Propegender: Varying between very feminine boy, very masculine girl and/or a gray area inbetween. Etymology from the Latin prope, which means ‘near’ or ‘not very far’, as the gender rarely strays too far towards either binary.
Some people may interpret it as genderfluid between tomboy/mascgirl, femboy and/or graygender. See also: transexpressive, versandrogyne.
Trixenflexibility: being attracted exclusively to women and non-binary people, but flexible in its attraction(s); or identifying predominantly as trixenamoric but flexible in its identity.
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Torenflexibility: feeling attracted exclusively to men and nonbinary people, but flexible in its attraction(s); or identifying predominantly as torenamoric but flexible in its identity.
Solarian Neumasc (neutral + masculine): solar neuter nonbinary people; experiencing masculinity irrespective of neugender identity (masc as it exists outside of genderedness) while being neuman-aligned or neutromasculine-aligned, your experiences & understanding of your own MIN/NIN alignment (mascugender/masculigender/neutrois) are shared with or mirror those who would define themselves as mascuneutral/mascneutral.
LGBTQIAPN+ (lesb/gay/bi/trans/queer/intersex/aro/ace/ply/pan/nb/omni/others) solidarity, symbolizing unity and showing support to each other.
The flag hasn’t all colors in acronym sequence nor from each letter (such as lesbian, bi, asexual and aromantic). The aspec part includes two colors from queer chevron, the trans/intersex/nonbinary combination is from ITNB flag and the mspec part is mix of polybipan and omni/plurian, remembering partly QLQ flag too.
Homo- Hetero- (hetromo or homohet): ambi- monoromantic monosexual varioriented individuals or otherwise identifying as hetromantic homosexual or homoromantic hetrosexual.
Heterosexual Homoromantic Flag
Homoromantic Heterosexual: feeling romantic attraction to similar gender(s) and sexual attraction to dissimilar gender(s). This includes lesbromantic straight and gayromantic het.
Heteroromantic Homosexual Flag
Homosexual Heteromantic: romantically attracted to dissimilar gender(s) and and sexually attracted to similar gender(s). This includes lesbsexual wlm, lesbisexual julietian, duaric lesbosexual mascic, lesbiansexual hetroromantic, romeric mlm and gaysexual straightromantic.
Bi- Gay: Someone who is bisexual, biromantic, bialterous or otherwise bi- but gay in other form(s) of attraction; Amplusic individuals fluctuating between bi and gay identities, such as abro-, novo- and -fluid people; or When you’re bi but your attraction leans towards the same gender. As in, you have a stronger attraction to the same gender, or become attracted easier to people of the same gender. They can be homoflexible, manflexible, biflexible or homoflexible.
Pluralian Gay Man: gay men attracted to multiple genders, regardless the form of attraction (aesthetic, platonic, sensual, etc.), the attraction can be either at the same orientation or not; a gay-leaning pluralian man, feeling flexible/stronger/easier attraction towards men; an umbrella term for every gay boy on mspec (multi- spectrum), such as bi/ply and omni/pan gay, they can be gayflexible/homoflexible &/or multiflexible/pluriflexible.
Angender: experiencing no gender as a result of being assex/asexed (angenital/agenital or agonadal); an agender identity tied to sexlessness (such as angenitalia, agenitalia and nullo(genitalia/gonadism)).
Variant:
not completely conforming to the societal and cultural ideals or roles
of gender, sex, orientation, sexuality, relationships, expression, and other related
forms of self-identification. Not being accepted as a member of
conformant society due to one’s identity differing from the one assigned
to and expected of them. To specify certain subcommunities, terms like gender variant, attractional variant, and relational variant can be used.
“Conformant” is the antonym- meaning not
variant- because cishetalloperisexmonoam(screaming for 11
minutes) is too long and I
don’t want to keep shortening it to cis/het because some variants are
both cis
and het, but variant in another way like gender nonconformity, intersexness, or
non-monoamory.
The flag stripe/color meanings are of particular importance because they’re meant to represent certain variant sub-communities and I want to make sure it covers everything to clarify what identities are variant. Colors are chosen based on their use in pride flags/symbols and their association with certain identities. I also wanted the flag to evoke other variant flags like genderqueer when you examine it closely. might edit this if I forgot something. To be fair, there is a lot to cover. Just know that these aren’t complete lists… because that would be a list of every term ever. I’m sticking to mostly broad terminology because of that.
From top center to bottom corners:
Lilac: represents all of the variant community and inclusionism. Lilac is the color representing variance.
Blue: represents non-monoamorous, non-monogamous, alterous, objectum, conceptum, gay (all kinds of gay), gai, aplatonic, lesbian, auto-, paro-, multigender, enbian, fluitic, flex-, and (responsible/consensual) kinky-identified variants, as well as variants in nontraditional relationships or with variant relationship orientations/preferences.
The shape is to evoke queer chevrons and the letter v.
Exclusionists/REGs, truscum/transmeds, gatekeepers/identity policers, anti-mogai/neolabel/neopronoun and anyone who would exclude any variant identity can’t use the flag, interact with me or this post, or participate in the variant community. We’re inherently inclusionist and so is the flag and term.
Variant:
not completely conforming to the societal and cultural ideals or roles
of gender, sex, orientation, sexuality, relationships, expression, and other related
forms of self-identification. Not being accepted as a member of
conformant society due to one’s identity differing from the one assigned
to and expected of them. To specify certain subcommunities, terms like gender variant, attractional variant, and relational variant can be used.
