Transfeminism (transgender feminism): A branch of feminism concerned with transgender issues, also a movement by and for trans women who view their liberation to be intrinsically linked to the liberation of all women and beyond.
Anarcho-communism (free/stateless/libertarian communism): a form of anarchy advocating the abolition of the state and capitalism in favor of a horizontal network of voluntary associations through which people would satisfy their needs.
Anarcha-feminism (anarchist feminism): a political and philosophical theory combining anarchism and feminism, which typically views the state as patriarchal and oppressive.
Mixing anarcha-feminist flag with transcommunist symbol. This flag could be also labeled as anfem trans leftcom, not only identifying as anarchocommunist transfem.
Genderpotion: a gender that is the result of a mix of many other, different genders.
Note gender mixture/amalgam (mixed gender identity) isn’t the same of polygender/plurigender, intermixed/hybridized gender mergers/combinations could be multigender or not.
See also: gendershuffler, slimegender, genderfusion.
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Arosexuality: feeling attraction to aromantic/aro-spectral people. Meant for aros/arospecs/arospex/aspecs/aspex & aromantix/aromantics, based on aceromantic.
The circle represents sexual attractions and -sexual suffixed orientations, coming from circular symbols associated with Eros/Aphrodite flower/Pothos (gods of erotic love/sexual desire) & B/D/S/M triskelion (erotic sign). Now starting with this flag, as opposed/alternate to romantic heart.
Tired of saying non-monogamous/non-monoamorous/non-monofidelity every time you need to refer to variant relationship orientations? Same, here u go
Variamorous: any relationship orientation/amory that does not conform or fit into societal ideals of relationships (such as monoamory and monofidelity).
Perhaps varigamous can be a -gamy version as well? Regardless, easier terms for these that don’t start with “non” and actually have their own identity are something I think we need.
I love the multisexual flag, but it’s difficult to make pride related gear for it because of how many stripes it has. This is my proposal for an alternative flag.
The shades of pink represent femininity and the varying ways it can be expressed, while the orange and yellow respectively represent “otherness” and nonbinarity, as well as a complete rejection of masculinity (which is often depicted in shades of blue, the opposite of orange). The white in the center represents “pure” femininity and a culmination of all things feminine into a singular identity.
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If you have any problems with this particular flag design, please let me know. I may take the post down & will certainly do my best to correct the issue.🦋
[Image: a 9-striped horizontal flag: dark pink, pink, dark orange, orange, white, orange, dark orange, pink, dark pink]
Polybipanromantic (romantic bi-pan-ply): being biromantic, panromantic & polyromantic at the same time, combined or between the three, as if all of their definitions fit you; amplusromantic individuals fluctuating between polyro/m, biro/m and panro/m (polypanbiro/m) identities.
Panbipolyromantic amplusic pluralians/mspecs can be additionally panflexible, biflexible &/or polyflexible, leaning towards specific multiromantic identity/ies.
-ap
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Recipromantic: A person that only feels romantic attraction only if the other person feels romantic attraction to them at first. If there is no one around to feel attraction to them, largely recipros may feel like simply definining themself as aromantic describes their experiences just fine.
Summary: Since I found very little information on the initial word, I decided to give a more theistic take on the term that’s put into a modern context of gender than what was originally given for other kemetics to use if they find the identity fits them.
Re-interpretation: Sekhet, sekhyt, or sekhety is an identity used to describe not being exclusively a man or woman, moreso the ‘gender’ of the Netjeru; or the lack of a definable one in a divine essence. What this means, though, is the true nature of the Netjeru is mysterious, and though Their representations can align along binary standards, Their existence within itself is something beyond what can be put into a definition of binary gender.
It is not a static identity, and can be a combination of a myriad of different things; femininity, masculinity, androgyny, anything in between; undefinable by words, and can be a specific state of being for a person and remain as such for years, even for a lifetime; or can wildly fluctuate on a day-to-day basis.
Symbols & Meanings:
-Shen ring: Eternal protection.
-Orangish gold: The color of the reeds in Aaru, resembling freedom, sentimentality and sincerity.
-Gold: Unity, love & the embracing warmth of the sun.
-White: Purity, indefinability.
-Lapis lazuli: The Netjeru and the connection to Them, divinity, and spirituality.
-Blue: The primordial waters of Nu and the fluidity of its’ nature. The mysterious infinity that which all is created from. Larger than the other stripes to symbolize the eternal expanse of the water.
Pronouns: Any pronouns are associated with this term, but if none in particular fit oneself, a set with both ritual use and casual use has been made for the sake of modern convenience. Both stem from the origin of “nen” which is negation, null, separate from what is defined, and can be used both as a suffix -nn(not to be confused with the plural demonstrative) or the independent pronouns respectively.
Religious:
mntnn/ntnn/pꜣy.nn/r ḥꜥt.nn
Casual:
Neii*/Nem/Ner**/Nenef
*The eii in neii is pronounced “eye”
**The er in ner is pronounced “air”
History: Sekhety is written as many different things by scholars; it was originally a word first found on an inscription on a shard of pottery describing the three genders, man, woman, and sekhety. It basically means someone who doesn’t exclusively fit on the societal binary of sexuality and gender(though this is a simplification of the sources), some guesses of the more specific definition being intersex people, gay people, and so on and so forth.
Primary source: Sethe, Kurt, (1926), Die Aechtung feindlicher Fürsten, Völker und Dinge auf altägyptischen Tongefäßscherben des mittleren Reiches, in: Abhandlungen der Preussischen Akademie der Wissenschaften, Philosophisch-Historische Klasse, 1926, p. 61.
Summary: Since I found very little information on the initial word, I decided to give a more theistic take on the term that’s put into a modern context of gender than what was originally given for other kemetics to use if they find the identity fits them.
