Homoamicality or homoirmanal: feeling amical or irmanal attraction to a similar or the same gender; desiring friends or siblings of similar or same gender. An aspect of homoplatonic and/or homosocial, but some homoamicals and homoirmanals homoaren’t homoplatonic neither homosocial.
Suptilian, Suptiligender or Solidgender: someone who is both diastimian and kymenian; a descriptor for when your gender is precise and not flexible, fluid or flux;
someone whose both gender intensity and identity are solid, pinpointed, fixed, stable and strictly static; stablestill or staticstable (genderstatic/genderstill and genderstable, kymengender and diastimgender). Described as a strict genderness, because suptilis is a variation of the latin word meaning delicate, strict, fine or exact.
First flag designed by @anthropomimus, coined by them too. Source. Not to be confused with eugender. ~ ap
We’ve gotten quite a bit of new follower lately so here’s a friendly reminder of what our flag represents 😍
Flag colors:
1. pink and teal colors at the bottom are representative of the “MOSTLY same sex/gender attraction”
2. grey and yellow can be the exception.
I swear I heard “lol it’s just a joke bro!” while reading this. xD But yeah, the cognitive dissonance is astounding.
and now theyre still defending their cruddy behavior by trying to throw the law at you as if you were gonna try and take em to court instead of just pointing out how theyre being pieces of shit 😂😂😂 i cant breathe this too much!
((Galexy))
It’s definitely some bizarre defensive mental gymnastics, that’s for sure. Not much of a point in trying to talk to them about it, though. The ones that aren’t shitty people already aren’t going to pull that sort of stunt, and the ones who are aren’t likely to listen. It’s best just to not interact with those sorts of people, you’ll live longer lol
Well it is true that only you can decide for yourself, but I’ll do my best to help okay? 🙂
I’m dysphoric and Genderfluid, so I can definitely understand where you’re coming from. Honestly I was even less sure of myself once I had a word for it! It feels like commitment, like you HAVE to transition as soon as you possibly can once you figure out you have dysphoria, or else others may say if you don’t then you never had dysphoria in the first place. So my advice would be to take it slow. This is what I did. I asked “What part of my body do I dislike the most? If I HAD to keep everything else but I could get rid of one thing, what would it be?” Once you take that step, it tends to get easier.
Change is scary, especially when its your own body! But once you understand how you feel after getting rid of that which you hate the most, then you have a better understanding of how much more comfortable you’d be continuing your transition. This isn’t always the case of course, but taking that first step is always the hardest I think! Everyone’s transition is different, and thankfully medical practitioners are beginning to understand that.
It can definitely be scary, and it may feel like no one will care. But that’s definitely not true. Of course there will always be awful people who will treat you poorly for being trans, but there will also be those who will accept and love you no matter what. And its okay to be closeted, or to go stealth once you’ve transitioned (if possible). I’m out to only to the people closest to me and my therapist. No one is entitled to such personal information about yourself, especially if it puts you in danger.
Sorry this took so long to answer, by the way. It got shoved to the bottom of the inbox. But I hope this was helpful in some way, and good luck to you. 🙂
Well if you would still choose to be a girl, then you might just be a girl. One that would prefer to present neutrally? Or if you think you may not actually be a girl and your gender is neutral, then perhaps look into Neutrois, Agender, Genderless, or other similar labels. 🙂
Unfortunately it can be pretty difficult not to feel that way when there’s so many people that say stuff like that to you. But you don’t need to keep people that invalidate you in your life, or at least to a lesser extent. Keep the people that respect you close. And remember that only you know you best. 🙂
Tragmat: A peaceful gender that is at ease with who they are. They do not need to think about their gender, nor justify it to others, they accept it for what it is: unique and tranquil.
Healegender: Your gender brings you peace of mind, clarity, creativity, security, and connects the minds in ways it has not been connected before.
Plurabian or Pluresbian (pluralian lesbian): a lesbian attracted to more than one gender, regardless the form of attraction (aesthetic, platonic, sensual, etc.); a lesbian-leaning pluralian individual, feeling flexible/stronger/easier attraction towards women; an umbrella term for every lesbian on mspec (multi spectrum), such as bi/ply and omni/pan lesbians (attracted at least to women).
