Well, there’s Polygender. There’s also Multigender, which is, similarly to Multisexual, an umbrella term for all genders made up of two or more genders.
Here’s a preview of our forum/message board! As you can tell, it’s still in its baby stages and still needs modifications before we can open it.
Features it will have:
Chat box for easy communication between members, staff, and guests
FREE to register (multisexual or ally to the community)
A gallery of different PRIDE flags to choose from for an avatar (or put in your own custom avatar, the avatar dimmensions willl likely be 150×150)
Staff that has been staffing for many years
PM/DM so you can “talk private” with other members if you so choose
Easy layout/skin so those new to message boards won’t struggle with learning the format of the board server
Multiple skins to choose from
I made a post about this earlier, but here’s the official Tumblr for the board and a nice preview of the board for those interested 🙂 Please help signal boost! I’m totally open to suggestions for this too!
That is true, although it also stands for intersex people and I suppose I was thinking of intersex binary people. What do you think would be a better color to use?
Enbutch (non-binary butch): Holding a nonbinary gender identity and a butch gender expression, or claiming butch as an identity outside of the gender binary (butchgender).
Not to be confused with manugender, tomcat, bear, stag, masculine, jackhound, vermil, cinnab, enboy, wolf, xoy or twinkby.
Femmenby (femmenbie/femby): Holding a nonbinary gender identity and a femme gender expression, or claiming femme as an identity outside of the gender binary (genderfemme).
See also: femgender, feminine/unmasculine, doe, femcat, cerul, laven, swan, flora, girlby, xirl, demigirl or lipstick lesbian.
Nonbinary Futch (futchby/futchbie): Holding a nonbinary gender identity and a futch gender expression, or claiming futch as an identity outside of the gender binary (futchgender).
Separated from fuch, androgyny, fox, pewt, neufox, indig, virid, chapstick lesbian and androgyne.
So looking at the strawpoll it looked like most people would simply prefer flags that are defined for each attraction type (sexual, romantic, platonic, etc.) and with that in mind I worked out some concepts and options. You guys let me know what you think.
In case people wonder: I define partner systems as simply systems that have a relationship with each other (platonic, queerplatonic, romantic, etc.). Don’t think about any other definition. (I don’t even know if there are any.)
I welcome other flag ideas! (I’m not pleased with these anyway)
Edit: Forgot to add yes non-systems can comment on this.
Paroattractional: An orientation in which you experience different methods of attraction to the genders you are attracted to in every way you feel attraction.
I slightly fixed and made variations of Anthrotherio-orientations!
Anthrotherio-attraction to anthropomorphic mammals. This is NOT zoophilia or that kind shit, because it is attraction to Sentient and Intelligent Human-like mammals.
1st flag-Anthrotherio- as omniattracted version.
2nd flag-Anthrotheriosexual.
3rd flag-Anthrotherioromantic.
4th flag-Anthrotheriosensual.
5th flag-Anthrotherioqueerplatonic.
6th flag-Anthrotherioalterous.
7th flag-Anthrotherioplatonic.
8th flag-Anthrotherioaesthetic.
9th flag-Anthrotherioamic.
10th flag-Anthrotheriosocial.
I slightly fixed and made variations of Anthrotherio-orientations!
Anthrotherio-attraction to anthropomorphic mammals. This is NOT zoophilia or that kind shit, because it is attraction to Sentient and Intelligent Human-like mammals.
1st flag-Anthrotherio- as omniattracted version.
2nd flag-Anthrotheriosexual.
3rd flag-Anthrotherioromantic.
4th flag-Anthrotheriosensual.
5th flag-Anthrotherioqueerplatonic.
6th flag-Anthrotherioalterous.
7th flag-Anthrotherioplatonic.
8th flag-Anthrotherioaesthetic.
9th flag-Anthrotherioamic.
10th flag-Anthrotheriosocial.
This flag is for anyone who is wlw mlm / identifying as gay lesbian man-woman (male-female/girl-boy) specially genderfluid, anyway they can be varioriented or amplusic. More specific than the last one.
I think the MOGAI/queer/LGBTQ+ community as a whole needs to talk about the difference between being transgender and transgenital and how these two terms could work together very well.
Like how with the split attraction model most people have matching orientations, the majority of trans* folk are probably both transgender and transgenital.
But in the same way that one can be aromantic without being asexual, one could be transgender without being transgenital (wanting to be socially seen as a different gender without transitioning physically). You could also be transgenital without being transgender, meaning that you have dysphoria about your sex but not gender (Ex: being okay with being seen as a man, but not having a vagina gives you distress).
