I honestly don’t. A lot of lesser known identities just aren’t really recognized in most media at the moment (not to mention the lack of even the more known identities in media!). All I can think of is maybe check out @diversegaminglists for video games. I know they have some listed that have non-binary characters. But unfortunately I don’t really know of much else.
If any of our followers know, please say so for this anon! 🙂
You can definitely make your own, but there aren’t really any for attraction to a specific character just as there aren’t really any for attraction to a specific person.
Well not all of it is remembering. Sometimes we have to do some research to find the right gender or orientation or flag. But after running this blog for a couple years now, and following blogs like it before I made it, you kind of pick up on some of it lol
Definitely not fake or weird. 🙂 That would be objectum-! And you can use any attraction suffix to denote which form of attraction you feel towards objects (so objectumromantic, objectumalterous, etc.)
Akoi-/Akoine-/Apo-/Lith-/Akoin-: Feeling attraction, but having no desire to have interactions or have feelings reciprocated, or a person who feels a particular kind of attraction, which fades if it is reciprocated or if they enter a relationship with the person they are attracted to.
I’m not sure how to describe those images, so click here for a list with most of these (with sources). The ones that aren’t there are mostly the ones based on people with binary genders, or nonbinary people in general:
men attracted at least to men = achillean
men attracted at least to nonbinary people = astroidian or adonic
men attracted at least to women = duaric
nonbinary people attracted at least to men = toric or quadrisian
nonbinary people attracted at least to nonbinary people = enbian
nonbinary people attracted at least to women = trixic or orbisian
women attracted at least to men = duaric
women attracted at least to nonbinary people = asterian or maedic
women attracted at least to women = sapphic
How to use:
1) Think about what your gender entails. For example, nonbinary woman.
2) Go to the line or one of the lines that specifies the gender you have. For nonbinary woman, you can go to nonbinary > woman or to woman > nonbinary. Both lines are the same.
3) Think about what your gender-based attraction or what you want to reveal about it entails. For example, nonbinary people and women.
4) Look for the column or columns that specify that attraction. In this case, again, you’ll have to look for either the nonbinary > woman column or the woman > nonbinary column.
5) See where the line and column cross! In this example, it should be iridian (nblnb, nblw, wlnb and wlw).
Remember you can use broader labels too! So if you are iridian, for instance, you can also use sapphic, enbian, and so on, if you want.
But how can you be both nonbinary and a man/a woman/a man and a woman?
Some nonbinary people may consider themselves one or both binary genders besides being nonbinary because:
They have multiple genders (at the same time or not), and one or some of them are binary or binary-adjacent; (examples: a person is trigender and their genders are man, woman and neutrois, or a person is genderfluid and their gender changes between agender and woman)
They have a single gender connected to one or both binary genders even if those genders aren’t binary; (examples: a person has a single gender that is a mix of maverique and woman, or a person is a proxvir, which means they have a gender similar to man but different in some way)
They have a certain connection to one or both binary genders because of presentation, pronouns/titles, desired transition, or other characteristics. (examples: a person is agender but doesn’t mind being treated as a man in general, or a person is dulcigender but has a connection to being a woman for desiring a physical transition similar to a trans woman)
But how can you be both a man and a woman without being nonbinary?
A nonbinary person may consider themselves both a man and a woman and prefer an identity that only talks about them being both a man and a woman.
A person who is both a man and a woman may also not want to identify as nonbinary for any reason.
But all those labels are too complicated/hard to remember! Why not just use ____?
You may not use them if you don’t want to, but there are obviously people who want to use those labels, or otherwise there wouldn’t be so much of them.
For those asking if there is a term for their “someone loving someone” attraction, if it isn’t in these tables then it probably doesn’t exist yet and you should coin one!!
-Fy
I really rather like this, so I made you all a simplified version! Some of the rows and columns are repeated in the original, so that meant I could change it from a 12×12 grid to 7×7 without losing any of the original information
Feel free to use this. No need to credit me (unless you want to).
Oooh, that’s nice! Thanks!
Just note (and I’m including @beyond-mogai-pride-flags here) that those terms are not all that exist anymore. I didn’t make an updated version yet because it’s too much work to redo the whole post just because of a few terms, but the version I have on my computer right now is this:
New terms are always being coined, so I’m not even sure if this is complete as of now. I recommend not trusting any sort of masterpost when researching whether a label exists or not before coining something; always search for relevant terminology on Tumblr in general and on relevant blogs instead.
That’s a very good point, a lot of these terms are very new and newer ones are always being made to fill the empty spaces. So its definitely a good place to start at least. 🙂
I’m not sure how to describe those images, so click here for a list with most of these (with sources). The ones that aren’t there are mostly the ones based on people with binary genders, or nonbinary people in general:
men attracted at least to men = achillean
men attracted at least to nonbinary people = astroidian or adonic
men attracted at least to women = duaric
nonbinary people attracted at least to men = toric or quadrisian
nonbinary people attracted at least to nonbinary people = enbian
nonbinary people attracted at least to women = trixic or orbisian
women attracted at least to men = duaric
women attracted at least to nonbinary people = asterian or maedic
women attracted at least to women = sapphic
How to use:
1) Think about what your gender entails. For example, nonbinary woman.
2) Go to the line or one of the lines that specifies the gender you have. For nonbinary woman, you can go to nonbinary > woman or to woman > nonbinary. Both lines are the same.
3) Think about what your gender-based attraction or what you want to reveal about it entails. For example, nonbinary people and women.
4) Look for the column or columns that specify that attraction. In this case, again, you’ll have to look for either the nonbinary > woman column or the woman > nonbinary column.
5) See where the line and column cross! In this example, it should be iridian (nblnb, nblw, wlnb and wlw).
Remember you can use broader labels too! So if you are iridian, for instance, you can also use sapphic, enbian, and so on, if you want.
But how can you be both nonbinary and a man/a woman/a man and a woman?
Some nonbinary people may consider themselves one or both binary genders besides being nonbinary because:
They have multiple genders (at the same time or not), and one or some of them are binary or binary-adjacent; (examples: a person is trigender and their genders are man, woman and neutrois, or a person is genderfluid and their gender changes between agender and woman)
They have a single gender connected to one or both binary genders even if those genders aren’t binary; (examples: a person has a single gender that is a mix of maverique and woman, or a person is a proxvir, which means they have a gender similar to man but different in some way)
They have a certain connection to one or both binary genders because of presentation, pronouns/titles, desired transition, or other characteristics. (examples: a person is agender but doesn’t mind being treated as a man in general, or a person is dulcigender but has a connection to being a woman for desiring a physical transition similar to a trans woman)
But how can you be both a man and a woman without being nonbinary?
A nonbinary person may consider themselves both a man and a woman and prefer an identity that only talks about them being both a man and a woman.
A person who is both a man and a woman may also not want to identify as nonbinary for any reason.
But all those labels are too complicated/hard to remember! Why not just use ____?
You may not use them if you don’t want to, but there are obviously people who want to use those labels, or otherwise there wouldn’t be so much of them.
For those asking if there is a term for their “someone loving someone” attraction, if it isn’t in these tables then it probably doesn’t exist yet and you should coin one!!