According to the CDC, for ages 10-14, the #2 cause of death in the USA is suicide
This is horrifying. I know times are tough, but suicide is NOT the answer. There is SO MUCH to life to love. If religion/spirituality gives you comfort, pray. If singing your heart out gives you a purpose, sing your heart out (or engage in any other hobby you enjoy).
You are made up of literally stardust. Everyday above ground is a good day. Please do not be afraid to tell a friend, loved one, or trusted adult (adult family member, teacher, councilor, school nurse, school administration, church goers, etc) if you are suicidal or contemplating suicide. THERE IS A LIGHT at the end of the tunnel.
This is the suicide national prevention hotline: 1-800-273-8255
This is the same hotline, but for Spanish speakers: 1-888-628-9454
This is the hotline for deaf and hard of hearing: 1-800-799-4889
This is for a texting option to chat to proffesionals: Text CONNECT to 741741
Lgbt youth in particular is at risk, so please utilize these hotlines if you need them!
Anyone wouldnt be able to tell if someone sounds genuine enough. For me its especially hard, bc i can barely even pick up sarcasm online if its not very, very obviously smacking me in the face (which even then is situational). Even in person things fly over my head. I dont understand social cues sometimes, especially if i dont have any tone as context, which is that much harder to pick up through text.
Saaaame. This has always been my problem as well. I think I’ve gotten a bit better at it since I’ve been running this blog for two years, but I still get kind followers who have to tell me some flag request I just fulfilled was a troll. ;~;
I think I finally found out what my gender is when I think about my gender I feel very connected to the periodic table, the element xenon in particular. Is there a name for this? Compound gender? Elementgender? Chemgender? And is there a flag too? Thank you. I think I finally found a place Where my ‘weird gender’ is accepted.
I actually remember reading an ask about this on someone else’s blog, and I think it would definitely be useful to have labels for xenogenders related to periodic table elements. However, I don’t know of any at this time. If you’d like to coin a term and/or submit a flag, that’d be great! I image you wouldn’t have to do much in the way of nomenclature, as using the name of the element would probably work well enough. So like Xenongender would probably work in your case.
So I think I figured out what I want to call the terms I wanted to coin! Tell me what you think
Thistlian: An agender/genderless person who loves men
Azalian: An agender/genderless person who loves women
Wisterian: An agender/genderless person who loves nbs
Delphinian: An agender/genderless person who loves other agender/genderless people
Possible azalian flag:
The first three colours are inspired by the azalea flower, the white is the absence of colour to represent the absence of gender, and the green is the same shade of green as on the agender flag
I made more flags! The first colours represent the flower they were named after, the white is the absence of colour which represents the absence of gender, and the green is the same shade as on the agender flag.
Thistlian:
Azalian: I know I already posted this one but here’s a more flag-shaped flag
ogligender: for those who have a few identities, around 2-5;
ergender: a
little bit boy, a little bit girl, a little bit nonbinary, and the rest of your identity is something else;
nubilagender: for people whose gender is partially cloudy/foggy, and partially clear. Can be used as deminubila, nanonubila, etc.;
mosaigender/portiogender: for those whose gender is made up of little pieces of multiple other genders;
slimegender: a subset of fluidflux/genderfluid where all of
your genders feel like differently gendered slimes mixing together,
with different combinations and amounts coming to the surface at
different times;
spectragender: a gender that is such a spectrum that you can’t define it;
horrorgender: someone whose gender identity is so fluid and “all over the place”, it almost scares people (hence the horror part);
cosmicgender: a vast, complex gender that can only be processed through small bits each time, like the night sky through a telescope.
You mean like a pride flag for androgynous gender presentation? I mean, I think some of the Androgyne pride flags are doubled as Androgynous pride flags, as well.
your gender is associated with the apocalypse/Book of Revelations/the goddess Babalon
your gender is associated with the magic constants/magic square, the sum of 6 rows/columns consisting of 111
you have 666 genders
you hold a deeply held connection and/or are kin with Emperor Nero of Rome
your gender is related to table games (as 666 is the sum of all numbers on a roulette wheel)
you hold a deeply held connection and/or are kin with Aleister Crowley, who referred to himself as “666 the Beast.”
