faesaridollie:

multichromaa:

Here’s a preview of our forum/message board! As you can tell, it’s still in its baby stages and still needs modifications before we can open it. 

Features it will have:

  • Chat box for easy communication between members, staff, and guests
  • FREE to register (multisexual or ally to the community)
  • A gallery of different PRIDE flags to choose from for an avatar (or put in your own custom avatar, the avatar dimmensions willl likely be 150×150)
  • Staff that has been staffing for many years
  • PM/DM so you can “talk private” with other members if you so choose
  • Easy layout/skin so those new to message boards won’t struggle with learning the format of the board server
  • Multiple skins to choose from

I made a post about this earlier, but here’s the official Tumblr for the board and a nice preview of the board for those interested 🙂 Please help signal boost! I’m totally open to suggestions for this too!

@uncommongenders @uncommonprideart @mogaiflagswithbenton 

Some followers might be interested in this

– Vi

hey, i was wondering if you have the most recent version of the [someone] loving [someone] chart?

nbandproud:

This is what I have:

It’s possible that more terms have been coined since then, since I’ve not been on Tumblr as much for the past few days.

Currently missing:

  • a label for someone who is (at least) a man and nonbinary who is attracted at least to men and women (nblm, mlm, nblw, mlw)
  • a label for someone who is
    (at least)

    a woman and nonbinary who is attracted at least to men and women (nblm, wlm, nblw, wlw)

  • a label for
    someone who is
    (at least)

    a woman and nonbinary

    who is attracted at least to women (wlw, nblw)

Those are no longer missing! 😀

Lapian is, at least, nblm, mlm, nblw, and mlw (Source)

Callistian is, at least, nblm, wlm, nblw, and wlw (Source)

Axinitian is, at least, wlw and nblw (Source)

-Fy

Nonbinary Butch Pride Flag

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Enbutch (non-binary butch): Holding a nonbinary gender identity and a butch gender expression, or claiming butch as an identity outside of the gender binary (butchgender).

Not to be confused with manugender, tomcat, bear, stag, masculine, jackhound, vermil, cinnab, enboy, wolf, xoy or twinkby. 

~ ap

Nonbinary Femme Pride Flag

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Femmenby (femmenbie/femby): Holding a nonbinary gender identity and a femme gender expression, or claiming femme as an identity outside of the gender binary (genderfemme).

See also: femgender, feminine/unmasculine, doe, femcat, cerul, laven, swan, flora, girlby, xirl, demigirl or lipstick lesbian. 

~ ap

Nonbinary Futch Pride Flag

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Nonbinary Futch (futchby/futchbie): Holding a nonbinary gender identity and a futch gender expression, or claiming futch as an identity outside of the gender binary (futchgender).

Separated from fuch, androgyny, fox, pewt, neufox, indig, virid, chapstick lesbian and androgyne.

 ~ ap

Partner System Flag Concepts

system-mogai:

So looking at the strawpoll it looked like most people would simply prefer flags that are defined for each attraction type (sexual, romantic, platonic, etc.) and with that in mind I worked out some concepts and options. You guys let me know what you think.

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In case people wonder: I define partner systems as simply systems that have a relationship with each other (platonic, queerplatonic, romantic, etc.). Don’t think about any other definition. (I don’t even know if there are any.)

I welcome other flag ideas! (I’m not pleased with these anyway)

Edit: Forgot to add yes non-systems can comment on this. 

What are you talkin’ about, these look great! 😀

-Fy

Paroattractional Pride Flag

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Paroattractional: An orientation in which you experience different methods of attraction to the genders you are attracted to in every way you feel attraction.

-Fy

saturnic-vapour:

I slightly fixed and made variations of Anthrotherio-orientations!
Anthrotherio-attraction to anthropomorphic mammals. This is NOT zoophilia or that kind shit, because it is attraction to Sentient and Intelligent Human-like mammals.
1st flag-Anthrotherio- as omniattracted version.
2nd flag-Anthrotheriosexual.
3rd flag-Anthrotherioromantic.
4th flag-Anthrotheriosensual.
5th flag-Anthrotherioqueerplatonic.
6th flag-Anthrotherioalterous.
7th flag-Anthrotherioplatonic.
8th flag-Anthrotherioaesthetic.
9th flag-Anthrotherioamic.
10th flag-Anthrotheriosocial.

~ ap

saturnic-vapour:

I slightly fixed and made variations of Anthrotherio-orientations!
Anthrotherio-attraction to anthropomorphic mammals. This is NOT zoophilia or that kind shit, because it is attraction to Sentient and Intelligent Human-like mammals.
1st flag-Anthrotherio- as omniattracted version.
2nd flag-Anthrotheriosexual.
3rd flag-Anthrotherioromantic.
4th flag-Anthrotheriosensual.
5th flag-Anthrotherioqueerplatonic.
6th flag-Anthrotherioalterous.
7th flag-Anthrotherioplatonic.
8th flag-Anthrotherioaesthetic.
9th flag-Anthrotherioamic.
10th flag-Anthrotheriosocial.

~ ap

beau-is-gai:

I think the MOGAI/queer/LGBTQ+ community as a whole needs to talk about the difference between being transgender and transgenital and how these two terms could work together very well.

Like how with the split attraction model most people have matching orientations, the majority of trans* folk are probably both transgender and transgenital.

But in the same way that one can be aromantic without being asexual, one could be transgender without being transgenital (wanting to be socially seen as a different gender without transitioning physically). You could also be transgenital without being transgender, meaning that you have dysphoria about your sex but not gender (Ex: being okay with being seen as a man, but not having a vagina gives you distress).

