Goopgender: a very elastic, bouncy gender that can be stretched apart. its prone to sticking to things.

Genderflux: an umbrella term for gender identities in which the gender or one’s perception of the gender’s intensity varies over time.

The you can combine juxeraflux with goopjuxera and have goopjuxeraflux. – ap

Gendermeh (or mehgender): Where you’re kinda cool with being called any gender, like whatever. You might not be that gender, you might not know your gender, but meh.

I think this is the closest. – Ap

I think this could be the opposite of transexpressive or crossdressing. Cisexpressive? I found “samepantsing” as opposed to crossdress, then I think same-expressive or samedressing could be better for this situation, akin with genderfluidity. I’m not sure if there’s a related gender coined yet. @insane-and-dying feel free to choose or coin. – ap

Abinary: genders that are completely unrelated to the gender binary. 

So 100% nonmale AND 100% nonfemale, while not essentially agender. It encompasses comgenders like maverique and neutrois. It mixes a- from agender with -binary, so it could be interpreted as a binary agender (so lack of binarity). – Ap

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What I have in mind: 

  • Ouygender: a gender that is related to trees and wood.
  • Arborgender: a xenogender related to shade, trees, and silence.
  • Treei: an abinary/nonbinary xenogender related to any type of tree.
  • Rootgender: a gender that seems to “branch off” into several other genders but also containing a “core” gender.
  • Amlaine: a gender related to almas, the tree it comes from, bitter tastes, and freshness. Feels bitter, but still pleasant.
  • Fluctuatiogender: a gender that flows like the waves of the ocean, and strongly connected to wood and trees.

  • Silvigender: hat’s refered to wood. [you] feel like [you] can understand trees, like [you] know what they feel and [you’ve] got this feeling [you’ve] got sap into [your] veins.
  • Lavsnøine: a gender related to snow on branches, trees, mountains covered in snow, glaciers, snowmen, snowballs, light fluffy snow, air, and winter. Feels cold, rocky, and hard.

If you don’t feel represented enough, feel free to coin a gender. 🙂 – ap

Check these: 

  • Frayromantic: experiencing romantic attraction to individuals they are less familiar with, and lose interest when they get to know the person. The opposite of demi-.
  • Singuluromantic: Only capable of experiencing one type of attraction towards a person – for example, not feeling sexual attraction to the people you are romantically attracted to, etc.
  • Kenaromantic: only feeling romantically attracted to a certain individual when you don’t feel sexual attraction to them.
  • Versexual/Versromantic: to feel no sexual attraction for those whose one feels romantic attraction to/vice versa.

Check also ansequence-, but there’s no -romantic version yet, and the opposite of amante-. ~ Ap

Libro- Pride Flag

[Image: a 5-striped horizontal flag with stripes in descending order: dull green, light brown, yellow-brown, very light orange, orange.]

Libro-: attraction to books and/or the text written within them.

-Fy

Spicegender Pride Flag

[Image: a 7-striped horizontal flag with stripes in descending order: dark brown, brown, dark tan, light yellow, tan, red, dark red.]

Spicegender: a gender sprinkled on top of one of more genders that makes the overall identity more bearable/flavorful in the eyes of the spicegender individual. Can have sub-catagories, such as gingergender, cinnamongender, etc. depending on how it is perceived by the spicegender individual.

-Fy

Linromantic Pride Flag

Image: a 7-striped horizontal flag: dark lavender, lavender, light lavender, dark lavender, light lavender, lavender, dark lavender; there is a heart in the middle with the colors within it darker than outside it.]

Linromantic: romantic attraction to androgyny and androgynous-presenting individuals, though not necessarily only androgyne-identifying people.

-Fy

Can you be intersex without actually having sex characteristics of both male and female? Like can you identify with it? Im v v confused

So an intersex person is born with sexual anatomy, reproductive organs, and/or chromosome patterns that do not fit the typical definition of male or female; this doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to have sex characteristics typically characterized as both male and female to be intersex. 

However, you still have to somehow fit under that definition to be considered intersex, although the lines drawn on who does or does not fit are not entirely clear (as in the case with PCOS, etc.). In those cases, it’s not uncommon for the person to decide whether or not they want to consider themselves intersex. But that is the only case I know of where one can choose; people not born intersex cannot choose to be intersex. 

You can also look up altersex, which is similar but not quite the same as intersex.

So I saw this thing that said ‘video-femsexual’ and was wondering if you would be able to tell me what it was.

It sounds like a combination of Femsexual and Videosexual.

Femsexual: sexual attraction to women or femininity. Also known as Gynesexual/Gynosexual.

Videosexual: an interest in and/or appreciation for video, particularly home media with high picture quality; an inactive lifestyle characterized by activities that involve spending time in front of a screen, such as television, video games and the Internet.

okay I have a guestion about genderfae. What is the difference between being genderfae and being a demigirl?

Genderfae: a form of genderfluidity that never encompasses feeling masculine.

Demigirl: identifying partially as a girl, and partially as something else.

So there are a few differences here. Demigirl isn’t necessarily a fluid gender, while Genderfae is, by definition, a fluid gender. Also, while Genderfae can never encapsulate any male or masculine gender, you can be in some way masculine or male as a Demigirl, though it is not required. 

