Multigreysexual/romantic/etc. : An attraction where one strongly feels attraction to one gender/sex but rarely or weakly feeling attraction to other genders/sexes
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Achillean: men, partial men, or male-aligned people who are attracted to other men, partial men, or male-aligned people
Aromantic: lack of romantic attraction.
Nonbinary: any gender identity which does not fit within the binary of male and female
Voidpunk: rejecting being human altogether, usually in response to people implying you aren’t in the first place. Embracing the thing they’re trying to hurt you with and turn it into something fantastic.
Fictionkin: identifying partially or entirely as a fictional character.
Lancer fictionkin: identifying partially or entirely as Lancer from Deltarune.
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Franziska von Karma fictionkin: identifying partially or entirely as Franziska von Karma from the Ace Attorney series.
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Bearkin: identifying partially or entirely as a bear.
[Image: a 9-striped horizontal flag; dark brown, light brown, caramel, yellow-brown, off-white, white, blue-grey, grey, black. There is an off-white circle in the middle with a black 7-pointed star within it.]
Celestia Ludenburg fictionkin: identifying partially or entirely as Celestia Ludenburg from Danganronpa.
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I don’t recall yelling at anyone, and it’s not your place or my place to tell someone whether or not it needs a “special label”. If a trans person wants to use it, that’s fine. If they don’t want to use it, that’s fine too. That doesn’t mean being trans is a separate gender We don’t post these terms to make other people use them; they’re there if you do, but you are not required to use them.
I suppose it wouldn’t too difficult to do, but we focus more on term coining and pride flag designing. There are plenty of other blogs that would be better at doing something like pronoun validations. 🙂
I think that would be something like Pxngenderfluid.
Pxngender (panx/pangender-x, interchangeable with Omnagender): a genderness that is both agender and pangender and/or somewhere between them; an identity mostly pangender, but has a connection to genderlessness and/or agendered feelings; a pangender individual feeling they have null/no gender identity; an agender person having some connection to panhood/pangenderness.
There aren’t many I could find, so I’ll list them off and if none of them fit you, you’re welcome to coin something!
Godgender or Deusgender: A gender identity that pertains to godliness/something holy, meaning it’s an untouched and unaltered version of gender/has no “passing” form/is outside of masculinity and femininity (can meld with feminine/masculine genders, but does not usually carry societies’ norms when this happens); Nonbinary gender for people who identifies as deities or acknowledge a divine aspect within themselves.
Trinigender. A gender made up of multiple parts (often 3), that relate to each other like aspects of the Holy Trinity. In other words, they are both distinct separate parts (like Father/Son/Holy Spirit) but are also aspects of a single divine Being. This gender does not have to pertain exclusively to Western/Christian ideas of religion/divinity/Trinity. Nor does it inherently represent masculinity/masculine genders by relating back to the masc-coded Christian Trinity.
Theogender: relating to god(s), religion(s) or deities. from theology/theosophy/theism
I’m not sure about that one. You don’t sound quite like you’re alloflexible. You’re welcome to coin a new term if aegosexual doesn’t feel like it fits you.
Greyaesthetic: Someone who experiences occasional and/or mild aesthetic attraction.
2) You could probably combine Uni- with your gender attraction, so something like HomoUni- or UniGay.
Hope that helps!
There’s no term specific for it. Some people also use genderfaun for this situation. Perhaps antigirlfluid/antifemalefluid, ungirlfluid or nongirlfluid/nonfemalefluid? Feel free to coin one
I don’t believe there are currently any flag designs for Melle and Femil (terms coined by @pastelmemer), so I decided to give it a try.
Femil – A gender term for females who have no alignment towards femininity, and instead have a masculine alignment, with or without the existence of other nonfeminine alignments too.
Melle – A gender term for males who have no alignment towards masculinity, and instead have a feminine alignment, with or without the existence of other nonmasculine alignments too.
Simple meanings for a simple design: The pinks represent femininity/femaleness while the blues represent masculinity/maleness and the white and shades of orange are for any other possible alignments.
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If you have any problems with either of these flag designs, please let me know. I may take the post down & will certainly do my best to correct the issue.🦋
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Neunixhood: an identity comprised of both genderless and neutral-aligned aspects, which may manifest as identifying as partially neugendered (neutrally gendered / genderneutral).
Also known as neunixichood, neunixness, neunixgender, nixneugender, nixneuter(ed)ness, neunixity, neutronixity, neutronixgender and neutronix(ic)hood. This is a neu/nin-aligned and agin-aligned identity too, based on xenixic.
See also: libraneutral, neutragender, neutrxis/neutrix/neutrisa(gender), voidneutral, agenderneutral.
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Fairy Dragonkin: identifying partially or entirely as a fairy dragon.
– Ap
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Femenby: feminine non-binary individuals. Also known as femby/fembie, fenby/fenbie, finenby/finenbie & femenbie.
Similar to femmenby (nb-femme) and nonbinary fem, but specifically for feminine enby/abinary folks identifying as femby. Not to be confused with femaby/femabie (femanby/femanbie, female n-b/aby).
-ap
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Based on MTF-NB & FTM-NB terms by @overly-complex-identity, I made these ones combining flags of FTF/MTM and FTNB/MTNB.
FTF–NB (female-to-female nonbinary): a transneutral girl or otherwise trans non binary woman who considers emself transitioning from female to non-binary female. Also known as FTNB-F, FTFN, FTNF, FTFX, FTXF, F2F-NB, F2FN, F2FX, F2XF & F2NF.
MTM–NB (male-to-male nonbinary): a transneutral boy or otherwise trans non binary man who considers emself transitioning from male to non-binary male. Also knwon as MTNB-M, MTMN, MTMX, MTXM, MTNM, M2M-NB, M2NM, M2XM, M2MX & M2MN.
Uniattraction: Feeling attraction towards one person and one person only for advanced periods of time or one’s whole lifetime. You are attracted to them regardless of their gender/sexuality/changing appearance etc.