I think this is why there is the debate over whether dysphoria is needed to be trans or not. Dysphoria is likely needed to be transgenital, but only gender euphoria would probably be needed to be transgender. Better yet, what if we reclaimed transsexual for people who want to physically transition but not socially (this term would be better than tansgenital because it would also include secondary sex characteristics).

@uncommongenders @arco-pluris @ask-pride-color-schemes @beyond-mogai-pride-flags

An interesting perspective, one I think is certainly worth discussing. I agree that there does seem to be a lot of debate on what it means to be transgender and that we could benefit from differentiating gender from sex, and perhaps even differentiating dysphoria related to secondary sex characteristics from dysphoria related to primary sexual characteristics, since there are many transgender/non-binary people who only really deal with one or the other. Not necessarily, of course, but it would be like as you explained; someone with dysphoria for primary and secondary sexual characteristics would be like someone who is perioriented, while someone with dysphoria for only one of those would be like someone who is varioriented. 

I’d like to hear other peoples’ thoughts on this, but remember to keep it respectful please. You can disagree on issues without being an asshole.

-Fy

Pancurious Pride Flag

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Pancuriosity: wishing or considering to experiment affectional relations while you usually not feeling attraction; feeling curious attraction to all genders or regardless of gender; doubting whether you will continue showing interest to any gender; unsure if you are pan- or anattractional, aspec or allo/zed, staying undefined.

See also: pre-, try-, zedflexible (alloflexible), aflexible (aceflexible, aroflexible, aplflexible), pomo-, bicurious and questioning.

Oligo- Pride Flag

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Oligoattractional: not experiencing attraction except toward a few specific people.

See also: uni-. ~ ap

Trans/Intersex (TI) Pride Flag

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TI(A) or IT(A): trans & intersex community, those who are intersex and/or trans; trans & intersex alliance, symbolizing TI+ people celebrating trans/intersex solidarity.

See also: LGBTI+, ITNB+, QTI+, MGII & MGAI. ~ ap

Antigendersexual / antigenderromantic – attracted to people who have no gender (counterpart to gendersexual/romantic)

Yellow and green – signifies attraction to enbies (those without a gender)/gender neutrality. the yellow is from the nonbinary flag, while the green is from the agender flag.
Gray and black – signifies attraction to people with no connection to gender.


Awesome! Thanks for the submission!

-Fy

I don’t understand ‘interbinary’. By the definition your post gave, it just sounds like ultergender, but I’m guessing there’s some distinction I’m not getting? I’m an ultergender androgyne.

The interbinary flag and definition was submitted by an anonymous person, so hopefully they can give a better explanation! From my perspective, though, I can see some difference between the two.

Ultergender: intersex people who identify as a gender other than their assigned gender at birth, but do not feel the term “transgender” describes them, because of being intersex

Interbinary: intersex people who are sex/gender dysphoric but feel like they don’t belong in transsex/gender spaces for whatever reason; not a gender.

It appears that ultergender is specifically for those that feel their gender is not their agab, but that they are neither cis nor trans due to being intersex. This doesn’t mean they are dysphoric or non-dysphoric, however. 

Whereas, interbinary seems to be for those that are dysphoric, but still don’t consider themselves trans due to being intersex. It also doesn’t specify whether or not the intersex person who considers themselves interbinary would be identifying as their agab or not. So, following this logic, as interbinary is an adjective, perhaps an intersex person who is dysphoric but still identifies as their agab may identify as interbinary cisgender? An interbinary man or interbinary woman. 

That’s my take on it, from comparing the two definitions. 🙂

you guys should have a discord server

beyond-mogai-pride-flags:

You think so? Would anyone be interested in that, though?

Okay, so I guess there is some interest in a BMPF discord. I’ll consider it, though I would need to start applications for discord-specific mods beforehand and I’m just not in the best place to start that right away. Maybe in the next couple of weeks or so? 

-Fy

New Term!

Gumgender: A gender that at first seems “tasty” and interesting like fruit chewing gum, but after a while becomes “tasteless” and “boring”.

[There is no flag yet, and it would be great if someone made it]


Thanks for the submission! New term!

-Fy

Gendersexual / genderromantic – attracted to people who have a gender (excludes agender, gendervoid, genderless, etc.)

Yellow – signifies attraction to enbies (those with a gender)/gender neutrality
Purple – combination of pink and blue, attraction to the binary genders
Shades in between – to show a mix of the two above, attraction to people who feel both nonbinary and male and/or female

Is there a flag that already looks like this? I thought if I separated pink and blue rather than combining them it might look too similar to the pansexual/romantic flag.


I think the closest would be the flag for Indigender. It may be confused for that, though the Indigender flag is vertical and is more indigo than purple. Other than that, I think it looks great!

Edit: It also looks pretty similar to Cendnonbinary.

-Fy

What is the term for someone who feels gender is not relevant to them/does not apply to them? It’s a specific gender, and I think the flag is black and pastel blue green and orange, and it may start with a C? I identified with it but I forgot the name 😭

It doesn’t fit into your account exactly, but taking all of the information into account the closet fit is:

Cassgender: A gender identity where one feels that their gender is unimportant or is indifferent to the idea of gender.

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If that’s not what you’re looking for, let me know and I’ll try again!

Please answer privately! My boyfriend has recently been questioning his gender. He sees himself as male/masculine, but not all the time. He likes to express himself femininely, but does not see himself as female. Just as a boy, and sometimes not a boy. He says demiboy does not fit him. Do you have any other ideas of an identity that may suit him better? I told him I’d look into it for him, and he was very happy about that.

I’m sorry, but I can’t answer anonymous asks privately. It sounds like your boyfriend may have a fluid gender, so perhaps he is genderfluid? He could also use Nonbinary Boy. Your ask is a little vague so I don’t really have too many options I can give.