As with hellgender and/or any of its “infernal” alignments, it is suitable for use by any Satanists, occultists, and/or demonkin, darkkin, monsterkin, etc.
Also known as hexakosioihexekontahexagender. Could also be described as a beast numbergender. – ap
your gender is associated with the apocalypse/Book of Revelations/the goddess Babalon
your gender is associated with the magic constants/magic square, the sum of 6 rows/columns consisting of 111
you have 666 genders
you hold a deeply held connection and/or are kin with Emperor Nero of Rome
your gender is related to table games (as 666 is the sum of all numbers on a roulette wheel)
you hold a deeply held connection and/or are kin with Aleister Crowley, who referred to himself as “666 the Beast.”
As with hellgender and/or any of its “infernal” alignments, it is suitable for use by any Satanists, occultists, and/or demonkin, darkkin, monsterkin, etc.
Also known as hexakosioihexekontahexagender. Could also be described as a beast numbergender. – ap
Oh I know! No one is gonna completely agree on everything, even the people close to you or mods who run the same blog! Unfortunately, it tends to be the awful people on any side that are the loudest and most obnoxious voices, and thus are the ones that are heard more. But I definitely appreciate those who disagree with this blog (which is gonna 100% happen, as this blog is meant to be all-encompassing and all of us are gonna disagree with at least one post lol) and yet still are respectful. 🙂
Yup! If someone has a fluid gender where they are only attracted to men as a man, but only attracted to women as a woman, then they could be wlw and mlm without also being wlm or mlw.
Hey there! If you want to be a boy, then it sounds like you’ve already decided that that’s what your gender is. Not all boys like sports and you’re allowed to be a boy that likes “girly” stuff. Doesn’t make you any less a boy. 🙂
Mirrorgender: a gender that changes to fit the people you’re around.
Hey, if it’s okay, I’d like to coin a gender term!
Genderstorm: To have a gender connected to storms of any kind. It’s intensity can change, for example, one day, your gender could be raging, and another day it could be softer. (Like the way storms come in different intensities)
Transgenderqueer: someone who is both trans and genderqueer.
Genderqueer is an umbrella term similar to non-binary. Can describe any gender identities other than (wer)man or woman, thus outside of the gender binary.
Not the same as queer transgender and queer trans binary gendered people. ~ ap
Yeah, this new trend is honestly really shitty. It may look to some that flag makers are just slapping random colors together, but honestly the part that takes the longest in making a flag is figuring out how to design it. It takes time to put one together and there’s often a lot of love and pride put into it, regardless of the quality. There’s a difference between using a pride flag as it is intended, to show pride in yourself as whatever identity you are, and taking it, stripping it of its original meaning, and putting a new one on that the artist did not intend. People with lesser recognized identities were told to make their own symbols. Yet even when they have done so, the message becomes that they’re not allowed even this, because then they will just be taken from them. This is just completely disrespectful. Regardless of your thoughts on who does or does not belong in the LGBT+ community, taking something you did not make and trying to make it mean something else just because you disagree that their identity exists is horrible behavior. Please stop treating people this way and be more respectful. Go ahead and make your own flags like we were told to! We’re not gonna touch your ADT flag, for example, because we recognize that you’re allowed the symbols you make and the basic dignity of not having it taken from you. So if you’re considering making a blog like that, I hope you reconsider.
An anon requested a male-aligned lesbian flag, since I didn’t find any specific gender-aligned lesbian flag I decided designing them.
Man-aligned Lesbian Pride Flag
Solarian (masc-aligned), manugender, dawnian (demiboy-aligned) or mingender lesbian [solabian, minbian or manubian]: a nonbinary lesbian attached to masculinity; aligned with (wer)manhood or whose gender is related at least to male/(wer)manliness
Abinary/Unaligned Lesbian Pride Flag
Abinary, celestian, singularian, aingender, stellarian (non-aligned) lesbian (celebian, abian, ainbian or stellabian/stebian): a lesbian-identifying individual whose gender is completely unrelated to the gender binaryness; a stellar non-binary lesbian, someone who does not experience (strong) alignment with either binary gender, or who rejects such alignment at.
femgender, fingender or fem-aligned lesbian [lunabian, finbian or fembian]: a lesbian-identifying non-binary person attached to femininity,
aligned with womanhood or whose gender is related at least to female/womanliness.
