cada gênero separado, dois ou mais ao mesmo tempo, ou fluir entre eles. E assim como o espectro da luz, a pessoa pode vivenciar gêneros identificáveis (espectro visível) e também não-identificáveis (infravermelho, ultravioleta etc). Mesmo quando se separada, a pessoa ainda tem noção de que o gênero inicial ainda é existe, e também pode voltar a sentir apenas ele.
As cores na bandeira – ciano, amarelo e magenta – são as cores base nas impressoras e representam todas as cores unidas ou separadas via tinta. E branco, a união e divisão das cores via luz.
Conceito criado por mim. Nome e bandeira criades por @nbandproud.
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Gender label: Fraspe
The name is a fusion of the words “fragment” and “spectrum”.
This gender can be compared to light in terms of colors. Just like white light can be divided in a spectrum of colors, this gender exists by itself at first, but then it divides itself into many others (all different, but together they form this one gender). One can feel each gender individually, two or more at the same time, or flow among them. And again just like light, one can experience identifiable genders (visible spectrum) ou non-identifiable genders (infrared, ultraviolet, etc). Even when divided, one feels the initial gender still present, and may also “go back” to feeling only that gender.
The colors in the flag – cyan, yellow and magenta – are the base colors in printers and also represents all colors united or separated via ink. And white, union and division of colors via light.
Concept created by me. Name and flag created by @nbandproud.
Minigender: a meticulous gender miniature, a gender whose size has been reduced in small dimensions, which today can be seen as a replica. Similar to microgender and pixelgender, can be or not on demigender spectrum.
Miniabinary / Mininonbinary Pride Flag
Miniab or mininb (minienby): a meticulous nonbinary/abinary gender miniature, a (nin)gender whose size has been reduced in small dimensions, which today can be seen as a nonbinary/abinary replica.
Minigirl Pride Flag
Minigirl or miniwoman: a meticulous girl miniature, a fingender whose size has been reduced in small dimensions, which today can be seen as a girl replica.
Miniboy Pride Flag
Miniboy or miniman: a meticulous boy miniature, a mingender whose size has been reduced in small dimensions, which today can be seen as a boy replica.
Miniandrogyne Pride Flag
Miniandrogyne or minilin(gender): a meticulous androgyne miniature, a lingender whose size has been reduced in small dimensions, which today can be seen as a androgynous replica.
-Kau
So I didn’t coin the term sylvegender, but I noticed it lacked a flag so I decided to make one! Colors are based off the Pokemon Sylveon, which the gender is named for.
Sylvegender – A gender that evolves from starting a relationship (not necessarily romantic). Based on Sylveon.
That could still mean that you’re a trans guy. There are a lot of trans people who could live with being their assigned gender, since levels of dysphoria differ from person to person. But if you know you’d be better off as a guy, then there’s your answer right there! Knowing that you could deal with being a girl doesn’t mean you’re not a guy. 🙂
If its just your gender expression and not your actual gender that feels more masculine, then you might just be Gender Non-Conforming or Transexpressive.
Gender Non-Conforming: refers to people who do not follow other people’s ideas or stereotypes about how they should look or act based on their gender.
Transexpressive: similar to genderfluid, except instead of one’s gender changing, their gender expression changes while their gender stays static.
If you feel like it IS your gender and not just your presentation, then you can certainly send another ask and we’ll do our best to help you out. 🙂
idk if defining more subsets of grey(a)sexuality is. even useful, for folks, because yeah the safety and comfort and accuracy of grey vagueness. i chose “grey” for a lot of reasons
but as an exercise, to counter the “grey means low frequency” and demisexual as the only subset identity (which isn’t even always considered a subset but an overlapping set)…let’s explore some possible identities that might fall under a grey umbrella:
quoisexual / wtfsexual:
similar to how quoiromantic/wtfromantic often means romantic orientation and/or romantic attraction do not make sense for a person, instead sexual orientation and/or attraction does not make sense as a concept or an experience
can also mean someone for whom the experience of sexual attraction is confusing, someone who cannot tell if they experience sexual attraction or if what they experience is indeed sexual attraction (except, perhaps, through extensive abstract analysis, or through abstraction of a pattern of data sets acquired only through experimentation)
can also mean someone who disidentifies with the concept of sexual attraction altogether, as a social construct or as not applicable to themself or otherwise
can also be used instead of “questioning,” which indicates an ongoing search for a better term; quoisexual or wtfsexual instead indicates a troubled history with sexual orientation words/identities, and perhaps a frustration with searching, or finding such a search unhelpful; instead using quoisexual/wtfsexual as a more permanent, stable, unchanging, fixed point. ((this is the one that applies to me))
semisexual: ((i’ve seen this one around, like on the Demi Grace forums, but never a proper definition? the tags also seem small and undefined. so if this contradicts previous ones, or what people who identify as semisexual use it to mean, please disregard!! but this is my understanding and what i think would be useful, albeit still broad))
someone who may “qualify” as “technically” allosexual, but who finds asexuality and/or greyness a useful, integral, and/or relevant concept/identity, enough to warrant a word.
hyposexual: ((again, seen it around, mostly on Demi Grace, but never defined, and here is my interpretation)
most simply, someone who feels “less” sexual, enough to warrant a word.
perhaps someone who experiences sexual attraction with low frequency, or with low intensity, or at a level that could “technically” be allosexual but coupled with such a low sex drive and/or motivation/interest in pursuing it, that they find asexuality and/or greyness a useful, integral, and/or relevant concept/identity.
the key points for all of these are:
enough to warrant a word ((the key to addressing the “but this describes XX% large amount of people who don’t need this word” and “isn’t that already allosexual/etc” imo))
finds grey(a)ness and/or asexuality relevant, useful, and/or necessary to explain before explaining their sexuality
because that’s how these words work, is that they’re useful tools and they build on / modify / add to / rework current understandings
discussion!!