What’s with the use of ”girl” and ”boy” for gender identities, but not ”man” and ”woman”? I’ve never seen, for instance, demiwoman, or xenoman, and it feels really infantilizing to be describing myself as a girl or boy when I’m an adult – as well as a little bit creepy when I see people over 30 using girl and boy to describe themself.

That’s true, the ‘default’ names for these genders do use “boy” and “girl”. However, someone can identify as “demiman” or “demiwoman”, etc. I think they might originally be named as such do to being coined by minors, but I don’t know that for sure. 

xeno-aligned:

Callistian and Lapian

Callistian: someone who is a woman and nonbinary, attracted to women and men [wlw, wlm, nblw, nblm]. Named after Jupiter’s moon, Callisto.

Lapian: someone who is a man and nonbinary, attracted to women and men [mlw, mlm, nblw, nblm]. Named after Saturn’s moon, Lapetus.

[Colour meanings and image description under the cut]

Keep reading

I especially love the Lapian flag! And with these I think that would finish the chart made by @nbandproud​.

-Fy

Transnegative Pride Flag

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Transnegativity: a term used to describe trans people identifying with negative gendered feelings to a greater extent than with femininity or masculinity. They usually are nonbinary but could be trans men or trans women.

An alternative to transneutral, transfeminine and transmasculine. ~ ap

Transpositive Pride Flag

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Transpositivity: a term used to describe trans people identifying with positive gendered feelings to a greater extent than with femininity or masculinity. They usually are nonbinary but could be trans men or trans women.

An alterntive to transneutral, transfeminine and transmasculine. ~ ap

straight-alignment:

Heterogender

[Pictured: the Heterogender pride flag, also known as the straight-aligned flag.]

Heterogender: a gender that is connected to the experience of being heterosexual.

Heterogender people can identify as male, female, or non-aligned in addition to being straight-aligned. If a male-aligned heterogender person is attracted to women only, they’re straight-aligned!

You can be straight-aligned without identifying as heterogender! For example: a heterosexual agender person could identify as straight-aligned, and use this pride flag while only identifying as agender.

Straight-aligned nbs, you’re so fucking valid 💜💜💜

-Fy

Spiritual attraction is often known as mental attraction (it also includes intellectual and psychological). It’s like you have a spiritual connection to someone, capacity of forming an spiritual bond with one or more individuals. This bond is related to an exchange of wisdom, knowledge and interests of the involved (It is NOT about what kind of mind one has, but rather how they use it). Sometimes alterous encompasses spiritual attraction too.

Nonamory: A lifestyle choice or relationship style that does not include intimate, long-term partnerships, whether romantic or platonic.

So I guess nonamory is for aplatonic aromantic people (aroapl), but I guess zedplatonic zedromantics can also be nonamory, since it’s different from anamory, because you can’t choose to feel attraction or desire relationships.

Unaffectionate interest (unaffectional) means lack or absence of affection; affectionlessness, synonymy with unaffective, unemotional, aphilia, lovelessness and unloveliness. I used affection (as in affective attraction, atração afetiva) to encompass all forms of attraction, but -attractionality (as in anattractional) sounds better. Anyway I think anattractional is different from unaffection, because while unaffective people wouldn’t feel any kind of attraction, anattractional is a spectrum, they can feel specific forms of attraction and other(s) not.

Presential attraction is also known as physical attraction, implying actual presence. More known in Portuguese as atração física/presencial, it means desiring someone presentially and physically (concretely, representationally and manually) without necessarily touching them (as in sensual attractional). Sensuality can be felt isolatedly since it involves the senses it could be +4D, emotionally or spiritually, for example. 

~ ap

interbinary flag! reminder that this flag is only to be used by intersex people who are sex/gender dysphoric but feel like they don’t belong in transsex/gender spaces for whatever reason. it’s not a gender, rather an adjective/noun to be combined with other terms (e.g. interbinary androgyne). hopefully others will find this useful! ❤


I love it! Thanks so much for the submission!

-Fy

Blindgender Pride Flag

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Blindgender: a genderness that is blindness itself; a gender that you cannot see, behold, perceive, observe, understand, touch or find / when you can’t tell/discern if your gender(s) exist or not due to identity invisibility; a gender experience from a blind perspectivity; when you can’t look into your gender because there’s no internal conviction of what is your gender.

See also: invisigender, anongender, abditusgender, jupitergender, cheshiric and camogender. ~ ap

Gender-blind Pride Flag

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Gender-blindness (or unisex): someone who adheres to not distinguishing people by gender. Gender blind people generally advocate genderneutrality in society, such as activities undertaken and services provided without regard to the gender of those who participate.

See also: third-gender, neutrois, epicene, genderpunk and genderbend. ~ ap

Seasea Pride Flags

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Seagendersea: a gender that is a vast sea of caverns and depths yet to be discovered, as deep and unknown as the ocean itself, mostly incomprehensible but slightly familiar in human terms and like gendervoid, but related to the ocean; the combination of seagender and gendersea, one of them coined with otherkin related to the ocean or sea creatures in mind.

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~ ap

Cuddliosexual

just-a-mogai-blog:

Cuddliosexual: someone who only feels sexually attraction to people when cuddling; a form of gray/greysexuality.

(requested by anon)

-Fy

Looking for mods!

neolabels:

So this blog is going to start a series organizing all the known genders into organized, easily accessible lists. But that’s a lot of work for one person! So I’m looking for mods to help me out with this big task. Please send in a submission with this form filled out if you’d like to be a mod!
Name(s):
Age (everyone over 18 MUST specify age):
Pronouns:
Gender(s):
Orientation(s): 
Tumblr URL: 

Hey all! This is a really important goal, so I encourage signing up to help them out if you can! There are so many orientation and genders and it can be daunting to try and crunch them all into lists, but it’ll be so beneficial to have them!