“Conformant” is the antonym- meaning not
variant- because cishetalloperisexmonoam(screaming for 11
minutes) is too long and I
don’t want to keep shortening it to cis/het because some variants are
both cis
and het, but variant in another way like gender nonconformity, intersexness, or
non-monoamory.
The flag stripe/color meanings are of particular importance because they’re meant to represent certain variant sub-communities and I want to make sure it covers everything to clarify what identities are variant. Colors are chosen based on their use in pride flags/symbols and their association with certain identities. I also wanted the flag to evoke other variant flags like genderqueer when you examine it closely. might edit this if I forgot something. To be fair, there is a lot to cover. Just know that these aren’t complete lists… because that would be a list of every term ever. I’m sticking to mostly broad terminology because of that.
From top center to bottom corners:
Lilac: represents all of the variant community and inclusionism. Lilac is the color representing variance.
Blue: represents non-monoamorous, non-monogamous, alterous, objectum, conceptum, gay (all kinds of gay), gai, aplatonic, lesbian, auto-, paro-, multigender, enbian, fluitic, flex-, and (responsible/consensual) kinky-identified variants, as well as variants in nontraditional relationships or with variant relationship orientations/preferences.
The shape is to evoke queer chevrons and the letter v.
Exclusionists/REGs, truscum/transmeds, gatekeepers/identity policers, anti-mogai/neolabel/neopronoun and anyone who would exclude any variant identity can’t use the flag, interact with me or this post, or participate in the variant community. We’re inherently inclusionist and so is the flag and term.
A gender that is related to witchcraft. It is up for the user’s interpretation, but it may feel magical, ‘witchy’, have connections to spells, sigils, rituals and other types of magic, or feel related to a specific path. For example, a cottage witch might experience it as being homely, cozy and related to nature, while a sea witch may experience it as simultaneously harsh and gentle, vast, and liquid. These are only examples – Malificae is a personalised gender that means something different for everyone. You do not have to practice witchcraft to be this gender. It does not have a suffix that can be replaced with a gender (e.g. it can’t be used as malificaexoy), but if paired with another gender, it may look like this: “I’m a xoy and malificae.” “They’re a malificae lykh, but they’re also juxera.” “Kit is a malificae girl.” However, it can be used as Malificaefluid and Malificaeflux, as well as Demimalificae, etc. See also: Magiogender, Witchgender/Magusgender/Magegender/Venefigender.
A gender that is related to witchcraft. It is up for the user’s interpretation, but it may feel magical, ‘witchy’, have connections to spells, sigils, rituals and other types of magic, or feel related to a specific path. For example, a cottage witch might experience it as being homely, cozy and related to nature, while a sea witch may experience it as simultaneously harsh and gentle, vast, and liquid. These are only examples – Malificae is a personalised gender that means something different for everyone. You do not have to practice witchcraft to be this gender. It does not have a suffix that can be replaced with a gender (e.g. it can’t be used as malificaexoy), but if paired with another gender, it may look like this: “I’m a xoy and malificae.” “They’re a malificae lykh, but they’re also juxera.” “Kit is a malificae girl.” However, it can be used as Malificaefluid and Malificaeflux, as well as Demimalificae, etc. See also: Magiogender, Witchgender/Magusgender/Magegender/Venefigender.
A gender that is ethereal, wisplike, and gives a sense of flowing, magical serenity, with nonbinary qualities, or qualities that aren’t masculine or feminine (i.e. any gendered qualities that are apart from the binary. For example, a person who experiences agendered qualities within their experience of Wispe would identify as Wispae, and so would a person who experienced Arkaric qualities, and so would a person who experienced nonbinary qualities). It may have a sense of temperature (i.e. it may feel cold or warm), and may be related to spirits and/or the fae.
[Image Desc.: three pride flags with five horizontal stripes. Each flag follows the same pattern: a dark, pale blue stripe on the top and bottom, a pale yellow-green for the middle stripe, and a light icy blue for the second and fourth stripe. One flag has a light blue swirl with four ‘arms’, and the other has three white swirling lines, like drawings of the wind. End Image Desc.]
A gender that is ethereal, wisplike, and gives a sense of flowing, magical serenity, with nonbinary qualities, or qualities that aren’t masculine or feminine (i.e. any gendered qualities that are apart from the binary. For example, a person who experiences agendered qualities within their experience of Wispe would identify as Wispae, and so would a person who experienced Arkaric qualities, and so would a person who experienced nonbinary qualities). It may have a sense of temperature (i.e. it may feel cold or warm), and may be related to spirits and/or the fae.
[Image Desc.: three pride flags with five horizontal stripes. Each flag follows the same pattern: a dark, pale blue stripe on the top and bottom, a pale yellow-green for the middle stripe, and a light icy blue for the second and fourth stripe. One flag has a light blue swirl with four ‘arms’, and the other has three white swirling lines, like drawings of the wind. End Image Desc.]
Recipromantic: a person that only feels romantic attraction only if the other person feels attraction to them at first. If there is no one around to feel attraction to them, largely recipromantics may feel like simply definining themself as aromantic describes their experiences just fine.
Aegosexual: an orientation that is centered around people other than yourself. When you enjoy the idea of sexual attraction, or when that attraction is being experienced by other people, but do not experience it yourself.
Iridian: someone who is wlw, wlnb, nblnb, and nblw. Basically someone with multiple genders (female and nonbinary) who is attracted to women and nonbinary people.
Demigender: a gender identity that feels partially like one gender and partially like some other gender.