The last two I hadn’t heard of before but they’re great:) I wonder if they have flags? Or do I need to make one? Hehe
I coined a new gender term! It’s ludumgender, from the Latin word for game. It basically means a gender that feels like a video game, sort of distant, like you aren’t really a part of it, and it took a long quest to discover it. It can also be related to pixel aesthetics or for fictionkin whose kintype(s) are from a video game!
Thanks for the new term!
-Fy
I coined a new gender term! It’s ludumgender, from the Latin word for game. It basically means a gender that feels like a video game, sort of distant, like you aren’t really a part of it, and it took a long quest to discover it. It can also be related to pixel aesthetics or for fictionkin whose kintype(s) are from a video game!
Thanks for the new term!
-Fy
Mercplatonic: One can not pinpoint their platonic orientation for it is ever changing.
Aliquaplatonic: Experiencing platonic attraction only under certain circumstances.
Suptilic / Suptiliplatonic: a descriptor for when your orientation is strict (additionally static, solid and stable): not flexible, fluid, or in flux. Suptilis is a variation of the latin word meaning delicate, strict, fine, or exact.
Hyperplatonic: Exceedingly high platonic desire.
Platonicflux, Platoniflux, Aplflux, Aplatoniflux: someone who’s platonic orientation fluctuates but always stays on the aplatonic spectrum (ex. one day you’re demiplatonic, another day akoiplatonic, the next aplatonic, etc); or someone who’s platonic orientation fluctuates from, experiencing platonic attraction, some platonic attraction, & experiencing no platonic attraction (ex. from alloplatonic/zedplatonic to greyplatonic and omniaplatonic).
Neuro- An umbrella term for when your neurodivergent condition affects your orientation, but it can be used as a standalone identity. Similar concept to neurogender.
-vague: An orientation that is influenced, in whole or in part, by the person’s neurodivergence. Most commonly used as acevague/arovague.
Adfectu- An aspec identity influenced by neurodivergency.
I think you can use it as aegovague or autocorisvague, can also combine aegoneuro- and autochorisadfectu. Feel free to coin a more specific term.
Androx: a gender inbetween male and androgyne. Pronounced “an-drocks”.
Nonpuer or Nonvir: Someone who is not male at all in any way, shape, or form, but feels a strong connection to masculinity within their gender.
Mingender: Umbrella term for all genders masculine in nature. Also a term to refer to a gender that isn’t fully defined but definitely masculine, or a gender in which masculinity is its defining feature (but the gender is not binary male). May simply be used as “min”, ie. “my gender is min”.
Manugender: A nonbinary gender where one feels strong connections to masculinity.
Libramasculine: a gender identity where a person experiences little attachment to being masculine/male, but mostly agender.
Proxvir: a masculine gender similar to boy, but on a separate plane and off to itself.
Divigender: A feeling that one’s gender is split or divided due to a dissociative disorder.
Emotugender or Sentigender: A fluid or flux gender effected by emotions, mood, and state of mind. It is similar to Affectugender, but is not exclusively a neurogender.
Lingender: Umbrella term for all genders androgynous in nature. Also a term to refer to a gender that isn’t fully defined but definitely androgynous, or a gender in which androgyny is its defining feature. May simply be used as “lin”, ie. “my gender is lin”. Based on lin- (orientation), mixing the concepts of fingender and mingender (feminine and masculine in nature)
Hey there! That would still be Kinsexual, and you can use the kinsexual flag. That term was designed so that you could add whatever specific kintypes you’re attracted to onto it, so in your case it would be something like Homestuckkinsexual.
Welp. Gonna have to go with the better offer on this one. Looks like its staying. 😛
Some nonbinary people aren’t abinary (or not fully abinary). Abinary also encompasses anonbinary people.
Androgyne, xoy, xirl and ambonec people aren’t abinaries because they have binary-related genders, even if it’s partially. Agender boys for example are partially abinary(demiabinary) because they have an abinary gender.
When people express nonbinary as a monogender (neutrally gendered for example) then it could be considered abinary, hence multigender people say they are nonbinary and boy/girl, but can also say abinary and girl/boy.
Both are spectra and umbrella terms, non-binary is just more inclusive.
Gendermeh / Mehgender: Where you’re kinda cool with being called any gender, like whatever. You might not be that gender, you might not know your gender, but meh.
This doesn’t specify the indifference of pronouns.
-Kau
Azurian or achillean the best term for nonbinary mlm people, but I will add other terms you can identify as too:
Azurian (nblm/mlm) – nonbinary man attracted to men (read more about xoy and enboy terminology).
Viramoric / Vir- (nblm): “a somewhat-interchangeable words that both refer to attraction to men, exclusively or primarily.
Toric (nblm): used to describe a nonbinary person who is attracted to, interested in, or in a relationship with men/boys, exclusively or not. Toric can also be used to describe relationships between nonbinary people and men/boys.
Quadrisian – any non-binary person who likes men, either JUST men or men and other genders.
Achillean (mlm): A term to describe men, partial men, or male-aligned people who are attracted to other men, partial men, or male-aligned people.
Mascic / Ma- / Man-: (non-straight) attraction to men.