-Fy
I really rather like this, so I made you all a simplified version! Some of the rows and columns are repeated in the original, so that meant I could change it from a 12×12 grid to 7×7 without losing any of the original information
Feel free to use this. No need to credit me (unless you want to).
Oooh, that’s nice! Thanks!
Just note (and I’m including @beyond-mogai-pride-flags here) that those terms are not all that exist anymore. I didn’t make an updated version yet because it’s too much work to redo the whole post just because of a few terms, but the version I have on my computer right now is this:
New terms are always being coined, so I’m not even sure if this is complete as of now. I recommend not trusting any sort of masterpost when researching whether a label exists or not before coining something; always search for relevant terminology on Tumblr in general and on relevant blogs instead.
That’s a very good point, a lot of these terms are very new and newer ones are always being made to fill the empty spaces. So its definitely a good place to start at least. 🙂
Gendergaz: anyone who isn’t solely fluidflux or stablestatic; a genderness that isn’t liquid or solid; not fluctuating gender intensity OR gender identity. Umbrella term for gendermud, genderfumy, gendersublime and some gendersliders, but not genderfusion/gendermelt. Gendergaz is in
(demi)suptilian & (demi)amplusian spectra.
Usually genderflux and genderfluid people specifying they aren’t fluidflux, would be called fluxtatic/stillflux or flextable/fluidstable. But there are gendersublime people or fumyslip/mudfumy, combination of flextable/fluidstable and stillflux/fluxtatic/statiflux, respectively called gendermud and genderfumy.
Stablestaticstable: solidgender, genderstill/static and genderstable at once. Fluxfluid/fluidflux (genderfluix/fliux): genderliquid. Coined in @arco-pluris. Gendersublime: genderfumy and genderslip/mud at once, one side is static but fluxing and the other is fluid and stable (fluidstable), similar to [gender]slider.
Not be confused with gender sublimation or gendergas.
Anisosexual Masc Variation
Having attraction to typically masculine identities (you also have a masculine identity), RARELY experiencing attraction for others (1-10% of all the people you’ve been sexually attracted to).
Anisosexual Fem Variation
Having attraction to typically feminine identities (you also have a feminine identity), RARELY experiencing attraction for others (1-10% of all the people you’ve been sexually attracted to).
I’m not sure how to describe those images, so click here for a list with most of these (with sources). The ones that aren’t there are mostly the ones based on people with binary genders, or nonbinary people in general:
men attracted at least to men = achillean
men attracted at least to nonbinary people = astroidian or adonic
men attracted at least to women = duaric
nonbinary people attracted at least to men = toric or quadrisian
nonbinary people attracted at least to nonbinary people = enbian
nonbinary people attracted at least to women = trixic or orbisian
women attracted at least to men = duaric
women attracted at least to nonbinary people = asterian or maedic
women attracted at least to women = sapphic
How to use:
1) Think about what your gender entails. For example, nonbinary woman.
2) Go to the line or one of the lines that specifies the gender you have. For nonbinary woman, you can go to nonbinary > woman or to woman > nonbinary. Both lines are the same.
3) Think about what your gender-based attraction or what you want to reveal about it entails. For example, nonbinary people and women.
4) Look for the column or columns that specify that attraction. In this case, again, you’ll have to look for either the nonbinary > woman column or the woman > nonbinary column.
5) See where the line and column cross! In this example, it should be iridian (nblnb, nblw, wlnb and wlw).
Remember you can use broader labels too! So if you are iridian, for instance, you can also use sapphic, enbian, and so on, if you want.
But how can you be both nonbinary and a man/a woman/a man and a woman?
Some nonbinary people may consider themselves one or both binary genders besides being nonbinary because:
They have multiple genders (at the same time or not), and one or some of them are binary or binary-adjacent; (examples: a person is trigender and their genders are man, woman and neutrois, or a person is genderfluid and their gender changes between agender and woman)
They have a single gender connected to one or both binary genders even if those genders aren’t binary; (examples: a person has a single gender that is a mix of maverique and woman, or a person is a proxvir, which means they have a gender similar to man but different in some way)
They have a certain connection to one or both binary genders because of presentation, pronouns/titles, desired transition, or other characteristics. (examples: a person is agender but doesn’t mind being treated as a man in general, or a person is dulcigender but has a connection to being a woman for desiring a physical transition similar to a trans woman)
But how can you be both a man and a woman without being nonbinary?
A nonbinary person may consider themselves both a man and a woman and prefer an identity that only talks about them being both a man and a woman.
A person who is both a man and a woman may also not want to identify as nonbinary for any reason.
But all those labels are too complicated/hard to remember! Why not just use ____?
You may not use them if you don’t want to, but there are obviously people who want to use those labels, or otherwise there wouldn’t be so much of them.
For those asking if there is a term for their “someone loving someone” attraction, if it isn’t in these tables then it probably doesn’t exist yet and you should coin one!!
-Fy
I really rather like this, so I made you all a simplified version! Some of the rows and columns are repeated in the original, so that meant I could change it from a 12×12 grid to 7×7 without losing any of the original information.
Feel free to use this. No need to credit me (unless you want to).
I’m not sure how to describe those images, so click here for a list with most of these (with sources). The ones that aren’t there are mostly the ones based on people with binary genders, or nonbinary people in general:
men attracted at least to men = achillean
men attracted at least to nonbinary people = astroidian or adonic
men attracted at least to women = duaric
nonbinary people attracted at least to men = toric or quadrisian
nonbinary people attracted at least to nonbinary people = enbian
nonbinary people attracted at least to women = trixic or orbisian
women attracted at least to men = duaric
women attracted at least to nonbinary people = asterian or maedic
women attracted at least to women = sapphic
How to use:
1) Think about what your gender entails. For example, nonbinary woman.
2) Go to the line or one of the lines that specifies the gender you have. For nonbinary woman, you can go to nonbinary > woman or to woman > nonbinary. Both lines are the same.
3) Think about what your gender-based attraction or what you want to reveal about it entails. For example, nonbinary people and women.
4) Look for the column or columns that specify that attraction. In this case, again, you’ll have to look for either the nonbinary > woman column or the woman > nonbinary column.
5) See where the line and column cross! In this example, it should be iridian (nblnb, nblw, wlnb and wlw).
Remember you can use broader labels too! So if you are iridian, for instance, you can also use sapphic, enbian, and so on, if you want.
But how can you be both nonbinary and a man/a woman/a man and a woman?
Some nonbinary people may consider themselves one or both binary genders besides being nonbinary because:
They have multiple genders (at the same time or not), and one or some of them are binary or binary-adjacent; (examples: a person is trigender and their genders are man, woman and neutrois, or a person is genderfluid and their gender changes between agender and woman)
They have a single gender connected to one or both binary genders even if those genders aren’t binary; (examples: a person has a single gender that is a mix of maverique and woman, or a person is a proxvir, which means they have a gender similar to man but different in some way)
They have a certain connection to one or both binary genders because of presentation, pronouns/titles, desired transition, or other characteristics. (examples: a person is agender but doesn’t mind being treated as a man in general, or a person is dulcigender but has a connection to being a woman for desiring a physical transition similar to a trans woman)
But how can you be both a man and a woman without being nonbinary?
A nonbinary person may consider themselves both a man and a woman and prefer an identity that only talks about them being both a man and a woman.
A person who is both a man and a woman may also not want to identify as nonbinary for any reason.