I think this is why there is the debate over whether dysphoria is needed to be trans or not. Dysphoria is likely needed to be transgenital, but only gender euphoria would probably be needed to be transgender. Better yet, what if we reclaimed transsexual for people who want to physically transition but not socially (this term would be better than tansgenital because it would also include secondary sex characteristics).
An interesting perspective, one I think is certainly worth discussing. I agree that there does seem to be a lot of debate on what it means to be transgender and that we could benefit from differentiating gender from sex, and perhaps even differentiating dysphoria related to secondary sex characteristics from dysphoria related to primary sexual characteristics, since there are many transgender/non-binary people who only really deal with one or the other. Not necessarily, of course, but it would be like as you explained; someone with dysphoria for primary and secondary sexual characteristics would be like someone who is perioriented, while someone with dysphoria for only one of those would be like someone who is varioriented.
I’d like to hear other peoples’ thoughts on this, but remember to keep it respectful please. You can disagree on issues without being an asshole.
Pancuriosity: wishing or considering to experiment affectional relations while you usually not feeling attraction; feeling curious attraction to all genders or regardless of gender; doubting whether you will continue showing interest to any gender; unsure if you are pan- or anattractional, aspec or allo/zed, staying undefined.
See also: pre-, try-, zedflexible (alloflexible), aflexible (aceflexible, aroflexible, aplflexible), pomo-, bicurious and questioning.
TI(A) or IT(A): trans & intersex community, those who are intersex and/or trans; trans & intersex alliance, symbolizing TI+ people celebrating trans/intersex solidarity.
See also: LGBTI+, ITNB+, QTI+, MGII & MGAI. ~ ap
Antigendersexual / antigenderromantic – attracted to people who have no gender (counterpart to gendersexual/romantic)
Yellow and green – signifies attraction to enbies (those without a gender)/gender neutrality. the yellow is from the nonbinary flag, while the green is from the agender flag. Gray and black – signifies attraction to people with no connection to gender.
The interbinary flag and definition was submitted by an anonymous person, so hopefully they can give a better explanation! From my perspective, though, I can see some difference between the two.
Ultergender: intersex people who identify as a gender other than their assigned gender at birth, but do not feel the term “transgender” describes them, because of being intersex
Interbinary: intersex people who are sex/gender dysphoric but feel like they don’t belong in transsex/gender spaces for whatever reason; not a gender.
It appears that ultergender is specifically for those that feel their gender is not their agab, but that they are neither cis nor trans due to being intersex. This doesn’t mean they are dysphoric or non-dysphoric, however.
Whereas, interbinary seems to be for those that are dysphoric, but still don’t consider themselves trans due to being intersex. It also doesn’t specify whether or not the intersex person who considers themselves interbinary would be identifying as their agab or not. So, following this logic, as interbinary is an adjective, perhaps an intersex person who is dysphoric but still identifies as their agab may identify as interbinary cisgender? An interbinary man or interbinary woman.
That’s my take on it, from comparing the two definitions. 🙂
You think so? Would anyone be interested in that, though?
Okay, so I guess there is some interest in a BMPF discord. I’ll consider it, though I would need to start applications for discord-specific mods beforehand and I’m just not in the best place to start that right away. Maybe in the next couple of weeks or so?
Gumgender: A gender that at first seems “tasty” and interesting like fruit chewing gum, but after a while becomes “tasteless” and “boring”.
[There is no flag yet, and it would be great if someone made it]
Thanks for the submission! New term!
-Fy
Gendersexual / genderromantic – attracted to people who have a gender (excludes agender, gendervoid, genderless, etc.)
Yellow – signifies attraction to enbies (those with a gender)/gender neutrality Purple – combination of pink and blue, attraction to the binary genders Shades in between – to show a mix of the two above, attraction to people who feel both nonbinary and male and/or female
Is there a flag that already looks like this? I thought if I separated pink and blue rather than combining them it might look too similar to the pansexual/romantic flag.
I think the closest would be the flag for Indigender. It may be confused for that, though the Indigender flag is vertical and is more indigo than purple. Other than that, I think it looks great!
Edit: It also looks pretty similar to Cendnonbinary.
I’m sorry, but I can’t answer anonymous asks privately. It sounds like your boyfriend may have a fluid gender, so perhaps he is genderfluid? He could also use Nonbinary Boy. Your ask is a little vague so I don’t really have too many options I can give.
That’s true, the ‘default’ names for these genders do use “boy” and “girl”. However, someone can identify as “demiman” or “demiwoman”, etc. I think they might originally be named as such do to being coined by minors, but I don’t know that for sure.
Transnegativity: a term used to describe trans people identifying with negative gendered feelings to a greater extent than with femininity or masculinity. They usually are nonbinary but could be trans men or trans women.