Re-interpretation: Sekhet, sekhyt, or sekhety is an identity used to describe not being exclusively a man or woman, moreso the ‘gender’ of the Netjeru; or the lack of a definable one in a divine essence. What this means, though, is the true nature of the Netjeru is mysterious, and though Their representations can align along binary standards, Their existence within itself is something beyond what can be put into a definition of binary gender.
It is not a static identity, and can be a combination of a myriad of different things; femininity, masculinity, androgyny, anything in between; undefinable by words, and can be a specific state of being for a person and remain as such for years, even for a lifetime; or can wildly fluctuate on a day-to-day basis.
Symbols & Meanings:
-Shen ring: Eternal protection.
-Orangish gold: The color of the reeds in Aaru, resembling freedom, sentimentality and sincerity.
-Gold: Unity, love & the embracing warmth of the sun.
-White: Purity, indefinability.
-Lapis lazuli: The Netjeru and the connection to Them, divinity, and spirituality.
-Blue: The primordial waters of Nu and the fluidity of its’ nature. The mysterious infinity that which all is created from. Larger than the other stripes to symbolize the eternal expanse of the water.
Pronouns: Any pronouns are associated with this term, but if none in particular fit oneself, a set with both ritual use and casual use has been made for the sake of modern convenience. Both stem from the origin of “nen” which is negation, null, separate from what is defined, and can be used both as a suffix -nn(not to be confused with the plural demonstrative) or the independent pronouns respectively.
Religious:
mntnn/ntnn/pꜣy.nn/r ḥꜥt.nn
Casual:
Neii*/Nem/Ner**/Nenef
*The eii in neii is pronounced “eye”
**The er in ner is pronounced “air”
History: Sekhety is written as many different things by scholars; it was originally a word first found on an inscription on a shard of pottery describing the three genders, man, woman, and sekhety. It basically means someone who doesn’t exclusively fit on the societal binary of sexuality and gender(though this is a simplification of the sources), some guesses of the more specific definition being intersex people, gay people, and so on and so forth.
Primary source: Sethe, Kurt, (1926), Die Aechtung feindlicher Fürsten, Völker und Dinge auf altägyptischen Tongefäßscherben des mittleren Reiches, in: Abhandlungen der Preussischen Akademie der Wissenschaften, Philosophisch-Historische Klasse, 1926, p. 61.
Transneugender (treugender): a transversal gender neutrality, similar to transneutrality but experiencing neutral-gender that is connected to transverseness; transverse individuals having neutrally gendered feelings. Based on trandrogyne.
Neutrans Flag
Neutransgender (transgenderneutral): transgender neutrality; feeling neutrally transgender. It’s more trans-neutral (feeling neutral towards transness) than transneutral or neutral-transgender
Trans Neutrois Flag
A combo flag of transgender & neutrois (transneutrois).
Transneugender (treugender): a transversal gender neutrality, similar to transneutrality but experiencing neutral-gender that is connected to transverseness; transverse individuals having neutrally gendered feelings. Based on trandrogyne.
Neutrans Flag
Neutransgender (transgenderneutral): transgender neutrality; feeling neutrally transgender. It’s more trans-neutral (feeling neutral towards transness) than transneutral or neutral-transgender
Trans Neutrois Flag
A combo flag of transgender & neutrois (transneutrois).
I made a MAD Pride Flag for paranoid schizophrenia (bottom). It’s inspired by the schizophrenia MAD Pride Flag (top left) and the paranoid personality disorder MAD Pride Flag (top right).
I made a MAD Pride Flag for paranoid schizophrenia (bottom). It’s inspired by the schizophrenia MAD Pride Flag (top left) and the paranoid personality disorder MAD Pride Flag (top right).
These are all the genders I could find relating to sin, holy, or unholy:
Godgender or Deusgender: A gender identity that pertains to godliness/something holy, meaning it’s an untouched and unaltered version of gender/has no “passing” form/is outside of masculinity and femininity (can meld with feminine/masculine genders, but does not usually carry societies’ norms when this happens); Nonbinary gender for people who identifies as deities or acknowledge a divine aspect within themselves.
Trinigender. A gender made up of multiple parts (often 3), that relate to each other like aspects of the Holy Trinity. In other words, they are both distinct separate parts (like Father/Son/Holy Spirit) but are also aspects of a single divine Being. This gender does not have to pertain exclusively to Western/Christian ideas of religion/divinity/Trinity. Nor does it inherently represent masculinity/masculine genders by relating back to the masc-coded Christian Trinity.
Seraphgender: A gender that feels very holy and sacred as well as powerful and important but not as strong as a deity. Mainly intended for Seraphkin but can be used by anyone.
Virtugender: A gender that is etherial and beautiful, but close to sin. Intended for Virtue rank angelkin, but not required.
Seraphaeic: A xenogender that feels holy and angelic. It has multiple facets, as if it has multiple “wings”. This gender can be used by anyone, but was created with angelkin in mind.
Daederic: A gender that feels demonic and/or unholy. It’s the polar opposite of Seraphaeic. This gender can be masc aligned, fem aligned, unaligned, etc. This gender can be used by anyone, but was created with demonkin in mind.
Nephiaeic: A gender that shifts between Seraphaeic and Daederic. This gender can be masc aligned, fem aligned, unaligned, etc. This gender can be used by anyone, but was created with demonkin/angelkin/fallen angelkin in mind.
If none of these are what you’re looking for, you’re welcome to coin something and submit it!
Sexual and romantic orientations are commonly used as generic for general sensual/amorous attractions. Amato-normativity makes romantic love seem as the only way possible to be in a committed relationship, as if it was the real amory/gamy. But amories/gamies could be also (q)platonic or something else.
Google defines romance as a feeling of excitement and mystery associated with love, synonymous to passion, ardor, adoration, devotion, fondness, intimacy, attachment, courtship, flirtation, dalliance, serious relationships, affectionacy and liaison.