Demigirl only means to be partially a girl; the other part(s) can be pretty much anything else, while Genderfae has a specific definition about what it can be. Hopefully that helped!

Do you think there’s a term for a gender that feels cloud-like?

There are:

Cloudgender: A gender which can’t be fully realized or seen clearly due to depersonalization/ derealization disorder. A Neurodivergent gender.

Nubegender: A gender that is very similar to the movement of clouds. Some days, one’s gender is completely clear, similar to being genderless. However, formations of different attributes will float into one’s gender, moving across until out of sight, like clouds in the sky. Sometimes, these formations look like certain genders, and sometimes they are fuzzy and abstract. Sometimes they cover your whole gender experience and overwhelm it.

Skygender: A feeling of gender that varies in clarity. One day it may be clear and easy to read and process, but then it may cloud over and become confusing.

Stratogender: Comes from the prefix “strato”, which means “layer”. stratogender would be when your gender has different layers. It could also possibly be used for cloud/skykin, since “strato” is like “stratosphere”

Steamgender: A gender that is light, airy, and steamy. May be hard to pinpoint, feeling nebulous like a cloud.

I was wondering if there was a flag or sexuality for being sexually attracted to medusa with worm on a string hair

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There is not, but there should be because that’s a mood if I’ve ever heard one.

-Fy

So I’ve coined a kinda weird gender bc I’ve felt it lately (This isn’t satire btw), sometimes my gender relates to really specific stuff. And I don’t know if you know the image called “the backrooms”, but my gender relates to that. Because that image gives me a weird feeling of nostalgia and fear at the same time. I know it sounds weird and some might think I’m joking, but actually a lot of my genders relate to stuff like this (I’m also eldritchine), I don’t know what to call it tough

This one?

Well, the obvious prefix to use would be something like Backroom. So like Backroomgender, Backroomic, Backroominine, Backroominian… something like that. 

Anyone have any good ideas to help anon? 🙂

Are there any specific bigender labels for a blend of female and male? Mostly, someone important to me is triggered by that word so I wanted to see if looking into specifics would bring about a new label that not only didn’t trigger my important person but maybe was even more appropriate for me

Some options are:

Androgyne: A gender identity where a person experiences a blending of genders, or feels that their identity is in between genders. Usually, but not always, people who identify as androgyne feel that their identity is a blending of male and female, or somewhere between those two genders. Androgyne people may or may not choose to present androgynously.

Ambigender: A feeling of two genders simultaneously, without fluidity/shifting. May be used synonymously, in some cases, with bigender.

Half-binary: Gender identity is partially binary and partially nonbinary AND/OR Identifying at least partially as one or both binary genders, yet feeling disconnected from them due to self doubt, or due to neurodivergence making ones gender difficult to understand.

Hope that helps!

Can you suggest some alternative labels for Musegender? (A gender coined with artists/writers/roleplayers/actors etc in mind. A fluid gender influenced by the gender(s) of the characters you are drawing/writing/roleplaying/etc.) I’m not comfortable with this exact label due to certain reasons, so I’m looking for alternatives. Thank you

There don’t seem to currently be any alternative names for it, but perhaps using a synonym for muse? Maybe something like Inspiragender? From inspiration.

I don’t mean any disrespect, but why should people use other neo-pronouns if they/them/themselves is already a thing? And do you consider non-binary individuals apart of the transgender// do you think neo-pronouns effects the trans community in a negative way?

Should? I mean… you don’t have to use them for yourself if you don’t want to, but there is a very large variety of non-binary genders out there and an even larger amount of non-binary individuals who don’t all really fit or feel comfortable just all using they/them. As for using the pronouns that others have designated for themselves, well that’s just plain courtesy to use them.  

Non-binary individuals are indeed transgender, and neo-pronouns don’t hurt anybody. 

What do you do about feeling scared to tell people your real pronouns,out of fear that they’ll react poorly ?

Usually I would test the waters a bit, just to see if they would react as poorly as you think; so perhaps bring up a “friend” who uses those pronouns. If it’s as bad as you were thinking, then unfortunately it may be better just not to say anything. Your safety is first priority, and if these people aren’t the sort you can cut out of your lives (like maybe it’s your parents and you rely on them), then sometimes you just have to focus on survival. It’s horrible, of course, but it’s better than putting you in a bad position.  

I’m very confused what differences there are between gender non-conforming/ gender variant, third gender, nonbinary/ genderqueer/ genderflud/ bigender/ agender/ gender neutrois/ trans/ transgender and all see them as part of one big ‘gender non-conforming/ transgender’ group. I would like to learn the differences, as I’m trying to be open minded (transphobic household).

Okay so, to start, we would put gender non-conforming and transgender into separate groups. Gender non-conforming refers to people who do not follow other people’s ideas or stereotypes about how they should look or act based on their gender. Transgender means to identify as a gender other than the gender one was assigned at birth. So you could be a non-transgender person (cisgender) and still be gender non-conforming; an example would be butch lesbians. 

Under the transgender umbrella, we have binary and non-binary/genderqueer: binary refers to trans men and trans women, and non-binary/genderqueer refers to people who have a gender that is somehow not fully man or woman. 