Juxera: a gender relative to female, but is something separate and entirely on it’s own. it is not outside the gender spectrum.
Faesari: a gender identity where one feels most comfortable within the gender neutral spectrum, but still feels a strong attachment to femininity.
Fluidflux: a fluid gender identity that varies in intensity between feeling very gendered and feeling less gendered or without a gender. The gendered-feeling part of the identity is fluid.
Homo (adjective) is separated from homo-prefixed identities (as in homoattractional, homoromantic & homosexual), also an identity adopted mostly by marginalized oriented individuals (MO, gay, queer or variant orientations), regardless mspec or aspec. Sometimes seen as a slur.
Altegender – A xenogender that feels as though it’s in a parallel dimension, on a different plane, in a mirror universe, or just in an alternate existence. You can add a gender label to the end to denote what it feels closest to.
Proxvir – A gender relative to male, but is something separate and entirely on it’s own. it is not outside the gender spectrum.
Juxera – A gender relative to female, but is something separate and entirely on it’s own. it is not outside the gender spectrum.
Altegender coined/flags made by @transkrem, proxvir and juxera coined/flags made by @wulfgendur!!
Faegender: A gender that changes with the seasons, equinoxes, and moon phases.
Selenogender, Monagender, Lunagender, or Monegender: A subset of genderfluid in which your perception of your gender, or even the foundation of your gender itself, shifts in a consistent way in many ways over a period of days, weeks, months, or even years, especially with long or short periods of various xenogender based feelings and perceptions. like the phases of the moon, your gender experiences similarly phases over time, in a same or similar order, consistently.
Bigaytransbianqueer or Lesbigaytransqueer (TLBGQ, BGTLQ or LBGTQ): transbian (transgender lesbian) lesbi (bi- lesbian) gaybian (gay lesbian) bigay (gay-bi) gaytransqueer (queer transgay, queer trans gendergay or trans gaygenderqueer).
So trans, lesbian, bi-, gay and (gender)queer. Rarely someone identify as it all, but it is possible. The flag can be also used by mutual groups as solidarity.
Pandrogyne or Pandrogyny: a pangender androgyny; a pan-aligned androgyne or an androgyne-aligned pangender.
Genesis P-Orridge defined pandrogeny in 1993 as “a ‘third-gender’ and a type of gender-neutral living being more akin to the other or internal self” but it was resignified.
Transgender: an umbrella term covering all gender identities or expressions that transgress or transcend society’s rules and concepts of gender. To be trans usually means to identify as a gender other than the gender one was assigned at birth
Transgender: an umbrella term covering all gender identities or expressions that transgress or transcend society’s rules and concepts of gender. To be trans usually means to identify as a gender other than the gender one was assigned at birth
@beyond-mogai-pride-flags Help me out here what’s the word for ml(?) (man-loving-literally ever gender person)
Hmm if you’re referring to someone who is mlm, mlw, and mlnb all at the same, that would be Marblic or Astronic.
-Fy
(If you mean something like mla (men-loving-all), I don’t think using a would work well as that tends to stand for abinary. And its a writing format! So if you’re looking for a catch-all term, I’d probably use something else.)
Well yeah but what about the others? MLA, MLX, MLI…You get what I mean? Is there terms for something that covers ALL of them at once?
No, yeah, I get what you mean. I just don’t have the clearest answer on that one. I don’t know of any term like that at the moment. The only one that is similar in concept is for enbies, as some use the term NBLA for nonbinary-loving-all. Of course, there are some problems with this as “a” can also be used to mean loving agender. “X” also has a similar problem, as it often denotes nonbinary (”other”) gender identities, or for xenogender identities. “I” is usually for intersex, or maybe intergender.
As you can see, it can get a bit complicated? So if you’re coming up for a term for yourself, I’d say it’s really up to you. Maybe the community should make some way to distinguish between “agender” and “all” or something like that?
So, yeah, sorry. I don’t have a clear answer for you. If someone else has some input on this, you’re welcome to comment.
Nonbinary: Any gender identity which does not fit within the binary of male and female
Asexual: lack of sexual attraction
Akoiromantic: feeling romantic attraction, but having no desire to have interactions or have feelings reciprocated, or a person who feels romantic attraction, which fades if it is reciprocated or if they enter a relationship with the person they are attracted to
Biromantic: romantic attraction to two or more genders
@beyond-mogai-pride-flags Help me out here what’s the word for ml(?) (man-loving-literally ever gender person)
Hmm if you’re referring to someone who is mlm, mlw, and mlnb all at the same, that would be Marblic or Astronic.
-Fy
(If you mean something like mla (men-loving-all), I don’t think using a would work well as that tends to stand for abinary. And its a writing format! So if you’re looking for a catch-all term, I’d probably use something else.)
Uhhhh it looks like @mogaiheaven posted the flag first, so I’m assuming they felt uncomfortable with mogai-edits-icons and so re-coined the term and also actually made the flag. So it doesn’t look like they stole the flag, just re-coined the term. Which… some identities have multiple names for them. I personally don’t have a problem with Plusho-, since it was based off of the official name of the related paraphilia, but mogai-edits-icons does have some uncomfortable content so I can understand the re-coining.
That sounds like you may be Akoiromantic (otherwise known as Lithromantic), which is defined as: Feeling attraction, but having no desire to have interactions or have feelings reciprocated, or a person who feels a particular kind of attraction, which fades if it is reciprocated or if they enter a relationship with the person they are attracted to.
