Genderlight Pride Flag

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Genderlight or Panzerogender (zeropangender): when all genders, accessible within your own culture and life experience, are nullified when combined with their respective antigenders, leading to mutual self-destruction or a similar concept of nullifying; the mix of pangender and panantigender.

This would result or not on neutrois, null-genders or rather a gender lightness, balancing all absolute and opposite genders (pannegatrois + panpositrois). ~ ap

Panantigender Pride Flag

Panungender or Panantigender (sometimes interchangeable with Omniantigender/Antipangender/Unpangender):

a person who is all opposite genders (antigenders) accessible within eir own culture and life experience (simultaneously or not).

Also on poly(anti)gender and negatrois spectra. This isn’t the same as agender. Flag using opposite colors of pangender flag (but the same clarity). ~ ap

The Great Bot Purge 2018

purgethebots:

Tumblr is in an epidemic. The porn bot apocalypse is here. And it’s really, really, really, really, really annoying. Even more annoying than me saying really five times in a row because let’s face it:

  • To check more video, clcik here.
  • Click here to find onenight stands
  • For more more private stuff, come here.
  • Looking for fun? Join me here.
  • Howdy guy, more private stuff here.
  • Howdy bro, my profile here.

Lately the probability of finding a comment like this in the notes has gone up from 100% to a 10000% and it’s seriously impacting our user experience.

I have been here since 2010, @staff. Started out as wolf blog and in 2012 I used to share my poetry and made eight super good friends to which I am still talking today! But now what?

It’s pretty safe to say that there are a number of bot networks active on this website. The one asking for bitcoin and the aforementioned ‘looking for fun’ one for example. The bots follow a pattern and because it’s a network it should be easy to roll up.

I know we always point at @staff to fix this, but honestly, it’s not an easy fix. I know many people block bots, but do we also report and flag them? How does staff respond to flags?

Anyway, here is what I and 10,000 other people who started following this blog over the last 24 hours propose:

We purge the bots. The porn bots. All of them. This is going to be one big COORDINATED effort to destroy the bots!

For one month we are going to report and flag those blogs, and make sure we cut their profits so they don’t make enough money to support their bot network.

It’s very important that we do this as a community. This is a movement. Everyone has to join so we can limit the outcome of this battle to only two possibilities:

  1. We win this battle
  2. @staff really doesn’t give a shit

Let’s go get them! Join the army @purgethebots

Not related to our content, but it is relevant since we have to deal with spam bots as well. I’ll be joining in on this!

-Fy

saturnic-vapour:

Gendertorrent-a gender that feels like it flows like a river, ever changing but feeling similar. It can be muddy, have rocks and moss in it, and other things. Anything a River or stream would have, it likely has.
Flag is made by me, term was coined by @nicknackdraws

– ap

updated technosic flag! i’m still not 100% certain of it, but i like the lighter blues better.


Oooo that’s really pretty! Thanks for the submission!

-Fy

Why do you have flags for incels, infidelity, sapiosexual (ableist, classist, elitist, often racist), stuff like that?

Since its inception, BMPF has been about making flags for people whose identity had been told by other flag blogs that they won’t make a flag for it. Its never really been about staying within the confines of what had been deemed acceptable by those who are LGBT+/MOGAI. So we’ve always been about pushing the envelop a bit, so to speak. And this was even more so the case when I first made the blog, since I had as many followers as I could count on one hand. 

Interestingly, there’s been a small push by some to try and reclaim sapiosexual from the pretentious people that currently use it to describe something more like noetisexual, which was what it was originally meant to be for. And incel was actually a term coined by a bisexual woman and then later co-opted by the terrible people that use it today.

What is deemed acceptable in the community tends to fluctuate (such as nocis- being okay, then wait no its bad, okay its acceptable again. Same thing with wlnb and mlnb), so what you may see as bad, others may not. Not everything we post is LGBT+/MOGAI. We don’t all agree with the terms we post, but it would completely miss the point if we did.

Not sure if I explained that clearly, but I hope that helped a bit!

portugayse:

New NB Terms!

Instead of the clunky “nonbinary boy” or “nonbinary girl,” here are two terms that I propose. If there are already terms like this, I will take this post down.

Enboy: A male aligned nonbinary person or someone who considers themselve to be a nonbinary boy.

I chose this because enby and enboy are close in spelling, it was only missing one letter.

Pronounced: Enn – boy

Girlby: A female aligned nonbinary person or someone who considers themselve to be a nonbinary girl.

I chose this because enboy has the en part of enby and, now, girlby has the by part of enby.

Pronounced: Girl – bee

Of course you could just say enby if you’re looking for a word that is flowy, but this is just for the people who are looking for a nice specific term.

Feel free to add on!

This is super cute!

-Vi 💙

about that glg chart thing: do you know which ones still need a word coined for them? i was thinking about coining one but i wanted to make sure there already isn’t a name for it..

xeno-aligned:

beyond-mogai-pride-flags:

xeno-aligned:

beyond-mogai-pride-flags:

I think the only ones that need a term coined for them are:

at least mlm, mlw, nblm, and nblw

at least wlw and nblw

at least wlm, wlw, nblm, and nblw

I may be wrong, though, so you should probably check with @nbandproud since that’s the blog that made those charts. 🙂

I think these need terms too (as far as I know):

wlnb, mlnb, wlm, mlm

wlw, wlnb, mlw, mlnb

wlm, wlw, wlnb

mlm, mlw, mlnb, wlm, wlw, wlnb

Those would be:

Alexandritic (mlm, wlm, mlnb, and wlnb)

Benitoitic (mlw, wlw, mlnb, and wlnb)

Taaffeitian (wlw, wlm, and wlnb)

Serendibitian (mlm, wlm, mlnb, wlnb, mlw, and wlw)

😀

-Fy

oh ok, thanks! so the terms that I’m missing are:

nblw & nblm

wlw, wlnb, mlw & mlnb

mlw, mlnb, wlw, wlnb, nblw & nblnb

do these have terms yet?

No problem! Those are:

Scapolitian (nblm and nblw)

Benitoitic again 😛

Ioltian (starts with an i!) (nblnb, wlnb, mlnb, nblw, wlw, and mlw)

-Fy

xeno-aligned:

hypermodernisms:

Updated Sol_ric flags!

The old ones were a bit too bright.

Flag 1: Soldaric – a transfeminine person only interested in being with a trans or nonbinary person. 
Flag 2: Solderic – a nonbinary person only interested in being with a trans or nonbinary person.
Flag 3: Soldiric –  an unaligned/nongendered person only interested in being with a trans or nonbinary person.

Flag 4: Soldoric – a transneutral person only interested in being with a trans or nonbinary person.
Flag 5: Solduric – a transmasculine person only interested in being with a trans or nonbinary person.

Sol_ric labels are similar to nocis-, but where nocis– is for people who experience no attraction to cisgender people, a sold_ric person could experience attraction – just not be interested in acting on it. These aren’t meant to fetishise trans or nb people, just a label for a trans or nb person to express interest in dating a trans or nb person.

accidentally posted to main, whoops. 

Oh nice!!

-Fy

about that glg chart thing: do you know which ones still need a word coined for them? i was thinking about coining one but i wanted to make sure there already isn’t a name for it..

xeno-aligned:

beyond-mogai-pride-flags:

I think the only ones that need a term coined for them are:

at least mlm, mlw, nblm, and nblw

at least wlw and nblw

at least wlm, wlw, nblm, and nblw

I may be wrong, though, so you should probably check with @nbandproud since that’s the blog that made those charts. 🙂

I think these need terms too (as far as I know):

wlnb, mlnb, wlm, mlm

wlw, wlnb, mlw, mlnb

wlm, wlw, wlnb

mlm, mlw, mlnb, wlm, wlw, wlnb

Those would be:

Alexandritic (mlm, wlm, mlnb, and wlnb)

Benitoitic (mlw, wlw, mlnb, and wlnb)

Taaffeitian (wlw, wlm, and wlnb)

Serendibitian (mlm, wlm, mlnb, wlnb, mlw, and wlw)

😀

-Fy

alwayschoppedlady:

Plurigenders are valid.

Plurigenders are awesome!

Iridians are valid.

Opalians are valid.

Asterosians are valid.

Lesbian Demigirls are valid.

Trans Lesbians are valid.

Nonbinary Lesbians are valid.

Trans Gays are valid.

Nonbinary Gays are valid.

NBTANB/XTAX are valid.

NBTANB/XTAX are awesome!

BTX/BTNB are valid.

BTX/BTNB are awesome!

Gerbi people are valid.

Genderpan people are valid.

Genderpoly people are valid.

Genderomni people are valid.

Xeminity people are valid

Duogender people are valid.

Saturnic people are valid.

Enboys are valid.

Vibragenders are valid.

Contragenders are valid.

Genderflors are valid.

Abinary people are valid.

X0/Tuner Syndrome people are valid.

Agender Neutrals/Neu-Agenders are valid.

Agender Neutroises are valid.

Neutragender/Neutrois-X are valid.

Nonbinary Lesbians are awesome!

Heteroflux people are valid.

Elaflux people are valid.

Gaiflux people are valid.

Straytflux people are valid.

Lesbiflux people are valid.

Gayflux people are valid.

Anisoflux people are valid.

Monoflux people are valid.

Cis Trans people are valid.