An alternative to transneutral, transfeminine and transmasculine. ~ ap
Transpositivity: a term used to describe trans people identifying with positive gendered feelings to a greater extent than with femininity or masculinity. They usually are nonbinary but could be trans men or trans women.
An alterntive to transneutral, transfeminine and transmasculine. ~ ap
[Pictured: the Heterogender pride flag, also known as the straight-aligned flag.]
Heterogender: a gender that is connected to the experience of being heterosexual.
Heterogender people can identify as male, female, or non-aligned in addition to being straight-aligned. If a male-aligned heterogender person is attracted to women only, they’re straight-aligned!
You can be straight-aligned without identifying as heterogender! For example: a heterosexual agender person could identify as straight-aligned, and use this pride flag while only identifying as agender.
Straight-aligned nbs, you’re so fucking valid 💜💜💜
-Fy
Spiritual attraction is often known as mental attraction (it also includes intellectual and psychological). It’s like you have a spiritual connection to someone, capacity of forming an spiritual bond with one or more individuals. This bond is related to an exchange of wisdom, knowledge and interests of the involved (It is NOT about what kind of mind one has, but rather how they use it). Sometimes alterous encompasses spiritual attraction too.
Nonamory: A lifestyle choice or relationship style that does not include intimate, long-term partnerships, whether romantic or platonic.
So I guess nonamory is for aplatonic aromantic people (aroapl), but I guess zedplatonic zedromantics can also be nonamory, since it’s different from anamory, because you can’t choose to feel attraction or desire relationships.
Unaffectionate interest (unaffectional) means lack or absence of affection; affectionlessness, synonymy with unaffective, unemotional, aphilia, lovelessness and unloveliness. I used affection (as in affective attraction, atração afetiva) to encompass all forms of attraction, but -attractionality (as in anattractional) sounds better. Anyway I think anattractional is different from unaffection, because while unaffective people wouldn’t feel any kind of attraction, anattractional is a spectrum, they can feel specific forms of attraction and other(s) not.
Presential attraction is also known as physical attraction, implying actual presence. More known in Portuguese as atração física/presencial, it means desiring someone presentially and physically (concretely, representationally and manually) without necessarily touching them (as in sensual attractional). Sensuality can be felt isolatedly since it involves the senses it could be +4D, emotionally or spiritually, for example.
interbinary flag! reminder that this flag is only to be used by intersex people who are sex/gender dysphoric but feel like they don’t belong in transsex/gender spaces for whatever reason. it’s not a gender, rather an adjective/noun to be combined with other terms (e.g. interbinary androgyne). hopefully others will find this useful! ❤
Http://uncommonprideart.tumblr.com
Hey everyone! New lgbt pride art blog ! We make stuff for uncommon, unusual, or rare lgbt/mogai Identities that often get ignored when people make lgbt related art. We are new so forgive the emptiness right now. We take submissions!
Blindgender: a genderness that is blindness itself; a gender that you cannot see, behold, perceive, observe, understand, touch or find / when you can’t tell/discern if your gender(s) exist or not due to identity invisibility; a gender experience from a blind perspectivity; when you can’t look into your gender because there’s no internal conviction of what is your gender.
See also: invisigender, anongender, abditusgender, jupitergender, cheshiric and camogender. ~ ap
Gender-blindness (or unisex): someone who adheres to not distinguishing people by gender. Gender blind people generally advocate genderneutrality in society, such as activities undertaken and services provided without regard to the gender of those who participate.
See also: third-gender, neutrois, epicene, genderpunk and genderbend. ~ ap
Seagendersea: a gender that is a vast sea of caverns and depths yet to be discovered, as deep and unknown as the ocean itself, mostly incomprehensible but slightly familiar in human terms and like gendervoid, but related to the ocean; the combination of seagender and gendersea, one of them coined with otherkin related to the ocean or sea creatures in mind.
So this blog is going to start a series organizing all the known genders into organized, easily accessible lists. But that’s a lot of work for one person! So I’m looking for mods to help me out with this big task. Please send in a submission with this form filled out if you’d like to be a mod! Name(s): Age (everyone over 18 MUST specify age): Pronouns: Gender(s): Orientation(s): Tumblr URL:
Hey all! This is a really important goal, so I encourage signing up to help them out if you can! There are so many orientation and genders and it can be daunting to try and crunch them all into lists, but it’ll be so beneficial to have them!
Source: Rookie676 on deviantART (they have a collection of cool combo flags!)
Hello. Can I ask you to help me? I am asexual + aromantic, but I have a platonic attraction to people regardless of their sex. I find friendship as a very close relationship (as brothers and sisters) and very much attached to friends in a platonic sense. I consider myself demiplatonic. I’m an introvert and I don’t always need communication. I need a personal space. Also, I get attached to people after a long time of communication, and not immediately. I made myself a flag that characterizes me. Is it correct?