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Pangeninity/Pangenderishness: relating to qualities or attributes regarded as characteristic of pangender / panhood. Interchangeable with pangenderinity, pangenrinity or pangenerinity
Not the same as paninity/panine/panity/panty, which also relates to pan(attraction). Pangenerine (pangenderine translated) adjective was suggested by @nbandproud at this topic, pangenrine was French-based. Flag based on ageninity and a colorful pangender flag.
-ap
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hey i recently coined a few terms & made some basic flags for them & wanted to share it here
blue/white/purple/black – FTM-NB, female-to-male non-binary; a person who is assigned female at birth, desires a male body, & identifies as non-binary
pink/white/purple/black – MTF-NB, male-to-female non-binary; a person who is assigned male at birth, desires a female body, & identifies as non-binary
the last flag is for any & all trans non-binary people
the flags can also be used for people who simply identify as nonbinary girls & nonbinary boys
[Image: Three flags; the first one is four stripes: light blue, white, purple, and black. The second one is four stripes: light pink, white, purple, black. The third one is five stripes: light blue, light pink, white, purple, and black.]
Brisa-: when your attraction changes/fluctuates when you are high. An alternative to high-.
Brisanattractional/Brisattractional Pride Flag
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Brisasensual Pride Flag
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Brisasthetic/Brisaesthetic/Brisansthetic Pride Flag
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Brisanalterous/Brisalterous Pride Flag
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Brisaromantic Pride Flag
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Brisasexual Pride Flag
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-ap
sorry if this isn’t a good flag but i wanted to make something for my gender!! this is the flag for Sprinklic, which is a xenogender related to sprinkles!
[Image: an 11-striped flag; first stripe is dark brown with multi-colored sprinkles, second stripe is pink with multi-colored sprinkles, third stripe is white with multi-color sprinkles, fourth stripe is dark blue with multi-colored sprinkles, fifth stripe is light blue with multi-colored sprinkles, sixth stripe is light brown with dark brown sprinkles, seventh stripe is peach with multi-colored sprinkles, eighth stripe is light blue with multi-colored sprinkles, ninth stripe is dark green with multi-colored spinkles, tenth stripe is light pink with multi-colored sprinkles, eleventh stripe is light orange with multi-colored sprinkles.]
That would be a good idea to help our blog be more accessible for people with visual impairments. I will do my best in adding image descriptions to our flags going forward. 🙂
Transmasculine Nonbinary: a person who is AFAB (Assigned Female At Birth) but identifies as partly male, however considers themselves in some regard nonbinary. This is both a category of identities as well as its own identity depending on the person in question.
Demiboy: a person who identifies as partly male, and partly something else. It’s a subset of Demigender.
Boyflux: a subset of “Genderflux” referring to masculinity specifically. A person who experiences a fluctuation of masculinity. Having days where they feel masculine, and days where they feel a lack of masculinity.
Asexual: an experience where one has no perceivable ability to find others of any gender sexually attractive.
Demiromantic: being unable to develop romantic attraction to someone until after having a significant connection to them. Needing some sort of period of time to get to know a person before falling in love, more so than the average individual.
Panromantic: feeling romantic attraction towards anyone regardless of sex/gender.
Alexithymia: an experience in which a person is consistently unable to put words to their feelings, resulting in difficulty in every day activities. These people may be unaware of the physical bodily reactions emotions have, or just simply be unable to explain why they are currently upset. Another common factor of people with this condition is that they often come off as indecisive, since they can’t always pinpoint their feelings. Alexithymiacs also struggle not just in describing emotions, but also feeling and expressing. Sometimes having crying spells without understanding they were sad, or feeling “numb” or “detached” when the emotion they’re feeling is simply hard to grasp. It’s not entirely known what causes Alexithymia, but it seems to have a correlation to abusive childhood households, if a child felt emotional expression was unsafe, they would “turn it off” and bottle to avoid consequences. This lead to them being unable to develop emotional skills for later in life, resulting in them not understanding the emotions they were feeling all along. When these people go to therapy, they’re often described as “Patients with nothing to tell”.
Panic Disorder: an experience in which someone regularly finds their life interrupted by anxiety and panic attacks. This anxiety disorder is the least common of the group, and is only diagnosable by the amount of panic attacks a person experiences on a weekly level. A panic attack is when a person goes into fight of flight over a trigger that is either conscious or unconscious. The panic attack lengths and symptoms vary between individuals but are consistent with high anxiety levels, heart rate, trouble breathing, stomach problems, and possible episodes of crying. Some optional symptoms would be perhaps going nonverbal, or finding yourself either freezing up, or alternatively moving more than usual in a frantic manner. Some common triggers for panic attacks include, tight spaces that could trigger claustrophobia, social situations that could trigger SAD/Social Phobia, every day tasks that could trigger GAD, flashbacks to traumatic events, paranoia, dreams that either consciously or unconsciously contribute to the following, and so on.
Acefluid: When your attraction flows from asexual, to aromantic to another with core feelings the same (for example, homosexual, asexual homoromantic, asexual aromantic homosensual)
Aceflux: A sexual orientation on the asexual spectrum & is defined as someone who’s sexual orientation fluctuates but always stays on the ace spectrum. (ex. one day you’re demi, another day akoi, the next ace, etc) and/or someone who’s sexual orientation fluctuates from, experiencing sexual attraction, some sexual attraction, & experiencing no sexual attraction. Some people who are aceflux feel as if they are allosexual at times, while other aceflux people don’t feel that way. aceflux people can be sex repulsed, sex indifferent / neutral/apathetic towards sex, or sex positive.
I am neither, so someone who is acefluid and/or aceflux is free to chime in an clarify, but from the definitions if would appear that if you were acefluid, you would at some point feel aromantic. However, if you are aceflux, you would not. Also, aceflux involves the transition to other a-spec orientations such as demi- and akoi-. So if you don’t always feel asexual but you’re at least sometimes some other ace-spec orientatino, but your romantic orientation is not involved, you might be aceflux. If you feel no in-between area and always feel either your gender-related orientation, asexual, or asexual and aromantic together, then it sounds like acefluid.