-Fy

Hey there! This might be kind of a weird question but i’m running a flag archive for pride flags (@the-flag-archive if you wanna check it out) and I was wondering if I could post your flags there? Of course I would credit you as the maker with a link back to your blog but if you’d rather I not post your flags at all that’s totally cool ^^

arco-pluris:

Of course you can do that. I’d love.

I checked it out, and I really love the blog! It’s so so important to have archives since there are so many terms and flags out there. 

-Fy

Hello. Can I ask you to help me? I am asexual + aromantic, but I have a platonic attraction to people regardless of their sex. I find friendship as a very close relationship (as brothers and sisters) and very much attached to friends in a platonic sense. I consider myself demiplatonic. I’m an introvert and I don’t always need communication. I need a personal space. Also, I get attached to people after a long time of communication, and not immediately. I made myself a flag that characterizes me. Is it correct?


Looks like the asexual, aromantic, and demiplatonic flags together, so you got it right! And it looks really nice, too!!

-Fy

Gendersublime Pride Flag

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Gendersublime or Mudfumy: a combination of genderfumy and gendermud (kymenianflux + diastimianfluid); a split genderness divided into a part that is fluidstable (fluid diastimian) and other side that it stillflux (static genderflux); a flexgenderfluid that is not fluidflux (fluxfluid, genderfliux or genderfluix).

Similar to genderslider. Also on gendergaz, polygender and suptiliamplusian (demisuptilian, demiamplusian or amplussuptilian) spectra. ~ ap

Gendermud Pride Flag

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Gendermud, Fluidstable, Genderslip or Diastimianfluid: fluctuating the gender identity while its intensity is stable; diastimfluid, stableflexible or stablefluid, a combination of genderflexible (fluid) and diastimian (genderstable or diastimgender); a more specific subset of genderfluid for not being genderflux. Can be shorten to stablexible.

Also on amplusian, multigender and gendergaz spectra. ~ ap

Genderfumy Pride Flag

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Genderfumy, Fluxstatic, Flexstill or Kymenianflux: fluxing the gender intensity while the gender identity stays static; staticflux or stillflux, a combination of flexgender (flux) and genderstill (genderstatic, kymenian or kymengender); a more specific subset of genderflux that isn’t genderfluid, not changing the gender but its intensity. Also shorten to fluxtatic/flextatic, flextill/fluxtill, kymenflux and statiflux.

This is on gendergaz and amplusian spectra. Coining ~ ap

faesaridollie:

Shout out to all the orientations and gender identities that rarely if ever get included in PRIDE art and merchandise 🌈

Tshirts, the cute animal colorings with pride flags, canvas art, tote bags, pillows, mugs, y’all know what I’m talking about 🏳️‍🌈

If someone could make a blog dedicated to sharing art and merchandise about the lesser made orientation and gender identity pride flags, that’d be fantastic

-Vi 💙

manymasquesofthefox:

lebritanyarmor:

ask-irl-nabulungi-hatimbi:

politicalprof:

nikator:

miseducatedmelanicmuse:

espressokisses:

critically-yours:

miseducatedmelanicmuse:

flyerfemalecompanion:

notoriousthuggg:

miseducatedmelanicmuse:

Please reblog, this is so important.

I needed this

Is this foreal?

Yes it’s a real service. I do volunteer work for a rape crisis support service in my city and texting is one of the features we provide as well. But just to boost its credibility, I tried it myself:

reblog to save lives!

You can also text “Steve” to 741741 if you’re a young person of color. The website for more info is stevefund.org

My understanding is that it’s more multicultural and some folks feel more comfy with that in mind!

^^^^^THIS

get help guys, please. if you’re hurting, don’t let that hurt consume you. seek help.

I never knew this. It’s spectacular.

((I’ve texted these guys a few times, they’re really great.))

i’ve text them . about my tainted ass relationship & she really listened . she was great 🧡

To be clear, I only know of this as U.S. service.

Some of our followers might need this

-Vi 💙

Sociopathism/Anti-Social Personality Disorder is a mental health disorder characterized by disregard for other people.

(The request was for ‘high functioning sociopath’ which…isn’t actually a thing, so I just went with Sociopath)

~Kitty

Gamophobia is the fear of commitment, though it can also be the excessive, persistent, uncontrollable and irrational fear of marriage. It is derived from the Greek word Gamos which means marriage and phobos meaning fear.

~Kitty

Fixesexual and Fixeromantic 

Fixe-: an orientation where the person is rarely attracted to anyone (sexually/romantically/etc.), but when they are attracted they become obsessed with that person

Dark grey represents sexual attraction, dark pink is romantic, and the deep black is the usual lack of attraction.

~Kitty

Transgenital Pride Flag

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Transgenital: a term used to describe those who wish to have their genitals to that of another sex or to a mixed genital set, regardless of gender. Can also be called Altergenital.

-Fy

Wait you guys support fujoshis? :(

I personally don’t, but this blog isn’t about just posting flags for identities I support. I answered an ask like two days ago saying as much.

Paro- Pride Flags

Paro-: An orientation in which you experience different methods of attraction to the genders you are attracted to.

Original flag created by @cattodaddo

Parosexual Pride Flag

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Paroromantic Pride Flag

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Paroplatonic Pride Flags

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Parosensual Pride Flag

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Paroalterous Pride Flag

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Paroqueerplatonic Pride Flag

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Paroaesthetic Pride Flag

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-Fy

Can I request fujoshi and fudanshi/fukei pride flags? (No idea what would the enby equivalent be, maybe fuX or fuekks?) I don’t care about whether or not someone’s tastes are problematic as long as they don’t mean they are antagonistic or abusive to others irl, and the otaku community and anime industry have found better pressure towards LGBT representation from this than anything else, plus most people oppose BL because they find it gross than because many works are problematic. So yeah.