Romance, romanticism, romantism/romancism and romanticity are all empiricist and social constructions, it’s up to people to intrapersonally interpret it their way. It is an indescribable feeling for a lot of people, they could associate it with good and acceptable things or not. Things it could be:
the desire to be consensually intimate, and to feel and show/express a kind of affection you don’t feel towards friends. it could be either an open relation or closed
performing constructs of imperialist/imperialized/colonized and natalist monogamism
desiring affinity from individual(s) while wanting a higher level of emotional closeness and trust contact
wanting to marry someone, officially or not, as in living together (amásio or amásia, amasiar=to lover/lovering) as a familial/parental couple or not (po/mo concubinage), as in Ludus (playful love)
synonym of eroticity/erotism with gamous taste/aspect
more than just friends or BFFs/highier than amical and queerplatonic
companionship(s) with mutual commitment
eternal and enduring love (as in Pragma/tic with Philia/c, a Greek forms of love), and caring of someone reciprocatively and expecting it’s love forever and ever
Regardless the others’ points of view of what it is to be romantic, only you can self-determine what you are experiencing. A lot of things listed here are seem as quasiplatonic or other thing(s). I hope that helps. Also check the AVENwiki def of romantic attraction.
-ap
I guess libramasculinity does not specify you are amplusian or not. Libramasculine is an identity mostly agender (as in magiagender) with little attachment to masculinity.
Masculiflux/masculineflux (masculigenderflux or mascuflux/mascflux) and libraflux/libragenderflux (agenderflux/agenderfluid/cancegender) might be proper for fluctuating intensities.
Asthen-: an orientation which describes someone who feels “less” in regard to their orientation, but in a way that does not necessarily involve who they are attracted to. For example, someone who feels sexual attraction weakly, or has such a low sex drive that who they are attracted to does not feel relevant to them. Alternative to hyposexual; for those that aren’t diagnosed with hyposexuality.
Perissos-: experiencing high-intensity or overwhelming levels of attraction due to neurodivergence. Alternative to hypersexual; for those that aren’t diagnosed with hypersexuality.
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Rocket Raccoon fictionkin: identifying partially or entirely as Rocket Raccoon from Guardians of the Galaxy.
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Murdoc Niccals fictionkin: identifying partially or entirely as Murdoc Niccals of Gorrilaz.
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Possumkin: identifying partially or entirely as a possum.
For your orientation, you can use nocis- (attraction only to those who aren’t cis).
I’ll list some genders here that may work, but if none of them work you’re welcome to coin something! If you feel like you’re one of the in-between gender and also one of the space-related genders listed, then you can also combine them! Example: Centrigender + Astralgender = Centriastralgender.
Genders related to being in-between a man and woman:
Centrigender: When your gender identity is centered in the middle / between multiple genders.
Midgender: in the middle of female and male binary genders. Similar to intergender but not intersex exclusive.
Mesogender: between male/female but not distinct from both.
Genders related to space:
Astralgender: A gender that feels connected to space.
Caelgender: A gender which shares qualities with outer space or has the aesthetic of space, stars, nebulae, cosmos, etc.
Contigender: a gender that flows through space and time and constantly changes, always moving; a gender of or related to space and time.
Galaxiegender: A nonbinary gender that is vast and mysterious like the galaxy. Reserved for people who are both neurodivergent and spacekin/kin with anything related to space.
Gendercosm: A gender identity encompassing and surpassing the limits of the earth/society, but doesn’t incorporate existing genders from society; a gender identity so grand and huge it cannot be explained by words. Not to be confused with cosmicgender.
Stargender: An otherworldly gender that is beyond comprehension in earthly terms, as if it originated from beyond the earth; or a gender that is a star, otherworldly, not understandable in other earthly terms, or undefinable by other terms.
Genderspace: an umbrella term for genders that are influenced or related to different parts of space, such as genderstar, gendergalaxy, genderconstallation, gendermoon, genderplanet, etc. the ending could be replaced with specific bodies for even more specific terms, like gendermars or gendercallisto.
Astrogender: amplusgender(s) [fluid/flux/liquid] for when gender spectrum is seen from a galactic perspective; feeling like an astronaut navigating through potential genders that could be inhabited or not; identifying with anything involving space, stars, planets, etc.
Astergender: a gender that feels bright and celestial.
Celestialgender: A gender that is related to a planet, celestial body, or astronomical object in our solar system. See also: planetgender.
Estrialgender: Not identifying with earth’s human gender binary due to being from another planet. Can also identify with a gender from another planet. See also: planaplogender and aliegender.
Hope that helps!
Spacegendervoid: a feeling of space and stars but in a far away sort of way. Almost like a void that vaguely resembles space and the stars themselves and leans towards a nonexistent/agender feeling. The main aspects being, space, vaguely existing somewhere outside of gender, and sort of not really there like a void in time. A nonbinary gender that is connected to space, stars, and the universe as a whole. This gender feels vaguely unaligned in nature and has ties to the feeling of genderless-ness.
Voidmasculine (openmasc/queermasc/voidmasc): Identifying with masculinity but being unsure what exactly your gender identity is, it is a great and dark mystery long forgotten in your eldrich mind. The only thing in this existence that understands your puzzling feelings is the Void.
Genderspace: an umbrella term for genders that are influenced or related to different parts of space, such as genderstar, gendergalaxy, genderconstallation, gendermoon, genderplanet, etc. the ending could be replaced with specific bodies for even more specific terms, like gendermars or gendercallisto.
The two are 6 striped versions of gay man flag and another one found at @ask-pride-color-schemes, without the whiten(ed) middle part. Because it looks like the other gay flag iterations than with lesbian ones (as if they were blue lesbian flags).
And I made another gay flag, for anyone regardless of gender.