Hopefully that helps, but again if someone who is acefluid or aceflux would like the explain it, that’d be great!
Limno-: Attraction only piqued by depictions of acts of attraction (eg drawings or writing), not the acts themselves in real life. Under the gray-ace spectrum.
Aego-/Autochoris- An orientation that is centered around people other than yourself. When you enjoy the idea of a particular kind of attraction, or when that attraction is being experienced by other people, but do not experience it yourself.
Alexithymia: An experience in which a person is consistently unable to put words to their feelings, resulting in difficulty in every day activities. These people may be unaware of the physical bodily reactions emotions have, or just simply be unable to explain why they are currently upset. Another common factor of people with this condition is that they often come off as indecisive, since they can’t always pinpoint their feelings. Alexithymiacs also struggle not just in describing emotions, but also feeling and expressing. Sometimes having crying spells without understanding they were sad, or feeling “numb” or “detached” when the emotion they’re feeling is simply hard to grasp. It’s not entirely known what causes Alexithymia, but it seems to have a correlation to abusive childhood households, if a child felt emotional expression was unsafe, they would “turn it off” and bottle to avoid consequences. This lead to them being unable to develop emotional skills for later in life, resulting in them not understanding the emotions they were feeling all along. When these people go to therapy, they’re often described as “Patients with nothing to tell”.
Pelusexual/Plushosexual: sexual attraction to stuffed animals/stuffed toys.
Atractiromantic: romantic attraction to beautiful and attractive people.
Unatractialterous: alterous attraction to unattractive and ugly people.
Spacegender/Genderspace: an umbrella term for genders that are influenced or related to different parts of space, such as genderstar, gendergalaxy, genderconstallation, gendermoon, genderplanet, etc. the ending could be replaced with specific bodies for even more specific terms, like gendermars or gendercallisto.
Toygender: a gender that feels like a miniature simplified “toy” replica of real gender; alternately, a gender identity that feels connected to toys or a toy aesthetic in some way.
Pelusexual/Plushosexual: sexual attraction to stuffed animals/stuffed toys.
Atractiromantic: romantic attraction to beautiful and attractive people.
Unatractialterous: alterous attraction to unattractive and ugly people.
Spacegender/Genderspace: an umbrella term for genders that are influenced or related to different parts of space, such as genderstar, gendergalaxy, genderconstallation, gendermoon, genderplanet, etc. the ending could be replaced with specific bodies for even more specific terms, like gendermars or gendercallisto.
Toygender: a gender that feels like a miniature simplified “toy” replica of real gender; alternately, a gender identity that feels connected to toys or a toy aesthetic in some way.
Eramen: A gender that is male but not masculine. Pronounced ‘erAH-men’.
Verella: A gender that is female but not feminine. Pronounced ‘vER-ellah’.
EDIT: The flags with the blue stripes are the Eramen flags, and the pink striped flags are the Verella ones.
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Eramen: A gender that is male but not masculine. Pronounced ‘erAH-men’.
Verella: A gender that is female but not feminine. Pronounced ‘vER-ellah’.
EDIT: The flags with the blue stripes are the Eramen flags, and the pink striped flags are the Verella ones.
[Image Desc.: Four rectangular flags with five horizontal stripes that have a smaller stripe between each one. The first flag and second flags have stripes in shades of purple with shades of blue and pinkish-red in between; the third and fourth shades of grey, ending in a white stripe, with the same blue and pinkish-red in between the stripes. End Image Desc.]
I tried my hand at making an allosexual aromantic flag, after some discussion with others; It was fairly well received on Arocalypse, so I thought I’d post it here. Obviously, no one has to use this flag if they don’t want to, and if you’re interested, I’ve created a survey to gather input on the flag: https://goo.gl/forms/PFINgMKNDfa0UDLh2
It was important to me that the flag very obviously look like an offshoot of the aro flag, and I kept the shades of green the same as the aro flag for convenience of use. The color gold was chosen as the second color not only because it looks nice with green, but also because it’s the opposite of purple on the color wheel (with purple being the color associated with asexuality). As for what the color stripes represent:
Green – The aromantic community. Our place in this community and the solidarity and support we share with fellow aros. (Aro green.)
Light green – Lack of attraction, differentiating us from others. This obviously includes lack of romantic attraction, but can also include aros who don’t desire close platonic partnerships, aros who identify as ace-spec along with another sexual orientation, etc. (Also aro green, because lack of romantic attraction is what makes us aro.)
White – Diversity of sexuality. For welcoming and uniting all allosexual aros, no matter what their sexual orientation, and for acknowledging a broad range of sexual experiences and relationships with one’s own sexuality. (White, because white light is made up of all other colors of light mixed together.)
Light gold – Relationships, be they sexual relationships, QPRs, romantic relationships, friendships, family bonds, or any other type of relationships. (Light gold, because our relationships are important and precious, but not always necessary or defining of who we are.)
Gold – Inhererent wholeness and worth. We aren’t missing anything. We’re not broken, we don’t need anyone to complete us, and we are born perfect the way we are. We’re individuals and we have just as much worth as anyone else. (Gold, because we’re gold.)
I tried my hand at making an allosexual aromantic flag, after some discussion with others; It was fairly well received on Arocalypse, so I thought I’d post it here. Obviously, no one has to use this flag if they don’t want to, and if you’re interested, I’ve created a survey to gather input on the flag: https://goo.gl/forms/PFINgMKNDfa0UDLh2
It was important to me that the flag very obviously look like an offshoot of the aro flag, and I kept the shades of green the same as the aro flag for convenience of use. The color gold was chosen as the second color not only because it looks nice with green, but also because it’s the opposite of purple on the color wheel (with purple being the color associated with asexuality). As for what the color stripes represent:
Green – The aromantic community. Our place in this community and the solidarity and support we share with fellow aros. (Aro green.)