Looks like the asexual, aromantic, and demiplatonic flags together, so you got it right! And it looks really nice, too!!
Sorry, we’re trying to get through as many asks as we can but there’s still many left we have yet to get to. If you want me to get to it quicker, it’d be best if you sent it off anon!
You think so? I think it’s different enough. The blue and pink are not like same as the blue and red of theirs, and the transgenital flag is vertical, not horizontal. I based it off of the angenital flag.
Gendersublime or Mudfumy: a combination of genderfumy and gendermud (kymenianflux + diastimianfluid); a split genderness divided into a part that is fluidstable (fluid diastimian) and other side that it stillflux (static genderflux); a flexgenderfluid that is not fluidflux (fluxfluid, genderfliux or genderfluix).
Similar to genderslider. Also on gendergaz, polygender and suptiliamplusian (demisuptilian, demiamplusian or amplussuptilian) spectra. ~ ap
Gendermud, Fluidstable, Genderslip or Diastimianfluid: fluctuating the gender identity while its intensity is stable; diastimfluid, stableflexible or stablefluid, a combination of genderflexible (fluid) and diastimian (genderstable or diastimgender); a more specific subset of genderfluid for not being genderflux. Can be shorten to stablexible.
Also on amplusian, multigender and gendergaz spectra. ~ ap
Genderfumy, Fluxstatic, Flexstill or Kymenianflux: fluxing the gender intensity while the gender identity stays static; staticflux or stillflux, a combination of flexgender (flux) and genderstill (genderstatic, kymenian or kymengender); a more specific subset of genderflux that isn’t genderfluid, not changing the gender but its intensity. Also shorten to fluxtatic/flextatic, flextill/fluxtill, kymenflux and statiflux.
This is on gendergaz and amplusian spectra. Coining ~ ap
Shout out to all the orientations and gender identities that rarely if ever get included in PRIDE art and merchandise 🌈
Tshirts, the cute animal colorings with pride flags, canvas art, tote bags, pillows, mugs, y’all know what I’m talking about 🏳️🌈
If someone could make a blog dedicated to sharing art and merchandise about the lesser made orientation and gender identity pride flags, that’d be fantastic
Yes it’s a real service. I do volunteer work for a rape crisis support service in my city and texting is one of the features we provide as well. But just to boost its credibility, I tried it myself:
reblog to save lives!
You can also text “Steve” to 741741 if you’re a young person of color. The website for more info is stevefund.org
My understanding is that it’s more multicultural and some folks feel more comfy with that in mind!
^^^^^THIS
get help guys, please. if you’re hurting, don’t let that hurt consume you. seek help.
I never knew this. It’s spectacular.
((I’ve texted these guys a few times, they’re really great.))
i’ve text them . about my tainted ass relationship & she really listened . she was great 🧡
Sociopathism/Anti-Social Personality Disorder is a mental health disorder characterized by disregard for other people.
(The request was for ‘high functioning sociopath’ which…isn’t actually a thing, so I just went with Sociopath)
~Kitty
Gamophobia is the fear of commitment, though it can also be the excessive, persistent, uncontrollable and irrational fear of marriage. It is derived from the Greek word Gamos which means marriage and phobos meaning fear.
~Kitty
Fixesexual and Fixeromantic
Fixe-: an orientation where the person is rarely attracted to anyone (sexually/romantically/etc.), but when they are attracted they become obsessed with that person
Dark grey represents sexual attraction, dark pink is romantic, and the deep black is the usual lack of attraction.
Transgenital: a term used to describe those who wish to have their genitals to that of another sex or to a mixed genital set, regardless of gender. Can also be called Altergenital.
Penultigender: identifying as all genders, within your own culture and life experience, except a specific one. In the case of penultieugender, this specific genderness can be a nongender or an antigender (neutrois or negatrois). Anyway, someone who is penultiantigender would be opposed to all genders except a specific one and this one could be a nongender or an eugender and a penultinongender could monoeugender or monoantigender (monopositrois or mononegatrois). For example, a penultiboy can be described as a pangender antiboy, nonboy polygender or boyless omnigender, similar to (pan)genderfae but not necessarily genderfluid.
Panantagender, Apanantigender or Antipangender-X (agender panantigender): an agender identity opposed to all genders (simultaneously or not); someone who has all accesible antigenders & agenders; negative-pangender individuals positively or neutrally agendered (pannegatrois apositrois/aneutrois).
Similar to ungender, interchangeable with omniantagender/omnantagender and antiomnigender-x.