Try- people are valid.

Trans Poly- people are valid.

Hypogonadism people are valid.

Isogender people are valid.

Man-Woman people are valid.

Anorexgender people are valid.

Worldgender people are valid.

Emigender people are valid.

Mavrine people are valid.

Calighn people are valid.

Strayt people are valid

Pulsaric people are valid.

Gender Euphoric people are valid.

Gender Dysphoric people are valid.

Androgynous Agender people are valid.

Creamic people are valid.

Opalic people are valid.

Pan- Lesbian people are valid.

Mxsc Neutrois people are valid.

Symmaic people are valid.

Contraic people are valid.

Agender MLM people are valid.

Hetera- people are valid.

Mercuric people are valid.

Lunaric people are valid.

Hypogonadism people are awesome!

Solaric people are valid.

Neutraflux people are valid.

Enanteic people are valid.

Enanteian people are valid.

Gendersylph people are valid.

Nebulagender people are valid.

Gendervast people are valid.

Ultragender people are valid.

Bruisegender people are valid.

Alexandric people are valid.

Neutric people are valid.

Neutric people are awesome!

Monofluid people are valid.

Monofluid people are awesome!

Gamyflux people are valid.

Homa- people are valid.

Fidelityflux people are valid.

Aliensic people are valid.

Disigender people are valid.

Duaric people are valid.

Navu- people are valid.

Imperigender people are valid.

Panmingender people are valid.

Stellaric people are valid.

Pangendernin people are valid.

Faesari people are valid.

Neudoux people are valid.

Genderdoux people are valid.

Homdoux people are valid.

Femdoux people are valid.

Vixengender people are valid.

Hadogender people are valid.

Cheshiric people are valid.

Binaryfluid people are valid.

Neuvir people are valid.

Neulier people are valid.

Virusgender people are valid.

Arbinale people are valid.

Acefluix people are valid.

Spiritgender people are valid.

Twinkby people are valid.

Binaryflux people are valid.

Arogender people are valid.

-Fy

if its not too much, could yall list all the presentation terms you know and flags [if they are any] for them?

Hmm I’m not really sure what flags there are regarding presentation. Some of the Androgyne flags are also used for those that present androgynously (as an Androgynous pride flag), but I don’t think there are any that were made exclusively for that. And I don’t know of any flags made for “masculine” or “feminine” presentation. 

There is a flag for those that are Gender Non-Conforming, and I’ve also found one for those who are Gender Conforming.

GNC Pride Flag

Gender Conforming Flag

Other than that, I don’t really know of any at this time. There definitely should be some made though! If anyone else knows of some flags to help anon out, that’d be great!

Starkgender & Flaugender

xeno-aligned:

Starkgender: a gender that is strong, or a gender that you feel strongly/intensely. From German stark, meaning strong.

Flaugender: a gender that is weak, or a gender that you feel weakly. From German flau, meaning weak/soft.

Starkgenderflux: a gender that you feel strongly or a gender that is strong, but over time it becomes weaker.

Flaugenderflux: a gender that you feel weakly or a gender that is weak, but over time it becomes stronger.

– ap

saturnic-vapour:

Meteogender-a fluid gender that changes due to the weather, because emotions associated with the weather affect one’s gender. For example, one could be a boy when it is sunny, a girl when it is raining, and non-binary when there is a thunderstorm.
Another term: Genderweather
Flag was made by me, term was coined by @nonbinary-paradise

saturnic-vapour:

Meteogender-a fluid gender that changes due to the weather, because emotions associated with the weather affect one’s gender. For example, one could be a boy when it is sunny, a girl when it is raining, and non-binary when there is a thunderstorm.
Another term: Genderweather
Flag was made by me, term was coined by @nonbinary-paradise

saturnic-vapour:

Chamomilian-a gender related to chamomile.
Term was coined by me, the 1st flag is mine, the 2nd is @daisyxoy

– ap

saturnic-vapour:

Chamomilian-a gender related to chamomile.
Term was coined by me, the 1st flag is mine, the 2nd is @daisyxoy

– ap

I designed a pride flag for Ageninic!

Ageninic: attraction to agender people


Thanks so much for the submission! Looks great! 😀

-Fy

Aniso- Pride Flags

Anisoattractional or Homoflexible: usually feeling attraction to same/similar gender(s) but having rare exceptions; identifying predominantly as homo-, symmaic, gay/lesbian, cypric/enbian or sapphic/achillean but flexible in this identity. On amplusic spectrum and monoflexible umbrella, not necessarily considered pluralian/mspec. Includes enbianflexible, lesbianflexible and gayflexible.

Anisoquasiplatonic/Anisoquirkyplatonic/Anisoqueerplatonic Pride Flag

Anisosexual/Homosexualflexible Pride Flag

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Anisosocial Pride Flag

Anisoromantic/Homoflexibleromantic/Homoflexibleromantic   Pride Flag

Anisoamical Pride Flag

Anisosthetic/Anisoaethetic Pride Flag

Anisoplatonic/Homoplatoniflexible/Homoflexibleplatonic Pride Flag

Anisosensual/Homosensualflexible Pride Flag

Anisoalterous/Homoalterousflexible Pride Flag

~ ap

CELESTIAL SYSTEM (EXPANDED!)

system-mogai:

Hello I’m back to expand another system that didn’t seem to have all the gender options in it!

This time it’s the celestial system, which is a gender system that has a connection to softer celestial energy, and may have a varying amount of gendered feeling. It’s never hyper-gendered, simply a soft energy of the gender the person experiences. 

The system already has flags, and they’re beautiful, but they didn’t seem to match each other much. So I made new flags and added some new terms!

Juparian, Lunettian, Mercurian and Neptunian!

Venusian, Saturnian, Celestarian, and Kuiperian! (New term for starfluid!)

Plutoian, Sonnean, Ceresian and Ouranean!

Terrean, Marsean, Erisian,and Asteroidian!

The diagram looks like this.

Explanation for the flags under the cut!

(Also yeah that’s right, new genderfluid symbol!)

Keep reading

Signal boost!

-Fy

Elasexual Pride Flag

Elasexual or Heteroflexible is when you have dissimilar gender attraction but RARELY exhibit attraction outside of the different gender; identifying as predominantly hetero-/straight, differo-/penulti-, duaric/ultric or enanteic/contraic but being flexible in this identity. Within the amplusic spectrum and monoflexible umbrella.

This flag was created with the idea of while someone might have other gender attraction majority of the time, that exception can be anyone of same or similar gender (it’s just of all the people YOU HAVE been sexually attracted to, MAJORITY of them have been the opposite/different gender of you). ~ ap

Negatrois Pride Flag

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Negatrois or Negative-gender: someone whose genderness is negative, the polar/extreme opposite of positrois and constrasted with neutrois (gender positivity/neutrality). This identity includes:

  • Antigender or Ungender (opposite gender);
  • Negative (abinary gender);
  • Gender negativity.

Gender negativity can be a feeling of shortage/decrease of elements, ie, it is a minimal/diminutive gender, not the same as genderminus/-.

Negative isn’t the same as gendernegative (gender ausence) or genderless, they can be (negatively) gendered. Also not related with pessimism. The same way someone can be transneutral, cisneutral and adneutral, there are transnegative, cisnegative and adnegative people. When negatrois is combined with positrois it formates zerogender(s) or a nullgender(s) [nullified], resulting or not on a neutrois gender, able to lean more one side than to the other and fluctuate between the genders (such in cendgender). Can be heavy gender when contrasted with gender-free.

This isn’t necessarily a xenogender or a neurogender, but some people can associate their gender negativity with lethargy transmission, their life experience, neurotype (as in negagender), electricity, magnetism, numbers (as in numbergender and arithmagender), temperature/weather or other things involving sciences such as physics and chemistry.

To be used as

negative-boy,

negative-girl,

negative-nonbinary, etc. ~ ap

Positrois Pride Flag

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Positrois or Positive-gender: someone whose genderness is positive / absolute, the polar/extreme opposite of negatrois and constrasted with neutrois (gender negativity/neutrality). This identity includes:

  • Eugender (counterpoint of antigender);
  • Positive (abinary gender);
  • Gender positivity.

Gender positivity can be a sense of multiplicity/addition or excess of elements, ie, it is a multiple/additive/abundant gender, not the same as poly/multigender.

Positrois isn’t the same as genderpositive (gender presence), genderplus/+ or comgender, they can be (positively) agendered. Also not related with optimism. The same way someone can be transneutral, cisneutral and adneutral, there are transpositive, cispositive and adpositive people. When positrois is combined with negatrois it formates zerogender/s or nullgender/s (nullified), resulting or not on a neutrois gender, able to lean more one side than to the other and fluctuate between the genders (such in cendgender). Can be volatile gender when contrasted with gender-free.

This isn’t necessarily a xenogender or a neurogender, but some people can associate their gender positivity with energy transmission, their

life experience, neurotype (as in posigender), electricity, magnetism, numbers (as in numbergender and arithmagender), temperature/weather or other things involving sciences such as physics and chemistry. 

To be used as positive-boy, positive-girl, positive-nonbinary, etc. ~ ap

Neugender Pride Flag

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Neugender: a comneutrois/comneutral person (comgender neutrois); someone who is neutrally gendered; an abinary neutral-aporagender; a complete gendered feeling that is attached to gender neutrality.