Agender, neutrois, bigender, genderfluid, and many others are considered non-binary/genderqueer identities, as they are not fully man or woman. Agender means to have no gender, neutrois is a neutral gender, bigender means to have two genders, and genderfluid means to be fluid between multiple genders. 

Hopefully that helps clear things up a bit!

what’s the difference between comgender and pangender?

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Comgender just means that you have a gender; so you are not agender. You could be any kind of gender as long as you have one. Or multiple ones. As long as you are not genderless, you can use the term comgender to describe yourself.

Pangender means to have all genders that are within one’s experience (race, neurotype, kintype, etc.). 

Pangender people could consider themselves comgender, but not all comgender people will be pangender.

-Fy

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(Com)bxy: A gender that is both (com)boy and agender/no gender.

Schrödigender: A gender which you can both feel and not feel.

~ap

I’m assuming you meant “not mlw”. ~ ap

Courpalian: someone who is nblnb, nblw, nblm, mlm and mlnb, but not mlw.

Icularomantic/Pothiromantic: being aromantic, but being open to be in romantic relationships; not feeling romantic attraction but open to romantic acts/relations associated with that type of attraction. 

See also pliliromantic and romance-favorable. – AP

I think it’s up to them to consider themselves MOGAI/LGBTQIA+ or not. Maybe they can fall under q-spec or queeric umbrellas.

– Ap

Aco-/Acor-: someone who experiences attraction but feel unable to act on these feelings because of misconceptions about romance, negative events, or anything else that does not allow one to feel feelings like these.

I think this is the more close. – Ap

Post-ium: Having a connection to your Assigned Gender At Birth simply by virtue of it being your AGAB.

There’s also some others related to neurodivergency: expelgender, obligender.

– Ap

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Fawngender or Deergender: A gender that is explored through timidity and caution, but blossoms into something natural and cute. 

Introgender: When you feel your gender more when alone. Comes from the term introvert, but you don’t have to be one to use it. [There’s no flag]

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I don’t know any sexuality related to shyness and introversion. – ap

。・:*:・゚★,。・:*:・゚☆BPD System Flag! 。・:*:・゚★,。・:*:・゚☆

A flag for systems that came about thru BPD!! (◕▿◕✿)

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Thanks for the submission!

-Fy

maybe an odd question but! is there a word for “crushes” but, for a/greyromantic people? the only thing i saw other than a crush is a squish, but i don’t fully understand that word either. thank you! ^^;

Here’s a helpful diagram:

For those that can’t see the image, the main takeaway is that:

a sexual crush is called a “smush”

a platonic crush is called a “squish”

an aesthetic crush is called a “swish”

a sensual crush is called a “lush”

a queerplatonic crush is called a “plush” or a “squash”

and an alterous crush is called a “mesh”

(1/2) Not necessarily a gender, but somewhat related to the trauma-subset of MOGAI: Scandal-(alternatively Rumor- or Bullying-)changed [gender/attraction] – when a scandal, rumor(s) or bullying (most likely regarding regarding your preferences (attraction, presentation…) has altered the relationship you have to your body, the way you present yourself or makes you continuously uncomfortable indentifying as what you identify as.

(2/2 “scandal-changed”) I.e. after a scandalous discovery of ones bisexuality rejecting attraction to the same sex as a result; having been rumored to be trans and due to bullying feeling like one has to reject behaviour associated with the other genders. – If you feel that this applies to you and has a negative impact on you, I urge you to talk to someone about it. I hope to help you find out, who you are, but don’t dismiss the negative effects of trauma because you have a name for the symptom.

Hello, I have an issue, I’m in the transmed community but really wanna use a set of neopronouns, what should I do? I’m not a troll and really want your help.

I’m not sure what you want me to tell you. Obviously the transmed community can be pretty judgmental about using neopronouns, so it likely won’t be received well, but I think you should use whatever feels most comfortable to you. If it bother you too much to let them find out, then maybe only tell a select few people you feel you can trust not to mock your pronouns. 

okay so i know i like girls. but i also look at boys and non-binary people and think they are cute but I’m not sure if i would have sec with them? do you have any idea what that might be?

Well, you might feel differently attracted to them. Would you want to date boys and non-binary people? Then you might be romantically attracted to them. Or would you maybe want more of a long-term but platonic relationship? Perhaps platonic or queerplatonic attraction. Do you just think they look nice but you wouldn’t want to touch them or be in any relationship with them? Then maybe it’s just aesthetic attraction. There are also other options, but that’d be a start. 🙂

wheb coined, genderflor was defined as to fluidly experience all genders except male and female, yet there are two later posts and the wikia that state that genderflor is to fluidly experience genders that are not male, female, masc or fem. these are very different things and im not sure which is correct? i would guess the coining definition would be most accurate but im not sure if the definition changed. can you clarify and maybe this post can get some reblogs to help clear up the confusion

This was the original coining post, but I think it was probably changed to the second defintion you gave because Genderfae and Genderfaun themselves are often described as (taking Genderfaun as the example) fluid gender that never encompasses being feminine, or a fluid gender that never encompasses being female/feminine. 

It can be pretty confusing due to the conflation of feminine and masculine with man and woman, which is still often used in trans terms (ie. Transmasc and Transfem). 