But all those labels are too complicated/hard to remember! Why not just use ____?
You may not use them if you don’t want to, but there are obviously people who want to use those labels, or otherwise there wouldn’t be so much of them.
For those asking if there is a term for their “someone loving someone” attraction, if it isn’t in these tables then it probably doesn’t exist yet and you should coin one!!
-Fy
I really rather like this, so I made you all a simplified version! Some of the rows and columns are repeated in the original, so that meant I could change it from a 12×12 grid to 7×7 without losing any of the original information.
Feel free to use this. No need to credit me (unless you want to).
Topazian-person who is male and female and loves nonbinary people only.
Colours on flag represent both being male and female and loving enbies and topaz colours(light blue, pink, purpleish red, yellowish brown and yellow).
Both flag and term coined by me!
-Kau
Here you go anon:
Borearomantic
Borearomantic: having an exception to your usual romantic orientation. Usually revolves around a single person. See also: uni-, amplusic and -flexible.
~Kau
Here you go anon:
Borearomantic
Borearomantic: having an exception to your usual romantic orientation. Usually revolves around a single person. See also: uni-, amplusic and -flexible.
~Kau
Last one!! This is the alternative flag I did for Comromantic since I also identify as that and I didn’t like the original flag. The color meanings are:
Brown – Comfort (as in we’re comfortable not being specific about our identity)
Orange – Independent (from specific terms)
Light Blue – Freedom (from specific terms too!)
Dark Blue – Honesty!
I hope you like it! Thank you!!
Looks good! Thanks for the submission!
-Fy
I’m almost done submitting! Here’s an alternative flag I did for Comsexual. I use that term to refer to myself and I didn’t really like the original flags. The color meanings of the flag are:
Red – Passion
Pink – Love
Light Blue – Freedom (from any specific term)
Dark Blue – Honesty (about our identity)
I’ll also submit the flag I did for Comromantic in a minute! Thank you!
Great, thanks so much!
-Fy
Hi, it’s me again! Sorry if I am spamming but just now I figured out how to submit the flags I did. Here’s a more polished version of the alternative polyamory flag. I don’t remember the person that did the original, i’m Sorry. I hope you like it!
No problem at all, we always welcome submissions!
-Fy
Hello! I would like to submit ah antigender flag based on the one that the user aceallies did. I really liked the flag however I wanted to make a version that looked more like the usual pride flags we have. I also followed what the user mogai-ringo had proposed. Thank you!!
Thanks for the submission!
-Fy
Hello! I would like to submit ah antigender flag based on the one that the user aceallies did. I really liked the flag however I wanted to make a version that looked more like the usual pride flags we have. I also followed what the user mogai-ringo had proposed. Thank you!!
Straight Lesbian (straightbian): being a straight man and lesbian woman, fluidly or simultaneously. So basically femaric girlboy/male-female/boygirl individuals (ambigender/binaryfluid), experiencing both manhood and womanhood while attracted to women.
See also: larimarian (mlw wlw), orbisian/trixic (nblw), feminamoric romeric (diamoric mlw), duaric sapphic, woma(n)-, gyne-/gyno-, fem-/fin- and calderaic (gai strayt).
Integragender or meldgender: having multiple genders and one of them matches the AGAB (gender assigned at birth), being cis trans as a result; someone who is trans cis.
[x][x] human rights [x] QPOC anfem (anarcha-feminist) queer anarchism aspec/AVEN triangle rainbow awareness ribbon [x] bi neurodivergent polyamory [x][x][x] nonmono(amory) free love [x] therian otherkin otherhearted [x][x] intersex (intersections) [x][x] pan ply straight ally BPOC/black LGBTQIAPNO+ [x]
IMOGA or MOGAI: intersex, marginalized orienation and gender alignment; MOGII: intersexualities, marginalized orientations and gender identities.
I designed these flags specifically for IMOGA people identifying as gay, queer, trans, intersex, POC and/or LGBT+. But anyone can use, it’s free for allies and the world (and extraplanet, out of the biosphere).
[x][x] human rights [x] QPOC anfem (anarcha-feminist) queer anarchism aspec/AVEN triangle rainbow awareness ribbon [x] bi neurodivergent polyamory [x][x][x] nonmono(amory) free love [x] therian otherkin otherhearted [x][x] intersex (intersections) [x][x] pan ply straight ally BPOC/black LGBTQIAPNO+ [x]
IMOGA or MOGAI: intersex, marginalized orienation and gender alignment; MOGII: intersexualities, marginalized orientations and gender identities.
I designed these flags specifically for IMOGA people identifying as gay, queer, trans, intersex, POC and/or LGBT+. But anyone can use, it’s free for allies and the world (and extraplanet, out of the biosphere).
The only naturism / naturalist / nudism pride flag I know:
My guess you can combine it with a gay/LGBT flag or put the MOGAI symbol in it. I just looked and anprim flag (anarcho-primitivism or green anarchism) flag is also used as anarcho-naturist flag:
You can replace the black side with rainbow flag I suggest. ~ Kau
1. Rainbow flag overlayed on naturism pride flag, with some tweaks.
2. Anarcho-naturist
+ Rainbow flag
Hope this is handy to someone!
The last one can be seen as a primitivist rainbow or green LGBT+ pride flag. I think the first flag misses the yellow, but here those flags are, ty. ~Kau
Based on this post I redesigned the semisexual flag for being more specific and desgined a new semisensual flag:
Semisexual Pride Flag
Semi- describes someone who may be zed-/allo- by definition, but who finds a-ness and/or greyness a useful, relevant concept to describe their orientation, or a concept that still helps them communicate their feelings in some way. Sometimes semi has demi- and gray- connotations. Specially for me it’s to be in the middle of sexuality spectrum, having partially attraction or
duration of the full or intense attraction is the same as of the no attraction.
Semisensual Pride Flags
Semisensual: feeling sensual attraction in different forms but not complete; desire for some sensual acts but others not. How this type of attraction involves various tactile acts [kisses, hugs, cuddle, touch, fondle, etc.] it may be good to express when you want to hug but never kiss someone and vice versa, for example. See also merosensual.
“A feeling that one’s identity has been heavily influenced and shaped by a gender that one no longer experiences. For example, someone who identifies as postmale/postboy no longer feels that their gender identity is male but still feels a strong connection to masculinity or has been shaped by it in some way.” pride-flags DeviantArt
Thanks for the submission!
-Fy
I think there could be a postgirl and postboy flags.
“A feeling that one’s identity has been heavily influenced and shaped by a gender that one no longer experiences. For example, someone who identifies as postmale/postboy no longer feels that their gender identity is male but still feels a strong connection to masculinity or has been shaped by it in some way.” pride-flags DeviantArt
Thanks for the submission!
-Fy
I think there could be a postgirl and postboy flags.
The only naturism / naturalist / nudism pride flag I know:
My guess you can combine it with a gay/LGBT flag or put the MOGAI symbol in it. I just looked and anprim flag (anarcho-primitivism or green anarchism) flag is also used as anarcho-naturist flag:
You can replace the black side with rainbow flag I suggest. ~ Kau
Com- To experience attraction, polar opposite of A- (asexual/aromantic/etc). An orientation label to use if you do not wish to narrow your orientation down any further than simply feeling attraction. Different from allo/zed in that Com- is a specific identity while allo/zed are blanket terms.