Not in the way gender neutrality is often represented (as if it was gender-blindness, genderlessness, gender indifference or gender-free). Can be used as neuboy, neumale, neufemale, neugirl, neuman and neuwoman. This is also ningender and aingender (neutral/aporine in nature). Not to be confused with eugender, there are antineutrois (antineugender) people. ~ ap

system-mogai:

beyond-mogai-pride-flags:

hi, i’m the technosic anon, and i’ve started working on a flag! thanks for the suggestions, and i’d love any input you have on my first draft.


Awesome! Thanks for the submission. 😀

-Fy

Could use a lil bit brighter, but not as in color – just lighter in general.

Also, I happen to know of the PERFECT gender symbol for this! Someone tell me to draw that up.

You should totally draw that up! :O

-Fy

system-mogai:

beyond-mogai-pride-flags:

hi, i’m the technosic anon, and i’ve started working on a flag! thanks for the suggestions, and i’d love any input you have on my first draft.


Awesome! Thanks for the submission. 😀

-Fy

Could use a lil bit brighter, but not as in color – just lighter in general.

Also, I happen to know of the PERFECT gender symbol for this! Someone tell me to draw that up.

You should totally draw that up! :O

-Fy

More Gender Symbols!

system-mogai:

These I simply made since @arco-pluris needed some for aer flags. I also made some others for no reason other than having them.

I also made some bigger scale versions of the first post of symbols!

Intersex and Genderfluid

Femme, Butch and Third Gender 

Bigender, Transgender and Questioning

Futch, Epicene and Travesti-nb

Genderfluid (librafluid), Pangender, and Nonbinary (comet)!

Links to all these are here! (All are transparent!)

I’ll update the list as I make more, and post them!

IF YOU HAVE GENDER SYMBOL REQUESTS, I CAN TAKE THEM!

@queer–buccaneer @ask-pride-color-schemes @arco-pluris @beyond-mogai-pride-flags @nonbinary-paradise @genderlist @symbolsuggest for some signal boosting!

The first is more specific intersex intersections (means there’s a infinite spectrum between the perisexes), the second one would be more mesofluid (mesobinaryfluid). ~ ap

Multisexual Masterlist Terms

I tried looking around for as many terms as possible. This is as of July 2018, so it’s very possible terms have changed since this post. If I missed a specific term, I apologize!

First a definition: multisexual is an umbrella term for people who experience sexual attraction to 2+ gender identities and/or sexes. I am going for terms that expicitly state 2+ gender identities (so something like demisexual would NOT be included on this list BECAUSE it’s a broad definition, not explicitly stating how many gender identities the person is attracted to)

Plurian is an alternative term to multisexual too!

  • bisexual
  • polysexual
  • pansexual
  • omnisexual
  • anisosexual/homoflexible (same sex attraction RARE exception)
  • elasexual/heteroflexible (opposite sex attraction RARE exception)
  • Attrafluid/flux (someone whose gender changes depending on the gender(s) they feel [alterous, aesthetic, platonic, romantic, sensual and/or sexual] attraction to at the moment.)
  • Iridian (someone who is wlw, wlnb, nblnb, and nblw. Basically someone with multiple genders (female and nonbinary) who is attracted to women and nonbinary people)
  • Opalian (someone who is nonbinary and a man, who is attracted at least to nonbinary people and men; someone who is nblm, nblnb, mlm and mlnb.)
  • Asterosian (a man who loves men and nb people)
  • Soldoric (a transneutral person with a dating preference for other nonbinary people and trans people)
  • Stellaric (attraction to non-aligned enbies and stellarians only)
  • Mercuric (attraction to men, women, fem-aligned enbies, masc-aligned enbies, solarians, lunarians, novarians, and nebularians. Basically anyone but non-aligned or stellarian people.)
  • Uranic (Attraction to men, nongender people, and all nbs who are not female-aligned or feminine.)
  • Saturnic (attracted to androgyne enbies, androgynous-aligned (fem-aligned and masc-aligned) enbies, (neutral) masculine feminine enbies, saturnians, eclipsians/sollunarians, galaxians and celestarians, but not monobinaries)
  • Neptunic (Attraction to women, nongender people, and all nbs who are not male-aligned or masculine.)
  • Greyomnisapphic (a type of greysexuality where on the rare occasion that they do exhibit sexual attraction, they consider themselves pan/omni but strongly lean towards sapphic)
  • Greyomniandro a type of greysexuality where on the rare occasion that they do exhibit sexual attraction, they consider themselves pan/omni but strongly lean towards mlm spectrum
  • Venusic: (A nonbinary person attracted to women and nonbinary lunarians.)

-Vi

Multisexual Masterlist Terms

I tried looking around for as many terms as possible. This is as of July 2018, so it’s very possible terms have changed since this post. If I missed a specific term, I apologize!

First a definition: multisexual is an umbrella term for people who experience sexual attraction to 2+ gender identities and/or sexes. I am going for terms that expicitly state 2+ gender identities (so something like demisexual would NOT be included on this list BECAUSE it’s a broad definition, not explicitly stating how many gender identities the person is attracted to)

Plurian is an alternative term to multisexual too!

  • bisexual
  • polysexual
  • pansexual
  • omnisexual
  • anisosexual/homoflexible (same sex attraction RARE exception)
  • elasexual/heteroflexible (opposite sex attraction RARE exception)
  • Attrafluid/flux (someone whose gender changes depending on the gender(s) they feel [alterous, aesthetic, platonic, romantic, sensual and/or sexual] attraction to at the moment.)
  • Iridian (someone who is wlw, wlnb, nblnb, and nblw. Basically someone with multiple genders (female and nonbinary) who is attracted to women and nonbinary people)
  • Opalian (someone who is nonbinary and a man, who is attracted at least to nonbinary people and men; someone who is nblm, nblnb, mlm and mlnb.)
  • Asterosian (a man who loves men and nb people)
  • Soldoric (a transneutral person with a dating preference for other nonbinary people and trans people)
  • Stellaric (attraction to non-aligned enbies and stellarians only)
  • Mercuric (attraction to men, women, fem-aligned enbies, masc-aligned enbies, solarians, lunarians, novarians, and nebularians. Basically anyone but non-aligned or stellarian people.)
  • Uranic (Attraction to men, nongender people, and all nbs who are not female-aligned or feminine.)
  • Saturnic (attracted to androgyne enbies, androgynous-aligned (fem-aligned and masc-aligned) enbies, (neutral) masculine feminine enbies, saturnians, eclipsians/sollunarians, galaxians and celestarians, but not monobinaries)
  • Neptunic (Attraction to women, nongender people, and all nbs who are not male-aligned or masculine.)
  • Greyomnisapphic (a type of greysexuality where on the rare occasion that they do exhibit sexual attraction, they consider themselves pan/omni but strongly lean towards sapphic)
  • Greyomniandro a type of greysexuality where on the rare occasion that they do exhibit sexual attraction, they consider themselves pan/omni but strongly lean towards mlm spectrum
  • Venusic: (A nonbinary person attracted to women and nonbinary lunarians.)

-Vi

genderqueer-dream:

@beyond-mogai-pride-flags

I designed an Xin- pride flag!

Xin- Attraction to Xenogener people.

Awesome, thanks so much!

Note: Xin stands for Xenine in Nature and also refers to attraction to Xenine and Xenic people.

-Fy

genderqueer-dream:

@beyond-mogai-pride-flags

I designed an Xin- pride flag!

Xin- Attraction to Xenogener people.

Awesome, thanks so much!

Note: Xin stands for Xenine in Nature and also refers to attraction to Xenine and Xenic people.

-Fy

Somnigender: A gender identity related to, dependent upon, or inexorably connected to a feeling of sleepiness or tiredness. Alternately can refer to a gender that is difficult or impossible to perceive or identify due to feelings of sleepiness or tiredness. Not a narcolepsy/insomnia-based neurogender, just general sleepiness.


Thanks for the submission!

-Fy

What transgender really means

crossdreamers:

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grandtran:

tuspoopy:

hey truscum did you know that when you tell a trans person that they are cis you are in fact misgendering them 

how hard is this to understand. stop being horrible.

Hey tucutes, did you know, that being trans without dysphoria means you’re not trans?

How hard is this to understand. Stop being horrible.

No, grandtran, you do not get to define the word transgender. The common usage, as developed by the transgender community and associated researchers, is as an umbrella term for all types of gender variance. 

Here are are the ways leading trans activists and health organizations define transgender:

The World Professional Association for Transgender Health, WPATH
“[Transgender:] Adjective to describe a diverse group of individuals who cross or transcend culturally defined categories of gender. The gender identity of transgender people differs to varying degrees from the sex they were assigned at birth”

The American Psychiatric Association (DSM-5 definition)
“Transgender refers to the broad specter of individuals who transiently or persistently identify with a gender different from their natal gender.”

American Psychological Association
“Transgender is an umbrella term for persons whose gender identity, gender expression or behavior does not conform to that typically associated with the sex to which they were assigned at birth.”