Light green – Lack of attraction, differentiating us from others. This obviously includes lack of romantic attraction, but can also include aros who don’t desire close platonic partnerships, aros who identify as ace-spec along with another sexual orientation, etc. (Also aro green, because lack of romantic attraction is what makes us aro.)
White – Diversity of sexuality. For welcoming and uniting all allosexual aros, no matter what their sexual orientation, and for acknowledging a broad range of sexual experiences and relationships with one’s own sexuality. (White, because white light is made up of all other colors of light mixed together.)
Light gold – Relationships, be they sexual relationships, QPRs, romantic relationships, friendships, family bonds, or any other type of relationships. (Light gold, because our relationships are important and precious, but not always necessary or defining of who we are.)
Gold – Inhererent wholeness and worth. We aren’t missing anything. We’re not broken, we don’t need anyone to complete us, and we are born perfect the way we are. We’re individuals and we have just as much worth as anyone else. (Gold, because we’re gold.)
Biromantic: romantic attraction to two or more genders.
Heterosexual: sexual attraction towards a different gender; typically used to denote attraction to some “opposite” gender.
Transgender: an umbrella term covering all gender identities or expressions that transgress or transcend society’s rules and concepts of gender. To be trans usually means to identify as a gender other than the gender one was assigned at birth.
Nixera: an identity comprised of both genderless and partial girl or girl-aligned aspects. these aspects can be experienced either simultaneously, fluidly, or through fluctuations. intended for those who feel both connected and detached from womanhood and for those who have difficulty distinguishing their alignment from their gender.
Faesari: a gender identity where one feels most comfortable within the gender neutral spectrum, but still feels a strong attachment to femininity.
Juxera: a gender relative to female, but is something separate and entirely on it’s own.
It isn’t up to anyone else to decide how unnecessarily specific an orientation is other than the person with said orientation. I might feel like it’s “splitting hairs” for myself, because I don’t feel like getting too specific with my orientation for personal reasons, but that’s not how it is for everyone. I personally don’t see how someone’s identity causes more division. I don’t need to relate exactly to another trans individual if they aren’t genderfluid like me. This community is incredibly diverse, and if people finding labels for themselves makes others uncomfortable, that’s on them. Not the person with said identity. And I’m not going to throw my uncommonly-labeled brethren under the bus just to seem more presentable to those outside the community. Our labels are indeed a wide spectrum, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t made of various different points; different labels.
Poisongender: a gender that starts small, but grows bigger until the person is fully that gender; the person also feels like they derive some of it from other people.
-Fy
glittergender pride flag! glittergender is a xenogender related to glitter.
I’ll list some that sound like they fit, but if you don’t think any of them do, feel free to coin a new term!
Cutegender or Gendercute: When your gender is literally anything that fits your definition of “cute”.
Dulcigender: An aesthetically-centered gender that is associated largely with stereotypically feminine things (such as pinks, frills, buns, and general cute things). Can be combined with relevant genders.
Adorbian: A xenic alignment to cuteness or cute things.
Bellagender: an alternative term for cutegender; a gender that is strongly connected to the concept of being cute; a gender tied to self-image and presentation.
Beysgender: A gender that is like a pastry; soft and flaky on the outside, but with a core ‘filling’ that is gooey and sweet.
Apigender: A gender that feels soft and vibrates with differing intensities. Feels sticky, fuzzy and soft. Giving vibes of what honey tastes like. Based on the scientific genus Apis meaning bee.
Genderbun and/or Bungender: When your gender is influenced by your rabbit/bunny kintype (including fiction kin and rabbit related characters/creatures), or when your gender is small/soft (in volume) and warm/fuzzy + anxious (in feeling), or when your gender feels somehow like a bunny. For kin and nonkin alike.
Cottoncandygender: A gender that is soft,fluffy,and also pastel-colored. May feel “overly sweet” to some and possibly even give off carnival vibes to some.
Cakegender: A gender that is soft and sweet like cake; it can also be a little warm. Like IcecreamGender, Cakegender can also come in different “flavors” which could change how the gender feels.
Peachgender: A gender that feels a little fuzzy, soft, and easy to hurt. It can also give vibes of what a peach tastes like.
Icecreamgender: A gender that is cold and sweet like ice-cream and over time will have a “melting” sensation. It can re-freeze over time and re-melt for any particular reason. It comes in many different “flavors” which can affect the feel of the genders concept.
Genderbumble: A gender related to bees! It’s a gender that’s fuzzy, and can have a sharp stinger.
Honeyan: A fluid gender that changes very slowly, and is sweet.
Genderfluff: A gender that is light, soft and fluffy. It makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside.
Cliugender: A gender that feels soft, lovely, and gentle.
Dolchechaufgender: A gender that feels like candlelight, soft, and warm.
If anyone has any other suggestions, feel free to comment!
I don’t think there is yet, but you’re welcome to coin some! Maybe something like Versegender/Versefluid/Verseflux and Switchgender/Switchfluid/Switchflux?
That could definitely be one way to be bigender! Multigender labels can be applied to having any combination of monogenders, so being bigender isn’t necessarily just being both a man and woman. You just have to have two genders. And it can be easier to use than explaining all the genders you have (especially if you have a lot).
F-gender: any feminine gender identity. See also: fegender, fingender.
M-gender Flag
M-gender: any masculine gender identity. See also: manugender, mingender.
Both M and F genders encompass gender experiences regardless it is binary or not, they can be used as umbrella terms and identifiers itself. Note that those genders aren’t about gender expression nor presentation. They are often called género masculino or femenino/feminino in West Iberian because it’s not essentially the same as male/female, also because hembra/fêmeo/macho are more used as nonhuman animal terms. Flags based on X-gender but they aren’t culturally specific. Similar to gender alignments like masculine-aligned/solarian and feminine-aligned/lunarian.
F-gender: any feminine gender identity. See also: fegender, fingender.
M-gender Flag
M-gender: any masculine gender identity. See also: manugender, mingender.
