Hi there! I have no problem using whichever version of the lesbian flag you’d like to use for your combo flag. If you could tell me which combo is the one you requested, I can go ahead and remake it with the lesbian flag that you want. 😀
48,XYYY syndrome: a rare Y trisomic (chromosome number) condition characterized by mild-moderate developmental delay (especially speech), normal to mild intellectual disability, large, irregular teeth with poor enamel, tall stature and acne. Radioulnar stenosis and clinodactyly have also been associated. Children generally present typical genitalia, while hypogonadism and infertility is frequently reported in adults.
Angled AroAce: a term similar to Oriented AroAce, but is for arospec aces, aro acespecs, and arospec acespecs instead of those who are strictly aroace.
Multi-: attraction to more than one gender. Can be used as an umbrella term for pan, bi, poly, omni, etc., or as a standalone term.
Angled AroAce: a term similar to Oriented AroAce, but is for arospec aces, aro acespecs, and arospec acespecs instead of those who are strictly aroace.
Deminonbinary: identifying partially as nonbinary and partially as something else. The “something else” may or may not be known.
Oriented AroAce: an aroace individual that experiences attraction that’s neither romantic nor sexual, but is significant enough to warrant a place alongside their aroace orientation.
Gai: gay, aka very not straight, for girls, boys or nbs but like, in the non-binary way. So any nb person can use it to talk about how gai they are for whoever they’re gai for.
Oriented AroAce: an aroace individual that experiences attraction that’s neither romantic nor sexual, but is significant enough to warrant a place alongside their aroace orientation.
Plantkin: identifying partially or entirely as a plant.
Gay: attraction to the same, or similar, gender(s).
Transgender: an umbrella term covering all gender identities or expressions that transgress or transcend society’s rules and concepts of gender. To be trans usually means to identify as a gender other than the gender one was assigned at birth.
Plantkin: identifying partially or entirely as a plant.
Autochoris-/Aego-: an orientation that is centered around people other than yourself. When you enjoy the idea of a particular kind of attraction, or when that attraction is being experienced by other people, but do not experience it yourself.
Aromantic: lack of romantic attraction.
Panquasiplatonic: quasiplatonic attraction to all genders, or regardless of gender.
Omni-: attraction to all genders. Sometimes interchangeable with Pan-. Some who are omni- don’t limit their attractions to humans only, and say that they could possibly be attracted to advanced sentient races (i.e. aliens) or alterhumans (ie. otherkin, therians).
Angled AroAce: a term similar to Oriented AroAce, but is for arospec aces, aro acespecs, and arospec acespecs instead of those who are strictly aroace.
Pan-: attraction to all genders, or regardless of gender.
Angled AroAce: a term similar to Oriented AroAce, but is for arospec aces, aro acespecs, and arospec acespecs instead of those who are strictly aroace.
So if you feel like you have no gender, then that sounds like you’re Agender or Genderless. Lunarian is the term for “female-aligned”, so you could use something like Lunarian Agender.
As for your orientation, there is Schro- or Schrodi-, which is to be a- and allo- at the same time. In your case, you could use something like BiSchrodisexual.
Nonbinary: any gender identity which does not fit within the binary of male and female.
Fluidflux/Fluxfluid/Genderfliux: A fluid gender identity that varies in intensity between feeling very gendered and feeling less gendered or without a gender. The gendered-feeling part of the identity is fluid.
Pansexual: sexual attraction to all genders, or regardless of gender.
Quasiromantic: someone who identifies as quasiromantic may see their attraction as non-traditional or may feel it differs from crushes, perhaps a mix between platonic, romantic, aesthetic, or somewhere completely different and/or it involves other non-traditional aspects, such as rare attraction, or attraction but non-physical, non-platonic but romantic, etc.
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Synesthegender: when one’s perception of gender is affected by their synesthesia. This could be their own gender, or gender in general.
There are five colored stripes to represent the five common senses, sight, sound, touch, taste, and smell, but together they also represent lesser known senses and concepts. White represents gender. The brighter stripes represent projective synesthesia, and the duller stripes represent associative synesthesia.