Free Relations (rli, relações livres): experiencing autonomy and full personal freedom regardless the sexual/romantic relationship and in any circumstance of stability.
Similar to free love and relationship anarchy (RA or anarcho-relationships). Their greatest difficulty is that this view presupposes very free people, not possessive and not jealous. And as the whole cultural order is opposed to this, there are a limited number of people where this can today be fully lived.
Read more: [x] [x] [x] (all in Brazilian Portuguese).
Free Relations (rli, relações livres): experiencing autonomy and full personal freedom regardless the sexual/romantic relationship and in any circumstance of stability.
Similar to free love and relationship anarchy (RA or anarcho-relationships). Their greatest difficulty is that this view presupposes very free people, not possessive and not jealous. And as the whole cultural order is opposed to this, there are a limited number of people where this can today be fully lived.
Read more: [x] [x] [x] (all in Brazilian Portuguese).
Gendergoliath: A gender that is almost larger than life, like it’s spilling out of one’s body. It takes up a lot of space and is just awe-inspiring.
This was done on request, but the anon asked if I could make the red a bit more brownish. My dumb brain isn’t working so for some reason I can’t do that, but if anyone else wants to do the edit, you’re more than welcome to do so!
Gendergoliath: A gender that is almost larger than life, like it’s spilling out of one’s body. It takes up a lot of space and is just awe-inspiring.
This was done on request, but the anon asked if I could make the red a bit more brownish. My dumb brain isn’t working so for some reason I can’t do that, but if anyone else wants to do the edit, you’re more than welcome to do so!
So it sounds like you are some sort of Genderfluid, as your gender switches. This could be in combination with Transexpressive, which is a fluid gender expression.
Another term you may find useful is Propegender. This is described as “varying between very feminine boy, very masculine girl, and/or grey area in-between.”
If that’s not what you’re looking for, you’re welcome to coin something!
KiKi Lesbian flag! made by your local mogai-supporting lesbian.
a kiki lesbian is a lesbian who is neither butch nor femme! its a term that isn’t used as much nowadays, but some of us still do!
No worries, it can be pretty difficult to discern due to being neurodivergent. I have a couple terms that you may find useful. 🙂
Border-: An orientation in which a person with BPD cannot tell the difference between types of attraction due to symptoms of their disorder.
Bordergender (or Borderfluid): A fluctuating gender experienced exclusively by people with BPD. A gender identity lacking a firm grasp on one’s identity, while still experiencing gender, to varying degrees, but having trouble pinning it down to just one label or identity. Having the sense of grasping at labels as much as possible to describe a gender one keeps questioning because one keeps second guessing one’s sense of self and, consequentially, one’s sense of gender.
Exagender: A gender for use by people with BPD. It is influenced or affected by the approval of others. It is usually affected or altered by splitting, which can result in a gendered feeling that is in contrast with the person’s ‘actual’ experience of gender.
[IMAGE DESCRIPTION: Two digitally rendered pride flags. They each have three stripes. The middle stripe is half the size of the top and bottom stripes. The first flag has the following colors, from top to bottom: pastel orange, white, lavender. The second flag has mint, white, and the same lavender from the first flag. End description.]
First flag (left) is for trixensexual (trixenromantic, trixenamoric, etc): A person who is attracted exclusively to women and non-binary people. Color meanings: – Orange: blend of traditional pink for women and yellow for non-binary folks – White: expansiveness of the multi-attraction spectrum – Lavender: queerness and non-normativity
Second flag (right) is for torensexual (torenromantic, torenamoric, etc): A person who is attracted exclusively to men and non-binary people.
Color meanings: – Mint: blend of traditional blue for men and yellow for non-binary folks – White: expansiveness of the multi-attraction spectrum – Lavender: queerness and non-normativity
Note: these attraction terms are not specifically for use by nonbinary people. They can be used by anybody regardless of gender. They also apply regardless of what exact sort of nonbinary people you are/aren’t attracted to. See the original post for more information.
Please do not start discourse on this post, and do not “repurpose” these flags, thank you!
Regisgender, Kinggender, or Queengender: A lofty, grandiose gender; The individual with this gender feels that their identity feels majestic, imposing and grand. Often involves a gender expression that is bold, commanding and confident. May openly pursue reverence of their identity from others and/or be very vocal about their identity to others, with pride.
Neuroacrisexual – When you feel sexual attraction, but it feels wrong or unnatural to be feeling it, like it should not happen to you; this discomfort is due to neurodivergence.
Neuroacriromantic – When you feel sexual attraction, but it feels wrong or unnatural to be feeling it, like it should not happen to you; this discomfort is due to neurodivergence.
Neuroacrisensual – When you feel sensual attraction, but it feels wrong or unnatural to be feeling it, like it should not happen to you; this discomfort is due to neurodivergence.
Neuroacrialterous – When you feel alterous attraction, but it feels wrong or unnatural to be feeling it, like it should not happen to you; this discomfort is due to neurodivergence.
Neuroacriaesthetic – When you feel aesthetic attraction, but it feels wrong or unnatural to be feeling it, like it should not happen to you; this discomfort is due to neurodivergence.
Neuroacriqueerplatonic/Neuroacriquasiplatonic/Neuroacriquirkyplatonic – When you feel queerplatonic/quasiplatonic/quirkyplatonic attraction, but it feels wrong or unnatural to be feeling it, like it should not happen to you; this discomfort is due to neurodivergence.
Neuroacriplatonic – When you feel platonic attraction, but it feels wrong or unnatural to be feeling it, like it should not happen to you; this discomfort is due to neurodivergence.