So I think the second definition would be the one to go by, imo.

do you know of a term describing gender alignment and/or presentation that is fluid but without the gender itself necessarily being fluid? for example I’m agender but I sometimes feel aligned with masculine, feminine or abinary genders, and the way I feel most comfortable presenting changes as well. despite this, I never feel that I actually have any gender.

Transexpressive: similar to genderfluid, except instead of one’s gender changing, their gender expression changes while their gender stays static.

I saw you had an ask about apocasexual (i think it was?) and i have something that’s kind of like it? It’s for gender, though. I was thinking of apocagender, a gender that feels chaotic and imminent, or feels futile, like if the world was ending in an apocalypse. It could be made feminine or masculine, like apocaboy or apocagirl. I was inspired by the term apocasexual, but I don’t know if that would be confusing, with two apoca- terms?

A lot of prefixes are used for orientation and gender, so it’s no problem at all. New term!

Hello! I’m not sure if one has already been made, but I thought I’d try my hand at a nonbinary asexual flag! Thoughts?

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It… look familiar somehow, like another flag might already look like that. But I can’t put my finger on what it might be right off the top of my head. I like it though!

-Fy

complaisgender, from complaisance = a gender heavily influenced by others; changing to fit the expectations and desires of others.

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Wonderful, thanks for the submission!

-Fy

My design for a Plutokin flag! For when your kintype is the planet Pluto! It’s based on the plutongender flag!

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Thanks for the submission!

-Fy

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So, I saw the serendibitian flag and I wasn’t a super huge fan of it, so I tweaked it.

The first is just reordering the original stripes to be more pleasing to the eye

the second has the saturation increased

the third has a blue tint to make the colors blend better

I’m personally a fan of the second, but y’all are free to use whichever one you like

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Awesome, thanks for the submission!

-Fy

I have internet again!

Hey followers! Hope everyone’s doing well. Sorry I missed most of pride month. And MOGAI month. I completely lost my wifi connection and didn’t have the money at the time to buy new stuff. But I recently started a new job and saved up enough to get back online! So I’m here. Hi.

While I will be busy with this new job, I of course will continue to try and keep up with this blog now that I can access the internet at home again. Thankfully mod AP kept it active with some flags here and there. That being said, I wasn’t able to close the inbox before I completely lost my access so we have about 400 asks!!! Which is uhhhhh quite a bit.

I’ll try to get through as much as I can, but I may end up having to clear a lot of them out just because it’s so much for just a few of us to deal with. So please keep that in mind if you don’t see your question answered or your request filled. 

As of in a little bit, I’ll be closing the ask box so we don’t get flooded with even more. Submissions, as always, will remain open. Immediately after I post this I will go through the inbox and give priority to posting submissions first and foremost. I will discuss what to do going forward with whichever mods are currently active, so things will probably continue to be pretty slow for awhile.

As always, I thank you for your patience. You’re all the best. 😀

-Fy

Demicomgender Pride Flag

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[Image: 7-stripes colored with grey, light gray, purple, white, red, light grey and gray]

Demicomgender: partially having/experiencing gender; partial comgender (polar opposite of agender).

Similar to demiagender and lackgender. ~ Ap

Polyamorish Pride Flag

Polygamish (polyamourish or polygamorish): a partnership that is mostly polyamorous, but with occasional exceptions.

Based on monogamish flag. See also: polyflexible, ambiamory. ~ Ap

Aspec Mspec Solidarity Flag!

polkapersondanceparty:

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I wanted to make a redesign/alternate version of the Aspec Mspec flag the lovely Arokai made, since I wasn’t a big fan of the colours.

This flag is for people who are both Aspec (Ace/Aro Spectrum), and Mspec (Multi-spec, ie: Bi, Pan, Poly), or, people who are Aspec showing support for Mspec and vice versa! 

Colour Symbolism?

Each colour is for the five most common identities! I picked ones that where close to the one on the flag and fitted together nicely. (I made Aro yellow because,,, yellow looks nice,,)

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– Ap

Transhet Pride Flag

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[Image: trans flag (blue-pink-white-pink-blue) behind a circle with the hetro- flag (6 stripes of gradients between black, grey and white)]

Transhet (trans + het): being transgender and hetero-.

Straight Transgender Pride Flag

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[Image: the trans flag with the middle white stripe replaced with the straight flag vertically]

For being trans and straight.

~ Ap

Aro Pride Flags

[Images: 4-stripes colored with black, dark green, green and grey]

Aro is shorthand for aromantic, although some people think aro is more inclusive than just aromanticity alone.

I based the concept of the flag by InspectorCaracal via tootplanet.space, even though that white in aromantic flag does not mean alloromanticism/allies, it represented qplatonic relationships, aesthetic and platonic attractions, but this isn’t necessary for being aro.

In the ace flag, black represented attraction nullity, so the lack of it, in the aro flags this used to represent sexuality spectrum (sexual orientations) OR alloromantics rejecting traditional ideas of romance. So now I made another one without black:

[Images: 4-stripes colored with green, light green, white and gray]

Darker green (the opposite color of red, a color typically associated with romanticism) represents the aromanticism while the lighter one the aro spectrum, as well as grey-aromantics and demiromantics (amative orientations), but could also represent the aro-spec community as in the asexual purple.