Synesthesia is most commonly known to combine senses, for example allowing someone to hear colors, but it can also affect preception of concepts and symbols such as letters, units of time, and genders.
Omnipan-/Panomni-: experiencing both pan- & omni- orientations, as if their definitions fit you or you’re a mix of both; amplusic folks fluctuating in between omni and pan identities; or split oriented people, being pan- and omni- in separated forms of attraction.
Ambiamory: being capable to enjoy being part of both monoamorous and polyamorous relationships. Not to be confused with biamory, it’s about amorous ambivalence.
Using ambi- flag format with alpha Greek letter since this word starts with a, just as like monogamous flag uses μ and polyamourous one uses π, this flag uses α. Colors from this redesign with white alluding monogamy design.
Hey there! So, there aren’t currently any orientations that specific. But there are terms similar to sapphic, achillean, etc for them.
For a woman who is (at least) attracted to men and non-binary people, that is Citrinian.
For a man who is (at least) attracted to woman and non-binary people, that is Litian.
Attraction to two or more genders can also be: Bi- (attraction to two or more genders), Poly- (attraction to many, but not necessarily all, genders), or Multi- (umbrella term for people attracted to multiple genders, but can also be used as an individual label).
There’s also Pluralian, which you can find the definition of here.
Panlesbi or Bilespan: When you’re bipan- but your attraction leans towards the lesbian side; fluctuating between bi, pan and lesbian; being separately bi-, lesb- and pan- in different forms of attraction (i.e. lesbromantic pansexual bialterous).
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Courpalian: someone who is nblnb, nblw, nblm, mlm, and mlnb, but not mlw.
The flag is a combination of the Opalian and the Courscatian flags.
Condigender: A gender that is only felt under specific circumstances. can apply to any existing gender such as girl, boy, non-binary, etc. for example, a condigirl may only feel like a girl during specific times or with specific people, a condiboy may only feel like a boy during specific times or with specific people, so on.
Mutogender: A subset of genderfluid; describes when your gender changes depending on your situation (such as location or people surrounding them).
Mirrorgender: A gender that changes to fit the people you’re around.
Ludogender: A gender which has a core, but the individual “tries on” different genders because they are mirroring another individual.
Amicagender: A gender that changes depending on which friend you’re with at the moment.
Amaregender: A gender that changes depending on who you’re in love with.
Amorgender or Erogender (or Filkogender, when regarding QPRs): When your gender changes whilst in the presence of an individual to whom you have developed a deep connection for. This could be a romantic attraction, platonic connection, a spiritual affinity or anything similar. For example: An amorboy would identify as male only to someone they felt connected too.
Copygender: A fluid gender identity that mimics the gender of someone the person has strong feelings for.
Chamgender: When your gender identity changes to match the gender or perceived gender of whomever you’re with at the time.
Reflectigender: A gender that reflects that of the identifier’s romantic/platonic/social interest.
a) Recip-: a person that feels attraction only if the other person feels the same type of attraction to them first.
Attentio-: only experiencing attraction after interest of whatever nature is shown. Different from Recip- in that the attraction doesn’t have to be the same, so someone could show romantic interest and the attentiosexual person could then feel sexual attraction to them.
There is a quote from this post here that I like when considering people who use pronouns that aren’t commonly associated with their gender.
“Pronouns are just another form of gender expression. You can use what ever pronouns you want independent of your gender. It’s like clothes and make up. Make it yours. Pronouns don’t have gender, names don’t have gender, clothes don’t have gender. Neither do body parts, interests or anything really.”
In the end, it’s just another thing to consider when respecting others. If someone tells you what their pronouns are, then that’s what their pronouns are, regardless of whether or not you understand why they use them.
Culparomantic: like idemromantic in that you feel platonic and romantic attraction at the same time. It’s like a crush and a squish simultaneously. You would be happy as a best friend or a date.
Idem-: experiencing a type of attraction as identical to platonic attraction, or feeling no difference between one type of attraction and platonic attraction, but separating the two based on other factors.
Nebula-: a feeling that one cannot distinguish between a type of attraction and platonic feelings due to neurodivergence.
Platoni-: attraction where an individual feels no distinction between romantic/sexual/alterous and platonic attraction.