Some people may say the rainbow flag is already for all the gays, but it’s also used by transgender straights and many people not necessarily identifying as gay in some way. Other people might assume we are appropriating a specific/inherent word for mlm Gays™ to describe homosexual men to be another thing, but hadn’t y’all remember that gay identity comes from French word gai meaning cheerful and noticed gayety/gayhood/gayness is a polysemic construct – it carries a variety of meaning – also resignified?! Gayness is wildly used by sapphic pals too (such as bi gals & lesbians) and many other folks expressing their orientation/attraction/love. I just saw an ask in
blog from a non-binary gay requesting a gay flag for all genders I guess, I dunno.
Note this flag explicitly includes gai individuals (since they are enbily and attractionally gay in a non binary way), and multiple-gender-attracted/mspec pals, not only similar-gender-attracted ones (such as symmaics, nblnb, wlw and achilleans). I don’t like limiting who can or cannot use gayness for themselves, so it’s up to everyone to self-determine that. Sorry the last stripes look so much with the bisexual colors.
Brown was meant for gay bears, green representing unfeminine/masculine gays & gay males, green-yellow for gay nonbinaries/enbies/abinaries, pink-yellow for effeminate/unmasculine gays, gay twinks & doe/femmes, purple for variant gays (those not feeling represented by gay community at all, such as “outsider” and “woke” gays), pluralians gay butches/stags & gay women/females/nonmen in general, teal-blue (dark-ish?) to represent curious/questioning gays and any other gays I didn’t include in these meanings, sorry.
I love the flags, even though not all gay boys like blue or green. I also made a red-in-the-end version of the last one
-ap
[Image: a 6-striped horizontal flag; brown, green, yellow, pink, light red, dark red]
The two are 6 striped versions of gay man flag and another one found at @ask-pride-color-schemes, without the whiten(ed) middle part. Because it looks like the other gay flag iterations than with lesbian ones (as if they were blue lesbian flags).
And I made another gay flag, for anyone regardless of gender.
Some people may say the rainbow flag is already for all the gays, but it’s also used by transgender straights and many people not necessarily identifying as gay in some way. Other people might assume we are appropriating a specific/inherent word for mlm Gays™ to describe homosexual men to be another thing, but hadn’t y’all remember that gay identity comes from French word gai meaning cheerful and noticed gayety/gayhood/gayness is a polysemic construct – it carries a variety of meaning – also resignified?! Gayness is wildly used by sapphic pals too (such as bi gals & lesbians) and many other folks expressing their orientation/attraction/love. I just saw an ask in
blog from a non-binary gay requesting a gay flag for all genders I guess, I dunno.
Note this flag explicitly includes gai individuals (since they are enbily and attractionally gay in a non binary way), and multiple-gender-attracted/mspec pals, not only similar-gender-attracted ones (such as symmaics, nblnb, wlw and achilleans). I don’t like limiting who can or cannot use gayness for themselves, so it’s up to everyone to self-determine that. Sorry the last stripes look so much with the bisexual colors.
Brown was meant for gay bears, green representing unfeminine/masculine gays & gay males, green-yellow for gay nonbinaries/enbies/abinaries, pink-yellow for effeminate/unmasculine gays, gay twinks & doe/femmes, purple for variant gays (those not feeling represented by gay community at all, such as “outsider” and “woke” gays), pluralians gay butches/stags & gay women/females/nonmen in general, teal-blue (dark-ish?) to represent curious/questioning gays and any other gays I didn’t include in these meanings, sorry.
I love the flags, even though not all gay boys like blue or green. I also made a red-in-the-end version of the last one
-ap
[Image: a 6-striped horizontal flag; brown, green, yellow, pink, light red, dark red]
I think that would be gender nullarity (a gender arity that is null/absent, as in, you can’t be classified as trinary, binary, unary, etc.). You can read more here and here. There’s also equary. Being nullary not essentially means you are agender, anyways it’s an a-gender arity (anarity/anariality/aleptarity/aleptary).
But just because you are unconfident of using gendered bathrooms, doesn’t mean anything about experiencing a gender identity. There are several reasons for it, specially local transgendercide statistics and cultural exorsexism or transmisogyny (transphobia/cissexism/transmisia or binarism/enbyphobia).
Are you neutral/epicene or indifferent/apathic or
to genders? Just because I don’t feel okay in bathrooms with 🚹 icons, doesn’t mean you aren’t male. It could be because external non-consensual objectifying, fetishizing and condemnatory looks/judgements. That’s why unisex/gender-neutral public toilets are healthier than gender-based bathrooms, even the inclusive-intended ones. It’s like separating them into hair types, that would be unconfortable/offensive for a lot of people, that doesn’t mean they are hairless.
You could be pronoun non-conforming and pronoun questioning.
ap
Specifically? No. Nongenders (genders that are most accurately described by what they aren’t, not by what they are) are there for it, but nongirlwoman (nongirl nonwoman) is a word that you could mix with eumasculine/eumale (eugender male/masculinity), then it would be eumascmale-nongirlwoman. If sometimes you aren’t also masculine or male, that could be a zerogender.
I can list some that sound the closest, but you’re welcome to coin something if none of these work for you. 🙂
Hategender/Angender: A gender that you can’t describe with any word but hatred or anger. Usable only by neurodivergent people with mental illnesses that cause anger or hate.
Anler: from “anger” and “choleric”. This is a strong-willed gender, they feel determined and certain about who they are. They will feel angry if other people insist that their gender does not exist, and feel very grounded and supported by their gender.
Pyrogender: A gender that feels like fire! Pyrogender holds a much stronger aesthetic connection with fire than firegender. Not just the movement of the fire (as with firegender), but also the heat of the fire (excitement/happiness about the gender) and consumption of fuel to keep it burning (eating up other genders to keep the main one going, in a way). Further clarification: If someone feels something else instead of happiness, like anger or conviction, while still thinking of their gender as a flame, they can still identify as pyrogender! Also admittedly the part about the gender consuming other, like fire consumes fuel, may not always apply to everyone. The main thing is feeling like your gender is a fire, and feeling something about it.