This is just a simple combination of Neuro- (coined by and original flags by @pastelmemer) and Acri- (coined by @pastelmemer with original flags by me).
Amantesexual: only feeling sexual attraction towards someone youre in love with/not feeling sexual attraction until you’re in love with someone.
Sequencesexual: Only experiencing sexual attraction to someone after experiencing romantic attraction to that person.
Perioriented: A person whose romantic and sexual orientations ‘match’ (ex: biromantic bisexual, aromantic asexual).
You can say you are also nanoromantic semisexual to specify the ratio, and uniflexible romantically.
-Ap
These ones were already coined:
Mesogender: between male/female but not distinct from both.
Binaryfluid: fluctuating binary genders of male and female
Femache: simultaneous male-female gender.
Midgender: in the middle of female and male binary genders. Similar to intergender but not intersex exclusive.
Ambonec: male, female and neither at once.
Possigender: when you can’t determine whether your gender is fluid or not.
Transexpression: gender expression changes while their gender stays static.
Versandrogyny: an androgyne whose amount of femininity and masculinity fluctuates (a versandrogyne may go between being femandrogyne and being mascandrogyne, additionally neutrandrogyne). See also androgyneflux.
You can go with a new lexical junction, using possi/neu-mesogender/fluid (possi/neu-meso/fluid), neu-possi/midgender/fluid (possi/neu-mid/fluid), possi/neu-femache/fluid (neu-femacheflux, versafemache, neu-femacheflexible) or possi/ambonec/fluid (versambonec), for example.
Hadengender – When you feel your gender/genders weaker when depressed. Different from Cavusgender in that your gender/genders doesn’t/don’t change, it just weakens (like it’s fluxing).
Acrisexual – When you feel sexual attraction, but it feels wrong or unnatural to be feeling it, like it should not happen to you.
Acriromantic – When you feel romantic attraction, but it feels wrong or unnatural to be feeling it, like it should not happen to you.
Acrisensual – When you feel sensual attraction, but it feels wrong or unnatural to be feeling it, like it should not happen to you.
Acrialterous – When you feel alterous attraction, but it feels wrong or unnatural to be feeling it, like it should not happen to you.
Acriaesthetic – When you feel aesthetic attraction, but it feels wrong or unnatural to be feeling it, like it should not happen to you.
Acriqueerplatonic/Acriquasiplatonic/Acriquirkyplatonic – When you feel queerplatonic/quasiplatonic/quirkyplatonic attraction, but it feels wrong or unnatural to be feeling it, like it should not happen to you.
Acriplatonic – When you feel platonic attraction, but it feels wrong or unnatural to be feeling it, like it should not happen to you.
Leogender/Reigngender: A gender that is closely related to strength and regality; a royal gender.
Edit: @pastelmemer just reminded me about Princegender!
Princegender: A soft but grandiose gender; The individual with this gender feels that their identity feels majestic, imposing and grand, but also prim, cute and ethereal. Often involves a gender expression that is soft and feminine, but commanding and confident. May openly pursue reverence of their identity from others and/or be very vocal about their identity to others, with pride.
Demifluid Nonbinary – feeling that your gender is partially fluid but another part, that is nonbinary, is static.
Demifluid Bigender – feeling that your gender is partially fluid but another part, that is bigender, is static.
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I couldn’t find any demifluid flags for specifically demifluid nonbinary or demifluid bigender people, so I went ahead and made them myself. I personally identify as demifluid bigender, as part of my gender fluctuates while another that is static feels like a combination of male and female.
Mycedgender – A gender that has so many tiny aspects that you feel like you are constantly discovering it OR being polygender and having so many different types of genders (ex. xenogenders, aesthetigenders, synesgenders) that you are constantly discovering new ones.
Basically a split off of the alt definition of abrogender, since most people use that to mean ‘a gender that changes so fast it cannot be pinned down’ and not this way.
I’ve found a couple options that might work for you!
Philto-: an orientation in which a person can feel attraction and their associated acts, but does not desire relationships associated with that form of attraction and may quickly get bored of them.
There’s also an identity called “Platonifocal”, where an individual puts more emphasis on their platonic relationships compared to their sexual and/or romantic relationships. Perhaps something like “Altefocal” could be useful for those that focus on their alterous relationships?
That’s a possibility! You may also find use with the term Paroromantic.
Paro-: The label describes a multisexual orientation in which you experience different methods of attraction to the genders you are attracted to (ex. being demiromantic for one gender but not another).
Ecogender: A gender that is defined by one’s relationship to their local ecology as a human rather than to humans’ interactions with each other.
Earthgender: A gender identity that is directly affected, tied to, or influenced by the earth or nature. or; a gender identity similar to/the same as that of some form of earth deity.
Ouygender: A gender that is related to trees and wood.
Genderale: A gender mainly associated with plants, herbs, and liquids. This term is exclusive to plantkin, foodkin, or related kintype usage.
But for serious, thanks for the apology. Don’t worry too much about it though. Some of us went through an edgy truscum phase too (myself included). It happens lol. Glad to hear from you!
I don’t know if there is one, but as Cyclogender is a gender identity that changes with one’s menstrual cycle, perhaps Cyclosexual?
To the person who asked what terms would describe a mix between neufox and jackhound: I apologize, I accidentally deleted your ask because I was on mobile and my hands are made of mayonnaise.
To answer your question, there are a few possibilities.
Cinnab: refers to nonbinary people who present somewhere in between traditionally masc + andro.