Note that I put two greens to not iterate with the naturist and neutrois flags. – Ap

Butch Pride Flag

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Butchness: describing an unfeminine identity or a gender expression linked to unfemininity, a slang commonly adopted by GNC women and LGBTQIA people.

Seems that this flag is regardless of orientation, although this word is historically associated with lesbianity (before bisexuality and homosexuality became separated), a straight woman could be butch depending the definition.

Synonyms include mannish, masc, tomboy and manly. See other versions: enbutch, bi/pan/nb, lesbian, bi, stag/tomcat, mech, pan, drake/dragon,

Source: OpenMinded. – Ap

Deviant Pride Flag

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[Image: three stripes darkly colored with purple, black and red]

Deviance or deviancy: one who deviates, specially from norms of social behavior; characterized by deviation from an usual expectation or a societal standard; departing from patterns or accepted standards.

Deviant is used as a slur in many languages, sometimes back-forming other words. This isn’t intended to represent unethical actions, since deviate sexuality may be juridically conceptualized in some places of the world. Not to associate this with words perverted, violator, divertor, detoured, degenerated or devious.

See also: variance, queer, heteroclite, dissident, divergent, nonconformist, free spirited, diverse.

Etymology comes from dēviā (out of the road), but in Portuguese viado alternatively derives veado, transviado (transversed) or desviado/desviante, meaning deer which derive vēnor (to hunt, from weyh- or wenh₁-), another back-formation for Venus (venia, indulgence, to strive/wish, love).

– Ap

HAPPY NONBINARY DAY EVERYBODY!!

nonbinarywiki:

It’s today! Today is the day! If you identify as nonbinary in any way, today is your day! No matter your identity, your presentation, or your “closet state”, you are valid —don’t let others tell you otherwise.

Enjoy your day, and don’t forget to keep smiling! 🙂

– Ap

genderqueerpositivity:

July 14th is International Nonbinary People’s Day.

(Image description: a black square background, text in the colors of the nonbinary pride flag reads “International Nonbinary People’s Day”, below the is a yellow transgender symbol, and to the right are the words “July 14” in purple.)

– Ap

genderqueerpositivity:

July 14th is International Nonbinary People’s Day.

(Image description: a black square background, text in the colors of the nonbinary pride flag reads “International Nonbinary People’s Day”, below the is a yellow transgender symbol, and to the right are the words “July 14” in purple.)

– Ap

Hipstersexual Pride Flag

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Hipstersexuality: one who believes that real relationships are too mainstream; being sexually hipster, someone who tries to be outside of the cultural mainstream.

A reclaimable slur used against pansexuals and pomosexuals. ~ Ap

Transvestite Pride Flag

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Transvestite is an historical word and has been used before the transsexual coinage, often to describe transgender people grouping them with cross-dressers and drags (drag queens & kings), specially trans women and she/her gays. Description shares transvestic, cross-dressing and cross-dreaming.

In English it’s seen as derogatory nowadays. -vestite derives -vestire, trans- meaning across as in transverse. Although it reminds travesti (as well as transvestigênere (transvestigender) and travestilidade (travestility)) from romance languages, it’s not essentially the same because West Iberian classifies travesti as a gender category.

This is also a word used in the Street Transvestite Action Revolutionaries (STAR), which was a gay, gender non-conforming and transgender activist organization.

~ Ap

Transvestic Pride Flag

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Transvestility or Transvesticity: related to transvesting; to wear clothes traditionally associated with the other/opposite/different/dissimilar gender; dressing typically as your non-gender or atypically your AGAB transversely.

It’s more formal and rare than cross-dress, transvested is often accompanied by fetishism but transvestic could be a useful adjective. It’s also the back-formation of transvestite.

[Image: a two-striped flag colored with trans pink and blue, with an inverted T in the first stripe and a V in the last one, both letters white mixed alluding the travesti n-b symbol]

~Ap

Autoerotic Pride Flag

Autoeroticity: feeling arising excitement generated by physically stimulating or fantasizing about one’s own body; concerning or arousing sensual desire centered on yourself; self-amatory; erotic activity involving oneself or pertaining to sexual satisfaction obtained without a partner.

Colors basing the homoerotic flag. ~ Ap

Bisexous Pride Flag

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Bisexuous or Bisextrous: an umbrella term for NOT being gay NOR straight; a non-dual orientation; not homo not hetero.

Historically bisexuality encompassed experiences like that, but since nowadays there’s no specific term for this case, we can rename this as bisexous (bidentrous or biromous). I’d better name it as epixous, epidentrous, episextrous or episexous, but then it’s a new word.

Based on labels from West Iberian: ambisséxuo, ambiséxuo, which are etymological synonyms/hyponyms of epiceno (epicene). Although it seems contradictory since they mean ambiguity, so being exactly both sides, that’s why we don’t use ambi- as in ambisextrous or ambidentrous.

See also: monodissident, non-monosexual, pomo-. – Ap

Freak Pride Flag

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[Image: a flag with an inverted triangle at the front and three stripes colored with orange, lime green and fancy pink]

Freak Pride is associated with celebrating body modification culture, diversity, bodies and their subjectivity, promoting corporeal alteration and fomenting the different uses of the body.