Both M and F genders encompass gender experiences regardless it is binary or not, they can be used as umbrella terms and identifiers itself. Note that those genders aren’t about gender expression nor presentation. They are often called género masculino or femenino/feminino in West Iberian because it’s not essentially the same as male/female, also because hembra/fêmeo/macho are more used as nonhuman animal terms. Flags based on X-gender but they aren’t culturally specific. Similar to gender alignments like masculine-aligned/solarian and feminine-aligned/lunarian.
Akoi-/Lith-: Feeling attraction, but having no desire to have interactions or have feelings reciprocated OR a person who feels a particular kind of attraction, which fades if it is reciprocated or if they enter a relationship with the person they are attracted to.
So you could call yourself a Lithromantic Lesbian if you feel that fits you. 🙂
Attraction – the action or power of evoking interest, pleasure or liking for someone or something.
The Main Types of Attraction
Romantic – Desiring to engage in traditionally romantic activities with another (ex: kissing, cuddling, going on dates, etc.).
Sexual – Desiring to engage in sexual activities with another.
Erotic – Appreciation for sexual arts or a desire to know someone using one’s senses through explicitly sexual acts (such as gouinage). Considered a mix of aesthetic, sensual, and sexual attraction.
Sensual – Desiring to know another by using one’s senses, especially through touch. This is NOT an explicitly sexual form of physical attraction, though it doesn’t have to be strictly romantic in nature either.
Presential – Like sensual attraction, but more the desire to be in someone’s presence than to touch or be intimate with them. A desire to know someone through their presence without an aspect of intimacy. Often coupled with aesthetic, platonic, social, etc.
Aesthetic – Usually desiring just to observe a person because one finds them aesthetically pleasing.
Doraric – A desire to be close to, serve, and even worship someone out of an adoration which derives itself from attractions that are neither explicitly romantic, nor explicitly platonic. Considered a mix of spiritual and alterous attractions.
Alterous – Desiring emotional closeness without necessarily being (entirely or at all) platonic and/or romantic. Alterous attraction is most often experienced as a sort of “transitional” phase by alloromantic individuals; it is felt when the person is no longer sure whether or not they have a “crush” on the object of this attraction. For some, however, it’s a form of attraction all its own that straddles the line between platonic and romantic.
Queerplatonic – (also referred to as qplatonic, quasiplatonic, and quirkyplatonic) Like alterous, it is neither romantic nor platonic, but can be functionally similar to both; a type of attraction that (while certainly aromantic) cannot be properly reduced to platonic without leaving some important aspects out. Also used as an umbrella term for any relationship that falls outside of the strict “romantic-or-platonic” binary.
Fluitic – Also known as “wavering” attraction. Being unsure of what one desires from the object of their attraction due to the nature of said attraction being “wavering” (frequently shifting from one type to another).
Platonic – The desire to form a close (or closer) platonic relationship/friendship with another.
Social – “Aspirational” or mentor-attraction; a desire to be closer to and/or more like someone because of their perceived talent and/or wisdom.
Amical – Interchangeable with platonicity (sometimes refers to “best friends”); on a higher level of affinity than in just social/interpersonal circles (that are more impersonal).
Emotional/Ecstatic – A broad term for a desire for commitment and mutual emotional nurturing, regardless of a relationship’s specific nature. To feel emotionally attracted to someone is to desire being consistently supportive of and supported by that person emotionally. Subtypes may include amorous, romantic, (q)platonic, mental, and amical attraction.
Familial – Desiring an emotional closeness with another by virtue of them being family, or desiring an emotional closeness with an unrelated other that mimics a traditionally/idealized familial bond.
Mental – An umbrella term for any form of intellectual/psychological and spiritual attractions.
Spiritual – A desire to be close to another (regardless of the nature of said closeness) based on the belief or feeling that such a relationship is “destiny,” or that the object of such attraction once had a relationship with the subject in a “past life” of sorts. In some cases, it can be used as a subset of social attraction — desiring a mentor-student-type relationship with someone based on their strong spirituality.
Intellectual/Psychological – The desire to “share a mindspace” with another by exchanging wisdom, knowledge, or interests. Related to social relationships, but generally where the object of such attraction is not considerered “socially superior.”
Tutelary – Also known as “protective attraction.” A desire to take care, protect and support another. It is the attraction one might feel towards a child, a pet, or a vulnerable person. It is often based in a desire to feel needed.
Cedural – Also known as “submissive attraction.” A desire to be protected, covered, understood, tutored, and supported by someone. Not to be confused as kink-related or sexual in nature.
If I’ve missed any major forms of attraction or gotten a definition wrong, please let me know and I’ll add it to the list/correct it right away. Thank you.
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If you have any problems with any of these terms, please let me know. I may take the post down & will certainly do my best to correct the issue.🦋
My partner and I of whom I am married to ( @cheettai )
have been trying to figure out how to define our relationship after we both made some new self-discoveries. So I came up with the word Appromour to describe our relationship (More on this after definition and the general usage). It is a portmanteau made of the words Approximate (ie close to actual, but not completely accurate or the same, or notably different but strikingly similar to) and the word Amour meaning love.
Appromour describes a relationship or partner in which you have relationship that is not romantic, it *may* not quite fit into you “typical” idea of qpp either as well. Its a way to describe a relationship that *may* seem like a romantic relationship to yourself or even outside observers. It looks like and may be very close to a romantic relationship but decidedly still not romantic.
QPP and Appromour can be used *somewhat* interchangeably, but are differentiated by the fact you may feel something oddly similar to romantic attraction and/or even partial or fleeting romantic feeling. Due to these feeling you may also desire or just be comfortable expressing and/or performing any number of way romantically. Even if a relationship manages to hit some, many or even all of the “traditional” notes of a “typical” romantic relationship, it still may never feel quite right to call it romantic, then this may be an Appromour relation. This can even mean you feel many of the forms of attraction for said person/people or even desire it enough and feel comfortable with a partner(s) to perform most or all of them, but ultimately you may not feel this way consistently or just off enough that romantic is still wrong. You could feel this way about any non romantic partner(s) that you feel any attraction to and you desire to partake in romantic expression and/or activities but you know it not an actual romantic relation even if may seem or feel similar.