Tumultuogender: a gender that is wild, harmful, and full of hatred/anger.
Aresgender: a gender that rages like war, fiery and bloody, unwavering and so powerful it sometimes cannot be contained within itself.
This is a flag for someone is who gai and strayt for guys, girls, and enbies!
The flag is explicitly meant for any nonbinary person (no matter what their alignment) who feels their attraction to guys, girls, and enbies to be both gai and strayt.
((Sequoia))
[Image: a 6-striped horizontal flag; dark teal, teal, dark purple, white, gold, white]
This is a flag for someone is who gai and strayt for guys, girls, and enbies!
The flag is explicitly meant for any nonbinary person (no matter what their alignment) who feels their attraction to guys, girls, and enbies to be both gai and strayt.
((Sequoia))
[Image: a 6-striped horizontal flag; dark teal, teal, dark purple, white, gold, white]
This is a flag for someone is who gai and strayt for guys and girls!
The flag is explicitly meant for any nonbinary person (no matter what their alignment) who feels their attraction to guys and girls to be both gai and strayt.
((Sequoia))
[Image: a 6-striped horizontal flag; top 3 stripes are shades of light blue, bottom 3 striped are shades of pink]
This is a flag for someone is who gai and strayt for guys and girls!
The flag is explicitly meant for any nonbinary person (no matter what their alignment) who feels their attraction to guys and girls to be both gai and strayt.
((Sequoia))
[Image: a 6-striped horizontal flag; top 3 stripes are shades of light blue, bottom 3 striped are shades of pink]
This is a flag for someone is who gai and strayt for girls and enbies!
The flag is explicitly meant for any nonbinary person (no matter what their alignment) who feels their attraction to girls and enbies to be both gai and strayt.
((Sequoia))
[Image: a 6-striped horizontal flag; dark pinkish purple, purple, light pink, light yellow, light purple, dark lavender purple]
This is a flag for someone is who gai and strayt for girls and enbies!
The flag is explicitly meant for any nonbinary person (no matter what their alignment) who feels their attraction to girls and enbies to be both gai and strayt.
((Sequoia))
[Image: a 6-striped horizontal flag; dark pinkish purple, purple, light pink, light yellow, light purple, dark lavender purple]
This is a flag for someone is who gai and strayt for guys and enbies!
The flag is explicitly meant for any nonbinary person (no matter what their alignment) who feels their attraction to guys and enbies to be both gai and strayt.
((Sequoia))
[Image: a 6-striped horizontal flag; light purple, purple, blue, navy blue, dark yellow, yellow]
This is a flag for someone is who gai and strayt for guys and enbies!
The flag is explicitly meant for any nonbinary person (no matter what their alignment) who feels their attraction to guys and enbies to be both gai and strayt.
((Sequoia))
[Image: a 6-striped horizontal flag; light purple, purple, blue, navy blue, dark yellow, yellow]
Fluxodumgender: A Trauma Based, fluid gender where you don’t/can’t keep the same identity for too long, and you have to change it or else you get uncomfortable/Distressed.
The name comes from the latin words Fluxus (“flow / flowing” ) and Incommodum ( “Discomfort” ) — thank you so much @foxby-femby-enby for helping me name the term and giving me advice on the flags! I designed the flags, and I hope they look nice. Please give me constructive criticism on them, I’d love to know how I could get better.
Below are the flags for sunsets of the gender:
Fluxodumgirl: where the gender(s) you go through are feminine in some way:
Fluxodumboy: Where the gender(s) you go through are masculine in some way:
Fluxodumenby: where the gender(s) you go through are neutral/nb in some way:
Fluxodumxeno: where the gender(s) you go through are xenic in some way:
Fluxodumbigender: where you go through/experience two genders at once:
Before I start tagging blogs, I am more than happy to make flags for other subsets that I haven’t gotten to yet (such as Demi- genders, which I want to get to at some point.) I hope somebody finds comfort in this identity, as I do.
Mewgender: a mythical and unique gender identity with psychic energy/abilities and an association with genesis [creation/(pen)ultimacy/formation/metaphorical birth/root], related to pokemon mew.
Bissex (or bisexed): having two or more sexes or conceptualizing yourself with a mixture of two or more sexes.
These sexes can be distinct from each other or similar, they don’t need to be essentially penile vulvarian (testicular ovarian or phallic vaginal), it may also include xenogonad(s) or xenogenitalia(s).
Bissex includes bigenitalia, bigonadal, ambissex (ambisexed, ambigonadal and ambigenitalia), they can be altersex &/or intersex (such as ovotesticular (ovotestis, “true hermaphroditism”), double genitalia (dissex/disex, diphallic (PD, diphallia), uterus didelphys (vaginal duplication)) and ambiguous genitalia).
Not to be confused with (am)bigender-ness or (am)bisexuality. Reminder this is regardless of genders and transness.
The closest would be Junoian (which is mlm, mlnb, nblm, nblnb, but occasionally nblw and mlw) and Amaryllian (which is mlm, nblm, nblnb, and very rarely nblw, but never wlw).
If someone has coined this term, though, please do leave a comment to help! I just couldn’t find one.
Verangender: a gender that seems to shift/change the moment it’s identified; i.e., you see a new gender label that seems to fit you, so you adopt the label, but soon after that it is uncomfortable and no longer fits your gender experience no matter how well it might have fit before; you might have a very stable, constant gender experience up until it’s identified
Can be used as a solidarity flag or personal identity, i.e. transgenderqueer biromantic, bisexual queer transgender, transexpressive queeric bigender. Note this isn’t the same as LG-exclusionism, it’s an acronym variation, also used as BTQIAP+/BTQA+. Review your conceptions if you consider offensive BTQ+ termic existence but not LG/GLOW/GLS initials.