Pxngender/Apangender (panx/pangender-x, interchangeable with Omnagender): a genderness that is both agender and pangender and/or somewhere between them; an identity mostly pangender, but has a connection to genderlessness and/or agendered feelings; a pangender individual feeling they have null/no gender identity; an agender person having some connection to panhood/pangenderness.
See also: genderlight, demiagender, schrodigender and demipangender. ~ ap
Pxngender/Apangender (panx/pangender-x, interchangeable with Omnagender): a genderness that is both agender and pangender and/or somewhere between them; an identity mostly pangender, but has a connection to genderlessness and/or agendered feelings; a pangender individual feeling they have null/no gender identity; an agender person having some connection to panhood/pangenderness.
See also: genderlight, demiagender, schrodigender and demipangender. ~ ap
Regressigender, Regressgender, or Regressusgender: A gender that is only present during age regression.
(I have to politely request that you don’t use this term for kink purposes. I’m not anti-kink but that just isn’t what I intended this to be used for.)
Regressigender, Regressgender, or Regressusgender: A gender that is only present during age regression.
(I have to politely request that you don’t use this term for kink purposes. I’m not anti-kink but that just isn’t what I intended this to be used for.)
Nice! Now there’s a flag for it! 😀
-Fy
And this one is the Morganitian (nblw, wlw, mlw) pride flag!!
Awesome! Thanks for the submissions!
-Fy
This one is the Kyanitian (nblnb, wlnb, mlnb) pride flag!
Oooo pretty! Thanks for the submission!
-Fy
This on is the Iolitian (nblnb, wlnb, mlnb, nblw, wlw, mlw) pride flag!
Thanks for the submission!
-Fy
Edit: This is based on the gemstone called iolite. It starts with an i.
hullo! :3 I’m not the person who coined the terms Chalcedonic, Iolitian Kyanitian and Morganitian but I am part of the same group and these are the flags we came up with!!!
So this one is the Chalcedonic (nblm, mlm, mlw) pride flag!
Oh, cool! Thanks for the submissions!
-Fy
Mosaigender/Portiogender: for those whose gender is made up of little pieces of multiple other genders.
Worldgender: Having multiple genders with such complex relationships and subgenders that it feels like the genders make up an entire world or planet together, each gender affecting the biomes and other features of this world/planet.
Abditusgender or Sectiogender: When you have a general idea of what your gender is but feel that it’s still hiding important factors from you, or that it’s slowly revealing itself to you but continues to keep some of itself hidden and you don’t know how to bring it about.
Collgender: A polygender identity where one experiences too many genders to be able to describe them all.
Fraspe: This gender can be compared to light in terms of colors. Just like white light can be divided in a spectrum of colors, this gender exists by itself at first, but then it divides itself into many others (all different, but together they form this one gender). One can feel each gender individually, two or more at the same time, or flow among them. And again just like light, one can experience identifiable genders (visible spectrum) and non-identifiable genders (infrared, ultraviolet, etc). Even when divided, one feels the initial gender still present, and may also “go back” to feeling only that gender.
Divigender: A feeling that one’s gender is split or divided due to a dissociative disorder.
Gyragender/Gyaragender/Gendervex: When you have multiple genders but don’t understand any of them.
Spectragender: a gender that is such a spectrum that you can’t define it.
Plugender: may be used to describe those who have multiple genders, or who sees their gender as being one multifaceted thing, possibly comprising multiple genders into one. See also: plurigender.
~ ap
Mosaigender/Portiogender: for those whose gender is made up of little pieces of multiple other genders.
Worldgender: Having multiple genders with such complex relationships and subgenders that it feels like the genders make up an entire world or planet together, each gender affecting the biomes and other features of this world/planet.
Abditusgender or Sectiogender: When you have a general idea of what your gender is but feel that it’s still hiding important factors from you, or that it’s slowly revealing itself to you but continues to keep some of itself hidden and you don’t know how to bring it about.
Collgender: A polygender identity where one experiences too many genders to be able to describe them all.
Fraspe: This gender can be compared to light in terms of colors. Just like white light can be divided in a spectrum of colors, this gender exists by itself at first, but then it divides itself into many others (all different, but together they form this one gender). One can feel each gender individually, two or more at the same time, or flow among them. And again just like light, one can experience identifiable genders (visible spectrum) and non-identifiable genders (infrared, ultraviolet, etc). Even when divided, one feels the initial gender still present, and may also “go back” to feeling only that gender.
Divigender: A feeling that one’s gender is split or divided due to a dissociative disorder.
Gyragender/Gyaragender/Gendervex: When you have multiple genders but don’t understand any of them.