Multi-aligned Lesbian Pride Flag
Multi-aligned, pluri-aligned or poly-aligned lesbian (plubian): a lesbian aligned with multiple genders; attached to plural genderness or whose genderness is related to more than one identity. This includes solunarian/eclipsian, lingender, mesobinary, galaxian, nebularian, neptunian, novarian [neptubian,
solubian, novabian, saturbian] and many others not coined yet, such as fluid-aligned.
Analterous or nonalterous: not feeling alterous attraction.
Similar to the last one, just corrected. See also: aplatonic, aromantic, nonamory, aspiritual, ineffective (unaffection), aprotective, asocial, anamical, apresential,
aqueerplatonic,
nonemotional/anecstatic.
Alterous attraction is best described as wanting emotional closeness without necessarily being (at all or entirely) romantic &/or platonic/amical. Sometimes described as an ecstatic attraction between romantic and quasiplatonic/amorous attractions; or nonromantic desire for spiritual/mental connections and familiar proximities more intimate than friendships.
Analterous or nonalterous: not feeling alterous attraction.
Similar to the last one, just corrected. See also: aplatonic, aromantic, nonamory, aspiritual, ineffective (unaffection), aprotective, asocial, anamical, apresential,
aqueerplatonic,
nonemotional/anecstatic.
Alterous attraction is best described as wanting emotional closeness without necessarily being (at all or entirely) romantic &/or platonic/amical. Sometimes described as an ecstatic attraction between romantic and quasiplatonic/amorous attractions; or nonromantic desire for spiritual/mental connections and familiar proximities more intimate than friendships.
Thanks so much, and I’m sorry to hear about the harassment you’ve been dealing with. Your mental health is much more important. Stay safe, okay? 🙂 We’ll definitely keep making flags, so don’t you worry! 😀
Visigender: A gender that is best described using images, visual aides etc., as you are unable to put it into words due to neurodivergence. For neurodivergent people only.
If someone ends up explaining themselves anyways, might as well have a word for it. Having a word to describe an identity can be very useful. And the more people learn of it, the less the people using it will have to describe it. 🙂
I don’t know of any broad term to describe that at the moment, unless the relationship in question involves three people that are dating each other. This is called a triad, or a delta.
If any non-monogamous or polyamorous followers would like to weigh in, that’d be great!
Yes, although it may take us awhile to get to. I’m one of the main flag makers of the blog and I’m currently dealing with a situation that makes it difficult for me to do much on this blog right now.
At this time, we accept requests for any LGBTIAP+/MOGAI identity, any non-fictionkin or factkin alterhuman identities, and any mental illness/neurological disorder (”mad pride”). We also do combo flags.
They have trained professional counselors on the line 24/7! You might have a 5-15 minute waiting period depending on how busy they are. If they ask “why do you feel ____” it’s NOT because they’re trying to second guess you, it’s because they’re trying to get a better understanding of the situation!
This hotline is good for ANY situation you feel is a crisis, is overwhelming, anything along these lines. I’ve used this number myself a few times and it REALLY helped!
This is a screenshot of the icd 10 for what the icd considers (clinically) someone who is transgender (the old clinical term is transsexual, yes I know transsexual is controversial).
As a person who works in the hospital, regardless of what your stance is on “tucute vs transmedicalist”, please be aware that “trans without dysphoria” DOES NOT “steal resources” from others. If a doctor or whoever your initial prescriber is (psychiatrist, hospitalist, etc) gives you a prescription, they have to “give evidence” in their charts for “why” they’re giving you a prescription (PATIENTS DO NOT SEE THEIR MEDICAL RECORD KEEPING CHARTS!). The only way patients can see this (normally) is if a lawsuit happens.