BPQUA+ Pride Flag
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It can be used as solidarity or as for identity, as in poly-uingender bipan quoi-aroace, polyagender aro-pancurious biasexual multi-questioning unsure m-spectral ply a-spectrum. The Q isn’t so used as queer in this case. The U as in QUILTBAG & LGBTQIU+ stands for unidentified too. Based on @bpqua url.
Can be used as a solidarity flag or personal identity, i.e. transgenderqueer biromantic, bisexual queer transgender, transexpressive queeric bigender. Note this isn’t the same as LG-exclusionism, it’s an acronym variation, also used as BTQIAP+/BTQA+. Review your conceptions if you consider offensive BTQ+ termic existence but not LG/GLOW/GLS initials.
BPQUA+ Pride Flag
[Image: a 14-striped horizontal flag; green, light green, white, light purple, purple, hot pink, dark lilac purple, dark blue, pink, yellow, light blue, grey-blue, green, light orange]
It can be used as solidarity or as for identity, as in poly-uingender bipan quoi-aroace, polyagender aro-pancurious biasexual multi-questioning unsure m-spectral ply a-spectrum. The Q isn’t so used as queer in this case. The U as in QUILTBAG & LGBTQIU+ stands for unidentified too. Based on @bpqua url.
Hmm… okay, so I can give you some possibilities based on your description.
First, gender: now, how you dress doesn’t necessarily influence your gender, BUT you did say that you don’t always feel like a girl. Based on this statement, I take it that you do still feel like a girl sometimes, though. So it sounds like you may be some form of genderfluid, where you are fluid between being a girl and some other gender(s). Perhaps androgyne?
Orientation: it sounds like you’re panromantic, with a preference for girls. Since you aren’t sure, you may be asexual. But even if you aren’t, it sounds like you’re at least somewhere on the asexual spectrum, so I’d start looking into asexual spectrum orientations and see if you feel like any may fit you more.
Did something different than the usual flag mashup for this because of what all needed to be incorporated. Took inspiration from each flag (bands, colors, alternating dark and light) to make the flag look more harmonized.
~mod light
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I just organized all moodboards by @queer-sighs into one post. Affectional/affectionate/amative relationships/reactions/emotions/feelings in sequence: sex, romance, senses & platonicity.
The signs are approximation (≈) for ambivalence, minus (−) for repulsion/aversion/negativity, circle (○) for neutrality/indifference and plus (+) for favorability/positivity, sexually/romantically/sensually/platonically.
A gender that is best described by an emoji. This does notmean that your gender is an emoji, but it is simply best communicated via an emoji. A subset of Visigender/Pictogender. The prefix emoji may be replaced by the emoji itself; an example would be 🦎gender: a gender best communicated by the 🦎 emoji.
The colours are representative of the bright colours usually found in emojis, such as yellow which is usually used for face & expression emojis.
The specific emoji (if there is one), such as 🦎, can be placed in the middle of the white diamond, or the dominant colour of the emoji (e.g. green) can replace the white.
It could also be a subgender of lettragender/digigender/sentigender (symbologender?) or objectumgender I guess.
A gender that is best described by an emoji. This does notmean that your gender is an emoji, but it is simply best communicated via an emoji. A subset of Visigender/Pictogender. The prefix emoji may be replaced by the emoji itself; an example would be 🦎gender: a gender best communicated by the 🦎 emoji.
The colours are representative of the bright colours usually found in emojis, such as yellow which is usually used for face & expression emojis.
The specific emoji (if there is one), such as 🦎, can be placed in the middle of the white diamond, or the dominant colour of the emoji (e.g. green) can replace the white.
It could also be a subgender of lettragender/digigender/sentigender (symbologender?) or objectumgender I guess.
A gender identity that is related to, or adjacent to, Sistagirl / Sistergirl or Brothaboy / Brotherboy, but does not fit all roles or aspects of that gender. Combination of Indigender & Sistagirl / Sistergirl / Brotherboy / Brothaboy.
Indigender: Specific to people of indigenous cultures with culture-specific gender identities. A gender identity that is related to, or adjacent to, a gender specific to one’s culture, but that does not fit all roles or aspects of that gender.
Brothaboy / Brotherboy: A transmasculine identity specific to Aboriginal Australians and Torres Strait Islanders.
Sistagirl / Sistergirl:A transfeminine identity specific to Aboriginal Australians and Torres Strait Islanders.
A gender identity that is related to, or adjacent to, Sistagirl / Sistergirl or Brothaboy / Brotherboy, but does not fit all roles or aspects of that gender. Combination of Indigender & Sistagirl / Sistergirl / Brotherboy / Brothaboy.
Indigender: Specific to people of indigenous cultures with culture-specific gender identities. A gender identity that is related to, or adjacent to, a gender specific to one’s culture, but that does not fit all roles or aspects of that gender.
Brothaboy / Brotherboy: A transmasculine identity specific to Aboriginal Australians and Torres Strait Islanders.
Sistagirl / Sistergirl:A transfeminine identity specific to Aboriginal Australians and Torres Strait Islanders.
Perissos-: experiencing high-intensity or overwhelming levels of attraction due to neurodivergence. Alternative to hypersexual.
Asthen-: an orientation which describes someone who feels “less” in regard to their orientation, but in a way that does not necessarily involve who they are attracted to. For example, someone who feels sexual attraction weakly, or has such a low sex drive that who they are attracted to does not feel relevant to them. Alternative to hyposexual.
A gender that is related to, connected to, associated with and/or influenced by lycanthropes in some way. Can be used by both lycanthropes / therians / werewolfkins etc. and non-therians. Name taken from the word lycanthrope and the Faoladh, a werewolf of Irish folklore.