Term coined by: Unknown
Comsexual:
[Image: Flag with 7 stripes: Dark red, light red, pink, yellow, pink, light red, dark red].
Full pride gallery HERE! FAQ and “dictionary” of genders, orientations, and other related terms HERE. Send any questions to Ask-Pride-Color-Schemes!
As requested by anon, here it is.
-Kau
postgender –
“A feeling that one’s identity has been heavily influenced and shaped by a gender that one no longer experiences. For example, someone who identifies as postmale/postboy no longer feels that their gender identity is male but still feels a strong connection to masculinity or has been shaped by it in some way.” pride-flags DeviantArt
You can use platonisexual and platoniromantic, or just use quoisexual quoiromantic because quoi- is umbrella/broader for them. One of the definition of quoi-/wtf-/what- is:
Hard time distinguishing sexual/romantic attraction from other types of attractions, or can’t distinguish them at all (ex cant distinguish romantic from platonic, or has a hard time distinguishing romantic from sensual feelings).
And Platoni-: attraction where an individual feels no distinction between romantic/sexual/alterous (a form of attraction) and platonic attraction.
I think there could be a romo- term, not distinguishing romantic and another form of attraction, for romosexuals, romoplatonics, romoalterous, etc.
-Kau
Astralgender: A gender that feels connected to space.
Other xenogenders for that:
Caelgender: A gender which shares qualities with outer space or has the aesthetic of space, stars, nebulae, cosmos, etc.
Contigender: a gender that flows through space and time and constantly changes, always moving; a gender of or related to space and time.
Galaxiegender ~ A nonbinary gender that is vast and mysterious like the galaxy. Reserved for people who are both neurodivergent and spacekin/kin with anything related to space. Tell @galaxyprices before using the term.
Gendercosm ~ “A gender identity encompassing and surpassing the limits of the earth/society, but doesn’t incorporate existing genders from society; a gender identity so grand and huge it cannot be explained by words.
Stargender: An otherworldly gender that is beyond comprehension in earthly terms, as if it originated from beyond the earth.
My guess all of them are xin (xenine in nature). ~ Kau
No, it’s so specific. My guess you can use versian/jaspian (nblnb+nblm+nblw) achillean (mlm) or jaspian/versian gay. But you are totally free to coin a specific term for that or just go with galaxic polygender or pluralian gai or strayt.
-Kau
Sexuality could fluctuate for some people, you don’t need to be always the same thing. Some people see their identity as innate (inborn, they born that way and will be always that) and other find themselves as fluid. You can go with comsexual or novisexual:
Com-: To experience attraction, polar opposite of A- (asexual/aromantic/etc). An orientation label to use if you do not wish to narrow your orientation down any further than simply feeling attraction. Different from allo/zed in that Com- is a specific identity while allo/zed are blanket terms.
Novi-: feeling complicated attraction or lack thereof in such a way that it is difficult or impossible to fit into one word or term.
You could be a achilliflux, grayflux, alloflux/zedflux, gayflux (or homoflux), fluctuating attraction intensity, from white asexuality (omniasexual) to black allosexuality (omniallosexual or omnizedsexual) for example. Reminder you can use achillean (mlm) without specifying the level of attraction.
Question yourself: do you can experience full attraction any time or at any circunstance? Or are you partially / conditionally / sometimes attracted to men?
There’s also abrosexual and duosexual people switching between grey-acespec and zedsexual (grey-allosexual), some are more greyflexible and other more zedflexible (or alloflexible), usually allo- but sometimes grey/ace. Read more on @greysexuality@grace-and-ace@abrosexuality@abrosexualpride
Entrogender: A gender that is slowly but constantly wearing away. Can also be used like “demi,” e.g. an entrogirl might be someone who identifies as female while that femaleness is gradually deteriorating. Derived from the word “entropy”.
Term coined by: @gyey
Entrogender/Entrononbinary:
[image description: a flag with six stripes. the top stripe is green, and the bottom is grey, with the others being slightly different shades to create a gradient effect]
Color meanings: Gendered color fading to gray to represent the “fading away” of this gender.
Full pride gallery HERE! FAQ and “dictionary” of genders, orientations, and other related terms HERE. Send any questions to Ask-Pride-Color-Schemes!
As an anon requested, this already has a flag (or exist).
-Kau
Do you identify as nblw and mlw? You can use umbalian:
Umbalian: a non-binary man attracted to women (nblw & mlw)
But I’m sure there isn’t specific orientations based on your gender alignments (except donna- and some for nonaligned nbs).
Donna-: nonbinary with no gender alignment only attracted to women.
You can try using other orientations too:
Feminamoric/Femi-: attracted to women, exclusively or primarily (intended for nonbinary people)
Fin-: feeling attraction to feminine identifying people (fingender)
Gyne-/Fem-: attraction to women, females, and/or feminine individuals
Trixic / Orbisian (nblw): A nonbinary person who is attracted to women, but is not necessarily only attracted to women
Gai / Strayt: gay or straight in a nonbinary way; nblw, nblnb and/or nblm
Woma-/Woman-: non-straight and non-gay attraction to women
Ultric: a non-sutpilic or MO duaric (marginalized oriented, more specific)
Duaric: a man attracted to women (mlw) or vice-versa (wlm).
Venusic/Venusian/Venus-:A nonbinary person attracted to women and nonbinary lunarians.
~Kau
Do you identify as nblw and mlw? You can use umbalian:
Umbalian: a non-binary man attracted to women (nblw & mlw)
But I’m sure there isn’t specific orientations based on your gender alignments (except donna- and some for nonaligned nbs).
Donna-: nonbinary with no gender alignment only attracted to women.
You can try using other orientations too:
Feminamoric/Femi-: attracted to women, exclusively or primarily (intended for nonbinary people)
Fin-: feeling attraction to feminine identifying people (fingender)
Gyne-/Fem-: attraction to women, females, and/or feminine individuals
Trixic / Orbisian (nblw): A nonbinary person who is attracted to women, but is not necessarily only attracted to women
Gai / Strayt: gay or straight in a nonbinary way; nblw, nblnb and/or nblm
Woma-/Woman-: non-straight and non-gay attraction to women
Ultric: a non-sutpilic or MO duaric (marginalized oriented, more specific)
Duaric: a man attracted to women (mlw) or vice-versa (wlm).
Venusic/Venusian/Venus-:A nonbinary person attracted to women and nonbinary lunarians.
~Kau
Disordinesexual: (pronounced: dis-or-din-sexual)
When your neurodivergent status (neurological conditions, mental health conditions, etc) affect your perception of sexual orientation and/or make it difficult for you to understand your sexual orientation/attraction.
Personally I wasn’t a fan it the “neurosexual” term or definition, so I tweaked and created a new term based on Latin terminology.
Flag: myself
Term: myself
-Vi 💙
There isn’t a specific one for feminine trans gay boys as far as I know. But there are for feminine trans boys:
Edit: this one is for femboy, not exclusive to trans or cis:
Femboy: a boy with a “feminine” physical attitude.