For medical billing and record keeping purposes, this is likely the icd 10 code used if someone is actively transitioning (mtf or ftm). If you’re changing doctors and your records get transferred, this is likely the code in your official records. Doctors rarely, if ever tell patients the “full story” (as in they might for billing or record keeping purposes diagnosis you with something that YOU DONT EVEN KNOW you’re being diagnosed with, because they don’t verbalize it to you).
Our transgender followers might appreciate this, just for the medical commentary, NOT to comment on the whole “tucute vs transmedicalist” debate
I don’t really like this trend of aesthetic flags where people switch each flag’s colors because most of them are unrecognizable without people explicitly saying “this is flower trans” or “this is punk gay” and so on
and I kind of wonder if the flags are only meant to be recognizable because the community is supposed to only “accept” a few pride flags:
the rainbow flag (6 stripes),
the lesbian flag without the lipstick (7 stripes),
the bi flag (3 stripes, 2:1:2 proportion),
the trans flag (5 stripes, and usually the first and last and the second and fourth stripes are the same color),
the nonbinary flag (4 stripes)
and the pan flag (3 stripes, 1:1:1 proportion)
(also maybe sapphic and achillean because they have symbols on the middle)
because if you go with this logic, then yeah, you can tell what is supposed to be what, no matter what color overlay you use!
but when you want people to recognize the asexual, cupiosexual or panromantic flags? Oops, these are four stripes. Ply, genderqueer, neutrois flags? 3 stripes (of equal size). Uranic, neptunic, solaric? 6 stripes. Demigender, nb girl/boy, agender, comsexual? 7 stripes. Abro, aromantic, ultergender, apogender? 5 stripes.
I’m not saying you need to stop making/using these kinds of flags, or that no one makes aesthetic flags for other flags, but hey, maybe this trend started/got popular with REG blogs specifically because they don’t need to care about confusion/overlap with other flags.
I don’t really have any problem with aesthetic flags myself, but I think that there is definitely strong evidence to suggest what your conclusion is. Namely, the current trend of stealing pride flags of lesser known identities and then slapping an aesthetic gay, lesbian, bisexual, binary trans, and maybe non-binary or pansexual label onto it. Specifically taking advantage of the fact that these aren’t very well known flags and if enough people associate it with an entirely different label than the one it was made for, then suddenly this lesser known identity doesn’t have a flag, and thus no visual indicator for its existence.
-Fy
That definitely contributes to it, although since those “stealing” the flags are doing so with no effort to actually erase the original meanings, so I think that for now that trend is more annoying/disturbing than dangerous.
True, for now. I suppose I meant it more in a “this shows actual intent” way. 🙂
I don’t really like this trend of aesthetic flags where people switch each flag’s colors because most of them are unrecognizable without people explicitly saying “this is flower trans” or “this is punk gay” and so on
and I kind of wonder if the flags are only meant to be recognizable because the community is supposed to only “accept” a few pride flags:
the rainbow flag (6 stripes),
the lesbian flag without the lipstick (7 stripes),
the bi flag (3 stripes, 2:1:2 proportion),
the trans flag (5 stripes, and usually the first and last and the second and fourth stripes are the same color),
the nonbinary flag (4 stripes)
and the pan flag (3 stripes, 1:1:1 proportion)
(also maybe sapphic and achillean because they have symbols on the middle)
because if you go with this logic, then yeah, you can tell what is supposed to be what, no matter what color overlay you use!
but when you want people to recognize the asexual, cupiosexual or panromantic flags? Oops, these are four stripes. Ply, genderqueer, neutrois flags? 3 stripes (of equal size). Uranic, neptunic, solaric? 6 stripes. Demigender, nb girl/boy, agender, comsexual? 7 stripes. Abro, aromantic, ultergender, apogender? 5 stripes.
I’m not saying you need to stop making/using these kinds of flags, or that no one makes aesthetic flags for other flags, but hey, maybe this trend started/got popular with REG blogs specifically because they don’t need to care about confusion/overlap with other flags.