Or, if you’re looking for a type of attraction suffix (like -romantic and -platonic), you’re always welcome to combine them as necessary. Something like -platoniromantic.
Demi-: an a-spectrum orientation where one does not experience attraction to a person until they have developed an emotional connection to them. There is no guarantee that this attraction will develop after an emotional connection is formed, but it is required in order for attraction to be possible.
Heteroromantic: romantic attraction towards a different gender; typically used to denote attraction to some “opposite” gender.
Demigirl: identifying partially as a girl and partially as something else.
Genderfreedom: a blurry, cloudy, whimsical, free sense of gender.
Lightgender: a colorgender that can be described by the presence of all colors at once.
Genderlight: the mutual nullification of all possible eugenders & every antigender, leaving behind potential gender seeds that would eventually bloom in infinite directions, then return to spore states, possibly blooming in the opposite directions after another period of hibernations.
No bouncy gender identity was found, feel free to coin. I guess no gender-free, genderlight or lightgender definitions describe intrinsically a free/light gender, because genderfreeness is about being free of gender, as in living without gender, and since lightgender is a colourgender, I can’t tell if it’s what you feel.
Single-Target:When you can only be attracted to one person. Refers to romantic, alterous, or qp interest only, instead of sexual attraction.
Solu-: being attracted to one person and one person alone.
Uniattraction: Feeling attraction towards one person and one person only for advanced periods of time or one’s whole lifetime. You are attracted to them regardless of their gender/sexuality/changing appearance etc.
Aroflux: fluctuating between being alloromantic/zedromantic, completely aromantic, &/or somewhere in between.
You could be unialterous, unisensual, solusensual, solualterous, uniaffectionate, uniaffectional, soluaffectional or soluaffectionate. -affectional is often used as an amorous/gamous attraction, showing affection/affectivity (affectionality) not specifying if romantic/(q)platonic. -affectionate was signified as affectionacy (amory/gamy) within aro spectrum with polyaffectionate, monoaffectionate would be also a counterpoint. ~ ap
Toyfemininity: a gender that feels like a miniature simplified “toy” replica of real feminigender; alternately, a feminine minigender identity that feels connected to toys or a toy aesthetic in some way.
Toymasculinity: a gender that feels like a miniature simplified “toy” replica of real gender masculinity; alternately, a masculine minigender that feels connected to toys or a toy aesthetic in some way.
Toygenderneutrality (toyneutrality): a gender that feels like a miniature simplified “toy” replica of real neutral-gender; alternately, a neutral-minigender identity that feels connected to toys or a toy aesthetic in some way.
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Kaoru Hakaze fictionkin: identifying partially or entirely as Kaoru Hakaze from Ensemble Stars.
Also known as neutrapanzerogender, neutrazeropangender, neutrisalight (neutrisagenderlight), zeroneutrapangender, neutropanzerogender-x, neutropanzeragender, neutrozerapangender and many other combined variations of neutrois, neutrisa/neutrix/ninx, neutral-agender, neutrogender, pangender, panzerogender, apangender, ambitrois, neutraflux & zerogender.
Yeah, that would make sense. Like someone said in the comments, sometimes the color on pins and other merch can be off. There don’t seem to be any other flags that would match that description, though of course only the person in question would know for sure.
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Nazuna Nito fictionkin: identifying partially or entirely as Nazuna Nito from Ensemble Stars.
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Maned Wolfkin: identifying partially or entirely as a maned wolf.
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Eijiro Kirishima fictionkin: identifying partially or entirely as Eijiro Kirishima from My Hero Academia.
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Antiquean: a gender that feels antique; one that’s old, dusty, and slightly fragile, but unique and sentimental.
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Makoto Yuuki fictionkin: identifying partially or entirely as Makoto Yuuki from Ensemble Stars.
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Roger Taylor factkin: identifying partially or entirely as Roger Taylor of Queen.
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Wolfdogkin: identifying partially or entirely as a wolfdog.
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Takuto fictionkin: identifying partially or entirely as Takuto from Digimon World: Next Order.
Sorry about that, I still have quite a few asks backed up in the inbox.