So my Partner discovered they were Lithro and I have been grappling with the fact that I was some form of grey romantic for sometime. All we knew is that we did love each other but it became clear that not in the way the “traditional” romantic love would indicate (ironically despite a lot of people thinking we are such great example of romantic love). We knew we wanted to be with each other, we knew that we are easily “life companions” but not exactly Romantically. We desired to fulfill a romantic performance and even had
occasionally expressed earnestly what one would expect from a traditional romantic relation. However problem was we didn’t feel like we actually could ever achieve that level of “authentic” romantic relationship personally that we both desired and people expected.
The very word romantic, carried a lot of baggage and weight that was hard to live up to, even when you can feel part of what makes it up. This was especially tough on my partner who felt inadequate with a relationship that was even just *called* romantic, but we struggled because we felt QPP didn’t either. It didn’t really work for how we felt due to how we expressed our relationship. It seemed off for both our personal definitions of a QPP, so after a lot of talk I deiced that it would help my partner and to a lesser extent myself to find a new term to express our relationship. I didn’t want to use “pseudo” as it had too much negative weight and could delegitimise the types of other love we felt for each other. We felt that we had something that felt like something at least rather close to romantic, an approximation of it even…and so the word Appromour was born.
I hope this helps someone else out there and if so I hope it find them easily as well. For those wondering, as for the my relationship this simple redefining has done wonders and has lifted a lot of baggage off of us. Our relationship has been recovering quite well and I am personally chuffed with how thing are moving forward now. Cheers for Reading and please re-blog this to help others that would benefit from finding this term so we can save them a lot of misery & grief.
I’m the aforementioned partner (this is a side blog) So this is the flag we designed for appromour. I took a lot of insperation from the aro flag with the dark green heart representing aromantic love and the light green representing arospec people the white and shades of gray repersent the spectrum of feelings/prestations aromantic love can take. The equal sign crossed in the black stripe with the red heart opposite shows that aro love is not the same as romantic love the pale red stripe represents love that is simlar to romantic love
Apothipronoun: Using no pronouns and being repulsed by the concept of pronouns being applied to you. A mix of apothi- (in this case specifically apothigender) and pronoun nonconforming.
Flag + colors based off of the apothigender and pronoun nonconforming flags (pronoun nonconforming flag found here; link)
tumblr ruined the quality but its also a really small (like 400 some by 200 some) flag sorry
Apothipronoun: Using no pronouns and being repulsed by the concept of pronouns being applied to you. A mix of apothi- (in this case specifically apothigender) and pronoun nonconforming.
Flag + colors based off of the apothigender and pronoun nonconforming flags (pronoun nonconforming flag found here; link)
tumblr ruined the quality but its also a really small (like 400 some by 200 some) flag sorry
sorry for tagging yall but I look up to you guys!!
Exactly, you just are as many genders as you realize you are. If you want to simplify it for use in more public spaces, you can use a multigender term.
So yes, you can definitely use all of them (that you are able to within your ethnicity, neurodiversity, etc.)
Gaybie/gayby or Epigay/Enbigay: non-binary gay, epigendergay &/or epigaygender. Also gay enboys/guybies/menbies.
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Gaygay (gaygendergay): a gay orientationgendergay; when your gender that is gay while gayness is your gender or gayhood is so intrinsically tied to your gender that you absolutely cannot separate the two
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Gayqueer (gaygenderqueer): gay orientationgenderqueer; when your gayness is so intrinsically tied to your genderqueerness that you absolutely cannot separate the two
Neuwoman (neulher/neujer): a woman that is neutrally gendered; a gender-neutral woman. Similar to neulier, neufemale, ningirl & neutrogirl/neutrowoman.
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Neuman (neumen/neumem): a man that is neutrally gendered; a genderneutral man. Similar to neutroboy/neutroman/neutromale, ninboy & neumale.
Gynx: a gender inbetween female and androgyne. Androx: a gender inbetween male and androgyne.
Versandrogynous or androgyneflux
Versandrogyny (versatile androgyne): an androgyne whose amount of femininity and masculinity fluctuates (a versandrogyne may go between being femandrogyne and being mascandrogyne).
Gynandroflux/Androgyneflux (androgynous genderflux): a state where you have fluctuating feelings of masculinity and femininity, but your gender identity stays the same.
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It could be both versandrogyne or androgyneflux. It could be also linfluid (lingenderfluid) as a base in nature term.
Gynx: a gender inbetween female and androgyne. Androx: a gender inbetween male and androgyne.
Versandrogynous or androgyneflux
Versandrogyny (versatile androgyne): an androgyne whose amount of femininity and masculinity fluctuates (a versandrogyne may go between being femandrogyne and being mascandrogyne).
Gynandroflux/Androgyneflux (androgynous genderflux): a state where you have fluctuating feelings of masculinity and femininity, but your gender identity stays the same.
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It could be both versandrogyne or androgyneflux. It could be also linfluid (lingenderfluid) as a base in nature term.
Bear is a gay slang used by mlm/achillean (gay/bi/queer and other m-spec men), enbears can be mascic enboys or gayby abinaries projecting an image of rugged «nonbinary» masculinity or mascuneutrality. The term/flag was based in twinkby and enbutch concepts. Enbies and pluralians can also use other terms, such as tomcat, stag, tomboy, jackhound, vermil and cinnab.
Angigender: any androgynous gender identity; a gender that is attached to gender androgyny; or a mixture of gender masculinity & gender femininity. Also known as gynandrogender, androgynogender & gender-androgyny.
Similar to androgyne, based on genderneutral flag.
Enboygirlby: being girlby, girlboy & enboy; identifying as enby boygirl; an eclipsian (ambi-aligned) non-binary man-woman; a multifemache having abinary gender(s), e.g. an ambonec aporagender or an ambigender maverique.