Gai / Strayt: for nonbinary people expressing their attraction as gay or straight but in a nonbinary way, such as nblnb, nblw or nblm.
And here is a flag for azurian:
Amicusplatonic is a subset of demiplatonic where you only develops attraction to those they are friends with.
So platonic/amical attraction to friends it’s like romantic attraction to romantic partners. You could be at friendships and not feeling any kind of amical attraction to your friends, not all relationships are mutual attracted.
-Kau
Triad: Defined as a polyamorous relationship/ union with exactly three people. In a true triad, all members are sexually and emotionally involved with every other member.
Atrinary or aternary: abinary genders that are completely unrelated to the gender trinary (such as quoigender, maverique, some aporagenders or most xenogenders).
While abinary encompasses agender and neutrois (null-gender,
genderless, neutral-ningender, gender-free or gendervoid) and nonbinary includes androgyne, atrinary people have gender(s) that are completely removed from the concept of masculinity/femininity/neutrality/genderlessness/androgyny or (fe)male/neutrois/agender.
Cowgirl: the colloquial term for a monogamous female who intentionally gets into relationships with males who are in polyamorous relationships. The female gets into these relationships with the goal of extracting the male from his other partners and securing him in a monogamous relationship.
Poly- Gay: a polysexual, polyromantic, polysensual or otherwise poly- who is gay in other form(s) of attraction; or when someone is poly- but their attraction leans towards the same gender. As in, they have a stronger attraction to the same gender, or become attracted easier to people of the same gender. Similar to homoflexible. Could be someone fluctuating between poly and gay, as in polyflexible, abro-, polyflux, -fluid or duo-.
Pan- Gay: a pansexual, panromantic, pansensual or otherwise pan- who is gay in other form(s) of attraction; or when someone is pan- but their attraction leans towards the same gender. As in, they have a stronger attraction to the same gender, or become attracted easier to people of the same gender. Similar to homoflexible.
Straightflux: a subset of ultric and monoflux, a straight person fluctuating attraction intensity. Also known as hetflux or duariflux (amplusic duaric).
Bi- Hetero-: flowing between bi and hetero/straight, such as duo-, abro- and -fluid orientations; or when you’re bi but your attraction leans towards the other gender. As in, you have a stronger attraction to the other gender, or become attracted easier to people of the other gender. Can also be someone who is bisexual, biromantic, bialterous or otherwise bi- and hetero- in other form(s) of attraction (i.e. a biaesthetic heterosexual or biplatonic heterosensuals).
See also heteroflexible, biflexible, ultric, duaric pluralian and amplusic heterace.
Cowboy: the colloquial term for a monogamous male who intentionally gets into relationships with females who are in polyamorous relationships. The male gets into these relationships with the goal of removing the female from her other partners and securing her in a monogamous relationship.
Non-trinary or non-ternary (NT): Any nonbinary gender identity which does not fit, fully or solely, within the trinary of male, female and neutrois/agender (neutral or non-existant gender) all the time.
Nontrinary is separated from atrinary (or aternary), so it encompasses multigenders of ternary genders, such as androgyne, bigender, neumale, trigender and ambonec, some people can describe nonternary as abinary with gender alignment. Also within the nonbinary spectrum and sometimes nonquadrinary or nonquaternary.
Unicorn: in the context of polyamory, this describes a woman who most likely does not exist.
For a woman to be a Unicorn she must be willing to have a sexual relationship with both the male and female in an existing relationship. However, she must not partake in the emotional aspect of the relationship OR do anything that may jeopardize the couple’s existing relationship.
Open Minded: to have an unrestricted and unbiased view on sexuality and life in general. People who are Open Minded will often blur the lines of sexual preference and will constantly be willing to try new things throughout their lives.
Free Love: A belief that sexual relationships are meant to be free from the shackles of commitment, love and marriage. A common vein of thought within the free love community is that marriage, as an institution, is outdated and imposes unnecessary obligation and constraint on the individuals within the marriage.
With the 11th of June (Pride Month!) being the day on the standard Pride Month calendar for Polyamory, I thought it’d be the best time to showcase Non-Monogamous flags that don’t get a lot of attention! There actually aren’t that many flags related to relationship orientations, so here are some that are already made but haven’t seen here on Tumblr. 🙂
Polygyny: polyamorous relationship where a man has relationships with multiple women
Note: Although FLDS and other religious polygamous relationships tend to be polygny, they just fall under the polygyny umbrella; the specific name for these relationships are “Plural Marriages”.
Its the other way around from what you described, but I’m guessing this is what you’re asking for.
Bi Gay: When you’re bi but your attraction leans towards the same gender. As in, you have a stronger attraction to the same gender, or become attracted easier to people of the same gender. Similar to homoflexible.
We specifically mean those that are, for lack of a better term, “intelligent lifeforms”. So, able to consciously make decisions. This could also include monsterkin.
That’s fair that there is this misunderstanding, though, as I did not specify that in the original post. I’ll have to remember to go back and do that, sorry for the confusion.
Well, anthro- means attraction to humans and terato- is attraction to monsters, so perhaps you can combine the two somehow? I don’t think there’s a current term for that otherwise.
Anon. You’re welcome to hate us all you want, and you can block us if you need to. But emotionally manipulative asks like this are not, and will never be, okay. And these sorts of asks can be especially traumatizing to some people.
If you’re in serious need of help, then please call a suicide hotline or get yourself to an ER. But regardless if you are serious or not, do not ever send an ask like this to anyone. It is incredibly wrong and inappropriate, and you seriously need to reevaluate why you thought it wasn’t.