American Medical Student Association
“’Transgender’ is an umbrella term used by people in a number of different groups, including but not limited to cross-dressers (those who wear clothing of the other sex some of the time) to genderqueer people (those who feel that they belong to either both genders or neither gender) and transsexuals (an older term for people who take hormones and have sex-reassignment surgery (SRS) in order to transition to a different sex.“

The UK National Health Service (NHS) 
"Trans and transgender are terms that are used to describe people who don’t conform to the traditional division of male and female.Trans embraces many different types of people and lifestyles, including:

  • People who cross-dress (transvestite people). These people sometimes wear the clothing of the opposite sex, but don’t want to live full-time as a member of the opposite sex.
  • People who feel that they’re both male and female, or neither male nor female.
  • Drag queens, drag kings and other people who don’t appear conventionally masculine or feminine.
  • Transsexual people. These are people who have a strong and constant desire to live and be accepted as a member of the opposite sex. Many transsexual people have gender reassignment treatment to make their appearance more consistent with their preferred gender. This often involves hormone therapy and surgery.”

Gender Equity Resource Center, Berkeley

  • Transgender people are those whose psychological self (“gender identity”) differs from the social expectations for the physical sex they were born with. For example, a female with a masculine gender identity or who identifies as a man.
  • An umbrella term for transsexuals, cross-dressers (transvestites), transgenderists, gender queers, and people who identify as neither female nor male and/or as neither a man or as a woman. *)

Merriam-Webster Dictionary
“[Transgender:] of, relating to, or being a person (as a transsexual or transvestite) who identifies with or expresses a gender identity that differs from the one which corresponds to the person’s sex at birth.”

Trans activist Cristan Williams
“[Transgender is] Anyone whose physical makeup, emotional, sexual and/or self-expression is in conflict with current cultural gender stereotypes.”

Professor Susan Stryker in the book Transgender History
“I use [the term transgender in] this book to refer to people who move away from the gender they were assigned at birth, people who cross over(trans-) the boundaries constructed by their culture to define and contain that gender.”

Trans activist and philosopher Julia Serano
“Transgender is a big umbrella word that includes all sorts of people who in one way or another defy other people’s expectations regarding gender. It not only includes transsexuals, but also people who are gender queer that is who don’t identify exclusively as either male of female. In its broadest definition it includes people who are feminine men and masculine women.”*)

The broad umbrella interpretation is also shared by most other leading trans activists, including Janet Mock, Andrea James and Laverne Cox.

None of these definitions require gender dysphoria. There are definitions of the word transsexual that require dysphoria, but this does not apply to the broader terms trans or transgender.

References here, here and here. See also: What the DSM-5 says about terms like transgender, transsexual and gender dysphoria

For those asking how someone can be transgender and not have dysphoria. 

-Fy

I am an age regressor, and my regression really messes with my perception of my own gender. Is there a name for that? (Not clover/kindergender; I’m not a pedophile, and I want nothing to do with them.)

jynto:

beyond-mogai-pride-flags:

I’m sorry, I looked around and I couldn’t find one. :/ You can coin one, though, if you want!

I’m interested to know (in case I feel like using it), did a term like that ever get coined?

@beyond-mogai-pride-flags

I think someone suggested Regressgender or something similar, but I don’t think there was any term there was a consensus on yet! Are you thinking you’d like to coin a term for this?

-Fy

saturnic-vapour:

UPD: Marcus decided to change, so and I
Botgender-a gender that goes by the belief of robots not feeling emotions. It’s a gender that feels cold like steel but also static-y. Easier way to describe it is just feeling like a robot. Note: Can be used by Robot/android/cybertroniankins or nonkin who appreciate robots.
Flag made by me, term coined by @maflexiblemarcus

– ap

saturnic-vapour:

UPD: Marcus decided to change, so and I
Botgender-a gender that goes by the belief of robots not feeling emotions. It’s a gender that feels cold like steel but also static-y. Easier way to describe it is just feeling like a robot. Note: Can be used by Robot/android/cybertroniankins or nonkin who appreciate robots.
Flag made by me, term coined by @maflexiblemarcus

– ap

saturnic-vapour:

Autogender-a gender experience that feels deeply personal to oneself but it too difficult to accurately describe with any other gender terms.
Flag is by me, term was coined by @maflexiblemarcus

– ap

saturnic-vapour:

Autogender-a gender experience that feels deeply personal to oneself but it too difficult to accurately describe with any other gender terms.
Flag is by me, term was coined by @maflexiblemarcus

– ap

biduck:

I’ve coined a term for my gender!

Farraigender– a gender that feels connected or related to the ocean for any reason. Farrai- comes from farraige, the Irish word for the ocean/sea.

I sent a submission into @xeno-aligned, so if it pops up there sometime soon and any of yall see it, thats why.

-Fy

biduck:

I’ve coined a term for my gender!

Farraigender– a gender that feels connected or related to the ocean for any reason. Farrai- comes from farraige, the Irish word for the ocean/sea.

I sent a submission into @xeno-aligned, so if it pops up there sometime soon and any of yall see it, thats why.

-Fy

dusks-mogai-blog:

°☾ Lapisian ☽°

Someone who is lapisian is at least xenogender, non-binary and a woman who’s attracted to at least xenogender people, non-binaries, women and men, or is someone who fits at least all of the following: xlw, xlm,xlnb,xlx,wlw,wlm,wlnb,wlx,nblw,nblm,nblnb & nblx.

The colors are based off a real lapis lazuli stone because they’re my favorite gemstone. The flag was made with @pride-color-schemes​‘ templates!!

@uncommongenders@beyond-mogai-pride-flags@orientationlist​ (please tag more people if you can to spread this term!)

Looks great! 😀

-Fy

dusks-mogai-blog:

°☾ Lapisian ☽°

Someone who is lapisian is at least xenogender, non-binary and a woman who’s attracted to at least xenogender people, non-binaries, women and men, or is someone who fits at least all of the following: xlw, xlm,xlnb,xlx,wlw,wlm,wlnb,wlx,nblw,nblm,nblnb & nblx.

The colors are based off a real lapis lazuli stone because they’re my favorite gemstone. The flag was made with @pride-color-schemes​‘ templates!!

@uncommongenders@beyond-mogai-pride-flags@orientationlist​ (please tag more people if you can to spread this term!)

Looks great! 😀

-Fy

queer-experiences:

PLEASE DO NOT INTERACT IF YOU DON’T THINK BI/PAN WOMEN/NBS CAN USE BUTCH/FEMME/FUTCH

Here are my propositions on the butch/femme/futch bi and pan flags! Also I don’t know if this has already been done, but I checked it on Tumblr and apparently not. So yeah the colors are from the butch, femme and futch lesbian flags. If you find them offensive in any way (other than “you can’t use butch/femme/futch if you’re bi/pan) feel free to send us an ask or a message.

Reblogs are super appreciated💕

Free to use, credit is also appreciated

-Mod Math

Since these has been requested often.

-Fy

New Symbols For Use!

system-mogai:

So I know pretty much everybody knows these.

Male, female, nonbinary, and androgyne. (I do know the last one’s also used for bigender and intersex, but I see it more often as androgyne.)

And then this set, which might not be as recognizable.

Intersex, gender neutral, other gender and aliagender or thirdgender. (Explanation is further down.)

But I noticed that while xenogender, neurogender and genderfluid did have symbols, they didn’t seem to be consistent, or simple enough to be drawn by memory.

So, I made some!

Introducing, Xenogender (left), -Fluid/Flux (center), and Neuro- (right)

Explanations for ALL of these below!

PS. Whoops I forgot the Agender symbol, don’t worry it’s here.

Male symbol is from the Roman god Mars, god of war, men and power. Also based on the astrological sign for Mars. The arrow is associated with the masculine energy of Mars. (Not the planet.)

The female symbol is from the Roman goddess Venus, of beauty and femininity. The astrological sign for Venus, the cross – gonna be real I have no idea.

The nonbinary symbol has an X to represent not being of either male or female genders.

The androgyne symbol is the combination of the male and female symbol, representing the union and fluidity between/including male and female.

The intersex symbol is from the astrological sign for Mercury, who is also a Roman god of messengers, traders and trickery.

The gender neutral symbol is simply a line, to denote that it’s not male or female, but simply a neutral gender, that may or may not be nonbinary in nature. (Usually falls under nonbinary, but some genders like epicene lay between male and female, while also being both, and neutral.)

The other gender symbol is for genders that are culturally unrecognized in Western cultures. It represents a disconnection from male and female binary entirely. 

The aliagender symbol is associated with aliagender, which is to have no association with male, female, or nonbinary, while still being a gender. (Think of aporagender, maverique, atrinary, that sort of thing.)

The agender symbol is a cross through the circle, denoting a lack of gender entirely. This isn’t the same as some people who define themselves as completely lacking gender, or lacking the concept of gender entirely, but some include themselves into the agender spectrum even so.

The symbol I chose is reminiscent of a stylized iris, the flower that is symbolized on xenogender flags. It also happens to be associated with the goddess Iris, who is the goddess of rainbows and the messenger of the gods. Her asteroid’s symbol is also used on xenogender flags.

The curved line on the -fluid/flux represents fluidity, whether it be jarring, slow, fast or barely noticeable. The arrow represents how the gender keeps changing, on and on as time passes, continuing forward in time. 

The symbol for neuro- is the symbol also on the disability flag that capriuni coined here. It’s also the symbol for Pallas, the Roman god of war, victory and power, whose asteroid is associated with intellectual power, critical thinking, cognitive skills and how one’s mind is mapped out, in astrology. 