Also known as galguyby/galguybie, enboygalby/enboygalbie, enboygirlbie & enbirl/enburl.
Angineutrality/Androgyneutrality: an androgynous neutrality; a neutral androgyny; the combination of lingender & ningender (neugender + androgyne) or a mixture of femineutrality & mascunetrality (or neutromasculinity & neutrofemininity).
Also known as angineutrois, neutrangi & angineugender. See also: neuangi, neutrandrogyne.
Neuandrogyny/Neuandrogyne: A gender identity that is a mixture of androgyne and gender neutral; a neutrois-androgyne comgender (comandrogyne comneutrois).
Mixing neugender + androgyny. See also neutrandrogyne & neuangi.
Neutrandrogyne (neutral androgyne): an androgyne who might feel a relatively even mixture of femininity and masculinity, or even none at all; or a gender that is partially male, partially female and partially neutral.
These two definitions were found in Gender Wiki. See also: neuangi, ambonec, neutrandrogynous (neutrandrogyny), neuandrogyne, angineutral, neufemache.
AGIN(gender)/XIN(gender) means identities that are agender/xenine in nature, such as demiagender/demixeno(gender)/demixenine.
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Xenixic or Nixenic (nixic + xenic): an identity comprised of both genderless and partial xenine or xeno-aligned aspects. Intended for those who feel both connected and detached from xeninity and for those who have difficulty distinguishing their alignment from their gender.
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Libraxeninity (libraxenogender or xenolibragender): An identity that is mostly agender, but has a connection to xeninity/xenohood. This connection may be fluid / static.
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Xenagender (xeno+agender): An agender identity that is entirely xenine; or a xenogender/xeninity that is entirely agender/agenine. This can also be known as xenogenderless I guess.
Hi! So how you dress doesn’t necessarily affect what your gender is. You can dress “like a girl”, but if you feel like being a girl isn’t part of your gender, then it doesn’t affect it. 🙂
If you feel like you’re somehow agender-ish, but also a boy, I would suggest looking into Bxy.
Bxy: A gender that is both boy and agender/no gender. You can be a boy and agender/no gender at the same time, go between them, or fluctuate between feeling male and not feeling gender.
Emphasizes being male. Spelled bxy with an X instead of an O as if you’re crossing out that you’re a boy. Kinda similar to demiboy (where agender/no gender is the non-boy part), agenderflux (with fluctuations between agender and male), or being genderfluid between agender/no gender and male. Can be used as trans bxy if you chose to, but only if you’re afab (similar to trans masculine being exclusively for afab trans people).
Crosspronouns: using an “unexpected” pronoun; an umbrella term for pronouns that are transversal or uncommon to your gender identity.
Interchangeable with transpronomial/transpronominal, crosspronominal and alterpronomial/alterpronominal. Similar to PNC (pronoun non-conforming).
Examples: women using any pronoun(s) other than she/her/herself; men using any pronoun(s) other than he/his/him/himself; anyone in general using any pronouns other than he or she; and non-binary people using he &/or she (sometimes it may also include trans people too).
You can go to @mad-pride for the first one, but I don’t currently know of any that make flags for physical disabilities. If anyone does know of one, please let anon know in the comments!
Panic Disorder: An experience in which someone regularly finds their life interrupted by anxiety and panic attacks. This anxiety disorder is the least common of the group, and is only diagnosable by the amount of panic attacks a person experiences on a weekly level. A panic attack is when a person goes into fight of flight over a trigger that is either conscious or unconscious. The panic attack lengths and symptoms vary between individuals but are consistent with high anxiety levels, heart rate, trouble breathing, stomach problems, and possible episodes of crying. Some optional symptoms would be perhaps going nonverbal, or finding yourself either freezing up, or alternatively moving more than usual in a frantic manner. Some common triggers for panic attacks include, tight spaces that could trigger claustrophobia, social situations that could trigger SAD/Social Phobia, every day tasks that could trigger GAD, flashbacks to traumatic events, paranoia, dreams that either consciously or unconsciously contribute to the following, and so on.
Intersex people can use any pronouns that are available to them, but if you’re asking for intersex-specific pronouns, I only know of shi/hir/hirs/hirself and any variation of “herm”, such as heesh/herm/hiser/hisers/ hermself or hesh/hiser/himer/himer/hermself.
If anyone else knows of some others, feel free to comment. 🙂
Poisongender: a gender that starts small, but grows bigger until the person is fully that gender; the person also feels like they derive some of it from other people.
New term!
You could use borea- as a prefix for trixic (nblw), so it could be boreatrixic.
Borea-: an exception for your orientation. Usually revolves around a single person.
• feeling a type of attraction that is very simple and wholesome. Some common desires for mellow-oriented people are to: give cheek kisses, snuggle, and hug.
• feeling a type of attraction that is very simple and wholesome. Some common desires for mellow-oriented people are to: give cheek kisses, snuggle, and hug.
The first three are for transneutral women, the middle three are for transneutral men and the last two are trans man-woman flags.
Not to be confused transneumasc/transneufem/transmascfem, not all transfem identify as woman (& vice-verse), the same happens with transmasc and man.
Transneuwoman could be also known as transneutrowoman, transneugirl, transneutrogirl, transneutrofemale, transneufemale & transneufemale; transneuman as transneutroman, transneumale, transneuboy/transneuguy, transneutroguy/transneutroboy & transneutromale.
The first three are for transneutral women, the middle three are for transneutral men and the last two are trans man-woman flags.
Not to be confused transneumasc/transneufem/transmascfem, not all transfem identify as woman (& vice-verse), the same happens with transmasc and man.
Transneuwoman could be also known as transneutrowoman, transneugirl, transneutrogirl, transneutrofemale, transneufemale & transneufemale; transneuman as transneutroman, transneumale, transneuboy/transneuguy, transneutroguy/transneutroboy & transneutromale.