I’ve been struggling with how to label my sexuality and romantic attraction so I decided to create a new set of terms and flags.
Rem = “Purpose” in Latin
remsexual – someone who has a sex drive, and finds themselves actively sexually attracted to other people. You can add prefixes to the beginning to specify the gender/s you are attracted to, for example, pan-remsexual or bi-remsexual. You could also shorten it down to panrem or birem.
This term is perhaps of little value but it might be useful to some.
rem-romantic/remantic – someone who has a desire for romantic relationships/romantic attraction, and finds themselves actively romantically attracted to people. You can add prefixes to the beginning to specify the gender/s you are attracted to, for example, pan-remantic or hetero-remantic.
This term is perhaps of little value but it might be useful to some.
aremsexual – someone who has a sex drive, but does not find themselves usually/actively attracted to other people sexually. They may occasionally be sexually attracted to other people, but it is very uncommon. . You can add prefixes to the beginning to specify the gender/s you are attracted to, for example, pan-aremsexual or homo-aremsexual. You can shorten it down to panarem or homoarem.
aremantic – someone who has a desire for romantic relationships/romantic attraction, but does not find themselves usually/actively attracted to people romantically. They may occasionally find themselves romantically attracted to others but it is very uncommon. You can add prefixes to the beginning to specify the gender/s you are attracted to, for example, hetero-aremantic or bi-aremantic.
A good combination term for being both remsexual and remantic would be “remian”, and “aremian” for those who are aremsexual and aremantic.
Gendervast: A gender that can be described by many different labels, but is only one gender itself. The gender is hard or impossible to describe with just one term. Similar to gendercollector but it isn’t fluid.
The flag colors are representative of varying gender experiences. The fuchsia is for feminine, purple for genders that are both masculine and feminine, blue for masculine genders, and the shades of green for neutral, genderless, and/or xenic genders.
Gendervast: A gender that can be described by many different labels, but is only one gender itself. The gender is hard or impossible to describe with just one term. Similar to gendercollector but it isn’t fluid.
The flag colors are representative of varying gender experiences. The fuchsia is for feminine, purple for genders that are both masculine and feminine, blue for masculine genders, and the shades of green for neutral, genderless, and/or xenic genders.
Omnia-/Pana-: NOT having fully attraction for anyone under ANY circumstances at ANY time, nor has any interest in any kind of affective activity. [can be also called as suptilic a-spec]
Omniace/Panace Pride Flag
Omniasexual/Panasexual/Omnasexual: NOT having fully sexual attraction for anyone under ANY circumstances at ANY time, nor has any interest in any kind of sexual activity.
Omniaro/Panaro Pride Flag
Omnaromantic/Panaromantic/Omniaromantic: NOT having fully romantic attraction for anyone under ANY circumstances at ANY time, nor has any interest in any kind of romantic activity.
Omnianalt/Pananalt Pride Flag
Omnianalterous/Pananalterous: NOT having fully alterous attraction for anyone under ANY circumstances at ANY time, nor has any interest in any kind of alterous activity. [this flag is different because of the gendervoid one]
Omniasensu/Panasensu Pride Flag
Omniasensual/Panasensual/Omnasexual: NOT having fully sensual attraction for anyone under ANY circumstances at ANY time, nor has any interest in any kind of sensual activity.
Omniapl/Panapl Pride Flag
Omniaplatonic/Panaplatonic/Omnaplatonic: NOT having fully platonic attraction for anyone under ANY circumstances at ANY time, nor has any interest in any kind of platonic activity.
Omniaqplatonic/Panaqplatonic Pride Flag
Omniaqueerplatonic/Panaquirkyrplatonic/Panaquasiplatonic: NOT having fully quasiplatonic attraction for anyone under ANY circumstances at ANY time, nor has any interest in any kind of queerplatonic activity.
Omnianthetic/Panansthetic Pride Flag
Omniasthetic/Panasthetic/Omnansthetic/Panansthetic: NOT having fully aesthetic attraction for anyone under ANY circumstances at ANY time, nor has any interest in any kind of aesthetic activity.
That’s definitely fair. I’ll try and keep this in mind, and hopefully those who coin terms will also see this and do the same. It wouldn’t be all that great to identify with a term you can’t pronounce.
An alternative to the lipstick lesbian flag. The colors are based off common lipstick palettes. This was made due to the fact that it’s recent come to light that the original maker of the original lipstick lesbian flag made extremely controversial remarks.
Flag maker: myself
-Vasilisa
Sadmanafsi: (pronounced sad-ma-naf-see) a state of being where you believe that due to a trauma you experienced in your life, your sexual attraction has split between physical attraction (what gets you “sexually excited” physically) and psychological attraction (what you have sexual fantasies about, what you might dream about, etc). The emphasis here is that there’s a sharp/distinct disconnect between your mental state of being and your physical state of being in regards to what you find sexually attractive
Pan- Lesbian: When you fluctuate between being lesbian and pan-, such as in abro-, duo- and -fluid orientations; When you’re pan but your attraction leans towards the lesbian side. As in, you have a stronger attraction to women, or become attracted easier to women. Similar to panflexible, homoflexible and lesbiflexible. Can be also a pansexual, panromantic, pan(queer)platonic or otherwise pan- who is lesbian in other form(s) of attraction.