You could definitely go for something like “Antiquegender”. Or, if you prefer not to have the -gender suffix, you could use something like Antiquic? Antiquean? Or you could use the word Antiquated, and make it something like Antiquatic or Antiquatean.
If anyone else wants to chime in and give some ideas, please feel free to do so. 🙂
Lesbian: a woman or woman-aligned who feels attraction to other women and women-aligned.
Lunarian: someone who has similarities in identity or experience with women. It functions as a less easily abused term for “female aligned” or “feminine aligned”.
Nonbinary: any gender identity which does not fit within the binary of male and female.
Aceflux: A sexual orientation on the asexual spectrum that is defined as someone who’s sexual orientation fluctuates but always stays on the ace spectrum (ex. one day you’re demi, another day akoi, the next ace, etc) or someone who’s sexual orientation fluctuates from experiencing sexual attraction, some sexual attraction, & experiencing no sexual attraction.
Gyne-/Woma-: attraction to women and women-aligned nonbinary individuals.
Panromantic: romantic attraction to all genders, or regardless of gender.
Nonbinary: any gender identity which does not fit within the binary of male and female.
Demigirl: identifying partially as a girl and partially as something else.
Panromantic: romantic attraction to all genders, or regardless of gender.
Stellunarian/Nebularian: either simultaneously unaligned/rejecting binary alignment and female/woman-aligned, or sometimes one or the other or both
Fluidflux/Fluxfluid/Genderfliux: A fluid gender identity that varies in intensity between feeling very gendered and feeling less gendered or without a gender. The gendered-feeling part of the identity is fluid.
Aceflux: A sexual orientation on the asexual spectrum that is defined as someone who’s sexual orientation fluctuates but always stays on the ace spectrum (ex. one day you’re demi, another day akoi, the next ace, etc) or someone who’s sexual orientation fluctuates from experiencing sexual attraction, some sexual attraction, & experiencing no sexual attraction.
Deminonbinary: identifying partially as nonbinary and partially as something else. The “something else” may or may not be known.
Pansexual: sexual attraction to all genders, or regardless of gender.
Metaromantic: Only experiencing attraction that is unable to be defined by strict terms of platonic or romantic. Coined with the idea of those who only experience queer/quasiplatonic attraction in mind, but available to all who simply cannot define their attraction in ways that are typical and easily understood in the context of societal norms of attraction and relationships.
Queerplatonic (or Quasiplatonic, or Quirkyplatonic): a relationship relationship that is not romantic but involves a close emotional connection (platonic) beyond what most people consider friendship. The commitment level in a queerplatonic relationship is often considered to be similar to that of a romantic relationship. People in a queerplatonic relationship may be of any romantic or sexual orientation. A partner in a queer platonic relationship is called a zucchini; A relationship that is neither completely romantic, nor completely platonic. The members of the relationship may see it to be a mix of romantic and platonic relationships or something that transcends the two. It is popular in the aromantic community but anyone may a queer platonic partner.
Panamory: One who identifies as a person capable of relationships with many kinds of partners regardless of their sexual orientation or gender(s).
Panromantic: romantic attraction to all genders, or regardless of gender.
Fluidflux/Fluxfluid/Genderfliux: A fluid gender identity that varies in intensity between feeling very gendered and feeling less gendered or without a gender. The gendered-feeling part of the identity is fluid.
Well, it doesn’t sound like you’re completely straight to me. You could still be bisexual, but haven’t yet been able to accept your attraction to women. That’s not all that uncommon with individuals attracted to multiple genders; if you’re already attracted to the gender society deems acceptable to be attracted to, that attraction is usually easier to accept than attraction to those not deemed acceptable (So, in your instance, you are attracted to men and that is deemed acceptable, so you’ve probably had more time to mull it over than your possible attraction to women.)
Many people first discover their allosexual non-straight identity through visual representations such as porn and whatnot. There’s no need to rush into putting a label on yourself, but you’re welcome to try out any that may fit. Perhaps you could say you’re a questioning bisexual? Or bicurious? These are labels I used myself when I first questioned my own multisexual attraction, and they’re perfectly fine to use while you take your time figuring it all out.