A gender that is related to, connected to, associated with and/or influenced by lycanthropes in some way. Can be used by both lycanthropes / therians / werewolfkins etc. and non-therians. Name taken from the word lycanthrope and the Faoladh, a werewolf of Irish folklore.
Generiquinity/Genderiquinity (gender genericity/genericness): specifying neither masculine nor feminine; epicene; relating to gender, vaguely/imprecisely; a genderique identity, which is unspecified, or better defined as generic or general; or a genderic term that specifies neither male nor female.
Being demiparented/semiparented/semiparental means basically you are partially parented and partly nonparental/unparented. Similar to half orphan, but in this case it’s demiorphan/semiorphan, in the sense that even if you had multiple or double parents you were not fully (non)parented by them. But it can also be applied to single parents
Some gender-based multiparental pride flags, not essentially homoparental ones (see familial rainbow flag for it).
Multipaternal Flag
Multipaternity: having multiple fathers; a paternal multiparenthood.
Multimaternal Flag
Multimaternity: having multiple mothers; a maternal multiparentality.
Multizaternal/Multinaternal Flag
Multizaternity/Multinaternity: having multiple renthers / ceteroparents (neutral/N-gender/non-binary parents); a zaternal/naternal multiparenting.
Also known as pluriparental (plurimaternal/pluripaternal, plurinaternal/plurizaternal) & polyparental (polymaternal/polypaternal, polyzaternal/polynaternal).
(Name)gender A gender that is best described by one’s name, good for those who aren’t sure what they identify as yet but definitely know that they aren’t cis. It can be used as a catch-all term or a specific identifier, e.g. johngender, janegender, (your name here)gender, etc .
(Pronoun)gender A placeholder-type gender for if you are unsure what you identify as just yet. a way of being non-specifically nonbinary. i.e, theygender, aergender, (your pronoun/s here)gender
(Name)gender A gender that is best described by one’s name, good for those who aren’t sure what they identify as yet but definitely know that they aren’t cis. It can be used as a catch-all term or a specific identifier, e.g. johngender, janegender, (your name here)gender, etc .
(Pronoun)gender A placeholder-type gender for if you are unsure what you identify as just yet. a way of being non-specifically nonbinary. i.e, theygender, aergender, (your pronoun/s here)gender
Trandrogyne (trangi): describing a transversed androgyne; feeling your gender androgyny is tied to transverseness/transversality; or relatively mixing a travestic androgynous gender experience (transvestic in the sense that your lingender identity is a result of transversion).
Similar to transdrogynous and genderpunk. Mixing tra- with androgyne.
-ap
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Gay Straight (gaight boygirl): identifying as a straight woman and gay man, either fluidly or simultaneously. Gayght girlboy basically stands for mascic male-female individuals and any other ambigender/binaryfluid folk attracted to men.
Based on straight lesbian flag, mixing colors from gay man (proposed) and straight female flags. See also: calderaic (strayt gai), viramoric julietian (diamoric wlm), duaric achillean, toric/quadrisian (nblm), masc-/min-, ma(n)-/andro- & ametrinian/diamondian (wlm mlm).
-ap
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I identify as aliquisromantic, but I couldn’t find a proper romantic-oriented flag for it, so I decided to design a couple of my own flags for different types of aliquis- attraction based off the original flag.
Definition: Like a combination of demi- and pan-; only ever experiencing attraction on the basis of personality, without regard for gender.
Apothigenitality: describing repulsion by having any genitalia. Could be also an angenital subtype.
Aphothitesticular (apothipenile/apothipenial, apothiphallic/apothipriapic, apothiscrotal), apothivulvalic (apothivulvar(ian), apothivaginal) and apothigonadal could be forms of apothigenitalias/apothisexes.
Note that apothisex denotes intrapersonal sex repulsion, not essentially sex dysphoria or sexual aversion.
Genregender: when your gender is related to certain genre(s) of writing in some way. Also an umbrella for any genric gender identity, such as fantagender and scifigender, literary subgender examples.
Similar to bookgender, it stands more for literature’s genres than music, film/television/movie and video game genres, since there are already terms for them, such as moviegender, showgender, musigender and gamegender.
Not to be confused with gendergender. ~ap
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Enbyromantic: feeling romantic attraction to non-binary people.
Interchangeable with enbiromantic/enbromantic/enromantic, epiromantic and nbromantic. See also: ceterororomantic/skolioromantic/ceteromantic & enboric.
-ap
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As described by the Rainbowpedia wiki: Pothisexuality or iculasexuality is a sexual orientation where, like asexuality, the individual feels no sexual attraction to anyone, regardless of gender, although pothisexuals are still sex-positive.
Crysgema: a gender influenced by or related to the show Steven Universe or the world it takes place in. Can be a kin gender, an aesthetic gender, or a media gender.
The flag is based off of the colors of Garnet, Amethyst, Pearl, and Steven
Crysgema: a gender influenced by or related to the show Steven Universe or the world it takes place in. Can be a kin gender, an aesthetic gender, or a media gender.
The flag is based off of the colors of Garnet, Amethyst, Pearl, and Steven
-ap
Okay so….. I know lot of people would not feel comfortable using the term Transromantic. However as a trans man I want to reclaim it. Only for use by other trans people of course. So this is the transromantic flag I made based on other “romantic” flags I’ve see. It is the romantic attraction to trans people. Only to be used by other trans people. I’ll understand if you don’t want to post my submission but I do think its better that a trans person reclaim it than let it be a term for chasers to use.
I think you have a point. 🙂 Thanks for the submission!
Bansheekin: identifying partially or entirely as a banshee.
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Guineapigkin: identifying partially or entirely as a guinea pig.