Spectragender: a gender that is such a spectrum that you can’t define it.
Plugender: may be used to describe those who have multiple genders, or who sees their gender as being one multifaceted thing, possibly comprising multiple genders into one. See also: plurigender.
Yeah! That sounds like a really pretty name, actually. New term!
The term currently is hekatolic, another name for moonstone!
@beyond-mogai-pride-flags I’m currently working on a flag as well, since it’s an identity of mine :3 Here’s a chart for reference, I’ll tag the creator once I can remember how to spell their url
Perhaps I’m reading it wrong, but doesn’t it say that Hecatolic is at least wlnb and nblnb? Not wlw and nblw?
-Fy
Sorry, you are correct friend, I had mixed it up! XD Chart is by nbandproud
Not a problem! Can’t wait to see the flag you make for whichever identity you’re making it for! 😀
Yeah! That sounds like a really pretty name, actually. New term!
The term currently is hekatolic, another name for moonstone!
@beyond-mogai-pride-flags I’m currently working on a flag as well, since it’s an identity of mine :3 Here’s a chart for reference, I’ll tag the creator once I can remember how to spell their url
Perhaps I’m reading it wrong, but doesn’t it say that Hecatolic is at least wlnb and nblnb? Not wlw and nblw?
You’re right, sometimes you can’t really tell. But that’s just part of having a blog like this, and if a troll submits a term or flag that someone else might legitimately identify with, then it all works out in the end!
I’ll give you an example from the restaurant industry. Domino’s used to be called DomiNick’s according to their website, but now everyone calls them Dominos through a series of them rebranding themselves.
This same concept can be applied to anything, including human sexuality and gender identity concepts.
Homoflexible is the “old term” for anisosexual (one of the big reasons for the shift is that some people don’t feel comfortable with the prefix “homo-” due to the shady history it has both in and out of the scientific community). This suddenly doesn’t make the term “homoflexible” or the idea of it invalidated, it’s just been given a new name.
Let people explore identities in peace. Just because they decide to rebrand something, doesn’t suddenly make the idea invalid.
The blog has beyond in its name, so some of our posts are beyond the MOGAI community, we don’t post MOGAI stuff only.
Also, romeric and julietian identities can have useful meanings academically saying, why wasn’t there a specific word for wlm?! This is also inclusive for nonbinary and varioriented hetero- people whose straightness doesn’t apply to them, turning out that duarics are adherently marginalized. ~ ap
For your sexual orientation, you could use bisexual, polysexual, nomasexual. For your sensual orientation, you could use polysensual or pansensual.
Gender-blind doesn’t have a flag yet. Anyway it’s on neutrois umbrella. I guess anongender describes this:
Anongender: A gender that is unknown to both yourself and others.
~ ap
Juxera: A gender relative to female, but is something separate and entirely on it’s own.
Nonpuella or Nonera: Someone who is not female at all in any way, shape, or form, but feels a strong connection to femininity within their gender.
Xirl: Someone who identifies in some was as a nonbinary girl or nonbinary girl-adjacent.
Faesari:a gender identity where one feels most comfortable within the gender neutral spectrum, but still feels a strong attachment to femininity.
Girl-proximal (girlprox): not necessarily women (or are not 100% women as some demigirls may ID, or are not always women as some genderfluid folks may ID, etc etc) but who experiences a connection to girlhood/womanhood, but not girlness/womanliness.
Girlby and femby would also apply. This list can be very helpful tho. @kinda-girls is a dedicated blog for these situations. Consider using gender alignments or elements such as lunarian, lunettian and eluvian. ~ ap
There isn’t yet. You can use the botanosexual and plantkin flags. Botanosexual means attraction to plants (including plantkin people). This would be a combo?! ~ ap
We can certainly do our best. Most of the flags are made of multiple lines, so I don’t think I could go back and tag every single one of those, but we’ll do our best to tag each new flag as such. Bright colors and abuse mentions will be easier to tag. I will tag them tw: multiple lines, tw: bright colors, and tw: abuse mention.
Lin-: attraction to androgyny and androgynous-presenting individuals, though not necissarily only androgyne-identifying people.
Neu-: attraction to people who are genderless.
Hope that helps!
Boyflux: a gender identity in which a person can feel mostly or completely malemost of the time but experiences varying degrees of male identity. For example, one could feel 0% (agender), 50% (demiboy), 100% (comboy), or anything in between like pixelboy, magiboy, paraboy or libramasculine. The intensity can fluctuate over any period of time.
Bxy(pronounced like boy-x): A gender that is both boy and agender/no gender. You can be a boy and agender/no gender at the same time, go between them, or fluctuate between feeling male and not feeling gender.