Renaming the word freak meaning esquisito, esquisita or esquisite in Portuguese, as synonymous to being abnormal, aberration, weird, strange, odd and monster, similar to queer as a reclaimed word.

Read more ~Ap

Heteroqueer Pride Flag

Hetroqueer or Heteroqueer: describing queer folks that are hete(r(o))-/het(r(o))-.

– Ap

pantasticenby:

Syndeamory:

Syndeamory: a form of amoryflux, gamyflux, and/or ambiamory where someone’s place on the monogamy-polyamory spectrum and/or type of nonmonogamous or polyamorous relationship(s) default to the orientations and prefferences of their partner(s).

Example: Stella is syndeamorous. Stella feels a sense of ambivalence towards relationship type until they are in one, at which point their orientation defaults to match their partner(s). If dating a monogamist, Stella would be a monogamist. If dating a nonmonogamist with a prefference for open relationships, Stella would share that prefference. If dating a polyamourous trio who wants their relationship to stay closed between the four of them, Stella would want the same. This does not mean that Stella has no standards or prefferences when it comes to who they’re dating, just that once they find the right person or people, they want what the relationship type that their partner(s) want.

Origin: Syndeamory comes from the greek σύνδεση or sýndesi, meaning connection, because syndeamorous people’s orientations are inherently connected to those of their partners.

Flag meaning: The syndeamory flag is based off of the polyamorous and monogamous flags. The black and white stripes at the top and bottom of the flag come from the monogamist flag. The black and white represent the two members of a monogamous relationship, and the set is repeated, both to illustrate that this is one of many possibilities, and to maintain a sense of symmetry to represent how a syndeamorous person’s orientation mirrors their partner(s). The blue and red stripes come from the polyamorous flag. Blue represents the openness and honesty among all partners in a polyamorous relationship, and red represents love and passion. The gray stripe represents the many possibilities that lie between monogamy and polyamory for a syndeamorous person. The greek letter, σ, or sigma is the first letter in the greek word, σύνδεση, or sýndesi, for which syndeamory was named. It’s golden color represents the value placed in relationships, and the gold stripes found around the flag represent how relationships are intertwined in every aspect of this identity.

@beyond-mogai-pride-flags @uncommongenders @lovemogai @nebularomantic @genderqueer-dream @trenderlucio

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– Ap

lgbtqiarchive:

Non-binary according to binary spectrum

This binary spectrum was perhaps created by some non-binary pals and their allies. There’s a logic behind the phrase “there are only two genders” for them, then saying non-binary is a real thing. Sounds nonsensical, right? I will try explaining!

This image shows how genderless is like the opposite of ambigender (a bigender of male-female), male the opposite of female, neutrois as a balance/equilibrium between all of them, as it’s in the middle of the whole spectrum, between all genders.

After showing the non-binary minimum, I will explain more accurate the gender fundamentalism (what I call this for now), how they sum up ambigender, neutrois and ambigender into one thing: non-binary.

Technically it makes sense that if you are ambigender or agender you’re nongender, in the hypothesis of gender being only the binary, because then you are not conforming gender. 

Keep in mind this hypothesis isn’t 100% accurate, gender non-conforming means that you don’t conform gender roles, gender isn’t just the roles, it’s your identity label. Maveriques (comgender abinary/aporagender) exist.

Obviously nonbinary isn’t only about nonconforming gender, you can conform gender roles while being nonbinary, because there are levels of conformity, and levels of variance (non-conformance). And this can be tied into corporeal gender expression or not, biosex developments or not. 

Atypical transsexuality and cis passability may be contrasted with classical transexuality at this point, atypical transness is generally linked to non binary state, while classical transgenderness linked to binary. 

Note that nonbinary isn’t only about atypical dysphoria, cis people can be gender nonconforming, then these two hypothesis contradict each other forming things like: cis enby, trans enby and paradoxically cistrans.

hello folks. I think this is important to ratiocinate the human logic of gender, as a non-xenogender point of view. Note this logic is often propagated by nonbinary-friendly transmedicalists, this is meant to be a social cutout and a thematic approach. Language is like a hard science/math/tech mixing humanities, arts and bio/medical sciences.

Logics don’t apply to all kinds of anthropes.

Superagender Pride Flag

Supranagender (supra-agender) or Superagender (interchangeable with supergenderless and supragenderless): An identity that includes and exceeds genderlessness. For example, they would feel that their genderless level includes but also extends outside of being agender.

– Ap

Decolonized Straight Flag

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Decolonized Straight: a het individual that is unleashed from the hegemonic heteropatriarchal orientation, although ey is straight and deimperialized, not belong in structural heteropatriarchy within your culture and life experience. Sometimes referred as deconstructed/woke at mockery.

Purple represents decolonised womanhood, brown and red represent both decolonial manhood and non-binary people.

– Ap

arco-pluris:

Based on genderflux chart from @bentonthefoxkin, I tried mine explaining how I see gender spectrums.

Non-binary is an umbrella term encompassing many identities expressed in this chart, such as demigender spectrum (magigenders, hemigenders/semigenders, nanogenders, pixelgenders) and abinary spectrum.