You could also try neutromasculine/neumasculine, or mascneutral.
If anyone knows of something that may fit better, you’re welcome to leave a comment! Otherwise, if those don’t fit, you’re welcome you coin your own. 🙂
Proculromantic: describes someone who has attraction/feelings only for people they’re sure they can never be in a relationship with, like fictional characters, celebrities, etc.
Poetiromantic: feeling romantic attraction to certain genders only hypothetically or fictionally.
Hey all! Hope you’re doing okay. I’m still pretty busy myself, but it has slowed down some this month.
So in order to try and start breathing a little life back into BMPF, I’m gonna turn asks back on. Please be aware that requests will still be closed for now! If you take a glance at our request list, you’ll see that we still have quite a few that we haven’t gotten to yet. And it might be awhile before we do.
However, I would like to be able to allow our followers to ask us identity-related questions again. I will, of course, try my best to answer what I can, when I can. Thankfully, mod AP is also available and if I’m not able to answer some questions, I’ll pass them onto them.
Thanks, as always, for your patience. 😀
-Fy
Edit: I also cleared out the inbox, so if we didn’t get to your question you’re welcome to resend it!
Rencgender – A gender that confuses and infuriates the person whose gender it is because of their BPD, causing the person to impulsively collect labels trying to find one that fits.
Exclusive to people with BPD. Yes, the static on the three stripes is intentional.
Term and Flag: Me
Renc(sexual, romantic, oriented, etc.) – An orientation that confuses and infuriates the person whose orientation it is because of their BPD, causing the person to impulsively collect labels trying to find one that fits.
Again, exclusive to people with BPD. The static is again intentional. This flag covers all Renc- people, but is more specifically for renc-orientated people.
Eli- (elisexual/eliromantic/etc): feeling attraction to other-gender and other-identified individuals.
Eligenders aren’t always non-binary, sometimes they are just identities and not genders itself (such as third-genders and “some” genders), able to be adherent to gender binary. So that’s why this is separated from cetero-/enboric. Can also include aliagender people.
Singulu-: Only capable of experiencing one type of attraction towards a person – for example, not feeling sexual attraction to the people you are romantically attracted to, etc.
Singulu- was made first, I don’t know who the flag maker was. The DID flag was later made by BMPF’s former mod Ro. You or anyone else can make an alternative if you so choose.
Hey @beyond-mogai-pride-flags Sorry I snapped at you guys, what I said was really not acceptable and I shouldn’t have assumed you guys made those flags.
I shouldn’t talk like that. I’m not in the healthiest mindset, but I’ll delete my past comments and try again.
Nixpangi (nixic pangender androgyny): an identity comprised of both genderless and partial pandrogynous or androgyne pan-aligned aspects. These aspects can be experienced either simultaneously, fluidly, or through fluctuations. Intended for those who feel both connected and detached from pandrogyny / pangender androgyny and for those who have difficulty distinguishing their alignment from their gender.
Pandrogyne in this case refers to androgynous pangender-ness, but this word was firstly used by Genesis P-Orridge. Pangi can be also used as pangender alone itself, but remember it’s just aligned aspects of genderlessness (idealized by @cinnabs). Nix comes from German word for none, an from andro, gi from gyne/gine and pan- means all/every deriving from παν/Πάν.
See also: nixangi, nixvira, pxngender, demipangender, demiagender, libragender.
Klimigender – When your gender can be described as being a vague temperature (e.g. freezing, cold, cool, warm, hot, burning, etc.) This is an umbrella term.
Vresgender – When your gender is freezing. Subset of Klimigender.
Cealgender – When your gender is cold. Subset of Klimigender.
Kuogender – When your gender is cool (temperature-wise). Subset of Klimigender.
Virmgender – When your gender is warm. Subset of Klimigender.
Heigender – When your gender is hot. Subset of Klimigender.
Beorgender – When your gender is burning (temperature-wise). Subset of Klimigender.
Friugender – When your gender is a temperature you find pleasant. Can be applied in front of the temperature (e.g. Friuvirmgender, Friulaehgender, etc.) Subset of Klimigender.
Agigender – When your gender is a temperature you find unpleasant. Can be applied in front of the temperature (e.g. Agivresgender, Agikaugender, etc.) Subset of Klimigender.
Laehgender/Laehfluid – When your gender is fluid between the lower temperatures (e.g. cool, cold, freezing, etc.) Subset of Klimifluid.
Kaugender/Kaufluid – When your gender is fluid between the higher temperatures (e.g. warm, hot, burning, etc.) Subset of Klimifluid.
Klimifluid – When your gender is fluid between vague temperatures (e.g. freezing, cold, cool, warm, hot, burning, etc.) Subset of Klimigender, also functions as an umbrella term.
Deragender – When your gender can be described as being a specific temperature, to the point that you can say what degree it is. (e.g. -9°C, 157°F, etc.) Subset of Klimigender.
Derafluid – When your gender is fluid between different specific temperatures, to the point where you know what degree it is, but it changes. (e.g. -24°F to 73°F, 5°C to 69°C, etc.) Subset of Deragender.
No discourse allowed on this post! I’m a minor and I panic easily!
Singulu-: Only capable of experiencing one type of attraction towards a person – for example, not feeling sexual attraction to the people you are romantically attracted to, etc.
Singulu- was made first, I don’t know who the flag maker was. The DID flag was later made by BMPF’s former mod Ro. You or anyone else can make an alternative if you so choose.