You could also use Bisexual. Or if you want to put more of an emphasis on your attraction to men, seeing as it seems you’re primarily attracted to men, then you can use Achillean to say you’re mlm.
I don’t think there’s something exactly like this, actually. Chameleo- is the closest, but it depends on your partner’s gender and not on any other variable. If you’d like to coin a term, that’d be great!
Its possible that you’re non-binary, as you experience dysphoria. But only you can decide your gender, so you may still be cis. If you don’t exactly like or dislike your AGAB, then it’s possible that your dysphoria means you’re not 100% cis. It sounds like you may still have to do a little self-reflection to determine this, though. 🙂
Bordergender/Borderfluid: A fluctuating gender experienced exclusively by people with BPD. A gender identity lacking a firm grasp on one’s identity, while still experiencing gender, to varying degrees, but having trouble pinning it down to just one label or identity. Having the sense of grasping at labels as much as possible to describe a gender one keeps questioning because one keeps second guessing one’s sense of self and, consequently, one’s sense of gender.
Exagender: A gender for use by people with BPD. It is influenced or affected by the approval of others. It is usually affected or altered by splitting, which can result in a gendered feeling that is in contrast with the person’s ‘actual’ experience of their gender.
Daegender: a gender that feels demonic or evil in nature, can be associated with a gender or be a gender all itself.
Hellgender: a xenogender specifically for demonkin, darkkin, monsterkin, etc, and/or Satanists, meaning you feel connected to a gender that cannot be described in mundane terms but only by those in hell.
Daimogender: When you feel your gender is closely related to demons or the supernatural.
Vapogender: A gender that sort of feels like smoke. One can see it and understand it on a shallow level but if one tried to go deeper it disappears, and one is left with no gender and only tiny wisps of the gender one thought it was.
Umbragender: a xenogender thats animalistic and otherworldy with a strong connection to shadows.
Owlgender/Batgender/Nocturnalgender/Moongender: A gender that feels more intense during the night, but weak/nonexistent when it is light out.
Mathgender: A precise but complex gender that, the more you explore its intricacies, the more bizarre it becomes.
Schrodigender: A gender which you can both feel and not feel, OR a single gender that exists as if it were many genders at once.
Ambonecfluid? I think it could be androgyneflux or lingenderfluid. Trigenderfluid or femby/fin/fegender, enby/nb and male. These specific ones don’t have a flag, but there’s an ambonec one:
Ambonec: a nonbinary gender identity in which a person identifies as female, male, and neither, at the same time.
~ ap
No. Sounds like amethian and azurian are the more proximate. You can use toric, achillean, viramoric, quadrisian or mascic/ma- tho. ~ ap
Spikegender or Burstgender:A mostly undefined gender with intense momentary spikes of specific gender(s), that last a relatively short time and fade away.
Perigender: A gender identity that is not currently known, but is becoming clearer over time. A transitional identity; When you feel your gender is comparable to a certain gender, but is a non binary identity and not even partially that binary gender. You identify with not as a gender.
Cosmicgender: A gender so vast and complex that you are only able to process a small bit of it at a time. Like viewing the night sky through a telescope, you cannot hope to see all of it at once, however, you may gain more knowledge about parts of it the longer you focus on one part. May contain any number of sub genders within it that may present themselves to you. It is infinite in its possibility. Name from the vast reaches of space filled with things we cannot begin to imagine.
You can put the suffix -fluid in some. ~ ap
I use mostly MS Paint lol. Sometimes I design in Photoscape and Photoshop. The colors? Use your imagination, it must have meanings tho, ritualized or traditionally stereotyped it doesn’t matter at all, anyway it shouldn’t be totally stereotyped because it would result in criticism. ~ ap
I sorta coined a new term based on genderfae/faun/flor, I was stuck on a name for a while and I finally decided on “genderfrith!” (Frith is an uncommon word for peace!)
Genderfrith: A fluid gender experience that never encompasses genders that are completely removed from masculinity or femininity.
So for example, this experience could include things like androgyne, demiboy/demigirl, proxvir/juxera, libramasculine/librafeminine, etc. (and binary boy/girl of course) but not things like neutrois, maverique, agender, etc. There’s always at least a little bit of maleness and/or femaleness there.
I sorta coined a new term based on genderfae/faun/flor, I was stuck on a name for a while and I finally decided on “genderfrith!” (Frith is an uncommon word for peace!)
Genderfrith: A fluid gender experience that never encompasses genders that are completely removed from masculinity or femininity.
So for example, this experience could include things like androgyne, demiboy/demigirl, proxvir/juxera, libramasculine/librafeminine, etc. (and binary boy/girl of course) but not things like neutrois, maverique, agender, etc. There’s always at least a little bit of maleness and/or femaleness there.