Lumen- An orientation/sexuality where you experience all sexualities/orientations at once. Obviously, you can only be the sexualities/orientations that you can reclaim/fit into. [ IE: A Neurotypical person cannot be Neuro-identites ( nebularomantic, echosexual, etc. ) , A male aligned person cannot be wlw aligned identites, etc. ] Lumenflux Experiencing all sexualities/orientations, but fluctuating between them [ IE: from one end of a spectrum to another. ] Lumenfluid Experiencing all sexualities/orientations fluidly [ day to day, situationally, etc. ]
Lumen- An orientation/sexuality where you experience all sexualities/orientations at once. Obviously, you can only be the sexualities/orientations that you can reclaim/fit into. [ IE: A Neurotypical person cannot be Neuro-identites ( nebularomantic, echosexual, etc. ) , A male aligned person cannot be wlw aligned identites, etc. ] Lumenflux Experiencing all sexualities/orientations, but fluctuating between them [ IE: from one end of a spectrum to another. ] Lumenfluid Experiencing all sexualities/orientations fluidly [ day to day, situationally, etc. ]
When you only feel attraction to stuffed animals that you see as extensions of yourself/that you are an extension of them due to neurodivergence, namely difficulty in expressing empathy, or empathy deficits, such as in NPD/ASPD/Autism and extreme attachment and desire to be engulfed by a depended/favourite toy, such as in BPD/DPD. Anyone neurodivergent person with this symptom can use it, though.
An objectum orientation that is a combination ofEcho- and Pelu-.
When you only feel attraction to stuffed animals that you see as extensions of yourself/that you are an extension of them due to neurodivergence, namely difficulty in expressing empathy, or empathy deficits, such as in NPD/ASPD/Autism and extreme attachment and desire to be engulfed by a depended/favourite toy, such as in BPD/DPD. Anyone neurodivergent person with this symptom can use it, though.
An objectum orientation that is a combination ofEcho- and Pelu-.
Liv- An attraction meaning being fem aligned nb and having an attraction to masc aligned nb exclusively.
Luv- An attraction meaning being masc aligned nb and having an attraction to fem aligned nb exclusively. DEFINITION COINED BY @saturnic-vapour | TERM AND FLAG CREATED BY ME
Liv- An attraction meaning being fem aligned nb and having an attraction to masc aligned nb exclusively.
Luv- An attraction meaning being masc aligned nb and having an attraction to fem aligned nb exclusively. DEFINITION COINED BY @saturnic-vapour | TERM AND FLAG CREATED BY ME
Shinychugender (chushinygender/shinygenderchu): the mix of chugender & shinygender. It could be xenogender/exemgender or fuzzgender.
Shinygender: A gender that is essentially the same as a particular gender, but it feels like your experience with that gender is “colored differently” from the majority of others who share your gender- you experience a gender very differently from others with that gender. [source]
Chugender/Genderchu: an umbrella term for pichugenders (pigenderchus), pikagenders (pikachugenders/pikagenderchus) & raigenders (raigenderchus/raichugenders). [source]
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Pishinychugender: A small shinygender that feels fuzzy with a small electric charge, related to Shiny Pichu. Also known as pichushinygender, shinypichugender, shinypigenderchu & pishinygenderchu.
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Pikashinygender(chu): A shinygender that feels fuzzy with an electric charge, related to Shiny Pikachu. Also known as pikashinychugender, pikachushinygender, shinypikagender(chu) & shinypikachugender.
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Raishinygender(chu): A larger shinygender that feels fuzzy with a larger electric charge, related to Shiny Raichu. Also called shinyraigender(chu), raishinychugender, raichushinygender & shinyraichugender.
Agitaromantic A romantic orientation revolving around feeling romantic attraction, but due to trauma involving a past break-up, the user is terrified of entering a relationship. This romantic orientation is only reclaimable by trauma survivors. Do not use this/Identify with this if you do not have trauma relating to a relationship’s break-up.
Agitaromantic A romantic orientation revolving around feeling romantic attraction, but due to trauma involving a past break-up, the user is terrified of entering a relationship. This romantic orientation is only reclaimable by trauma survivors. Do not use this/Identify with this if you do not have trauma relating to a relationship’s break-up.
Um gênero xenino esteticamente envolvido com praias e/ou um gênero que possui qualidades comparáveis com uma praia (um gênero ensolarado com cheiro salgado de mar, por ex).
As cores da bandeira são para representar uma praia: céu, sol, areia, e água/mares.
A xenine gender aesthetically related to beaches and/or a gender with qualities comparable to a beach (ex: a sunny gender with salty smell of the sea).
The colors in the flag represent a beach: sky, sun, sand, and water/seas.
Um gênero xenino esteticamente envolvido com praias e/ou um gênero que possui qualidades comparáveis com uma praia (um gênero ensolarado com cheiro salgado de mar, por ex).
As cores da bandeira são para representar uma praia: céu, sol, areia, e água/mares.
A xenine gender aesthetically related to beaches and/or a gender with qualities comparable to a beach (ex: a sunny gender with salty smell of the sea).
The colors in the flag represent a beach: sky, sun, sand, and water/seas.
Androxgynxfluid (gynxndroxfluid, andrxgynxfluid or gynxandroxfluid): the combination of gynxfluid & androxfluid; being multigender of androx & gynx while genderfluid.
Gynxfluid: a fluid gender inbetween female & androgyne;
Androxfluid: a fluid gender inbetween male & androgyne.
Similar to multigenderfluid (plurigenderfluid, polygenderfluid, bigenderfluid), androgyneflux and versandrogyne. Mixing flags’ colors by @anthropomimus
Ambigue: an ambiguous gender. A gender identity associated with ambiguity.
@momma-mogai-sphinx had signified ambiguity as a gender quality, as androgynous is also a gender expression, there’s androgyne to contrast as a gender identity, so it is ambigue with ambiguousness.
Ambiguous is defined as something open to more than one interpretation; having a double meaning; synonymous to Delphic, cryptic, enigmatic, gnomic, paradoxical, misleading, ambivalent and obscure.
Not to be confused with ambigugender or ambigender. It could be also an ambitrois gender.
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