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Homura Akemi fictionkin: identifying partially or entirely as Homura Akemi from Puella Magi Madoka Magica.
I’m so sorry to hear that, anon. Here is a post I found that goes over some possibilities of relieving dysphoria for those who can’t bind. It includes an article, and some of the comments may be helpful as well.
If anyone else has any advice for anon, please do comment!
Idk if you would feel comfortable publishing the username, so it’s the user gender-and-all, and if you scroll down you can see asks and such confirming what I said before (2/2)
That is true, but I think it’s already been reclaimed by multiple people from what I’ve seen. But you’re right, I should’ve mentioned that in case the person doesn’t want to use a term coined by a troll, so thank you for mentioning it.
Variorientation describes someone whose romantic and sexual attractions are split or otherwise mismatching, i.e. homoromantic bisexual, aromantic pansexual.
And how this variented works with aroaces? Similar to semi-SAM coined by @black-aros, variaspec happens with arospec acespec individuals that are not strictly aromantic asexual (suptilic acearos, omniasexual omniaromantic or panaromantic panasexual). E.g. demiaro asexual; aro grey-ace polysexual; fraypansexual demihomoromantic.
This flag also applies to reidem/ay varior folks and other non-SAM variaroaces. Not to be confused with oriented aroace. Flag using dark blue stripe from oriented aroace (that was used to represent shared aroace-ness), white, light yellow from alloaro flag by @arotaro and red from our aceallo(ro) flag.
Another version now with gray color instead of white.
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Izumi Sena fictionkin: identifying partially or entirely as Izumi Sena from Ensemble Stars.
I mean… gay doesn’t really specify gender, does it? You can be any gender and be gay.
There’s also Equaric, which is for anyone who is nblnb or wlw or mlm. Not necessarily exclusively, though, so that’s not quite what you’re looking for either I don’t think.
Does anyone have any possibilities? If not, you’re welcome to coin a new term. 🙂
Oriented AroAce: an aroace individual that experiences attraction that’s neither romantic nor sexual, but is significant enough to warrant a place alongside their aroace orientation.
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Narcissuskin: identifying partially or entirely as Narcissus.
I definitely think this is possible, and its likely that its part of being genderfluid or multigender in general. Dysphoria of your agab can fluctuate, and, especially during the times when you feel less dysphoric and/or more euphoric towards your agab, sometimes that causes your feelings of dysphoria/euphoria towards your other genders as well.
The term for someone who is (at least) wlm and wlnb is Citrinian, and the term for someone who is (at least) wlnb and wlw is Agatic. I don’t think there are any specific orientation terms for what you’re asking for (yet), but there is also:
Trixen-: a person who is attracted exclusively to women and non-binary people.
Toren-: a person who is attracted exclusively to men and non-binary people.
Nowoma-: attraction to all genders except women.
Noma-: attraction to all genders except men.
So you could use something like Torensexual Trixenromantic, or Nowomasexual Nomaromantic.
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Pigkin: identifying partially or entirely as a pig.
Love addiction is a proposed model of pathological passion-related behavior involving the feeling of being in love. Love and relationship addicts often feel their life has no purpose or meaning if they are not in love, or in a relationship. Being in a relationship is what makes life worth living.
Well, I’m sure some people are trolling, but there are legitimate people with what would be considered strange, unusual, or uncommon orientations and genders.
Exo-: the attraction to extraterrestrial, robotic, supernatural, or otherwise non-human life-forms, though they are typically humanoid or human-like. Falls under the Xenor umbrella.
Exo- Pride Flag
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Exosexual Pride Flag
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Exoromantic Pride Flag
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Exoplatonic Pride Flag
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Exosensual Pride Flag
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Exosocial Pride Flag
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Exoalterous Pride Flag
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Exoaesthetic Pride Flag
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Exoqueerplatonic Pride Flag
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If I’m not given a specific flag to use, I typically use whichever is the most wide-spread or well-known. But I can use any version of an identity’s flag if asked to use it. 🙂
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Sal Fisher fictionkin: identifying partially or entirely as Sal Fisher from Sally Face.
Beyond MOGAI Pride Flags 