Yeah, I guess I can put those on the request list. I looked around to see if there were any already made, but the terms I found the closest were:

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and

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Which I definitely didn’t feel comfortable typing out myself…

These aren’t the same as what you’re asking for, though, so I can put them on the request list.

Penultigender Pride Flag

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Penultigender: identifying as all genders, within your own culture and life experience, except a specific one. In the case of penultieugender, this specific genderness can be a nongender or an antigender (neutrois or negatrois). Anyway, someone who is penultiantigender would be opposed to all genders except a specific one and this one could be a nongender or an eugender and a penultinongender could monoeugender or monoantigender (monopositrois or mononegatrois). For example, a penultiboy can be described as a pangender antiboy, nonboy polygender or boyless omnigender, similar to (pan)genderfae but not necessarily genderfluid.

See also: penultrois/penultitrois. ~ ap

Panantigender-X Pride Flag

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Panantagender, Apanantigender or Antipangender-X (agender panantigender): an agender identity opposed to all genders (simultaneously or not); someone who has all accesible antigenders & agenders; negative-pangender individuals positively or neutrally agendered (pannegatrois apositrois/aneutrois).

Similar to ungender, interchangeable with omniantagender/omnantagender and antiomnigender-x.

~ ap

Pxngender Pride Flag

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Pxngender/Apangender (panx/pangender-x, interchangeable with Omnagender): a genderness that is both agender and pangender and/or somewhere between them; an identity mostly pangender, but has a connection to genderlessness and/or agendered feelings; a pangender individual feeling they have null/no gender identity; an agender person having some connection to panhood/pangenderness.

See also: genderlight, demiagender, schrodigender and demipangender. ~ ap

Pxngender Pride Flag

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Pxngender/Apangender (panx/pangender-x, interchangeable with Omnagender): a genderness that is both agender and pangender and/or somewhere between them; an identity mostly pangender, but has a connection to genderlessness and/or agendered feelings; a pangender individual feeling they have null/no gender identity; an agender person having some connection to panhood/pangenderness.

See also: genderlight, demiagender, schrodigender and demipangender. ~ ap

kalliepride:

Regressigender, Regressgender, or Regressusgender: A gender that is only present during age regression.

(I have to politely request that you don’t use this term for kink purposes. I’m not anti-kink but that just isn’t what I intended this to be used for.)

Nice! Now there’s a flag for it! 😀

-Fy

kalliepride:

Regressigender, Regressgender, or Regressusgender: A gender that is only present during age regression.

(I have to politely request that you don’t use this term for kink purposes. I’m not anti-kink but that just isn’t what I intended this to be used for.)

Nice! Now there’s a flag for it! 😀

-Fy

And this one is the Morganitian (nblw, wlw, mlw) pride flag!!


Awesome! Thanks for the submissions!

-Fy

This one is the Kyanitian (nblnb, wlnb, mlnb) pride flag!


Oooo pretty! Thanks for the submission!

-Fy

This on is the Iolitian (nblnb, wlnb, mlnb, nblw, wlw, mlw) pride flag!


Thanks for the submission!

-Fy

Edit: This is based on the gemstone called iolite. It starts with an i. 

hullo! :3 I’m not the person who coined the terms Chalcedonic, Iolitian Kyanitian and Morganitian but I am part of the same group and these are the flags we came up with!!!

So this one is the Chalcedonic (nblm, mlm, mlw) pride flag!


Oh, cool! Thanks for the submissions!

-Fy

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  • Mosaigender/Portiogender: for those whose gender is made up of little pieces of multiple other genders.
  • Worldgender: Having multiple genders with such complex relationships and subgenders that it feels like the genders make up an entire world or planet together, each gender affecting the biomes and other features of this world/planet.
  • Abditusgender or Sectiogender: When you have a general idea of what your gender is but feel that it’s still hiding important factors from you, or that it’s slowly revealing itself to you but continues to keep some of itself hidden and you don’t know how to bring it about. 
  • Collgender:  A polygender identity where one experiences too many genders to be able to describe them all.
  • Fraspe: This gender can be compared to light in terms of colors. Just like white light can be divided in a spectrum of colors, this gender exists by itself at first, but then it divides itself into many others (all different, but together they form this one gender). One can feel each gender individually, two or more at the same time, or flow among them. And again just like light, one can experience identifiable genders (visible spectrum) and non-identifiable genders (infrared, ultraviolet, etc). Even when divided, one feels the initial gender still present, and may also “go back” to feeling only that gender.
  • Divigender: A feeling that one’s gender is split or divided due to a dissociative disorder. 
  • Gyragender/Gyaragender/Gendervex:  When you have multiple genders but don’t understand any of them. 
  • Spectragender: a gender that is such a spectrum that you can’t define it.
  • Plugender: may be used to describe those who have multiple genders, or who sees their gender as being one multifaceted thing, possibly comprising multiple genders into one. See also: plurigender.

~ ap

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  • Mosaigender/Portiogender: for those whose gender is made up of little pieces of multiple other genders.
  • Worldgender: Having multiple genders with such complex relationships and subgenders that it feels like the genders make up an entire world or planet together, each gender affecting the biomes and other features of this world/planet.
  • Abditusgender or Sectiogender: When you have a general idea of what your gender is but feel that it’s still hiding important factors from you, or that it’s slowly revealing itself to you but continues to keep some of itself hidden and you don’t know how to bring it about. 
  • Collgender:  A polygender identity where one experiences too many genders to be able to describe them all.
  • Fraspe: This gender can be compared to light in terms of colors. Just like white light can be divided in a spectrum of colors, this gender exists by itself at first, but then it divides itself into many others (all different, but together they form this one gender). One can feel each gender individually, two or more at the same time, or flow among them. And again just like light, one can experience identifiable genders (visible spectrum) and non-identifiable genders (infrared, ultraviolet, etc). Even when divided, one feels the initial gender still present, and may also “go back” to feeling only that gender.
  • Divigender: A feeling that one’s gender is split or divided due to a dissociative disorder. 
  • Gyragender/Gyaragender/Gendervex:  When you have multiple genders but don’t understand any of them. 
  • Spectragender: a gender that is such a spectrum that you can’t define it.
  • Plugender: may be used to describe those who have multiple genders, or who sees their gender as being one multifaceted thing, possibly comprising multiple genders into one. See also: plurigender.