I’d LOVE for people to start using these! You don’t really have to credit me, just don’t claim it as your own if someone asks where the symbol came from. If you’d like a high-res version of these (since they’re all just 360x500px or something small), lemme know!

(PSS. I know there’s more gender symbols than this, this is just the ones that are associated with spectra.)

@arco-pluris @queer–buccaneer @ask-pride-color-schemes @beyond-mogai-pride-flags @uncommongenders

I loved the meaning behind xenine symbol. My nick means plural rainbow (arco-íris+pluris).

Notes: gender-neutral=neutral-gender (sometimes gender-neutrality misrepresents what neugender/neutral gender is supposed to mean). ⚲/☌ can be neutrois symbol and also the ø/Ø but more specifically nullgender, which is on neutrois umbrella.

Fluid/flux and fluix/liquid genders are also known as amplusian/amplusgender spectrum. ~ ap

is there a demiaesthetic flag?

Here you go!

Demiaesthetic: An orientation where one does not experience aesthetic attraction to a person until they have developed an emotional connection to them. There is no guarantee that this attraction will develop after an emotional connection is formed, but it is required in order for attraction to be possible.

Nonagamy/Nonagamous Pride Flag

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Nonogamy/nonogamous: not being or not wishing to be in a relationship (marriage) with another person/s.

The flag creator did not want to be credited, but wishes this flag to be dedicated to Maxzym K.

-Fy

Hi, I’m working on a project to bring awareness to the larger community as a hold. Can I use flag images you’ve created in my project? I own a 22′ wide by 900′ long flag called The River of Pride. After hearing people talk about not feeling included by the rainbow, I want to make a new flag by sewing all the individual flags together. I have 119 flags so far. I’d like to print flags with your images to add to the large flag. TY Bishop ( mrbishopm @ hotmail com )

Yeah, go for it. Sounds like a really intensive project, but it sounds like the end result will look really awesome! 😀

faesaridollie:

⚠️ORANGE IS THE NEW BLACK WARNING! SEASON 6 EPISODE 1!⚠️

I haven’t made it past episode 1, just because I haven’t had time today, been busy with work and all, so here’s the reason for this post:

THERE IS A SCENE DEPICTING SELF HARM!

I don’t want people to have flashbacks or relapse because of this issue. They also depict the aftermath (the immediate with blood and post medical visit).

It’s within the first few minutes of the first episode. It’s revealed as a suicide attempt, so viewers please view with HEAVY discretion!

Season 6 is the newest season on Netflix, SO PLEASE BE CAREFUL!

Since this show is popular and has a lot of LGBT elements in it, please be careful.

-Vi 💙

Hi! I’m a heteroromantic bisexual that knows her fair share of lgbt stuff. This mogai tho is completely new to me and I have come to find that some ”sexualities” on here i dont quite understand. I stumbles upon the metrosexual flag and the desc. of metrosexuality confuses me. The desc. includes the person’s hobby, life area/ fashion sense, politic view and age group. Why is that a part of the desc. if these things dont translate into gender?

Metrosexual and terms like it (such as Lumbersexual, Neosexual, etc.) are based on the older way of using the suffix -sexual. They’re more based on presentation than sexual orientation.

okay so i’m bi and i feel like an asshole for not being able to develop romantic feelings. I think that has to do with my depression (Which I probably wont get rid of w/o meds which i wont get haha) and I wouldnt wanna consider myself aro. Can you give me advice or something?

There’s nothing wrong with not having romantic feelings in and of itself. I would suggest maybe someday trying to get some treatment, but only if it really affects you. If you don’t really have a problem with not having romantic feelings, then that’s fine! You don’t have to consider yourself aro either. Not everyone develops romantic feelings or wants to be in a romantic relationship and there’s nothing wrong with that. 🙂

hi, i’m the technosic anon, and i’ve started working on a flag! thanks for the suggestions, and i’d love any input you have on my first draft.


Awesome! Thanks for the submission. 😀

-Fy

Amoryflux or gamyflux fits it (lovely/amorously/gamously fluid), anyway polymonofluid is more specific.

Polymonoflux: When you fluctuate between being polyamorous and monoamorous.

I guess polymonoflux (or monopolyflux) also describes shifting between being monogamous and polyamorous, switching monoamorous and polygamous or flowing monogamous and polygamous. Btw fluid gamies/amories falls on the nonmonogamy/nonmonoamory umbrella/spectrum. ~ ap

silkenhorns:

Neam-, neamsexual, neamromantic, neamqueerplatonic, neamplatonic, neamsensual, neamalterous, and a specific neam/meergender flags. Gender coined by me, flags based off the meergender flag.

Neam-: An orientation that is deep, many, vast, and scary/intimidating. Difficult to pin down. Based off the Irish word for void, niamhní. 


@beyond-mogai-pride-flags (I know I submitted one but here’s a more extensive and fine-tuned post!

Re-reblogged!

-Fy

silkenhorns:

Neam-, neamsexual, neamromantic, neamqueerplatonic, neamplatonic, neamsensual, neamalterous, and a specific neam/meergender flags. Gender coined by me, flags based off the meergender flag.

Neam-: An orientation that is deep, many, vast, and scary/intimidating. Difficult to pin down. Based off the Irish word for void, niamhní. 


@beyond-mogai-pride-flags (I know I submitted one but here’s a more extensive and fine-tuned post!

Re-reblogged!

-Fy

hi, id like to coin a term for a gender! I have been feeling like this for a while and this is the prefect way to describe it: oasisgender! It’s a fluid gender that’s characterized by a high amount of gender euphoria when you find the right one, kinda like wandering through a desert of confusion until you stumble upon the right gender which is your oasis, before you set off and continue searching for the next when the euphoria wears off! Those genders can be Xenoalligned, binary or non binary!

Oh! That sounds like a useful term! New term, all! 😀

Schrodigender: a gender which you can both feel and not feel; a single gender that exists as if it were many genders at once. See also: Genderdox, or Quantumgender.

Genderlight: panzerogender; pangender/paneugender combined with panantigender/panungender.

Pangender (sometimes interchangeable with Omnigender): a person who is infinite and/or all genders, within eir own culture and life experience (simultaneously or not).

Zerogender: a gender or group of genders nullified when combined with its/their respective antigender(s), leading to mutual self-destruction or a similar concept of nullifying.

Genderkrieg: When you have multiple gender identities that harshly contradict one another (only for people with personality disorders). 

Equilibriogender is a gender where you are a balance between 2 or more genders at the same time. See also: equigender, augender, plugender and plurigender.

Gemigender: A polygender identity where one’s genders feel as though they are opposite to each other but still work together with each other.

Nongender: A gender that is most accurately described by what it isn’t, not by what it is.

So if you’re sure you don’t identify as a girl, you could use nongirl. Genderfound might apply but it’s more like a fluid gender. Reminder presentation doesn’t equal gender, that is an interpersonal subjective identity. ~ ap

Amantesexual: only feeling sexual attraction towards someone youre in love with/not feeling sexual attraction until youre in love with someone.

Sequencesexual: Only experiencing sexual attraction to someone after experiencing romantic attraction to that person.

Perioriented: A person whose romantic and sexual orientations and/or gender-based attractions ‘match’ (ex.: aromantic asexual; panromantic pansexual).

Apres-: An individual who only experiences a romantic attraction after another form of attraction is felt, like platonic and/or sexual attraction. The original attraction may or may not fade/be replaced by the new attraction.

Quoi-, WTF- or What-: Hard time distinguishing sexual/romantic attraction from other types of attractions, or can’t distinguish them at all (ex. cant distinguish romantic from platonic, or has a hard time distinguishing romantic from sensual feelings) [this is one of the quoi- multiple definitions].

I think romosexual, erotoromantic, amatosexual or sexoromantic could be also fit. ~ ap

saturnic-vapour:

Ijusgender-gender related to candles. From Swedish “Ijus”, meaning candle.
Done as request for @daisyxoy

-ap

saturnic-vapour:

Ijusgender-gender related to candles. From Swedish “Ijus”, meaning candle.
Done as request for @daisyxoy

-ap

arco-pluris:

Ambiphilia: attraction to both of same/similar gender and of dissimilar/different gender; to ambiguities and ambivalences; or attraction to both men and women.

The Greek suffix “philia” means “love, affection”. Ambiphilic attraction would mean love both of two genders.

There are variorented ambiphiles, they may not be ambiromantic ambisexuals, then ambiphilia would be helpful.

The first definition was coined by @tharook​, and the last one is from wiktionary.

The first flag was based on the ambi- and biphilic flags, and the last one based on gynephilic and androphilic flags also being for biphilia.

– ap

arco-pluris:

Ambiphilia: attraction to both of same/similar gender and of dissimilar/different gender; to ambiguities and ambivalences; or attraction to both men and women.

The Greek suffix “philia” means “love, affection”. Ambiphilic attraction would mean love both of two genders.

There are variorented ambiphiles, they may not be ambiromantic ambisexuals, then ambiphilia would be helpful.

The first definition was coined by @tharook​, and the last one is from wiktionary.

The first flag was based on the ambi- and biphilic flags, and the last one based on gynephilic and androphilic flags also being for biphilia.