Maverique, third-gender, neutrois and aliagender identities fall under aporagender and other-gender spectrums, the difference is that abinary encompasses agender too (as abinarity might be an a-gender as in nongender).

Note some third-genders and aliagenders might be lingender/androgyne &/or male-female (mesogender, ambigender, femache or midgender), other-gender experiences could be reduced into nonbinary.

F/M are prefixes for feminine/female and masculine/male genders, you can be both (fem and female or male and masculine) or have a separated one (male unmasculinity, female unfemininity, nonfemale femininity or nonmale masculinity). While wo/man might be sociopolitical labels or genders too.

This chart does not explain polygenders at all, but if you look at the chart as if it was a music equalizer graphic, as in audio volume/frequency levels, that could be a pxnzerogender (agenderlight/zeropxngender/zerapangender or apanzerogender/panzeragender).

An example explaining how a binary man, he would be comgender male, antifemale (opposite gender), non-abinary and non-androgyne, turning out he is monogender with gender masculinity too. Comgender means completely gendered.

It could be incoherent putting neutrois as separated for some people, because gender neutrality is a balance between all genders for many neutrois individuals, but since androgyne could be a multigender of M & F, both could be interpreted as different independent/autonomous genders too, as well as maverique and other aporagenders.

I’m not sure how gender experiences, such as neurogenders, kingenders and xenogenders, could be represented on this chart, since I see them differently, not as genders alone.

Agender is also used as a spectrum, encompassing libragenders, ungenders and others.

arco-pluris:

Based on genderflux chart from @bentonthefoxkin, I tried mine explaining how I see gender spectrums.

Non-binary is an umbrella term encompassing many identities expressed in this chart, such as demigender spectrum (magigenders, hemigenders/semigenders, nanogenders, pixelgenders) and abinary spectrum.

Maverique, third-gender, neutrois and aliagender identities fall under aporagender and other-gender spectrums, the difference is that abinary encompasses agender too (as abinarity might be an a-gender as in nongender).

Note some third-genders and aliagenders might be lingender/androgyne &/or male-female (mesogender, ambigender, femache or midgender), other-gender experiences could be reduced into nonbinary.

F/M are prefixes for feminine/female and masculine/male genders, you can be both (fem and female or male and masculine) or have a separated one (male unmasculinity, female unfemininity, nonfemale femininity or nonmale masculinity). While wo/man might be sociopolitical labels or genders too.

This chart does not explain polygenders at all, but if you look at the chart as if it was a music equalizer graphic, as in audio volume/frequency levels, that could be a pxnzerogender (agenderlight/zeropxngender/zerapangender or apanzerogender/panzeragender).

An example explaining how a binary man, he would be comgender male, antifemale (opposite gender), non-abinary and non-androgyne, turning out he is monogender with gender masculinity too. Comgender means completely gendered.

It could be incoherent putting neutrois as separated for some people, because gender neutrality is a balance between all genders for many neutrois individuals, but since androgyne could be a multigender of M & F, both could be interpreted as different independent/autonomous genders too, as well as maverique and other aporagenders.

I’m not sure how gender experiences, such as neurogenders, kingenders and xenogenders, could be represented on this chart, since I see them differently, not as genders alone.

Agender is also used as a spectrum, encompassing libragenders, ungenders and others.

Gyneflexible Pride Flag

Gyneflexibility or Gynoflexibility: identifying predominantly as gyne-/gyno- but being flexible in its identity; being attracted mostly to women but occasionally not exclusively.

Using gyne- flag with nofemaric flag in the middle. – Ap

Androflexible Pride Flag

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Androflexibility: identifying predominantly as andro- but being flexible in its identity; being attracted mostly to men but occasionally not exclusively.

Using andro- flag with nomascic flag in the middle. – Ap

LGBPA+ Pride Flag

LGBQAP+: lesbian, gay, bi, questioning, aro/ace or poly/pan.

Q is sometimes used as queer too, but note this is for marginalized orientations (MO) equivalent of LGBTQIAPN+, see also BPQUA, ITNB, QTI & LBTQ+.

Note this is not the same as LGB since this one was co-opted by TERFs and #DroptheT supporters. Intersectional sub-divisions do not mean exclusion nor non-inclusion, this flag isn’t for T exclusionists.

Trans people can be LGBPA+ (unstraight) or straight, a lot of activists understand why we must separate orientation movements from gender/sex ones, this isn’t capping for anti-collectivism nor separatism.

– Ap

LGBPA+ Pride Flag

LGBQAP+: lesbian, gay, bi, questioning, aro/ace or poly/pan.

Q is sometimes used as queer too, but note this is for marginalized orientations (MO) equivalent of LGBTQIAPN+, see also BPQUA, ITNB, QTI & LBTQ+.

Note this is not the same as LGB since this one was co-opted by TERFs and #DroptheT supporters. Intersectional sub-divisions do not mean exclusion nor non-inclusion, this flag isn’t for T exclusionists.

Trans people can be LGBPA+ (unstraight) or straight, a lot of activists understand why we must separate orientation movements from gender/sex ones, this isn’t capping for anti-collectivism nor separatism.

– Ap

Homo-curious Pride Flag

Homo-curiosity: attracted primarily to the dissimilar gender(s) but showing interest in similar gender(s).