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I can list some I know, but if none of them fit you, you’re welcome to coin a new term!
Vaguegender or Gendervague: A gender being mostly or around a certain gender (or mostly around a certain gender), but is only approximate on account of difficulty defining it due to one’s neurodivergence. Can be used like Vagueboy or Vaguegirl.
Foggender: A gender which is close to a certain gender, but cannot be directly pinpointed due to brainfog (a lack of concentration or wakefulness associated with ADHD, fibromyalgia, depression, etc.) Can be used like Fogboy or Foggirl.
Focigender: a gender identity that is influenced by or shifts with your hyperfixations/obsessions. Can be used like Fociboy or Focigirl.
Greetings, everyone! You can call me Twilight and I’m a new mod here. I prefer null pronouns and will use any others, but they/them and it/its are my preference out of all of those. I make pride flags a lot too! My sign-off is “mod light~”.
I don’t have a gender and I’m completely anattractional (asexual, aromantic, aplatonic). I’m diagnosed with major depression and a few other things.
I don’t want to give out my personal blog, but I hope I can be a really good part of this one!
For gender, you could identify something like Apothiwoman/apothifemale, nongirl//nonwoman, ungirl/unwoman, antigirl/antiwoman, which essentially can only be defined as the opposite of a girl/woman, or the rejection or repulsion of womanhood.
For orientation, you could use nowoma-, which is attraction all genders except women.
Novo-: An orientation that changes along with one’s gender. For use by individuals with fluid genders. Defining one’s particular shifts in orientation (ie what orientations correspond to the genders one experiences) is an option, but is not required.
If you’d like a more specific term, you’re welcome to coin one and submit it!
I was thinking about my most favourite myth ever – the Changeling myth, and how it’s super duper plainly about autistic kids/people.
I consider being autistic to have, as it does with all aspects of my life, my perceptions and experiences, to have an effect on my gender as well.
The word ‘Faegender’ popped into my head as Changelings are fae.
It’s fantastic, I love it!
I do a search on here, and in general, and it seems ‘genderfae’ is a thing, but not faegender.
Cool!
Except after a little more digging around I find it IS already a thing?
But I can find almost ZERO references to it anywhere.
Like, it exists, but mostly technically?
And the meaning doesn’t even have anything to do with fae?!?
“A gender that changes with the seasons, equinoxes, and moon phases.”
Thats a perfectly good and fine gender but what does it have to do with fae????
😦 I’m upset because it’s such a perfect word for what I feel(I do know about autigender, but this feels like a better fit somehow?), but it’s apparently already being used?
Except it seems like it isn’t? Like 98% of the almost zero references I found to it were posts mocking it’s existence? And the couple that weren’t seemed to be using it in the context of ‘I use fae/faer pronouns’ rather than the stated meaning of the gender?
But SOMEBODY must be using it, right, or it wouldn’t already exist!
Is this a situation where the two meanings could coexist?
Like, “an otherworldly gender connected to feelings of being fae. May be connected to being autistic/neurodivergent or may not be.”
(I’m sure plenty of people who feel a connection of some sort to fae aren’t ND so I wouldn’t want to say they couldn’t use it!)
@temp-nb-blog (I can’t believe I almost forgot to tag you!)
Sorry for the late reply!! >-<
I did some digging around too, and found that genderfae and faegender seem to be mixed up, by people who don’t use it. -Which I get, but this is a different thing.
Genderfae definition here. (Because I’m lazy and can’t explain it. xD)
And Faegender, like you said is,
“A gender that changes with the seasons, equinoxes, and moon phases.”
Which by itself I find is actually a really nice gender, though it really doesn’t have much to do with fae’s. Which confuses me too. And for this gender I think it would be best (in my, very personal opinion!,) to maybe change the name? Since it really doesn’t have anything to do with faes. But this isn’t something I can decide anyway.
The gender is certainly used by some people, otherwise it wouldn’t exist. But it might be very few, or people don’t like using it anymore, because of all the MOGAI specific hate on it. (That one can, surprisingly, easy find with just one simple google search….)
To me it also seems like the usage of the term has kinda died? Or it has gone lost, in the sea of the internet, and never really reached the light. Idk. But all posts I could see about, are either of the very beginning of this year, or around a year and two ago.
So I think it would be possible for you (and others, of course! xD ) to have the meaning you proposed and the other, older one, to co-exist. I don’t see a problem with it. But again, I can only say so much to this!
-Mod Jörunn
Interesting and useful addition/information, thank you!!! 😀
The fae connection in the original meaning was sorted out in the comments, and I get it now.
Even though they come from different places, both are meaningful~ I’m now sure they can co-exist! 😀
I made a slightly edited version of the flag, incorporating a muted purple stripe at the top to match the aesthetic of the flag – and keep the seasons collected together and separate from it – while completing the colour set for the neurodivergent infinity symbol!
TO CLARIFY: This is NOT a replacement for Autigender
It is for those who recognise that being autistic has impacted their gender/perception of their gender, and who specifically identify with the Changeling myth(a myth that was inspired by autistic people, created to explain our existence).
I am not familiar with any, but you’re welcome to coin new terms and submit them!
i asked if someone could make a flag for buttercreamic for me but they haven’t yet… so i decided to make one myself and submit it!!!
Buttercreamic: a xenogender related to buttercream. similar to frostingic and creamic!
i made the flag based off of the frostingic flag.
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Sorry if we were the ones you asked, we didn’t get it! Thanks for the submission, though, it’s a lovely flag!
For binaries using they/them pronouns. Using themself flag by @love-all-around1223 with graph’s binary colors of gender wikia. Also within crosspronoun & PNC umbrella.
The closest I know of is Cisgenital/Protogenital, which basically just means your comfortable with your genitals at birth. If you’d like to coin a more specific term, you’re welcome to!
Beyond MOGAI Pride Flags 