Poly-/Ply Lesbian: Fluctuating between lesbian and poly, such as in abro-, duo- and other fluid orientations. When you’re poly but your attraction leans towards the lesbian side. As in, you have a stronger attraction to women, or become attracted easier to women. Similar to homoflexible, polyflexible and lesbiflexible. Can be also a polysexual, polyromantic, poly(quasi)platonic or otherwise poly- who is lesbian in other form(s) of attraction; or a woman who feels attraction to all genders but man, similar to iridian and nomasexual.
@the-dawn-prayer has redesigned the flags I think you might enjoy.
Enanteic refers to having attraction for people having the opposite gender (antigender) to yourself. This term does not mean relationships on different sides of the masculine-feminine split (duaric) or other complementary genders. for example, an enanteic rahugender person does not necessarily have attraction to ketugender people. Very similar to contraic but enanteique isn’t necessarily nonbinary.
Enanteian means identifying as the antigender(s) [opposed] from the AGAB (gender assigned at birth), similar to contragender and transgender, but not means necessarily trans (non)binary. The colors represent being the opposite of your assigned gender at birth (rose to turquoise) instead of having a gender on the opposite side of the masucline-feminine divide (pink to blue).
Both “enanteian” and “enanteic” derive from the greek term έναντι/ἔναντι, meaning opposite or against.
not gai or strayt related but it does fit the theme of nonbinary specific orientations~!
Worldgender:Having multiple genders with such complex relationships and subgenders that it feels like the genders make up an entire world or planet together, each gender affecting the biomes and other features of this world/planet.
A gender that feels as if it started out small, but has grown and replicated and now feels as if it is taking over various facets of your life. May fade away with time and never return, or fade away but come back later a bit different, or be something that’s a permanent aspect of your life.
Can be used on its own or in conjunction with another gender (viridaeboy, virusgirl, etc). Can also be used with a modifier in front of it (ex. genderplasma + viridae = viridaegenderplasma, virus + robogender = robovirusgender).
Monopluraflux (or plurimonaflux): genderfluid fluctuating between monogender, agender and plurigender, or a polygender switching monogenderflux, libraflux / agenderflux and plurigenderflux.
Kymenian, genderstatic or genderstill: polar opposite of genderfluid; consistent, unswitchable, unalterable and unchangeable gender(s). Used as suffix for polygender people who doesn’t shift between their genders, i.e. pangenderstatic, plurigender or bigenderstill. Can be genderflux or suptilian (genderstable).
Kymenian, genderstatic or genderstill: polar opposite of genderfluid; consistent, unswitchable, unalterable and unchangeable gender(s). Used as suffix for polygender people who doesn’t shift between their genders, i.e. pangenderstatic, plurigender or bigenderstill. Can be genderflux or suptilian (genderstable).
Arbinale (ala): abinary person attracted to abinary people. Abinary encompasses aporagender, agender, anonbinary, anongender and most a-prefixed genders but antigenders can also be included in the ala. Ala is in the nblnb umbrella too.
Nope, its a different thing. Strayt is like straight, but in a non-binary way. I don’t know of many blogs that talk about it except for @gai-strayt-alliance, so if you want to know more you should probably ask them since one of the mods identifies as strayt. 🙂
It’s Pride 2018 and to celebrate I’ve turned 100 Pride flags into color palettes cause I’m a slut for palette challenges and pride flags tbh. As usual, just put a character (or characters) in my ask box with a Pride Palette (or palettes) and I’ll be more than happy to draw it for you!
Artists are more than welcomed to reupload the palette image to your own blogs, please just don’t edit the image in any way. If I see a version with my name or stipulations removed, I will report it as stolen. 🙂
I also have no problem with Allies partaking in this, if they want to!
And as always: No queerphobes. TERFs/SWERFs/radfems, REGs, truscum/transmedicalists/exorsexists, intersexists or discourse of any kind. All bigotry and trolling will be blocked + deleted.
It’s Pride 2018 and to celebrate I’ve turned 100 Pride flags into color palettes cause I’m a slut for palette challenges and pride flags tbh. As usual, just put a character (or characters) in my ask box with a Pride Palette (or palettes) and I’ll be more than happy to draw it for you!
Artists are more than welcomed to reupload the palette image to your own blogs, please just don’t edit the image in any way. If I see a version with my name or stipulations removed, I will report it as stolen. 🙂
I also have no problem with Allies partaking in this, if they want to!
And as always: No queerphobes. TERFs/SWERFs/radfems, REGs, truscum/transmedicalists/exorsexists, intersexists or discourse of any kind. All bigotry and trolling will be blocked + deleted.
Contragender: Someone who deeply defies and identifies opposite or against everything or most things that they associate with their assigned gender (similar to enanteian but for trans people only) or antigender of their gender
assigned at birth
but not the other binary gender. Can be combined with relevant genders.
coining two new terms with flags – enanteian and enanteic. being enanteian means that you identify with the opposite gender (antigender) of your assigned gender at birth. the colors represent being the opposite of your assigned gender at birth (rose to turquoise) instead of having a gender on the opposite side of the masucline-feminine divide (pink to blue).
being enanteic refers to having attraction for people having the opposite gender (antigender) to yourself. this term does not mean relationships on different sides of the masculine-feminine split (duaric) or other complementary genders. for example, an enanteic rahugender person does not necessarily have attraction to ketugender people.
both “enanteian” and “enanteic” derive from the greek term έναντι/ἔναντι, meaning opposite or against.
coining two new terms with flags – enanteian and enanteic. being enanteian means that you identify with the opposite gender (antigender) of your assigned gender at birth. the colors represent being the opposite of your assigned gender at birth (rose to turquoise) instead of having a gender on the opposite side of the masucline-feminine divide (pink to blue).
being enanteic refers to having attraction for people having the opposite gender (antigender) to yourself. this term does not mean relationships on different sides of the masculine-feminine split (duaric) or other complementary genders. for example, an enanteic rahugender person does not necessarily have attraction to ketugender people.
both “enanteian” and “enanteic” derive from the greek term έναντι/ἔναντι, meaning opposite or against.