~ ap

if another term hasn’t been coined yet, can I coin Axinitian for wlw & nblw please?

diamornd-dust:

beyond-mogai-pride-flags:

diamornd-dust:

beyond-mogai-pride-flags:

Yeah! That sounds like a really pretty name, actually. New term!

The term currently is hekatolic, another name for moonstone!

@beyond-mogai-pride-flags I’m currently working on a flag as well, since it’s an identity of mine :3 Here’s a chart for reference, I’ll tag the creator once I can remember how to spell their url

Perhaps I’m reading it wrong, but doesn’t it say that Hecatolic is at least wlnb and nblnb? Not wlw and nblw?

-Fy

Sorry, you are correct friend, I had mixed it up! XD Chart is by nbandproud

Not a problem! Can’t wait to see the flag you make for whichever identity you’re making it for! 😀

-Fy

if another term hasn’t been coined yet, can I coin Axinitian for wlw & nblw please?

diamornd-dust:

beyond-mogai-pride-flags:

Yeah! That sounds like a really pretty name, actually. New term!

The term currently is hekatolic, another name for moonstone!

@beyond-mogai-pride-flags I’m currently working on a flag as well, since it’s an identity of mine :3 Here’s a chart for reference, I’ll tag the creator once I can remember how to spell their url

Perhaps I’m reading it wrong, but doesn’t it say that Hecatolic is at least wlnb and nblnb? Not wlw and nblw?

-Fy

beyond-mogai-pride-flags:

No. Sounds like amethian and azurian are the more proximate. You can use toric, achillean, viramoric, quadrisian or mascic/ma- tho. ~ ap

Thank you very much!

-Fy

Just because something gets an updated phrase or terminology doesn’t make it suddenly invalid

faesaridollie:

I’ll give you an example from the restaurant industry. Domino’s used to be called DomiNick’s according to their website, but now everyone calls them Dominos through a series of them rebranding themselves. 

This same concept can be applied to anything, including human sexuality and gender identity concepts.

Homoflexible is the “old term” for anisosexual (one of the big reasons for the shift is that some people don’t feel comfortable with the prefix “homo-” due to the shady history it has both in and out of the scientific community). This suddenly doesn’t make the term “homoflexible” or the idea of it invalidated, it’s just been given a new name.

Let people explore identities in peace. Just because they decide to rebrand something, doesn’t  suddenly make the idea invalid. 

-Vi

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Nobody said julietians and romerics are inherently marginalized oriented, that’s why ultric exists. This post explains why duaric identities are useful.

The blog has beyond in its name, so some of our posts are beyond the MOGAI community, we don’t post MOGAI stuff only.

Also, romeric and julietian identities can have useful meanings academically saying, why wasn’t there a specific word for wlm?! This is also inclusive for nonbinary and varioriented hetero- people whose straightness doesn’t apply to them, turning out that duarics are adherently marginalized. ~ ap

Gender-blind doesn’t have a flag yet. Anyway it’s on neutrois umbrella. I guess anongender describes this:

Anongender: A gender that is unknown to both yourself and others. 

~ ap

Juxera: A gender relative to female, but is something separate and entirely on it’s own. 

Nonpuella or Nonera: Someone who is not female at all in any way, shape, or form, but feels a strong connection to femininity within their gender.

Xirl: Someone who identifies in some was as a nonbinary girl or nonbinary girl-adjacent. 

Faesari: a gender identity where one feels most comfortable within the gender neutral spectrum, but still feels a strong attachment to femininity. 

Girl-proximal (girlprox): not necessarily women (or are not 100% women as some demigirls may ID, or are not always women as some genderfluid folks may ID, etc etc) but who experiences a connection to girlhood/womanhood, but not girlness/womanliness.

Girlby and femby would also apply. This list can be very helpful tho. @kinda-girls is a dedicated blog for these situations. Consider using gender alignments or elements such as lunarian, lunettian and eluvian. ~ ap

There isn’t yet. You can use the botanosexual and plantkin flags. Botanosexual means attraction to plants (including plantkin people). This would be a combo?! ~ ap

Boyflux: a gender identity in which a person can feel mostly or completely malemost of the time but experiences varying degrees of male identity. For example, one could feel 0% (agender), 50% (demiboy), 100% (comboy), or anything in between like pixelboy, magiboy, paraboy or libramasculine. The intensity can fluctuate over any period of time.

Bxy (pronounced like boy-x): A gender that is both boy and agender/no gender. You can be a boy and agender/no gender at the same time, go between them, or fluctuate between feeling male and not feeling gender. 

~ ap

Look I’m a trans man and I like guys but recently… I’ve been questioning a lot.. see, I mostly like guys and for most of my life I’ve only been attracted to cis guys and trans guys but recently I liked a girl who played a guy in a musical we were both in. I’m sorry if this is weird but is there any sexualities you can think of that’s like that? I know homoflexible is a thing but is there anything else?

You could also use Bisexual. Or if you want to put more of an emphasis on your attraction to men, seeing as it seems you’re primarily attracted to men, then you can use Achillean to say you’re mlm. 