– ap

stargeisers:

💫 Introducing the Geiseric Flag 💫

Geiseric: an orientation that entails an experience of being both gay and a lesbian / gai + lesbian — either concurrently, at different times, fluidly, or in other ways ⭐️

Can also be shortened to"Gei.“

@orientationlist
@beyond-mogai-pride-flags

▪ ap

stargeisers:

💫 Introducing the Geiseric Flag 💫

Geiseric: an orientation that entails an experience of being both gay and a lesbian / gai + lesbian — either concurrently, at different times, fluidly, or in other ways ⭐️

Can also be shortened to"Gei.“

@orientationlist
@beyond-mogai-pride-flags

▪ ap

this may sound weird and i think you guys got a similar ask in the past but it just seems like everyone on this website has so many complicated labels and i’m just gay and trans and like… i know it makes me feel kinda left out a lot of the time, like to the point that when i was younger i used to try to use more complicated/mogai labels because i thought i would feel better about myself but it just made me more confused. i know it’s weird but i just kinda feel “less than” everyone else here…

While there are many people on here who prefer to use many labels for themselves, there are plenty of people who prefer to use less, like yourself. These labels are not meant to be used to make yourself feel special or to the point where you’re uncomfortable. They’re for describing your identity in a way that feels right to you. I don’t use a lot of labels myself, that’s just how I prefer it. It doesn’t make me better or worse than someone who prefers to use a lot of labels.

So my point is, there’s nothing wrong with trying out labels and realizing they don’t work for you. That doesn’t mean you’re worse for just saying you’re gay and trans, but it akso doesn’t mean the labels themselves were bad. It just wasn’t a good fit, and that’s perfectly fine. 🙂

Homoflexible/Anisosexual is when you have same sex attraction but RARELY exhibit attraction outside of the same sex. This flag was created with the idea of while someone might have same sex attraction majority of the time (say 90-95% of the time to put it numerically), that 5-10% exception can be anyone of any sex or gender (it’s just of all the people YOU HAVE been sexually attracted to, MAJORITY of them have been the same sex or gender as you).

The purple and green color are the same sex attraction part. The pink, yellow, blue were inspired by the official pansexual flag
-Vi 💙

Negatrois — Positrois

Negatrois (NGT) or negative-gender includes:

  • Antigender or Ungender (opposite gender)
  • Gender negativity
  • Negative gender

Positrois (PST) or positive-gender includes:

  • Eugender (absolute gender)
  • Gender positivity
  • Positive gender

Positrois is the polar/extreme opposite of the negatrois, the neutral-gender (neutrois) is the balancing of these two genders (however, neutrois is not only the balance of these two gender, it is the balancing of all genders). By the way, someone can be both PST and NGT, forming zerogender(s) or null-gender(s) (nullified), being able to lean more one side than to the other and fluctuate between (such in cendgender).

Both aren’t necessarily neurogenders or xenogenders, because they contrast with neutrois and gender neutrality. Anyway someone can associate eir gender negativity/positivity with neurotype (as in negagender/posigender), life experience, energy/lethargy, magnetism, numbers (as in numbergender and arithmogender), temperature/weather or other things involving sciences such as physics and chemistry.

NGT isn’t the same as gendernegative (an absent gender), agender or genderless, negatrois people can be (negatively) gendered. The same way PST isn’t the same as comgender, because they can be (positively) agendered. They are also not related to optimism or pessimism. But when compared to gender-free from neutroisness, NGT can be a heavy gender and PST a volatile one. Not to be confused with genderminus and genderplus (gender+/-).

Gender negativity can be a feeling of shortage/decrease of elements, ie, it is a minimal/diminutive gender, while gender positivity a sense of multiplicity/addition or excess of elements, ie, it is a multiple/additive/abundant gender, not the same as multigender.

For an example, a girl can be a boy, an antiboy or an aboy/nonboy (considering herself as a girl-boy; her gender opposed from boyhood; or just not related to a boy). In those cases she would be respectively positrois (eugender boy), negatrois (antiboy/unboy) or neutrois (aboy/boyless, as in the a- from abinary and agender). Anyway a negatrois girl could feel she is a negative-girl, feeling her girlhood is negative, subjectively saying.

Some people can be 60% negatrois, 25% neutrois and 15% positrois for example, resulting on an exact genderness or not. Polyantigender people might enjoy these identities to express themselves.

More info for symbols/signals and source. (➖)(➕)

Positive gender sign/symbol

[source] ➕

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Negative gender symbol/sign [source] ➖

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 The negatrois and positrois signs would be without this nib/stub.  ~ ap

Artistic question!

faesaridollie:

For those of you who have painted on physical flags (LGBT pride flags or otherwise), what paint worked best? Acrylic? It’s for a project I’m working on.I’d like the flag colors NOT be shown through the paint (so like if the flag is a blue color and I paint red on top of it, I don’t want the blue base to show through the red paint).

Any of our followers have an idea? I figure some of our followers have done similar artistic things!

-Vi 

can you make a teratophile pride flag?

If you type Terato in the search function, you can see we’ve made one for terato- orientations.

If you’re looking for a fetish, however, you’re at the wrong blog.

How long does it take for asks to be answered 💗💗

It really depends. As I’ve stated in other asks, my current personal situation doesn’t allow me a lot of time to research for asks or fulfill requests. If you’re submitting a term or flag, then I can just post it. But if you’re looking for information about an identity, then that’ll take some research to do. We’re doing our best to try and get asks answered and flags made, but we’re stretched a bit thin at the moment. I am very sorry about this, I really don’t like leaving your questions unanswered.

saturnic-vapour:

I made an alternative Enbian(NBLNB) flag! The original was too eye-strain for me.
@nblnb

》ap

saturnic-vapour:

I made an alternative Enbian(NBLNB) flag! The original was too eye-strain for me.
@nblnb

》ap

mogai-headcanons:

hello all!! so this is a flag that i’ve wanted to make for awhile now, but i wasn’t really sure how to approach it. i decided to just give it a shot and see what people think!! so this is my flag for azurmalachitian, which is a person who considers themselves to be mlm, nblm, and xlm (aka me!). the name is a lil long and i’m not entirely certain of the flag colors, but i think it’s a good start, and i’d love to hear any thoughts people have on it!!

(also, sorry for posting this on my headcanon blog, but it’s the only mogai blog i’m on fjskd)

edit: the term is now chrysocollian (thanks @pastelmemer for the idea!)

– ap

mogai-headcanons:

hello all!! so this is a flag that i’ve wanted to make for awhile now, but i wasn’t really sure how to approach it. i decided to just give it a shot and see what people think!! so this is my flag for azurmalachitian, which is a person who considers themselves to be mlm, nblm, and xlm (aka me!). the name is a lil long and i’m not entirely certain of the flag colors, but i think it’s a good start, and i’d love to hear any thoughts people have on it!!

(also, sorry for posting this on my headcanon blog, but it’s the only mogai blog i’m on fjskd)

edit: the term is now chrysocollian (thanks @pastelmemer for the idea!)

– ap

Invisigender: A gender experience that is for some reason partially or fully invisible.

Genderblindness (gender-blind) is a related term but it’s more like the same thing as unisex or gender-neutral (gender neutrality or genderfree). There are also cheshiric and camogender but they aren’t fully or everytime blind/invisible. Jupitergender isn’t blind btw it’s invisible for example. ~ ap

I got blocked but I’m not what you’d call a ‘hurtful’ blog… How did you decide who to block? I want to know why I was chosen (。•́︿•̀。)

I’ve been going through all of our notes for the past hour and a half and blocking people with comments that I think are inappropriate. However, in the interest of time, I have been doing this as quickly as possible, since I’ll only have access to WiFi today for not too much longer. If you’d like me to unblock you, you’re welcome to send me your blog name and I’ll look into it, okay? 🙂 Sorry if I did block you wrongly! 

Final Update

Over the past couple of days, I have asked our followers their opinion on whether or not we should be more willing to block hurtful people that would otherwise interact with this blog. I’ve gotten quite a few responses, and I’d like to thank all of you who have for doing so. 

The consensus seems to be that yes, we need to be more willing to use to block function and vet those that are either are or are not respectful enough to interact with our posts. The couple of responses that seemed to lean more towards no appear to have no problem in blocking harmful individuals and just ask that there be the ability to have discussion and debate. This is fair, and as I’ve stated before, I have no problem with civil debate and honest discussion. I’m not saying that I’m going to block every single person with a dissenting opinion. Otherwise we wouldn’t have much of a blog, as there would be no followers and no mods. This is simply my attempt at allowing a better space for our followers who are actually interested and enjoy our content for what it is.

So I have made the decision to begin blocking more harmful blogs. Unfortunately, it seems that I have made this decision too late. Based on some of the responses I’ve been given, I am correct in that a lot of hate followers of this blog have been going after other blogs who’s content has been posted one way or another on here. And for that, I deeply apologize. I allowed my misguided attempts at being “fair” to compromise the safety of others. The process of trying to make this a better blog for these people won’t happen right away, but I do hope you’ll be able to feel more comfortable knowing that I’ll be working on this to the best of my ability.

I’ll be starting these blockings ASAP. I’m sure we’ll end up losing plenty of followers, but I feel like that’s far less important than making sure this is a blog others can feel comfortable submitting their flags and terms to.

Thanks everyone!

-Fy

Dissociative-Pansexuality
*only for those who have Dissociative Identity Disorder (or are medically part of a system)

Pansexuality which fluctuates depending on each different personality, for example, personality One identifies as female and is attracted to everyone, but Personality Two identifies as male, and is attracted only to men. The person is still pansexual but each personality regardless of gender, expresses their own sexual preference based on gender.