Diastimian or genderstable: when your gender intensity is firmly fixed, steady and immovable, polar opposite of genderflux. It can be fluid or static (suptilian).
Diastimian or genderstable: when your gender intensity is firmly fixed, steady and immovable, polar opposite of genderflux. It can be fluid or static (suptilian).
I don’t know of any specifically, but I know that a lot of individual artists who run online shops that sell pride merch would be willing to do custom orders for your gender! Most of them don’t have every identity listed since there are so many, but I know many would be willing to make it for you! 🙂
Birs- An orientation similar to Bi- but one feels as if their attraction is restless, always floating between.
Pixelgender: A subset of demigender when one gender is the smallest addressable element in an overall gender experience. Ex: A pixelboy would be a tiny bit “boy” but mostly something else.
an alternate term & flag for nonbinary people who love women, nonbinary people, and men! comes from the word universe, keeping in with the space-themed terms for nonbinary people. of course, a versian person could also i.d as pan-, but this term places emphasis on being of a nonbinary gender(s).
an alternate term & flag for nonbinary people who love women, nonbinary people, and men! comes from the word universe, keeping in with the space-themed terms for nonbinary people. of course, a versian person could also i.d as pan-, but this term places emphasis on being of a nonbinary gender(s).
I don’t have much in the way of attention span, so there hasn’t been any easy way to look through all the gender/sexuality definitions and things. Given that, feel free to correct me if I’m mistaken on something or if any of these sound familiar!
If they don’t, then I’d love to make some flags for them!
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>> Hepha-gender, Hephae-gender, Vulca-gender: an identity that you have or are working hard to forge piece by piece. You constantly apply yourself to the gender and build it up through your expression of it, to ensure that that’s the only way people will see you.
This label was thought of for my fiancé!
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>> Atomi-gender or gender-bomb: To be applied to any label. Your expression of your gender feels like a ticking time bomb. It consists of random periods of low-key expression, “silent” expression, confusion, or you otherwise “indifferent” to your default/typical gender expression, but very specific outside stimuli can set off a loud, fiery, all-encompassing urge to express your gender and let it consume you. It can last in bursts, or for days or weeks, but fall silent again afterwards. After the “bomb” happens, you may feel confusion, depression, emptiness, or a sense of being “fake”, or like you have no idea what happened. It’s largely intended for neurodivergent people.
I’ve found it’s similar to Spike/Burstgender, Pyrofluid, and I think there was a phoenix-related one but I can’t seem to find it.
They sound great to me! I’ll reblog in case anyone else might have any comment.
Enboy, Manby or Guyby (enby boy): polygender / gendervast of nonbinary and man (it could be either a plurigender &/or a monogender); a male-aligned (solarian) nonbinary man; a multiboy having abinary gender(s), e.g. a maverique boi or a neumale (neutrois male).
See also: xoy/xuy, xenboy/xenoboy, bxy/gxy. ~ kau
Fallegender:A gender that is only felt softly, like the gentle rustle of leaves in autumn
Its no problem at all, we love doing what we do. 🙂
So MOGAI is an acronym that stands for Marginalized Orientations, Gender Alignments, and Intersex. Its an alternative, all-inclusive term to use for those that are LGBTQIAP+. As you can see, you could keep adding letters to the acronym, but it would just get way too long and wouldn’t be able to include everyone who belongs in the community at a reasonable length. So that’s what other acronyms, including MOGAI, were made for.
So essentially MOGAI just means the same thing LGBT+ means to other people. It does not mean people who have more obscure identities. It just may be more likely that those who use the acronym are more inclusive since we don’t use an acronym that only includes 4 to 8 identities our of the many many that there actually is, but that’s not always the case. Its just a personal preference to use an acronym that doesn’t need the addition of letters to it.
If you see the term being used like “Mogai”, and as a noun, then you’re most likely not seeing it used by those people who actually use the acronym since its obviously not a noun. This usage is incorrect and is most often used to describe anyone the person using it thinks does not belong in the community.
I hope that answers your question, and thanks for stopping by!
Aduntiflex (from the Latin “adunticus,” meaning associate.) — a fluid gender identity in which a person has a fluctuating gender intensity
Example: very femme one day, less femme another, etc.
Can be used with multiple gender identities (femme <-> nb, masc <-> nb, etc.)
Symbolism:
Pink— feminine
Blue— masculine
White— non binary
Thinner white stripes—shifting intensity
Oooo nice! Thanks for the submission. 😀
-Fy
i didn’t really like the harsh colours of the polyam flag, so i made my own style of them!
Light red represents joy, sexuality, passion, sensitivity, and love.
Light blue is associated with health, healing, tranquility, understanding, and softness.
Light purple evokes romantic and nostalgic feelings.
Olive green is the traditional color of peace.
Light yellow is associated with intellect, freshness, and joy.
Ludum: (pronounced “loo-dum”) this is for describing a relationship type, NOT a sexual orientation or gender. Ludum relationships are those that “appear” like a straight couple (one person looks like a boy and the other looks like a girl), but in reality both (or only 1) partners do not identify as a cis girl/boy. However, at first glance, they “pass as a straight couple.”