Neuxel coined in @nonbinarysorcery means neutral-gender xenoic (xeno/xenic). But you can use as xeunine/neuxine, xeneu/neuxeno or nexeu. But mixing the both xingender and ningender into one identity is different. You can use nixingender/xiningender or as u said nexingender/xeningender. As both xeno and neutral have e in the labels, we could resume into eingender (as lingender and aingender was coined), but not sure if e could be used since other e-prefixed identities exist, such as epicenity. You can try using another letter ingender to coin.
Genderliquid: polar opposite of gendersolid, another word to fluidflux / genderfluix. Able to include other amplusian genders, such as genderflow, shifterfluid, genderphase, genderflight, genderslider and switching other multigender changes.
Gendermud: fluidstable or stablefluid (genderstable + genderfluid); someone who changes the gender identity while gender intensity stays strictly stable. As mud being semi-liquid and semi-solid states in mind.
Genderfumy: staticflux/fluxtatic (genderstatic + genderflux); someone who flows gender intensity while the gender identity is strictly static. Coined with steamy vapory in mind.
Gendermelt or genderfusion: liquidsolid gender; someone who is both genderliquid (fluxfluid) and gendersolid (staticstable), able to dilute other amplusian and suptiligender gender concepts.
Before, @the-dawn-prayer and me coined demisuptilian/demiamplusgender for that, but now there are specific words for that, also because someone in @uncommongenders asked for a neologism for fluidflux label. Specially because now I can call myself mudfumy or just say gendermelt. I hope it helps being contemplative to everyone.
Ps.: amplusian or amplusgender encompasses genderfluid/genderflexible, genderflux and genderliquid while suptilian is gendersolid, genderstable and genderstatic (genderstill).
Genderfake: Feeling that your gender is part of your hallucinations or delusions.For people who experience delusions or hallucinations as part of their mental illness or neurodivergence only.
Genderfake: Feeling that your gender is part of your hallucinations or delusions.For people who experience delusions or hallucinations as part of their mental illness or neurodivergence only.
Lightgender: a type of colorgender; a gender that can be described by the presence of all colors at once. The color in the middle represents lightness.
Can be also a palettegender or prismagender. Not be confused with genderflight, pangender or
Eugender: affirmative, operative, (ab)original, functional and valid genders, otherwise absolute genders accessible within your own culture and life experience (simultaneously or not).
A counterpoint of ungender/antigender; when you have indeed that genderness, i.e. an euagender is verily agender. Eu- prefix comes from the Greek εὖ (eu, “well” or “true”).
Some people can define a given eugender as another gender’s antigender for their own purposes. An euneutrois can be antigirl and antiagender. Useful for zerogender and cendgender people, as if antigender is antieugender Not be confused with gendergender, monogender or suptiligender.
Religender: a gender that has a connection to another gender’s energy due to spirituality.
Deagender: a non-feminine gender that has a connection to feminine energy due to spirituality.
Deaboy/deamasculine: a masculine gender that has a connection to feminine energy due to spirituality. Subset of deagender. Coined by @pastelmemer here.
Deogender: a non-masculine gender that has a connection to masculine energy due to spirituality.
Deogirl/deofeminine: a feminine gender that has a connection to masculine energy due to spirituality. Subset of deogender.
Deigender: a nonbinary gender that has a connection to a binary gender(s) energy due to spirituality. Originally coined as deiandrogyne, deiandrogyne flag here.
Deugender/Deuneutrois/Deuagender/Deuneutral: a neutral/non-gendered gender that has a connection to gendered energy due to spirituality.
Religender: a gender that has a connection to another gender’s energy due to spirituality.
Deagender: a non-feminine gender that has a connection to feminine energy due to spirituality.
Deaboy/deamasculine: a masculine gender that has a connection to feminine energy due to spirituality. Subset of deagender. Coined by @pastelmemer here.
Deogender: a non-masculine gender that has a connection to masculine energy due to spirituality.
Deogirl/deofeminine: a feminine gender that has a connection to masculine energy due to spirituality. Subset of deogender.
Deigender: a nonbinary gender that has a connection to a binary gender(s) energy due to spirituality. Originally coined as deiandrogyne, deiandrogyne flag here.
Deugender/Deuneutrois/Deuagender/Deuneutral: a neutral/non-gendered gender that has a connection to gendered energy due to spirituality.
An aspec (asexual spectrum) identity in which a person is disconnected from their attraction because of their neurodivergency. Combination of aego-/autochoris- and adfectu-. Pronounced ey-too.
The flag design is reflective of the aego-/autochoris- flag; the grey, black and white are the asexual colours, and the purple, dark green, yellow, orange, pink & yellow, and blue are the asexual, aromantic, platonic, sensual, queerplatonic and alterous colours. The light green is the colour for neurodiversity.
Aetusexual (also the base/default flag)
Aeturomantic
Aetuplatonic
Aetusensual
Aetuqueerplatonic
Aetualterous
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Plugender:“Plu” meaning “more” (as in ‘plural gender’ or ‘plus gender’); may be used to describe those who have multiple genders, or who sees their gender as being one multifaceted thing, possibly comprising multiple genders into one.
See also: augender, plurigender and equilibriogender.
Attrafluid or attraflexible (attraction based genders):
Someone whose gender changes depending the gender(s) they feel [alterous, aesthetic, platonic, romantic, sensual and/or sexual] attraction to at the moment.
A combination of multiple or all of the attractional genders (alterousfluid, asthefluid, platofluid, romofluid, sensufluid, sexofluid, etc.).
Note: these genders are intended for pluralians (bi/poly/ply/omni/multi/pan) individuals whose preferences or frequences are fluid but if you feel that your orientation as a whole is fluid then feel free to use them.
Attraflux Pride Flag
Attraflux: Someone whose gender intensity changes depending the gender(s) they feel [alterous, aesthetic, platonic, romantic, sensual or sexual] attraction to at the moment.
Maybe akin to amaregender, amicagender, amorgender/ekogender/filkogender, copygender, erigender, erotogender, gendershift, ludogender, mirrorgender or reflectigender. See also omnigay, omnistraight and novo-.
Ahh hello, I have a few terms (genders) I’ve coined that I also have flag designs for, can I request those here, and can they be added to the google docs? (if no sorry) Doing this in a submission because I went into a lot of detail with these defs.
1) Homproche "om–PROESH"
Meaning “Near or Approaching Male,” From French homme ‘man’ and proche ‘near.’ A gender expression that is Masculine, despite a gender identity that is not. An identity where one’s gender expression is an integral part of one’s queer experience. Can also be used, in some cases, as a synonym for Proxvir: A gender that is close to or resembles Male but is separate from it. This gender is not inherently Male-Aligned / Solarian, an Homproche can have any alignment.
Flag Design: Five Vertical Stripes; In order from left to right: Violet – Blue Purple – Blue – Light Blue – White
Violet: Gender Neutrality
Shades of Blue: Masculinity
White: The Experience of All Genders
2) Femproche “fem-PROESH”
Meaning “Near or Approaching Female,” From French femme ‘woman’ and proche ‘near.’ A gender expression that is Feminine, despite a gender identity that is not. An identity where one’s gender expression is an integral part of one’s queer experience. Can also be used, in some cases, as a synonym for Juxera: A gender that is close to or resembles Female but is separate from it. This gender is not inherently Female-Aligned / Lunarian, a Femproche can have any alignment.