So I identify as bigenital because I have dysphoria over not having mixed genitals/sex characteristics. But in terms of my actual gender, I don’t have a problem with my assigned gender. I don’t explicitly like or dislike it. Would I be an enby? Is it possible to be bigenital and cis??

Its possible that you’re non-binary, as you experience dysphoria. But only you can decide your gender, so you may still be cis. If you don’t exactly like or dislike your AGAB, then it’s possible that your dysphoria means you’re not 100% cis. It sounds like you may still have to do a little self-reflection to determine this, though. 🙂

Bordergender/Borderfluid: A fluctuating gender experienced exclusively by people with BPD. A gender identity lacking a firm grasp on one’s identity, while still experiencing gender, to varying degrees, but having trouble pinning it down to just one label or identity. Having the sense of grasping at labels as much as possible to describe a gender one keeps questioning because one keeps second guessing one’s sense of self and, consequently, one’s sense of gender.

Exagender: A gender for use by people with BPD. It is influenced or affected by the approval of others. It is usually affected or altered by splitting, which can result in a gendered feeling that is in contrast with the person’s ‘actual’ experience of their gender.

Daegender: a gender that feels demonic or evil in nature, can be associated with a gender or be a gender all itself.

Hellgender: a xenogender specifically for demonkin, darkkin, monsterkin, etc, and/or Satanists, meaning you feel connected to a gender that cannot be described in mundane terms but only by those in hell.

Daimogender: When you feel your gender is closely related to demons or the supernatural.

-Ap

Hello! Do you know of any gender(s) associated with shadows? Like a gender that is wispy, intangible, and often behind/beneath you and difficult to see? The gender is also more dominant at night/in the dark.

I’ll list some, and hopefully one of these fit! 

Vapogender:  A gender that sort of feels like smoke. One can see it and understand it on a shallow level but if one tried to go deeper it disappears, and one is left with no gender and only tiny wisps of the gender one thought it was.

Umbragender: a xenogender thats animalistic and otherworldy with a strong connection to shadows.

Owlgender/Batgender/Nocturnalgender/Moongender: A gender that feels more intense during the night, but weak/nonexistent when it is light out.  

Mathgender:  A precise but complex gender that, the more you explore its intricacies, the more bizarre it becomes.

Hope that helps!

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Ambonecfluid? I think it could be androgyneflux or lingenderfluid. Trigenderfluid or femby/fin/fegender, enby/nb and male. These specific ones don’t have a flag, but there’s an ambonec one:

Ambonec: a nonbinary gender identity in which a person identifies as female, male, and neither, at the same time.

~ ap

No. Sounds like amethian and azurian are the more proximate. You can use toric, achillean, viramoric, quadrisian or mascic/ma- tho. ~ ap

Spikegender or Burstgender: A mostly undefined gender with intense momentary spikes of specific gender(s), that last a relatively short time and fade away. 

Perigender: A gender identity that is not currently known, but is becoming clearer over time. A transitional identity; When you feel your gender is comparable to a certain gender, but is a non binary identity and not even partially that binary gender. You identify with not as a gender.

Cosmicgender: A gender so vast and complex that you are only able to process a small bit of it at a time. Like viewing the night sky through a telescope, you cannot hope to see all of it at once, however, you may gain more knowledge about parts of it the longer you focus on one part. May contain any number of sub genders within it that may present themselves to you. It is infinite in its possibility. Name from the vast reaches of space filled with things we cannot begin to imagine.

You can put the suffix -fluid in some. ~ ap

I use mostly MS Paint lol. Sometimes I design in Photoscape and Photoshop. The colors? Use your imagination, it must have meanings tho, ritualized or traditionally stereotyped it doesn’t matter at all, anyway it shouldn’t be totally stereotyped because it would result in criticism. ~ ap

kalliepride:

I sorta coined a new term based on genderfae/faun/flor, I was stuck on a name for a while and I finally decided on “genderfrith!” (Frith is an uncommon word for peace!)

Genderfrith: A fluid gender experience that never encompasses genders that are completely removed from masculinity or femininity.

So for example, this experience could include things like androgyne, demiboy/demigirl, proxvir/juxera, libramasculine/librafeminine, etc. (and binary boy/girl of course) but not things like neutrois, maverique, agender, etc. There’s always at least a little bit of maleness and/or femaleness there.

~ ap

kalliepride:

I sorta coined a new term based on genderfae/faun/flor, I was stuck on a name for a while and I finally decided on “genderfrith!” (Frith is an uncommon word for peace!)

Genderfrith: A fluid gender experience that never encompasses genders that are completely removed from masculinity or femininity.

So for example, this experience could include things like androgyne, demiboy/demigirl, proxvir/juxera, libramasculine/librafeminine, etc. (and binary boy/girl of course) but not things like neutrois, maverique, agender, etc. There’s always at least a little bit of maleness and/or femaleness there.

~ ap

hey !! wickergender anon back at it again w the pride stuff. i designed a few different flags for it!!

wickerfeminine:
when your wickergender is comprised of feminine genders

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wickermasculine:
when your wickergender is comprised of masculine genders

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wickernonbinary:
when your wickergender is comprised of nonbinary/xenic/otherwise not wholly fin/min genders! the yellow could be for gendered non-fin/min genders (such as wickerxenogenders), and the grey could be for anti/a/demigendered wickergenders (wickerantigender, wickeragender, wickerdemigender, etc) 

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they could also be combined!! e.g. a split blue/yellow OR green flag for someone who has both masculine and xenic genders comprising their wickergender!

i’m not really sure for the basketgender flag, though! maybe there could be circles within in with general colors representing how the genders are, like this:

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(wickeragender with a feminine, primary masculine, nb/xeno, and minor ….green (lol) internal element, which i think i’ll refer to as basket[gender] (e.g.: basketagender))

or with the specific flags, like this:

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(wickerbigender (m/f, primarily f) baskethologender basketchamomilian)

mayb a combination of the two? with flags in circles? i dunno. but these were fun to make and i hope they’re unique ;0

(also the email’s a throwaway (bc i dont want my Personal Info ™ getting out) but i might just make a tumblr w it?? stay tuned folks ;3c)


Not a problem! 🙂 I love these! I like the idea of the flags as circles for that last one. 