~ ap
hey !! wickergender anon back at it again w the pride stuff. i designed a few different flags for it!!
wickerfeminine: when your wickergender is comprised of feminine genders
wickermasculine: when your wickergender is comprised of masculine genders
wickernonbinary: when your wickergender is comprised of nonbinary/xenic/otherwise not wholly fin/min genders! the yellow could be for gendered non-fin/min genders (such as wickerxenogenders), and the grey could be for anti/a/demigendered wickergenders (wickerantigender, wickeragender, wickerdemigender, etc)
they could also be combined!! e.g. a split blue/yellow OR green flag for someone who has both masculine and xenic genders comprising their wickergender!
i’m not really sure for the basketgender flag, though! maybe there could be circles within in with general colors representing how the genders are, like this:
(wickeragender with a feminine, primary masculine, nb/xeno, and minor ….green (lol) internal element, which i think i’ll refer to as basket[gender] (e.g.: basketagender))
there are just too many people i’ve seen say they don’t think it is and its just horrible to see my friend’s orientation not taken seriously even in nonbinary circles even though mine is.
Non-monoattractional: someone who isn’t monoattracted; not feeling attracted strictly to just one gender; not being homo/gay/lesbian, hetero/straight, gyne-, cetero-, andro- or (wo)ma-.
This isn’t the same as pluralian/multi-, since it includes aspec/anattractional people. Also known as monodissidente in West Iberian languages. ~ ap
It’s called cisdissidente and generidade disidente (dissident genderness) in Iberian West. Also known as disigender, anyone who isn’t normogender [binary cis(monocom)positrois solid gender conformist/congruous/harmonious/euphoric suptilian (kymenian diastimian)]. This is different from MGI (that encompasses normocis womanhood), similar to gender diversity.
It’s called cisdissidente and generidade disidente (dissident genderness) in Iberian West. Also known as disigender, anyone who isn’t normogender [binary cis(monocom)positrois solid gender conformist/congruous/harmonious/euphoric suptilian (kymenian diastimian)]. This is different from MGI (that encompasses normocis womanhood), similar to gender diversity.
It’s called heterodisident in Iberian West (means straightdissent). Anyway, there are marginalized orientations that are hetero-, such as heteroplatonic. Also known as the LGBPA+ community or nonhetero-.
It’s called heterodisident in Iberian West (means straightdissent). Anyway, there are marginalized orientations that are hetero-, such as heteroplatonic. Also known as the LGBPA+ community or nonhetero-.
Mesobinary I guess, possiequibinary (equibigender/biequigender), could be androgyneflux, lingender/fluid (linflux), abinary male-female, ambibinary, antibinary meta(mid)gender, unbinary ambonec, aporagender or singularian meta(ambi)gender.
Equigender: When you are multiple genders in perfectly equal parts.
Mesogender: Something between male/female but not distinct from both.
Midgender (midbinary): A gender that exists in the middle between the binary genders of female and male.
Ambigender: A feeling of two genders simultaneously, without fluidity/shifting.
Ambonec: a nonbinary gender identity in which a person identifies as female, male, and neither, at the same time.
Metagender:To identify around or beyond a gender. Where your gender identity is almost that gender, but not quite, and also extends beyond that.
Possigender: when you can’t determine whether your gender is fluid or not. “Possi” from “possibly”, because your gender is possibly fluid, and possibly not, but you can’t really decide.
Singularian or Voidarian: rejecting the binary gender alignments while cannot have ties to other gender identities or alignments. It’s not neutral, either; it can only be described on a plane of existence entirely separate from the gender binary, galactian trinary, or what-have-you.
Aporagender or Aingender: a nonbinary gender identity and umbrella term for “a gender separate from male, female, and anything in between (unlike Androgyne) while still having a very strong and specific gendered feeling.
Abinary:
anyone whose genderness is completely unrelated to the gender binary that are completely unrelated to the gender binary (such as agender, quoigender, maverique or most xenogenders).
Anonbinary (a-nonbinary): a gender that definitely isn’t binary, but is still even outside of nonbinary.
~ ap
Of course not. Some agender people say that agenderness isn’t a gender, anyway agender is a genderness (or genderlessness). If you feel part of your genderness don’t exist, this could be partially agender (demiagender). It could be a bigender of agender+bigender, or a trigender of agender+other 2 genders, or a bidemigender/demibigender.
And even if those were opposite genders, anyone can be polygender of genders that are opposed from each other, see gemigender, cadogender, equigender, genderkrieg, zerogender, schrodigender, cendgender and genderdox. You can be both agender and antiagender or comgender. ~ ap