Flag Design: Five Vertical Stripes; In order from left to right: Violet – Pink Purple – Pink – Light Pink – White
Violet: Gender Neutrality
Shades of Pink: Femininity
White: The Experience of All Genders
Cis people are allowed to use these terms so long as they use the one “opposite” to them: cis women can use Homproche and cis men can use Femproche.
Trans people can use whichever (or both! or one at a time!).
I primarily intend for them to be used as a non-appropriative alternative to butch and femme.
3) Omnique “om-NEEK”
Made up of the terms Omnigay: A gender identity that changes to match the gender of whoever one is attracted to or in a relationship with, so that one’s orientation can always be defined as gay; and Queer: The blurring of one’s gender and orientation. Primarily a synonym for Omnigay.
Seven Horizontal Stripes; In order from top to bottom:
Yellow – Peach (Pink-Yellow) – Pink – Purple – Blue – Teal (Blue-Green) – Green Meant to resemble the Genderfluid and Omni- flags as well as the rainbow of the gay pride flag (and also to include “third genders” such as maverique).
I coined this term because I identify as omnigay and I wanted a noun version, like other genders, and “I’m an omnigay” didn’t sound right. I originally was just going to redesign the omnigay flag you already have because, no offense, I can’t stand it.
PLEASE make it explicit that the new flag can be used by people who identify as omnigay! It’s not exclusive to omniques!
Ok, I think I’m done. I hope I’m not asking too much. Thank you.
I’ve heard the term Regressgender being tossed around, but I don’t think there’s been any consensus on this yet. If you’d like to coin a term or make a flag, that’d be great!
Lesbian Gay (or lesbigay): a lesbian who considers emself gay, as if gayness encompasses her lesbianness; or someone who switches between gay (achillean mlm) and lesbian (sapphic wlw), such as omnigay, monofluid, attrafluid and novo- people (when gender fluctuates with their attraction) or abro-, varioriented and amplusic lesbians considering gay as un umbrella term for every marginalized orientation, they could be gayflexible or lesbiflexible (aniso-).
Okay so I wanted to make HQ versions of @love-all-around1223‘s he/him, she/her, they/them, and it/its pronouns flags and add my own!
Top row, left to right: He/Him, She/Her, They/Them
Middle row, left to right: It/Its, Neopronouns (meant to include sets like ey/em, xe/xem, nounself, and emojiself), Non Traditional (meant to only include non gendered sets like ey/em, xe/xem, ze/hir, ect)
Okay so I wanted to make HQ versions of @love-all-around1223‘s he/him, she/her, they/them, and it/its pronouns flags and add my own!
Top row, left to right: He/Him, She/Her, They/Them
Middle row, left to right: It/Its, Neopronouns (meant to include sets like ey/em, xe/xem, nounself, and emojiself), Non Traditional (meant to only include non gendered sets like ey/em, xe/xem, ze/hir, ect)
Apath-/Apa-: someone who lacks interest into affective act; can be undefined on the spectrum or in mix with conjunctions to pomo- or even mixed with one of the (non)orientations; or a person who is indifferent / neutral / apathetic to attraction or orientation, no distinction whether the person feels attraction, only that they are indifferent to receiving or acting under that attraction.
Apathsexual Pride Flag
Apasexual: having an undefined sexual attraction identity due to indifference / apathy, could be or not acespec;
or someone disinterested, indifferent or apathetic to sex, sexual acts and/or orientation.
Apathromantic Pride Flag
Aparomantic: having an undefined romantic attraction identity due to indifference or apathy, could be or not arospec;
or someone disinterested, indifferent or apathetic to romance, romantic acts and/or orientation.
Apathsensual Pride Flag
Apasensual: having an undefined sensual attraction identity due to indifference or apathy, could be or not asensuspec;
or someone disinterested, indifferent or apathetic to touch, sensual acts and/or orientation.
Apathalterous Pride Flag
Apanalterous: having an undefined alterous attraction identity due to indifference and apathy, could be or not analtspec;
or someone disinterested, indifferent or apathetic to emotional/ecstatic closeness, alterous acts and/or orientation.
Apathplatonic Pride Flag
Apaplatonic: having an undefined attraction identity due to indifference/apathy, could be or not aplspec;
or someone disinterested, indifferent or apathetic to friendship, platonic acts and/or orientation.
Apathquasiplatonic Pride Flag
Apaquasiplatonic: having an undefined queerplatonic attraction identity due to indifference/apathy, could be or not aqplspec;
or someone disinterested, indifferent or apathetic to quasiplatonic acts/relations and/or orientation.
Apathaesthetic Pride Flag
Apasthetic: having an undefined aesthetic attraction identity due to indifference or apathy, could be or not anaespec; or someone disinterested, indifferent or apathetic to appearance, aesthetic acts and/or orientation.
-Kau
Genderei: (pronounced gender-ray) personifying your gender identity as a fairy.
-Vi
Xingender:Umbrella term for all genders xenine in nature. Not synonymous with nb, because, for example, neutrois is nonbinary but it is neutral in nature, not xenine. May simply be used as “xin”, ie. “my gender is xin”.
Using colors from xenogender and xenic flags.
🌈 🏳️🌈
There isn’t a main color for xeninity, but I think brown or gold contemplates it in the middle, there could be other versions of the flag.
Alternative flag for the anisosexual commnunity!
The blue/teal is for unity. The purple is for attraction to the same gender. The green is for the rare exception.
Only 3 colors for a flag makes it much easier to create merchandise and pride based materials!
-Vi/Vasilisa
Anisosexual: a replacement term for Homoflexible; Mostly same or similar-gender attracted, with exception.
We lightened up the flag colors for it to be easier on the eyes. Some people don’t like the term “homoflexible” and/or feel they don’t “fit” the bisexual definition and/or commnunity.
-Vi/Vasilisa 💚
Decided to design a flag for Male-Female Bigenderflux individuals!
//Male-Female Bigenderflux: A bigenderflux person who flucuates between male and female with different intensities.
The blue stripes represent male, the purple fading is the fluctuation of being prominently male.
The pink stripes are the exact same, but for female instead.
I sort of want to think of a term for specific types of Bigender identities (as in, the combinations) but I suppose those could be pretty endless. Either way I hope this flag is handy to someone!
Decided to design a flag for Male-Female Bigenderflux individuals!
//Male-Female Bigenderflux: A bigenderflux person who flucuates between male and female with different intensities.
The blue stripes represent male, the purple fading is the fluctuation of being prominently male.
The pink stripes are the exact same, but for female instead.
I sort of want to think of a term for specific types of Bigender identities (as in, the combinations) but I suppose those could be pretty endless. Either way I hope this flag is handy to someone!
Antigender pride flag! Antigender people really don’t get a lot of recognition on this website
😦 so I made a new flag for them!!!!! 🙂
The general theme of this flag seems to be quite… general abinary-/nontrinary-themed or agender-themed? The aesthetics seems to mostly focus on antigirl and antiboy but there are antigenders for about every other gender.
It’s a good flag but I think putting a little bit of leafy, bluish green and vivid but still pastel orange in the middle as half-diamonds close to the top or the bottom of the flag and a darker lavender big diamond under the X and the no bubble could better represent some of the other common antigenders like antineutrois, antiaporagender and antiandrogyne.