-Fy

dunno if this is the best blog to send this to but i’ve been thinking on it and i haven’t really seen a gender quite like this so? i’d like to coin wickergender / basketgender, a gender that feels like multiple genders, similar or not, woven together to make one gender. basketgender is basically wickergender, but with other genders within the outer, woven-together genders (the wicker part of the basket) that aren’t part of the ‘wicker’ and are usually separate from one another. i dunno if (1/2)

I don’t think those names have been used yet, so that should work fine! New term! 😀 And we’d love to see the flag design you came up with.

please like and/or reblog this post if you think strayt is a legitimate identity!

gai-strayt-alliance:

there are just too many people i’ve seen say they don’t think it is and its just horrible to see my friend’s orientation not taken seriously even in nonbinary circles even though mine is.

could i get some help here @uncommongenders @beyond-mogai-pride-flags @arco-pluris? i want sequoia and other strayt people to know theyre just as deserving of respect as the rest of us are!

((Galexy))

Sure thing. 🙂 Boosted!

-Fy

I think there should be more terms to specify attraction to enbies without lumping them all together, since I’m only attracted to some nb genders and I know that’s common among others in the community. Maybe we can use terms like monoenbian, polyenbian and panenbian etc to specify that, but probably not just using enbian since it’s a more specific identity

That’s a very good point, and something we’ve been trying to shift towards doing. I think those terms sound like a really good idea! 

Nonmono- Pride Flag

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Non-monoattractional: someone who isn’t monoattracted; not feeling attracted strictly to just one gender; not being homo/gay/lesbian, hetero/straight, gyne-, cetero-, andro- or (wo)ma-.

This isn’t the same as pluralian/multi-, since it includes aspec/anattractional people. Also known as monodissidente in West Iberian languages. ~ ap

arco-pluris:

MGA (Marginalized Gender Alignment) Pride Flag

It’s called cisdissidente and generidade disidente (dissident genderness) in Iberian West. Also known as disigender, anyone who isn’t normogender [binary cis(monocom)positrois solid gender conformist/congruous/harmonious/euphoric suptilian (kymenian diastimian)]. This is different from MGI (that encompasses normocis womanhood), similar to gender diversity.

~ ap

arco-pluris:

MGA (Marginalized Gender Alignment) Pride Flag

It’s called cisdissidente and generidade disidente (dissident genderness) in Iberian West. Also known as disigender, anyone who isn’t normogender [binary cis(monocom)positrois solid gender conformist/congruous/harmonious/euphoric suptilian (kymenian diastimian)]. This is different from MGI (that encompasses normocis womanhood), similar to gender diversity.

~ ap

arco-pluris:

MO (Marginalized Oriented) Pride Flag

It’s called heterodisident in Iberian West (means straightdissent). Anyway, there are marginalized orientations that are hetero-, such as heteroplatonic. Also known as the LGBPA+ community or nonhetero-.

~ ap

arco-pluris:

MO (Marginalized Oriented) Pride Flag

It’s called heterodisident in Iberian West (means straightdissent). Anyway, there are marginalized orientations that are hetero-, such as heteroplatonic. Also known as the LGBPA+ community or nonhetero-.

~ ap

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Mesobinary I guess, possiequibinary (equibigender/biequigender), could be androgyneflux, lingender/fluid (linflux), abinary male-female, ambibinary, antibinary meta(mid)gender, unbinary ambonec, aporagender or singularian meta(ambi)gender.

  • Equigender: When you are multiple genders in perfectly equal parts.
  • Mesogender: Something between male/female but not distinct from both.
  • Midgender (midbinary): A gender that exists in the middle between the binary genders of female and male.
  • Ambigender: A feeling of two genders simultaneously, without fluidity/shifting.

  • Ambonec: a nonbinary gender identity in which a person identifies as female, male, and neither, at the same time.

  • Metagender: To identify around or beyond a gender. Where your gender identity is almost that gender, but not quite, and also extends beyond that.

  • Possigender: when you can’t determine whether your gender is fluid or not. “Possi” from “possibly”, because your gender is possibly fluid, and possibly not, but you can’t really decide.   

  • Singularian or Voidarian: rejecting the binary gender alignments while cannot have ties to other gender identities or alignments. It’s not neutral, either; it can only be described on a plane of existence entirely separate from the gender binary, galactian trinary, or what-have-you. 
  • Aporagender or Aingender: a nonbinary gender identity and umbrella term for “a gender separate from male, female, and anything in between (unlike Androgyne) while still having a very strong and specific gendered feeling.
  • Abinary:

    anyone whose genderness is completely unrelated to the gender binary that are completely unrelated to the gender binary (such as agender, quoigender, maverique or most xenogenders).

  • Anonbinary (a-nonbinary): a gender that definitely isn’t binary, but is still even outside of nonbinary.

~ ap

Of course not. Some agender people say that agenderness isn’t a gender, anyway agender is a genderness (or genderlessness). If you feel part of your genderness don’t exist, this could be partially agender (demiagender). It could be a bigender of agender+bigender, or a trigender of agender+other 2 genders, or a bidemigender/demibigender.

And even if those were opposite genders, anyone can be polygender of genders that are opposed from each other, see gemigender, cadogender, equigender, genderkrieg, zerogender, schrodigender, cendgender and genderdox. You can be both agender and antiagender or comgender. ~ ap