Thanks for the submission!

-Fy

It feels like everyone on tumblr has a ton of special labels and genders and I’m just a cis girl :/ does this mean that I am inferior in some way?

They’re not really special labels, but labels that we use to describe our identity. But there’s nothing wrong with looking at yourself and realizing that you’re cis. Being genderfluid doesn’t make me better than you, it just means I have to deal with some societal roadblocks that you won’t have to. Because of this, a lot of blogs on Tumblr are going to be focusing on how we in the LGBT+/MOGAI community can help each other through those roadblocks as best we can. That doesn’t mean we think we’re better than you, just that you’re not our main focus (at least in terms of gender, since I don’t know your orientation). But allies that are willing to help us are always welcome!

anisosexualpride:

💕Anon Submission💕

It took me practically a decade to come to terms with the fact that I am homoflexible/anisosexual. I’m in my mid 20s and during my teen years, I jumped around so many different labels. I think because of my traditional christain upbringing seriously contributed to the repression of my same sex attraction.

I honestly can’t help but roll my eyes when I see people make full blown opinion articles about how “HETEROFLEXIBLE/HOMOFLEXIBLE IS OFFENSIVE AND ERASES OTHER ORIENTATIONS!” because this is absolutely not the case.

Homoflexible/anisosexual or heteroflexible can fall under the bisexual umbrella OR the polysexual umbrella, depending on what definitions you use for bisexual and polysexual. It’s just a “more specific” (aka microlabel) for some individuals since they feel the definition for polysexual OR bisexual is “too broad” to accurately capture the scope of their own specific sexual orientation or identity.

Let’s use a color metaphor since that’s an easy metaphor:

We have purple. On one side of the purple spectrum we have a more red-purple and on the other side we have a more blue-purple color. Yes, “purple” is an accurate way to describe the entire spectrum (from a reddish purple to a bluish purple), HOWEVER, some people would want to use more specific terminology to describe the specific shade of purple, AND THIS IS OK.

This color metaphor might be useful for some of our followers to use when trying to explain why they use a more specific label 😀

-Vi 💙

First off, I’ve been lurking for a while and want to thank you guys at this blog for being levelheaded. I consider myself an open minded person, but trying to get perspectives in tumblr’s LGBT+ community is like dousing a fire in gasoline. That said, I don’t understand the purpose or necessity of neopronouns. Why use a newly invented word no one knows when singular they exists as a commonly used, inclusive alternative? Not flaming, I want to understand.

nbandproud:

beyond-mogai-pride-flags:

No problem at all, I can definitely understand what you mean. 🙂

As for neopronouns… I’m not really the best person to ask since I don’t use them. But it’s important to remember that nonbinary, while it can also be used as an individual identity, is an umbrella term to describe a group of vastly different genders. The only similarity being that they aren’t the two most well known binary genders, and that’s it. So “they” might work for some, but this isn’t the case for everyone.

If you’re someone who uses neopronouns, feel free to comment and give your input!

A lot of people don’t like using they.

Some feel like it’s too impersonal or associate they/them with plural they.

Some know they will be disrespected if they use they/them anyways, so why not use something that resonates with them at a more personal level?

For some, it’s a political thing: they/them is also used for people you don’t know, regardless of actual pronouns. So some people reaffirm their nonbinaryness/genderqueerness by using pronouns that were made with nonbinary/genderqueer people in mind.

For some, it’s just a gender thing. Some feel like kit/kits, as a cutesy pronoun, fits their pastel-like/feminine/cute gender more than they/them. Some feel like ze/hir is close to she/her and more appropriate for their girl-adjacent gender. And so on.

There are infinite possibilities for nonbinary identities. If the two binary genders can have one pronoun set associated with each, why do all nonbinary people, from polygender to agender, from dulcigender to transmasculine, from autigender to stargender, from pomogender to apogender, have to be comfortable with a single set that wasn’t even coined with our existences in mind?

Very well put.

-Fy

First off, I’ve been lurking for a while and want to thank you guys at this blog for being levelheaded. I consider myself an open minded person, but trying to get perspectives in tumblr’s LGBT+ community is like dousing a fire in gasoline. That said, I don’t understand the purpose or necessity of neopronouns. Why use a newly invented word no one knows when singular they exists as a commonly used, inclusive alternative? Not flaming, I want to understand.

No problem at all, I can definitely understand what you mean. 🙂

As for neopronouns… I’m not really the best person to ask since I don’t use them. But it’s important to remember that nonbinary, while it can also be used as an individual identity, is an umbrella term to describe a group of vastly different genders. The only similarity being that they aren’t the two most well known binary genders, and that’s it. So “they” might work for some, but this isn’t the case for everyone.

If you’re someone who uses neopronouns, feel free to comment and give your input!

I’m sorry for the spam! But I see you made naruto, gaara and sasuke kin flags!! So I’m sorry I didn’t check until I sent my ask! – Naruto Anon

You’re good! 🙂 To answer your previous question, I do not know at this point when we’ll be able to accept fictionkin flag requests again. We still have a lot of other pending requests that just aren’t getting made fast enough. And I’m currently in an unstable living situation, so sometimes (such as today) I’m limited to only being able to manage the blog via mobile since I don’t have WiFi. I can’t really make flags the way I prefer without my laptop, and since I’m one of the main flag makers of this blog, I really couldn’t tell ya when I’ll be able to get through all of our current requests. Sorry for the inconvenience!

Update

So earlier I posed the question of whether we at BMPF should be more willing to block hateful, trolling, or otherwise disrespectful blogs. In the notes of that ask, we so far have two decisive “yes"s (edit: now three), and one "meh”. We have also had two non-anon asks, which I will discuss below. We’ve also had a few anon asks, but again I am not taking these into account as I have no way of knowing if these people are actually followers of our blog or not. So please make sure that, if you want to let us know your opinion on the matter, you turn off anon and just ask that we not publish it with your name.

So here we have the first non-anon ask (with name removed of course):

(Btw, the message seems to trail off here, so if you sent a second part you may need to resend ‘cause we didn’t get it)

This is something I’ve also been worried about for awhile now. Too often I see people we’ve reblogged from or people who have submitted something to us deactivate due to harassment. I’ve seen messages on other blogs describing how their blog suddenly got hurtful messages after that. And I can’t help but feel somewhat responsible for indirectly sending hateful people to these blogs. Of course I want to encourage civil debate, but far too often it appears that I am instead making this blog unsafe for others.

Which brings me to:

And that’s definitely something I won’t ever have a problem with is civil debate. I often get asks from people that may not understand or agree with the existence of these uncommon identities, but still would like to perhaps better understand or at least act respectfully to people with these identities. But I think the problem here is that that’s not the common response to our posts. Of course you’ll have the more harmless comments, asking if its a joke or some reaction GIF. But you’ll also often get the dismissive, agressive, hateful, etc. sorts of comments. And its these sorts of comments I’m asking our followers’ opinions on. Because they’re intent is not to discuss, but to be malicious.

I’m still open to hearing more opinions from all of you. So far, the consensus seems to lean more towards us being more willing to block these people. Please let us know what you think!

-Fy

Hiya! I’m part of a group for multigender people and we actually coined some of those terms you’re looking for an so we’d love to share! So the terms are: Chalcedonic (nblm, mlm, mlw), Iolitian (nblnb, wlnb, mlnb, nblw, wlw, mlw), Kyanitian (nblnb, wlnb, mlnb), and Morganitian (nblw, wlw, mlw). These are all based off of gemstones like a lot of the other terms and we’d love it if you or anyone else willing could make some flags for these based off of their gemstones. Ty!!

xeno-aligned:

beyond-mogai-pride-flags:

Oh wow, that’s really helpful actually! Thanks so much for sending these in. I’ll see what we can do about making some pride flags, but it might take a little while. 🙂

can I suggest that we choose a different name for lolitian? because it sounds very similar to Lolita, which is a book/movie where the main character is a ped//o//phi//le.

Not to disagree, because alternative terms are always fine, but I think thats an i. So its iolitian. Not lolitian with an L. If that makes sense.

-Fy

Hiya! I’m part of a group for multigender people and we actually coined some of those terms you’re looking for an so we’d love to share! So the terms are: Chalcedonic (nblm, mlm, mlw), Iolitian (nblnb, wlnb, mlnb, nblw, wlw, mlw), Kyanitian (nblnb, wlnb, mlnb), and Morganitian (nblw, wlw, mlw). These are all based off of gemstones like a lot of the other terms and we’d love it if you or anyone else willing could make some flags for these based off of their gemstones. Ty!!

Oh wow, that’s really helpful actually! Thanks so much for sending these in. I’ll see what we can do about making some pride flags, but it might take a little while. 🙂

nbandproud:

nbandproud:

nbandproud:

Second version of the [someone] loving [someone] tables! If you don’t know what this is about, please open that link there.

I am aware several terms are “missing”, but that’s because, the way this table is made, there’s no way I can accurately place terms that are like “wlnb, wlw, nblw but not nblnb”.

I know gender and attraction are complicated things, and I think it’s totally valid to feel like you are mlm and wlw without feeling like you are mlw or wlm, for instance.