I’m general comgender (able to relate to about every extant gender identity available to me, so sort of anti-agender) and anti-melauche (I make a very big deal of my gender identity and love to be open about it) as my most definite antigenders, and I understand their exclusion due to them being relatively minor identities, but I think if we aren’t clear about there being antigenders of nonbinary genders, we run the risk of people thinking that they don’t exist at all (just like with genderfluid and bigender, that get strongly dominated by male-and-female stuff in their representation).
Of course, this is just a minor consideration, so please don’t take it as a harsh criticism, thank you a lot!!
Fixed it!!! I didn’t know what other gender stuff to add so I just added sparkles. And a rainbow.
Antigender pride flag! Antigender people really don’t get a lot of recognition on this website
😦 so I made a new flag for them!!!!! 🙂
The general theme of this flag seems to be quite… general abinary-/nontrinary-themed or agender-themed? The aesthetics seems to mostly focus on antigirl and antiboy but there are antigenders for about every other gender.
It’s a good flag but I think putting a little bit of leafy, bluish green and vivid but still pastel orange in the middle as half-diamonds close to the top or the bottom of the flag and a darker lavender big diamond under the X and the no bubble could better represent some of the other common antigenders like antineutrois, antiaporagender and antiandrogyne.
I’m general comgender (able to relate to about every extant gender identity available to me, so sort of anti-agender) and anti-melauche (I make a very big deal of my gender identity and love to be open about it) as my most definite antigenders, and I understand their exclusion due to them being relatively minor identities, but I think if we aren’t clear about there being antigenders of nonbinary genders, we run the risk of people thinking that they don’t exist at all (just like with genderfluid and bigender, that get strongly dominated by male-and-female stuff in their representation).
Of course, this is just a minor consideration, so please don’t take it as a harsh criticism, thank you a lot!!
Fixed it!!! I didn’t know what other gender stuff to add so I just added sparkles. And a rainbow.
Zerogender: a gender or group of genders nullified when combined with its/their respective antigender(s), leading to mutual self-destruction or a similar concept of nullifying, but leaving behind seeds of potential genderedness in a spore state that could one day bloom in either direction (original gender or anti/ungender) in either specific contexts or at random, and then return to the spore state, and possibly bloom in the opposite direction after another period of hibernation.
Might or might not directly relate to the mathematical concepts of positive and negative numbers, or just be the dialectical answer to a given gender dichotomy.
Some comgender or demiagender neutrois people often have compared their sense of gender to being panzerogender (pangender x panantigender), but not all neutrois people, whether or not they possess extant senses of gender identity, feel that way.
Zerogenders derived from two comgender identities may often feel comgender, but also many times their zerogender is ‘lightweight’ in comparison with the original ones (eugenders), as their owners tend to not be currently pinpointing on them and often focus on other parts of their identities instead; same applies to 0genders taken from genders that relate to partial senses of being gendered. Therefore, zerogender is not to be confused with gendernull or genderless.
Unlike with genderkrieg, the two identities do not exist at the same time, and people of any neurotype can possess one or more zerogenders.
See also: gemigender, cendgender, numbergender, arithmogender, cadogender, lightgender, equigender and mathgender.
Genderblur or Genderfade: Where your gender changes constantly but fades away into something else rather than making a hard or abrupt transition (ex. feeling like a girl, then slowly feeling more stargender than girl, then feeling only stargender, etc.). Not be confused with blurgender.
Genderdead: A gender exclusive to deadkin; not so much the absence of a gender, more that gender doesn’t matter when you’re dead. Not to be confused with Necrogender.
A subset of genderfluid wherein the changes between one’s separate genders or the parts of one’s gender happen gradually. “Argogender” can also mean a gender the user defines according to any kind of slowness. Prefix from the Greek word αργóς meaning slow.
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The gender of someone who is sychnogender might change many times throughout the course of a day. Prefix from the Greek συχνός meaning frequent.
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Like the above but regarding rapidity, a gender that changes quickly or that otherwise has to do with high speed. Prefix from the Greek ταχύτητα meaning speed.
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Color meanings: Using the genderfluid pride color and changing them up to visually represent each gender. The “fading” stripes in Argogender symbolize the gradual changes. The wavy lines on the Sychnogender design represents short, wavelengths to represent the high frequency of gender changes. The Hermes boot in the Tachigender design symbolizes speed/rapidity.
Full pride gallery HERE! FAQ and “dictionary” of genders, orientations, and other related terms HERE. Send any questions to Ask-Pride-Color-Schemes!
-Kau
AndroKalosFe: (pronounced: an-dro-kal-os-fe) being attracted to men but willing to engage in acts with women (despite minimal or no attraction towards women themselves) for reasons such as pleasure, bonding, financial, or trying to make a baby. This was made with masculine identities and non-binary in mind.
Amy Rose Fictionkin: identifying partially or entirely as Amy Rose from Sonic the Hedgehog.
-Kau
It’s subjective. A gender miniacture as if it’s a gender example of yourself but it doesn’t represent you completely, a gender that was reduced to a small version (similar to nanogender, microgender and pixelgender) as if you are identifying a little bit of that gender or about 1-49%, but in this case you know there could be an original version with regular “size”, making reference to genderflux. Minigender is useful as an alternative to pixelgenders on the demigender spectrum. You can say minigenders are in other dimensions don’t representing reality (could be a neurogender and/or a xenogender in this case).
People who admire botanic beauty in an attractive way (botanysthetic) or treat a botanical garden as their friends (botanyplatonic).
Planthearted is an otherhearted for strong fundamental connection with plant(s), often described as feeling as if they are your friends or family while not identifying either spiritually or psychologicially as plant.
Plantkin people identifies as plant(s) and there are kinsexual people attracted to them (plantkinsexual), and botanysexual would help them with this specific orientation.
You could feel it’s a kink and not an orientation, but there are people not attracted to humans and this can be the only identity they have. Some people told this is the same as vegesexual and ecosexual but eco- and vege- are so hesitant and half-hearted, botano- is more specific.
FeKalosAndro: (pronounced: fay-kal-os-an-dro) being attracted to women but willing to engage in acts with men (despite minimal or no attraction towards men themselves) for reasons such as pleasure, bonding, financial, or trying to make a baby. This was made with feminine identities and non-binary in mind.
This is a slight tweak on the femkalosandro identity as well as providing an alternative flag.
-Vi/Vasilisa
FeKalosAndro: (pronounced: fay-kal-os-an-dro) being attracted to women but willing to engage in acts with men (despite minimal or no attraction towards men themselves) for reasons such as pleasure, bonding, financial, or trying to make a baby. This was made with feminine identities and non-binary in mind.
This is a slight tweak on the femkalosandro identity as well as providing an alternative flag.
-Vi/Vasilisa
Boreasexual: having an exception to your usual SEXUAL orientation. Usually revolves around a single person.
I created an alternative flag because the original one was dangerously close to the high heel fetish(altocalciphilia) flag.
I don’t think its weird at all, but you could always shorten it to panqplatonic! -amorous is typically used to denote relationship orientation, so that wouldn’t really work in this instance. And -alterous is like an umbrella term that covers all attraction that is not completely platonic or completely romantic. 🙂
That’s not really up for me or you to decide. I personally prefer not to use a lot of labels for myself, but that’s not the case for everyone. Everyone has their own preference in how much or how little they label their gender or orientation or anything really. We just provide them somewhere where they can have symbols made for them to show their pride in those labels.