This word was proposed as an alternative to “heterosexual-esque” since many couples “pass” as a straight couple (whether purposely meaning to or not), but the 2 people in the relationship (or 1 person in the relationship) does NOT identify as a cisgender individual.
Some individuals don’t like their relationship being labeled as “straight”, so this is an alternative for them. This can only be used if one or both partners in the relationship DO NOT identify as cisgender
Hi there! That’s definitely understandable, there are quite a lot of terms and new ones are often coined! However, due to the large amount of terms, I can’t exactly just post every single one on one ask lol. But! I do have a couple resources for you to scroll. The ones who run @ask-pride-color-schemes have some very good Google docs that anyone who wants to start learning can scroll through.
Here is the one for genders, and here is the one for orientations.
And if you have any specific questions, I’m sure any LGBT+/MOGAI blogs would love to help! 😀
I hope everyone has a good pride month! And that we’ll all be able to participate in a pride parade (fingers crossed…!)
If you run a shop that sells pride merch, you can tag us in a post with your merch we will gladly reblog it! This is especially important if you sell stuff related to more obscure identities, since there won’t be as many options for people with these identities and I’m sure they’d love to show their pride as much as everyone else! 😀
And of course, we at Beyond-MOGAI-Pride-Flags will continue to post LGBTQIAP+/MOGAI content! I will re-open asks soon.
Pride month (June) is approaching, and for years I’ve been using this calendar, but I think it needed a revamp. So here’s mine! I tried to include the broadest identities so everyone could be included as much as possible, as well as the politically biggest groups. I also included days for those who are celebrating pride and are also POC, and/or are also neurodivergent and/or disabled, because these are significant intersections that deserve recognition. Feel free to celebrate these days with me, use the other calendar, use both, use neither, make your own days, whatever you want. Happy Pride!
Pride month (June) is approaching, and for years I’ve been using this calendar, but I think it needed a revamp. So here’s mine! I tried to include the broadest identities so everyone could be included as much as possible, as well as the politically biggest groups. I also included days for those who are celebrating pride and are also POC, and/or are also neurodivergent and/or disabled, because these are significant intersections that deserve recognition. Feel free to celebrate these days with me, use the other calendar, use both, use neither, make your own days, whatever you want. Happy Pride!
Duogender: feeling that one’s gender is a combination of male and female as a result of being intersex. For use by intersex people only. Similar to intergender.
TMLTW (trans man loving trans woman): a trans man attracted to trans women, primarily or exclusively; transcentered relationship(s) between men and women.
TWLTM (trans woman loving trans man): a trans woman attracted to trans men, primarily or exclusively; transcentered relationship(s) between men and women.
TWLTW (trans woman loving trans woman)/TW4TW or TFLTF/TF4TF (transfem for transfem): a trans woman/transfeminine folk attracted to trans women/transfeminine folks, primarily or exclusively; transcentered relationship(s) between women. Also called MTF4MTF/M2F4M2F and MTFLMTF/M2FLM2F.
ILI (intersex loving intersex): an intersex person attracted to intersex people, primarily or exclusively; an intercentered relationship (between intersex people) or intersex individuals who celebrates intersex love.
TLT (trans loving trans): a trans person attracted to trans people, primarily or exclusively; a transcentered relationship (between trans people) or transgender individuals who celebrates transgender love.
Delusogender: a subset of posigender (a gender identity that is influenced by the positive symptoms of a schizophrenic person) in which one’s gender is influenced by one’s delusions. Strictly for schizophrenic/psychotic/delusional people. This can be a multigender identity if your delusogender is made of multiple genders itself.
Flag meaning: – Black Outline: The disconnect between one’s delusions and reality. – Dark Fuchsia: All types of delusions – Fuchsia: Bizarre Delusions – Red: Paranoid Delusions – Orange: Delusions of Grandeur – Yellow: Divine/Godly Delusions – Teal: Reality and Nihilistic Delusions – Blue: Truman Show Delusions – Dark Blue: Persecutory Delusions
The [gender] part of delusigender can be replaced by any gender term one feels they may identify with in their delusional state, as in delusoboy, delusogirl, delusononbinary, and so on.
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Holidelusogender: a subset of delusogender in which one’s gender is affected by delusions of being divine, holy, demonic, angelic, or godly.
Flag Meanings: – Black Outline: The disconnect between one’s delusions and reality. – Fuchsia: Malevolent Beings, Malevolent Gods, Demonic Beings, Hellish Beings – Orange: Beings that are partially malevolent and partially benevolent – Gold: Holiness, Divinity – Pale Yellow: Benevolent Beings, Benevolent Gods, Angelic Beings, Heavenly Beings – Cream: Immortality, Existence, Higher Being – Teal: Power – Blue: Strong emotions related to one’s divinity – Navy: Heavens
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Grandelusogender: a subset of delusogender in which one’s gender is influenced by delusions of grandeur.
Flag Meaning: – Black Outline: The disconnect between one’s delusions and reality. – The bright colors are meant to evoke feelings associated with grandeur.
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Paradelusogender: a subset of delusogender in which one’s gender is influenced by paranoid delusions.
Flag Meaning: – Black Outline: The disconnect between one’s delusions and reality. – Shades of red and grey are meant to represent the feelings evoked by paranoia.