I don’t really have any problem with aesthetic flags myself, but I think that there is definitely strong evidence to suggest what your conclusion is. Namely, the current trend of stealing pride flags of lesser known identities and then slapping an aesthetic gay, lesbian, bisexual, binary trans, and maybe non-binary or pansexual label onto it. Specifically taking advantage of the fact that these aren’t very well known flags and if enough people associate it with an entirely different label than the one it was made for, then suddenly this lesser known identity doesn’t have a flag, and thus no visual indicator for its existence.
It’s Nonbinary Pride Day!! It’s the day for nonbinary, genderqueer, and otherwise not-binary folks to celebrate the wonderful things we have in common and the things that make us beautifully diverse!!
Today we celebrate folks with nonbinary genders!
We celebrate agender folks!
We celebrate xenogender folks!
We celebrate genderfluid and genderflux folks!
We celebrate genderqueer folks!
We celebrate anybody who exists between, outside of, moving across, separate from, and with non-cis relationship to the gender binary!
We celebrate NBLW and trixics!!
We celebrate NBLM and torics!!
We celebrate NBLNB and enbians!!
We celebrate nonbinary WLW!
We celebrate nonbinary MLM!
We celebrate ace NBs!
We celebrate aro NBs!
We celebrate ace/aro NBs!!
We celebrate all NBs and their diverse non-binary attractions, or their beautiful lack thereof!!
We celebrate nonbinary folks who are black, indigenous, or people of color!
We celebrate nonbinary folks who are Jewish, Muslim, Christian, Hindu, Buddhist, and every religious nonbinary person!
We celebrate nonbinary folks who are disabled!
We celebrate autistic nonbinary folks!
We celebrate nonbinary folks who are closeted, who are in families or communities that make being out scary or dangerous or impossible!
We celebrate nonbinary folks who are transitioning, who want to transition, and nonbinary folks who don’t want to to transition!
We celebrate nonbinary folks who are dysphoric and nonbinary folks who are not!
We celebrate folks questioning their potential nonbinary identity!
Adgender: transitioning towards a genderness. Meant to be slightly more inclusive than ‘transfemininity’ and ‘transmasculinity’.
To be used as admasculine, adfeminine and adneutral. Instead of transneutral, cisfeminine, cismasculine, cisneutral, transfeminine or transmasculine. For people not feeling included in trans- or cis-. Useful for demigender, polygender, intersex and genderfluid people. Read more.
Coined by @queer–buccaneer. See also: isogender, integragender. ~ ap
AnEsexuals are people who are sexually attracted to anime characters. I’m an AnEsexual and I’ve never seen a flag for us! So I made one for us! I hope you’ll submit it.
Transracial or transethnic are words used to describe a child of one racial or ethnic group with adoptive parents of another racial or ethnic group. That’s fine.
I don’t think transabled is an actual term used by people with BIID. But BIID is a real thing people have.
Gender-freedom or genderfreeness: undefined gender basis in which gender is not present; when gender is insignificant or irrelevant to the individual; a gender identity which is generally ambiguous, but definitely queer in nature. Gender-freeness will tend to pursue expressions, presentations and such without concern for gender associations associated with them. A blurry, cloudy, whimsical, free sense of gender.
See also: gender-neutral, gender-blind, genderless, apagender. ~ ap
Non-heteroamory: an umbrella term for every practice or philosophy of intimate relationship that does not strictly hew to the standards of heteroamory, a relationship between two individuals whose binary genders are different.
Nonheteroamory includes homoamorous, nonmonoamorous, enbian, diamoric relationships and any other that isn’t straight or duaric (ultric, wlm/mlw). It’s different from nonheterogamy, which encompasses other cultural concepts. ~ ap
Asexy oracexy: the asexual equivalent of sexy; relating to asexuality, exuding or expressing asexuality, or of particular interest to asexuals. It can be something or someone intellectually stimulating, aesthetically pleasing, generally intriguing or physically attractive while not wanting any sexual attraction felt towards them.
I just redesigned the flag based on an art from @smnius.
Last part of the orientationgenders, this time its for bi, pan, poly, and omni. Gender was put before these times as bigender, pangender, polygender, and omnigender are other identities.