Singulu-: Only capable of experiencing one type of attraction towards a person – for example, not feeling sexual attraction to the people you are romantically attracted to, etc.
Singulu- was made first, I don’t know who the flag maker was. The DID flag was later made by BMPF’s former mod Ro. You or anyone else can make an alternative if you so choose.
-Fy
lithagresexual/ lithogresexual– being semi attracted to feminine/masculine people who have a cool dark toned personality
Thanks for the submission!
-Fy
Bitch Lesbian flag.
“A bitch lesbian is a butch lesbian who sometimes wears makeup and skirts and partakes in some other, more feminine behavior.”
I recently coined a term for a sexual orientation I feel I experience. Odiumsexuality. I’ve taken “odium” from Latin for “hate,” and I define this orientation as the involuntary attraction towards people you hate.
The pride flag I designed for it consists of black to represent the potential danger and darkness of dealing with these feelings, red to represent the hatred as well as the anger towards the person you hate and yourself for having such feelings, and hot pink to represent the exciting feeling of hooking up with someone you hate as well as the strong emotional nature of this orientation.
Nice! Thanks for the submission!
-Fy
Hi there! I made a more simplified version of the Kynigender flag because the original is really complex and hard to keep every detail.
Also, did the original have meanings for each colour? I’d love to hear what they mean if so! I came up with meanings of my own since idk the original, and I went off what other neurogender flags with similar colours mean
Black – The presence of a gender that’s unable to be pinpointed for certain White – Representing all possible genders Greens – The different levels of intensity from anxiety attacks when trying to find your gender, from mild stress to unbearable
I hope this is ok though!
I think it looks good! Thanks for the submission!
-Fy
Hi! I made this flag for people who don’t care what gender they’re referred to as/don’t care about their pronouns. I couldn’t find something like this, so I thought I might make it!
Nice, that’s a great idea! Thanks for the submission!
-Fy
Homogender.
this gender has the essence of being human.
the colors are representitive, that under our skin tones, we are all flesh , blood and bone(and adipose tissue)
there is a black handprint. perhaps the black was made with coal. as we are all made of carbon.
the gender relating to tribe Hominidae.
Thanks for the submission!
-Fy
Squipkin- Those who identify partially or fully with the Squip from Be More Chill.
Thanks for the submission!
-Fy
SquipkinGender- A gender that is partially or fully identified with the Squip from Be More Chill.
Thanks for the submission!
-Fy
I’ve been searching for the right terms to describe my gender alignment, but I haven’t been able to find anything except the term “melle,” which I feel is a little too specific. So I decided I’d just coin my own term. Unfortunately, since I’m not that creative, I don’t really have a name for it just yet, but for right now, I call it being Neufem Lunarian-Aligned.
Definition: a gender alignment which is feminine in nature, but does not have any ties to femaleness or womanhood whatsoever. What it means to have a FIN alignment is basically that, while your gender itself may or may not be considered “feminine,” your experiences and understanding of your own gender are shared with or mirror those who would define themselves as feminine (a commonality with anyone who is feminine, basically).
The use of “neufem” is meant to signify femininity irrespective of gender identity (femininity as it exists outside of genderedness). The use of the term lunarian signifies that it is a subcategory of lunarian alignment, which some define as being either woman-aligned or feminine-aligned (this term being specific to the latter). A person whose gender alignment is feminine may or may not present/express femininely. The only criteria is that their alignment is experienced similarly to the way inherently feminine individuals experience their femininity.
The flag is a combination of the Femineutral flag and one of the Lunarian flags.
If this term seems redundant because of the existence of another term with a similar premise, please let me know. If you have a better name for this term other than Neufem Lunarian, please let me know. All feedback is appreciated. Thank you.
i thought i would take another hand at this!! and i am gonna do this a couple times a month hopefully!!
mothgender: a gender that comes a goes wherever you are. typically in light. ex. in sunlight you feel the gender, but at night you don’t unless there is light present.
presentgender: a gender that comes in as a surprise. -gender can be switched with boy, girl, nonbinary, etc.
dollopgender: a gender that is very small and may go away after a short period.
clothgender: a gender that is like cloth. may be soft, and or in small patches.
if i have anymore, i will coin them !!
thank u!!! :>
Thanks for the terms!
-Fy
Is there a term for being sexually/Romantically attracted to masculinity, rather than a gender identity? Like, I find myself being exclusively attracted to masculine people
Simivoid: Void, but not in the sense of nothing. Being there where you generally feel void but there are other genders in there (like how space is more void than stars but there are stars in there) and when you get closer (like you’re flying around and you get closer to a star) you feel that gender more intensely and sometimes you can get stuck orbiting one for a while but eventually it’ll move on. Sometimes you’ll be near two or more “stars” (genders) and feel void +x gender +y gender, maybe one closer or maybe not. Sometimes a “star” will disappear and sometimes more will appear, it all depends. It doesn’t have to be connected to space/ stars just the void, the stars were just a way to generally describe it. Simivoid (not semivoid), is from Latin “assimilatus” meaning like, similar, made similar, imitated, or feigned. Kind of like being fluid between versions of gendervoid eg. voidgirl, voidboy, etc. but voidfluid already means something else, and the amount of void can fluctuate. Not exactly sure about the flag for this one yet..?