However, these tables are just something I made for fun and so I can have a quick look at a part of the table and find the term I’m looking for. This is also why I’m not adding specific nonbinary identities to the mix, although of course I believe you have the right to have specific labels such as for neutrois loving maverique or xenogender loving agender or genderfluid loving genderfluid and so on.

I should also add that I will only do another major update when the table is complete/mostly complete, so when you see this, this might not be fully updated anymore.

Since this doesn’t have many notes yet, I think I can add that I’ve just learned of rochillic (mlm & mlw) and salietian (wlw & wlm). I won’t redo the pictures, just saying that this is a thing.

Reblogging this again, because people are still reblogging that original post and this needs to be seen more.

If you want to know how my document is going, here’s a screenshot from now:

Awesome, only a handful of terms left! If you don’t see a term that fits your attraction on here and you’d like one, go ahead and coin some! 😀

-Fy

nbandproud:

nbandproud:

nbandproud:

Second version of the [someone] loving [someone] tables! If you don’t know what this is about, please open that link there.

I am aware several terms are “missing”, but that’s because, the way this table is made, there’s no way I can accurately place terms that are like “wlnb, wlw, nblw but not nblnb”.

I know gender and attraction are complicated things, and I think it’s totally valid to feel like you are mlm and wlw without feeling like you are mlw or wlm, for instance.

However, these tables are just something I made for fun and so I can have a quick look at a part of the table and find the term I’m looking for. This is also why I’m not adding specific nonbinary identities to the mix, although of course I believe you have the right to have specific labels such as for neutrois loving maverique or xenogender loving agender or genderfluid loving genderfluid and so on.

I should also add that I will only do another major update when the table is complete/mostly complete, so when you see this, this might not be fully updated anymore.

Since this doesn’t have many notes yet, I think I can add that I’ve just learned of rochillic (mlm & mlw) and salietian (wlw & wlm). I won’t redo the pictures, just saying that this is a thing.

Reblogging this again, because people are still reblogging that original post and this needs to be seen more.

If you want to know how my document is going, here’s a screenshot from now:

Awesome, only a handful of terms left! If you don’t see a term that fits your attraction on here and you’d like one, go ahead and coin some! 😀

-Fy

hi! i was looking through the [someone] loving [someone] table and there wasnt anything for people that identify as mlm mlnb & mlw so i was wondering if there was a term for that and if so if there was a flag for it as well. im just not sure if i was reading the table wrong or if the term just hasnt been coined yet, either way thank you in advance for your time and if you are able to help! i hope you have a good day :)

For some reason this ask only shows up while I’m on mobile, so I apologize for not getting to it until now. The newly coined term Marblic is for those are who at least mlm, mlw, and mlnb. 🙂

beyond-mogai-pride-flags:

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I think it could be kenasexual or kenaromantic, but ansequencesexual, singulusexual versromantic and singuluromantic verssexual also fit.

  • Singulu-: Only capable of experiencing one type of attraction towards a person – for example, not feeling sexual attraction to the people you are romantically attracted to, etc.
  • Kena-: only feeling attracted to a certain individual when you don’t feel sexual or romantic attraction to them (ex: kenasexuals wouldn’t feel romantic attraction to an individual they feel sexual attraction to).
  • Versexual/Versromantic: to reverse sexual or romantic attraction. To feel no sexual attraction for those whose one feels romantic attraction to/vice versa.
  • Ansequencesexual (noromosexual): Only experiencing sexual attraction if NO romantic attraction is felt. If romantic attraction develops, sexual attraction disappears. This is the opposite of sequencesexual.

• ap

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This might answer this question. Sounds more like singulusexual or singuluromantic, but it could be kenaromantic ansequencesexual or versromantic versexual too. ~ap 

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A genderqueer person who is genderflux, it could be specific such as in eaflux, enbyflux, nbflux and nonbinaryflux, but essentially it means a genderqueer person fluctuating in eir gender intensity, like from agender to comgender (to demigender spectrum). Genderqueer is also an umbrella, so it could ne a neutral-genderflux, an abinaryflux, androgyneflux or other forms. ~ ap

Y’all are giving way too much credit to the truscum and exclusionist fucks that hate follow you. They’re clearly not respecting you so why are you letting them reblog freely from you!? At least block the really toxic ones like @mogai-watch. Then this blog could be a lot safer for your real followers!!

beyond-mogai-pride-flags:

Hmm… you might be right about that. I try not to block too many people out of a desire for civil debate to be allowed, but it does seem like there’s very little of that and vastly more hate, trolling, amd just blantant disregard for treating us like people. Especially after a bigger blog reblogs one of our posts.

I’d like to ask what our non-hate followers think about this. Should we be more willing to block hateful blogs?

Please note that I won’t be taking anon asks into account on this, since you could be literally anyone. If you’d like to keep your ask anonymous, just send me your opinion in an ask off anon and include that you don’t want it published.

-Fy

Y’all are giving way too much credit to the truscum and exclusionist fucks that hate follow you. They’re clearly not respecting you so why are you letting them reblog freely from you!? At least block the really toxic ones like @mogai-watch. Then this blog could be a lot safer for your real followers!!

Hmm… you might be right about that. I try not to block too many people out of a desire for civil debate to be allowed, but it does seem like there’s very little of that and vastly more hate, trolling, amd just blantant disregard for treating us like people. Especially after a bigger blog reblogs one of our posts.

I’d like to ask what our non-hate followers think about this. Should we be more willing to block hateful blogs?

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You can say plutrigender, plurigender/bigenderstill of male-female and agender. I think ambonec also fits but this doesn’t specify agenderness/genderlessness.

Ambonec: a gender identity in which you identify as both male and female, yet you also identify as neither, at the same time. Ambonec can be shortened to AN.

You can also be bigenderstatic/bikymenian of gxrl and bxy (mxle-femxle or mxn-womxn).

Gxrl-bxy (pronounced like girl-x-boy-x): A gender that is both girl-boy (man-woman or male-female) and agender/no gender. You can be a boy-girl and agender/no gender at the same time, go between them, or fluctuate between feeling male-female and not feeling gender.

Demiboygirl, demibxy, demigxrl, demimesobinary, bidemigender, demibigender and demigirlboy are also alternatives to it. I would coin mesobinagender.

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In your case I’d say trigenderfluid and demifluid (demigenderfluid). I would coin binxryfluid or mesbinagenderfluid/(meso)binafluid (mesobinary + agender + fluidness). Binagender would be an umbrella for anyone who has binary gender(s) being agender too (statically or fluidly).

Shrodigender: A gender which you can both feel and not feel, or a single gender that exists as if it were many genders at once. Genderdox: Multiple genders and nothing/genderless at the same time summed up into one, as with a paradox. 

So schrodiboygirldox, schrodiandrogynedox or schrodigirlboydox may apply. ~ ap

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I think this could be sexofluid / novosexual / mutogender.

Novosexual: An orientation that changes along with one’s gender. For use by individuals with fluid genders. Defining one’s particular shifts in orientation (ie what orientations correspond to the genders one experiences) is an option, but is not required.

Attrafluid or attraflexible (attraction based genders): Someone whose gender changes depending the gender(s) they feel [alterous, aesthetic, platonic, romantic, sensual and/or sexual] attraction to at the moment. A combination of multiple or all of the attractional genders (alterousfluid, asthefluid, platofluid, romofluid, sensufluid, sexofluid, etc.).

Mutogender: A subset of genderfluid; describes when your gender changes depending on your situation.

See also Locugender/Evaisgender/Evainsgender and Aerogender.  

In your case I think you can be acegenderflux and possibly abrogender too.

~ ap

At least not this specific. Specific neurogender/xenogender orientations are very scarce, feel free to coin one. 🙂 ~ ap

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Romantic can be distant while sensual would be more presentially physical, using tactile sensors, erotic-sensory, the senses and touch (hugs, kisses, cuddles, holding hands, etc.). Romance is empiricist, there are quoisensuals (or quoiromantix) who can’t distinguish these forms of attraction. ~ ap

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Romantic can be distant while sensual would be more presentially physical, using tactile sensors, erotic-sensory, the senses and touch (hugs, kisses, cuddles, holding hands, etc.). Romance is empiricist, there are quoisensuals (or quoiromantix) who can’t distinguish these forms of attraction. ~ ap

Neasexual Pride Flag

Neasexual, nasexual or novasexual: the non-binary equivalent of metrosexual and cosmosexual; a genderqueer individual

with an interest in fashion and a refined sense of taste, they are especially meticulous about eir grooming and appearance, typically spending a significant amount of time and money on shopping as part of this.

Flag using genderqueer colors with gender-neutral yellow icon. ~ ap

Autoecto- Pride Flag

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Autoecto- or ectoauto-: feeling attracted to yourself and other people than yourself; being auto- and ecto-, strictly, fluctuating or fluxing in between.

I combined both auto- and ecto- flags. Not to be confused with straight gay (homohetero), autohomoerotic or contraic/enanteic symmaic. ~ ap

Autosexual flag found here and ectosexual flag found here.

is there an ocdgender?

Yup! Depending on the circumstances, there is O-Gender, C-Gender, and OC-Gender. These are a set of gender identities that are heavily influenced or defined by either: obsessions only (O-Gender), compulsions only (C-Gender), or both obsessions and compulsions (OC-Gender). Currently there are no flags for any of these.