Orientationgender: When your orientation is so intrinsically tied to your gender that you absolutely cannot separate the two. The word “orientation” can be replaced with your orientation label.
Cyclothygender: a neurogender where ones gender is influenced by cyclothymia.
(requested by anon)
~ ap
Amoryflux or gamyflux: a gamous/amorous identity which refers to a gamy which varies over time. I.e. they can feel confortable in/would wish agamy, nonamory, bigamous, biamorous, polygamous, polyamorous, (non)monogamous, (non)monoamorous relationship(s) and/or
sologamy / soloamory. Gamousflux and amorousflux people may or not be fidelityflux.
I redesigned the flag since the last one didn’t include other forms of amories and gamies, since they needn’t necessarily fluxing monogamy/monoamory. ~ ap
hi~! this is the amberian flag that i made.
Amberian: someone who is wlw mlm and nblnb
hope everyone likes it!!
Awesome, thanks for the submission!
-Fy
Romosexual, amantesexual and sequencesexual can work.
Amantesexual- only feeling sexual attraction towards someone youre in love with/not feeling sexual attraction until you’re in love with someone.
Sequencesexual: Only experiencing sexual attraction to someone after experiencing romantic attraction to that person.
~ ap
Fin-, fem- and gyne- already encompass attraction to femininity. It’s described attraction to feminine identifying people (could be gender expression and/or identity), it means before you socialise the external gender expression of someone, they should internally identify as such. So pangynesexual, panfinsexual and fempansexual apply to these cases. Gyne- as an umbrella term. – ap
Proxvir: a masculine gender similar to boy, but on a separate plane and off to itself. A gender relative to male, but is something separate and entirely on it’s own. it is not outside the gender spectrum.
Boy-proximal (boyprox): trans folks who are not necessarily men (or are not 100% men as some demiboys may ID, or are not always men as some genderfluid folks may ID, etc etc) but who experience a connection to boyhood, but not boyness.
~ ap
It’s called cis-passing I guess (if you mean gender expression / presentation / external appearance). But if it’s about someone who is both cis trans:
Circumgender: a transgender identity where a person identifies with a cis trans gender, eg. a person assigned the female gender at birth who does not identify as a cis female, but a trans female. See also: adgender.
Integragender or meldgender: having multiple genders and one of them matches the AGAB (gender assigned at birth), being cis trans as a result; someone who is trans cis.
Utrinquegender (utrinque): for short. It means “both sides”, in line with cis (“on this side”) and trans (“across”). It is a modifier, and NOT a gender. It is a word for people who genuinely experience aspects of both trans and cis experiences, but do not fit either label.
Fauxcisgender: A label to go on top of gender(s) feeling cis despite not matching up with the person’s AGAB.
~ ap
Semibinary, ambigender, deminonbinary or demibinary, also reminds cendnonbinary (cendbinary). In this case I guess magibinary. As you said it’s between, interbinary or internonbinary? There isn’t a specific term for it yet. But the closer is:
Half-binary: Gender identity is partially binary and partially nonbinary AND/OR Identifying at least partially as one or both binary genders, yet feeling disconnected from them due to self doubt, or due to neurodivergence making ones gender difficult to understand. ~ ap
I think the more close are fraysexual and dwinsexual:
Dwin- From word ‘dwindle’. the idea is that this is sort of opposite demi- orientation. A person feels attraction for most of their life, but after a particularly strong/close moment/relationship of a particular attraction, they soon or immediately stop feeling that attraction afterwards, or that attraction slowly dwindles away.
Fray- or Ignota- When someone only experiences sexual/romantic attraction to individuals they are less familiar with, and lose interest when they get to know the person.
But I’m not sure if you mean the person still feel SEXUAL attraction, if so I think unisexual is the more closer:
Uniattraction: Feeling attraction towards one person and one person only for advanced periods of time or one’s whole lifetime.
You can go with demisexual, aceflux or abrosexual btw. ~ ap
It’s totally comprehensible, anon. But as far as I know there isn’t a (quasi)platonic orientation for it. I think it could be smush- (sexual crush), smushqueerplatonic, smushplatonic or smushamical. You can also try using platonisexual, quoiplatonic or amicussexual. ~ ap
Hello @ghostsundermyhat. I think the same way people use bxy (boy-x) and mxsc you can say mxle or male-x (mxn or man-x).