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Delusofluid (doesn’t have a flag yet): a subset of posigender in which one’s gender changes as they experience delusions. This can be fluid through delusogenders, or simply changing between experiencing a delusogender and not experiencing one.
Opalian: describes an individual who is mlm, nblm, nblnb, and mlnb.
The official flag for opalian has finally been chosen and is pictured above! This flag is a tweaked version of the runner-up from our original poll and was chosen because the others too closely resembled the nblm flag.
All flags and symbols are free to use! If you reblogged the original post with three flags, please reblog this one to spread the officially chosen flag! Also feel free to tag this blog in anything you make with this flag!
[Image description: two digitally rendered pride flags. Both have horizontal stripes in the following colors, from top to bottom: lavender, light green, white, yellow, light orange. The second image has an overlay of a black symbol in the center. The symbol has a combination of the male (mars) and nonbinary (asterisk) symbols in the middle interlocking with a nonbinary symbol on the left and a male symbol on the right. End description.]
Opalian: describes an individual who is mlm, nblm, nblnb, and mlnb.
The official flag for opalian has finally been chosen and is pictured above! This flag is a tweaked version of the runner-up from our original poll and was chosen because the others too closely resembled the nblm flag.
All flags and symbols are free to use! If you reblogged the original post with three flags, please reblog this one to spread the officially chosen flag! Also feel free to tag this blog in anything you make with this flag!
[Image description: two digitally rendered pride flags. Both have horizontal stripes in the following colors, from top to bottom: lavender, light green, white, yellow, light orange. The second image has an overlay of a black symbol in the center. The symbol has a combination of the male (mars) and nonbinary (asterisk) symbols in the middle interlocking with a nonbinary symbol on the left and a male symbol on the right. End description.]
Ninx/Neutrxl (neutral-x or neutral-agender): A gender that is both neutral-gender/ningender and agender/no gender. You can be a neutrally gendered and agender/no gender at the same time, go between them, or fluctuate between feeling neutral and not feeling gender.
Agender Neutral (or neu-agender): Agender individuals find that they have no gender identity, however, an agender neutral has some connection to neutrality/neutralhood or falling between agender and neutrally gendered.
Neutragender (or neutrois-x): A gender that is both neutrois and agender/no gender. You can be a neutrois and agender/no gender at the same time, go between them, or fluctuate between feeling neutral-gender and not feeling gender.
Agender Neutrois Pride Flag
Agender Neutrois (or neutrois-agender): can fall between agender and neutrois, or find that they have no gender identity, however, an agender neutrois has some connection to neutroishood/neutroisity.
With pride month coming up quick, here’s a pride calendar!
-Fy
With pride month coming up quick, here’s a pride calendar!
-Fy
Ok so uh…
I’m a zodiacgender, specifically Sagittarius, and I was wondering if there is a flag for that?????
Sagittariusgender: A very unique and independent identity that refuses to be anywhere near the binary spectrum.
-Fy
Ok so uh…
I’m a zodiacgender, specifically Sagittarius, and I was wondering if there is a flag for that?????
Sagittariusgender: A very unique and independent identity that refuses to be anywhere near the binary spectrum.
-Fy
Navu-: An orientation where you have 1 or more of both ace and a non-ace orientation(s) but yet being not ace.
Thanks for the submission!
-Fy
That sounds like the closest fit, although I think coni- is for anyone regardless if they are cis or trans. You could run the term by your friend and see if she feels like it would fit her.
Edit: Although we do not condone cis people using terms to denote their attraction to trans people, the term does exist.
Atracti-/Attracti-: feeling attracted to beautiful and attractive people.
Atractisexual Pride Flag
Attractisexual: sexual attraction to beautiful and attractive people.
Atractisensual Pride Flag
Attractisensual: sensual attraction to beautiful and attractive people.
Atractiromantic Pride Flag
Attractiromantic: romantic attraction to beautiful and attractive people.
Atractiplatonic Pride Flag
Attractiplatonic: platonic attraction to beautiful and attractive people.
Atractialterous Pride Flag
Attractialterous: alterous attraction to beautiful and attractive people.
Atractiqueerplatonic Pride Flag
Attractiquirkyplatonic/Attractiqueerplatonic/Atractiquasiplatonic/Attractiquasiplatonic/Atractiquirkyplatonic: quasiplatonic attraction to beautiful and attractive people.
Atractiaesthetic Pride Flag
Attractisthetic/Atractisthetic/Attractiaesthetic: aesthetic attraction to beautiful and attractive people.
Holosexual: sexually attracted to holographic things.
Holoromantic Pride Flag
Holoromantic: romantically attracted to holographic things.
Holoalterous Pride Flag
Holoalterous: alterous attraction to holographic things.
Holosensual Pride Flag
Holosensual: sensual attraction to holographic things.
Holoplatonic
Pride Flag
Holoplatonic: platonically attracted to holographic things.
Holoqueerplatonic Pride Flag
Holoquasiplatonic: qplatonic attraction to holographic things.
Holoaesthetic Pride Flag
Holosthetic: aesthetically attracted to holographic things.
-Kau
It could be a nonbinary man with feminine feelings, a lunarian (woman-aligned) neumale femboy or a demifeminine enboy. I will put some terms that could fit:
Fingender: Umbrella term for all genders feminine in nature. Also a term to refer to a gender that isn’t fully defined but definitely feminine, or a gender in which femininity is its defining feature (but the gender is not binary female). May simply be used as “fin”, ie. “my gender is fin”.
Femboy: A male that may present himself as a female, or dress in feminine clothing.
Beyond MOGAI Pride Flags 