So, most neopronouns, as I understand it, are considered gender neutral. As in most of them are not associated with any one gender, form of expression, or alignment (again, speaking in a general sense). So, for that reason, I’d like to propose these two sets of pronouns for the specific use of eclipsian nonbinaries, androgynous nonbinaries, or anyone who is both male/masculine-aligned as well as female/feminine aligned. They are, in effect, a combination of he and she pronouns that are meant to sound as though the speaker is saying he/she or hers/his very quickly and in a condensed way. I’d like to emphasize first, that these are not limited to eclipsians, androgynes, or the male/masc- & female/fem-aligned; a person’s pronouns are not dictated by their gender, only what makes them most comfortable. I only mention these groups because I personally feel that my pronouns should be gendered. That’s just what feels right for me, but I don’t like limiting myself to either he/him or she/her. If there’s anyone else out there who feels the same way, I sincerely hope these pronouns come in handy.
So, without further ado, here are the two complete sets of pronouns:
S/he, herim, heris, heris, herimself
S/he is pronounced shuh-HE. The others are pronounced like you’re saying her/him, her/his, and her/himself, but with a “bouncier” sound that leaves out some of the h’s to make it flow together.
OR, alternatively:
H/she, himer, hiser, hisers, himerself
H/she is pronounced somewhat like hushie. The others are pronounced like you’re saying him/her, his/her, his/hers, and him/herself, but with a “bouncier” sound that leaves out some of the h’s to make it flow together.
I would rather not use shehe or heshe as pronouns, as these could be misconstrued as slurs, but obviously it’s up to the individual to decide what works best for them.
H/she and s/he are spelled with slashes to avoid this, but I’m open to ideas for alternative spellings.
If pronouns like these already exist, then I apologize for the unecessary redundancy. Just ignore this submission I guess.
Anyways, feedback is definitely appreciated. Thank you.
I think they sound great!
-Fy
Hey! I didn’t see any egopanromantic (or sexual) flags on this page yet, so I submitted one myself! Egopanromantic means attraction to people with a similar personality as your own, regardless of gender. An egopanromantic individual experience a hard time maintaining a long lasting relationships with people with different personalities. (Please excuse my bad english, im self-taught :‘0)
Klimigender – When your gender can be described as being a vague temperature (e.g. freezing, cold, cool, warm, hot, burning, etc.) This is an umbrella term.
Vresgender – When your gender is freezing. Subset of Klimigender.
Cealgender – When your gender is cold. Subset of Klimigender.
Kuogender – When your gender is cool (temperature-wise). Subset of Klimigender.
Virmgender – When your gender is warm. Subset of Klimigender.
Heigender – When your gender is hot. Subset of Klimigender.
Beorgender – When your gender is burning (temperature-wise). Subset of Klimigender.
Friugender – When your gender is a temperature you find pleasant. Can be applied in front of the temperature (e.g. Friuvirmgender, Friulaehgender, etc.) Subset of Klimigender.
Agigender – When your gender is a temperature you find unpleasant. Can be applied in front of the temperature (e.g. Agivresgender, Agikaugender, etc.) Subset of Klimigender.
Laehgender/Laehfluid – When your gender is fluid between the lower temperatures (e.g. cool, cold, freezing, etc.) Subset of Klimifluid.
Kaugender/Kaufluid – When your gender is fluid between the higher temperatures (e.g. warm, hot, burning, etc.) Subset of Klimifluid.
Klimifluid – When your gender is fluid between vague temperatures (e.g. freezing, cold, cool, warm, hot, burning, etc.) Subset of Klimigender, also functions as an umbrella term.
Deragender – When your gender can be described as being a specific temperature, to the point that you can say what degree it is. (e.g. -9°C, 157°F, etc.) Subset of Klimigender.
Derafluid – When your gender is fluid between different specific temperatures, to the point where you know what degree it is, but it changes. (e.g. -24°F to 73°F, 5°C to 69°C, etc.) Subset of Deragender.
No discourse allowed on this post! I’m a minor and I panic easily!
PNC (pronouns nonconformity): people who use any non-standard pronouns (or simply not using standard pronouns).
This term includes: – any person using neopronoun (ze, ve, ey, etc) or even they [nounself or nondual pronouns] – binary or non-binary people who use both he and she (multipronouns) – binary people who use an “unexpected” pronoun (crosspronouns): men using she/they/it and women using he/they/it (dissonant to your gender or just not aligning with the assigned pronouns at birth) – people using variant sets of pronouns (varipronouns), such as she/zer/xyrself, he/hir/zimself, etc. – people denoting themselves with emojiself pronominal usage – people using binary pronouns as a result of having no other pronoun accessible/available in their language – individuals using no kind of pronoun (nullpronouns) – pronoun indifference (using any pronouns, uncaring about).
Terminology coined by @vitorrubiao, colors+stripes based on GNC (gender non-conformant) and neopronouns flags. Note that neopronouns can be also called neolanguage (neolinguistics), epicene, third-person, gender-neutral, nondualistic and nonbinary language, but it’s separated from PNC in the sense of including other concepts.
Aplatonic Spectrum: an umbrella term used to describe anyone who isn’t fully, strictly and completely alloplatonic/zedplatonic/zplatonic; being in black or grey areas of aplatonicity; inclusive for all aplatonic orientations and subclassifications.
Pansensual Omnigayflexibility (omnigayflexible or omniqueflexible): pangender individuals fluctuating their gender identity and/or intensity while being always sensually attracted to the same gender, but flexible in its attraction/identity.
Pansensual Omnigayflexibility (omnigayflexible or omniqueflexible): pangender individuals fluctuating their gender identity and/or intensity while being always sensually attracted to the same gender, but flexible in its attraction/identity.
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