Bxy (pronounced like boy): A gender that is both boy and agender/no gender. You can be a boy and agender/no gender at the same time, go between them, or fluctuate between feeling male and not feeling gender.
Yes, agender is a nonbinary genderness/identity. So you can be bigender of both agender and male, bigenderfluid or bigenderstatic (kymenian/kymenbigender). You can try going with solarian agender too:
Solarian (man-aligned): in many cultures and religious systems, the sun is associated with masculinity, and male energy. As a result, a Solar Nonbinary Person, or Solarian, would be someone who has similarities in identity or experience with men.
~ ap
Varioriented, crossoriented,
incongruent
attractions, mixed, split or mismatched orientation: when your sexual and romantic orientations do not target the same set of genders (i.e. aromantic pansexual or biromantic heterosexual).
Intra-: A system member who is only attracted to other members of the same system. Only to be used by system members.
I guess automnisexual and omniautosexual also work, but aumnisexual sounds like a new one, reminds the coining of aetusexual mixing adfectusexual & aegosexual. – ap
My guess it was nominromantic/nominsexual, but plutaric and neptunic also work:
Plutaric: Attraction to men, women, stellarian nbs, and lunarian nbs, but not solarian nbs.
Neptunic: Attraction to women, nongender people, and all nbs who are not male-aligned or masculine.
Nomin- Attraction to people who aren’t masculine identifying.
Sollarian is meant for man-aligned enbies as an galactian gender alignment umbrella. – ap
Gai means a nonbinary feeling eir attraction is gay (as in, not straight) but in a nonbinary way.
Strayt means a nonbinary feeling eir attraction is straight but in a nonbinary way.
These terms are subjetive and up to the nb individuals to better interpret their orientation with personal identity narratives. It usually means nblnb, nblw and/or nblm but there are some who doesn’t fit in nbl- or those trinary gender-based attraction model. ~ ap
Here you go: ~ ap
Apressexual: Only experiencing attraction after another form of attraction is felt. The attraction originally felt may or may not fade away over time, the new attraction replacing it.
Recipsexual / ReciprosexualA person that only feels attraction only if the other person feels attraction to them at first. If there is no one around to feel attraction to them, largely recipros may feel like simply definining themself as aromantic/asexual/etc. describes their experiences just fine.
You still can be an asexual lesbian. I’m not sure if there’s a term like lesbiromantic, but sure you can use homoromantic, womaromantic, femaric (umbrella term), finromantic, femromantic, sapphic or gyneromantic. – ap
I just looked up the definition and sure you can be monosexual and novosexual (monofluid). It means you change your orientation not necessarily the gender-based attraction. So for an example someone can be straight and other times gay/lesbian and then quadrisian/orbisian. – ap
It can be alteanonbinary:
Altegender: derived from shortening the phrase “alternate existence.” It is a xenogender that feels as though it’s in a parallel dimension, on a different plane, in a mirror universe, or just in an alternate existence.
Anb or anonbinary(a-non-binary): A gender that definitely isn’t binary, but is still even outside of nonbinary. Hence using the ‘a’ like in agender.
– ap
These could be good ideas. Usually people design flags with attraction to enbies because it encompasses specific identities, but sure there could be flags for specific nonbinary genders. ~ ap
Followers might help but apagender is what popped up for me:
Anvisgender, Apagender, or Inersgender:Used to describe those who are too lazy/apathetic to care about their gender.
These descriptions would fit it:
Low-Dysphoria: trans and nonbinary people who have dysphoria that fluctuates between being very low and having none. Source
Bodyfluid: Feeling like your relationship to your sex characteristics changes from day to day/moment to moment/etc. (Maybe not the best term to use for this).
Bodyflux:Feeling like your sense of embodiment fluxuates between weak and strong; sort of related to dissociation, but not actually dissociation. Can describe frequent and inexplicable out-of-body sensations. See also: Transbodied.
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