Pregender:A feeling that one’s gender is growing into, but not quite yet at, a particular gender. A pretransneutral, for example, may feel that their ningender is transitioning towards, but has not yet reached, (trans) neutral-gender.
Pretransgender Pride Flag
Pretransness:A feeling that one’s transness is growing into, but not quite yet at, a transgender. A pretrans may feel that their gender is transitioning towards, but has not yet reached, transgenderness.
Prenonbinary Pride Flag
Prenb or preabinary: A feeling that one’s gender is growing into, but not quite yet at, a nonbinary or abinary gender. A pre(trans)enby may feel that their gender is transitioning towards, but has not yet reached, (trans) nonbinary.
Preandrogyne Pride Flag
Preandrogynous or prelingender: A feeling that one’s lingender is growing into, but not quite yet at, an androgyne gender. A preambonec (prean) may feel that their gender is transitioning towards, but has not yet reached, ambonec.
Pregirl Pride Flag
Pregirl or prewoman:
A feeling that one’s (fin)gender is growing into, but not quite yet at, a womanhood or girlhood. A pre(trans)girl may feel that their gender is transitioning towards, but has not yet reached, (trans) female.
Preboy Pride Flag
Preboy or preman: A feeling that one’s (min)gender is growing into, but not quite yet at, a manhood or boyhood. A pre(trans)boy may feel that their gender is transitioning towards, but has not yet reached, (trans) male.
Absolutely! Genderfluid just means to have a fluid gender, it doesn’t specify which ones. So you can be fluid between whichever genders you feel like are yours. 🙂
Well you could use toric, ultric, ma-/man-, mascic, vir/viramoric, gai/strayt, quadrisian, andro-/min- or duaric.
@bentonthefoxkin suggested rubian and it doesn’t have a flag yet (nb wlm).
Regardless of trolls brigading us, we will continue to do our best to answer your questions and design flags for your labels. I would rather be made fun of for trying to help someone who turns out to be a troll than ignore someone who genuinely wants help because there’s a chance that they’re a troll.
As its summer vacation for a lot of students, we’re starting to get a lot of asks in general. But as I’ve said before on here, we’re also pretty busy with our own life stuff, and can only do so much so fast. We’ll do our best though! 😁
I haven’t heard of a term that could be used for that. It could just be that you have at least two kintypes, such you were a human in a past life, but also a tiger in another past life. I’ll leave this as an open question to our followers, perhaps someone else would be able to give you a clearer answer. 🙂
Took a shot at creating some Nonbinary options for sex labels today. I don’t much care for having to crush myself into the female or male checkboxes, being as I am an intersex & nonbinary person.
So here’s what I brainstormed:
Xeumel: a non-binary person.
A generic umbrella term, used as a separate option for NBs instead of male and/or female.
[ ‘xe’ stands for xenogenders, ‘eu’ represents neutral genders, ‘mel’ mimics the pattern from female & male to make the term sound like it fits with the other options; ‘mel’ can also be switched with ‘male’ to keep even more ‘in-theme’ with the other existing terms, if that’s more preferable to someone. ]
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More specific options:
Xeamel: feminine nonbinary person.
Xaimel: masculine nonbinary person.
Xaemel: simultaneously masc & fem nonbinary person.
Neumel: gender-neutral nonbinary person.
Xomel: completely genderless person.
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All of these can also be shortened to their prefix to be used instead of Man / Woman • boy / girl.
Xeu = general nonbinary person ( obviously you can just say ‘person’ though )
Xea = nb person who considers themself to be ( somewhat, or quite ) feminine
Xai= nb person who considers themself to be ( somewhat, or quite ) masculine
Xae: a nonbinary person who considers themself to be simultaneously masc & fem.
Neu: a gender-neutral nonbinary person.
Xo = genderless person ( ‘person’ also works by itself of course ).
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Ex: “I am not male or female, I am Xeumel / Xeamel / Xaimel / Xomel / Xaemel / Neumel.”
“I met a very sweet xea today, they helped pick up my book when I dropped it.”
“What’s up, xu?” ( “what’s up, man?” )
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Note: All X’s are pronounced as Z’s for these words.
‘Zoo-mel’ ( Xeumel )
‘Zee-mel’ ( Xeamel )
+etc.
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These terms are in deliberate opposition to the sex binary as a rigid structure. As an intersex person, I am greatly displeased with coercive & assigned sex labels altogether, so– I’ve decided to tamper with the rigidity that they falsely hold.
This is a simple strive to gain distance away from the idea that “male” and “female” are the only two sexes that have ever, will ever, or do exist. The aforementioned concept harms intersex people, non-intersex people, as well as those who exist apart from the two Western sexes.
While these terms do spawn from my being intersex, the labels are free to use by any Non-binary person who’s fed-up with the sex binary as well.
I think that’s how the original flags were (with the slightly lavender and light cream middle stripes), but I think it was too easy to mistake that for white and so other iterations have the middle stripe as white. So if the originals are too difficult, sticking to a white middle stripe should be fine too.
Not rude at all lol. You’re right, it is pretty awful, saying that as a person who’s had that sort of thing happen to me. We didn’t make the flags though, they were more of an interesting find more than anything. Obviously its not an orientation or gender or anything like that.
Apparently there’s another “troll the mogai blog” thread going around. If you’ve been getting a ton of asks today asking for help with understanding their identity, then this is most likely why as that’s what has been happening to us.
I’ve had to block multiple people (which I really hate doing personally, but trolls irk me more than hate messages) and I’ll be cleaning the inbox out soon.
So if you’ve sent an ask recently and it isn’t answered, you may have to resend. I just don’t have enough time in my day to cater to trolls who don’t actually want any help.
Hetero- Lesbian: ambi- varioriented women (heteroromantic homosexuals or homoromantic heterosexuals); switching between hetero/straight and lesbian identities, such as in genderfluidity, monofluidity (fluctuating in mono- umbrella), novo-, duo- or abro- attracted people, mspec/pluralians or singularics; being heterosensual, heteroplatonic, heteroaesthetic or otherwise hetero- and lesbian in other form(s) of attraction; orbisian (am)bigender or otherwise polybinary trixic (female-attracted) considering emself as straight lesbian.
A more inclusive for all forms of hetero- attraction with lesbian labrys:
heterosexuals) or switching between hetero- and gay identities, such as in monofluid (fluctuating in mono- umbrella), genderfluid, novo-, duo- or abro- oriented people, they can be considered mspec/pluralians or singularics. Can be also someone who is heterosensual, heteroplatonic or otherwise hetero- and gay in other form(s) of attraction.
Its totally okay to feel confused about what your gender could be. Perhaps a good place to start with if you want to see if you’d feel more comfortable being something other than a woman is by changing some things, such as your name and pronouns. Test them out, see what works best for you. Even if you can’t do this irl, the internet is a really great place to start! You don’t have to put a name to your gender right away, but it could also help to talk to other afab trans and nonbinary folks and see what their experiences are too. 😀
Hi there! Liking traditional feminine things has no bearing on what your gender is, so its possible that you’re just a more feminine trans man or nonbinary person. 🙂