-Ap

Hetero-curious Pride Flag

Hetero-curiosity: attracted primarily to the same gender but showing interest in the other gender(s) different from your own.

Not to be confused with straight curious. ~Ap

Making lexical junctions I’d say it’s demibxrlfluid or demibxrlflux, mixing birl, demifluid/demiflux and agender into one word. Bxrl means bxygxrl/gxrlbxy (bxy+gxrl). It could be bxrlflux too, fluxing from demi(a)gender to agender, mixing boyflux and girlflux concepts, nothing from these specifies you are never comgender.

– Ap

Suptilia- Pride Flags

Suptilia- (suptili-a-): similar to omnia-/pana-, a translated version of the Brazilian assexual estrito(a/e) meaning strict ace, as asexuality is comprehended as an umbrella term itself in Brazil, not only a spectrum, where black area is understood as a full suptilic nullity in the a-spectrum.

Suptiliasexual Pride Flag

Suptiliasexuality (suptili-ace): meaning suptilic/strict asexual.

Suptiliaromantic Pride Flag

Suptiliaromanticity (suptili-aro): suptilic/strict aromantic.

Suptiliaqueerplatonic/Suptiliaquasiplatonic

Pride Flag

Suptiliaquirkyplatonic/Suptiliaqplatonic: suptilic aqueerplatonic/aquasiplatonic.

Suptilianalterous Pride Flag

Suptili-analterous/Suptilinonalterous: strict analterous.

Suptiliaplatonic Pride Flag

Suptiliaplatonic: suptilic aplatonic.

Suptiliansthetic Pride Flag

Suptilia-aesthetic: suptilic ansthetic.

Suptiliasensual Pride Flag

Suptiliasensuality: suptilic asensual.

-Ap

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Apothicupioromantic/Cupioapothiromantic

  • Apothiromantic: a romance-repulsed aromantic identity.
  • Cupio-/Kalos-: not feeling attraction and still desiring a relationship.
  • Repulsromantic: An orientation characterized by repulsion to romance.

– Ap

Straightflexible Pride Flag

Straightflexibility: identifying predominantly as straight but flexible in its identity.

It’s not exactly the same as heteroflexible since it’s not that much about amplusic attraction, it’s talking about straight identity and its flexibility, not essentially hetero-, het or hetero. 

See also: queerflexible. ~ ap

  • Girlflux: a genderflux identity in which one feels the intensity of their gender fluctuate from completely female to agender, or somewhere in between. For example, one may often feel their gender move from 30% female to 80% female over any amount of time.
  • Comgender: Polar opposite of Agender. To have/experience gender. A gender label to use if you do not wish to narrow your gender down any further than simply having gender.
  • Mascgirl (a replacement for tomboy): A woman that may present herself as a male, or dress in masculine clothing.

You can have an unspecified gender, being agender sometimes, comgender abinary to female, and things like gender not going with your pronouns, as you could be a they/she commascgirlflux and gender non-conforming.

– Ap

I think you can be the opposite of amantesexuality. So antiamantesexual? Feel free to coin. See also kenasexual.

Amantesexual: only feeling sexual attraction towards someone you’re in love with/not feeling sexual attraction until you’re in love with someone.

– Ap

Hey! More of an opinion question, but do you think having PCOS can count as being intersex? I was recently diagnosed and my doctor said that the health system will recognize me as biologically female, but it would really be up to me to decide whether I’d consider myself intersex. (Regardless of th as t, i still identify as nonbinary)

Hi! Here is a good short post on why those with PCOS can consider themselves intersex. But yes, it is essentially up to you whether you want to consider yourself intersex or not.

I reutilize my striped flags, I have a flag folder with number of same-sized stripes specified for each image, I select each stripe to filter so the images might have different heights (in case of horizontal stripes). 

I mostly use Microsoft Paint (in Portuguese), look in this <approximated> example I use 11-stripes with 109 pixels for a 2000 × 1199px format (next to 5:3).

Since we are on tumblr, pictures may lose the original quality, that’s why I don’t worry that much with stripes format accuracy. If flags happen to be uploaded in pride-flags dA account, then they are generally corrected there into 5:3 aspect ratio (a flag pattern).

Many flag editors at tumblr design 1:1 <square sized> flags, that’s a way striped flags may present too, easy to replicate with other flags together, we can easily enlarge flags like that if needed. Symbols and other objects can also be placed on the flag.

Notice that flags are forms of artistic expression, there are a lot used for vexillology too.

 – Ap

do you know about any -platonic terms that feel like you can make platonic relationships but they feel as if (or do) inevitably fall apart due to neurodivergence?

The closest I know of is:

Klape-: When you feel as though your ability (or potential) to experience attraction has been taken away from you due to trauma, neurodivergence, etc. 

Neuroa-/Neuro A-: Feeling attraction or wanting to participate in actions associated with a type of attraction, but you are scared of, repulsed by, or aversed to, them due to being (or relating to being) neuroatypical, neurodiverse, or mentally ill.

Praesto-: When one feels attraction and wants a relationship but because of their status as neurodivergent they feel repulsed with the thought of being in a relationship with them and having to deal with them.

Or you can coin something!

Hi!! So my kin is the son of an angel and a demon, and I was wondering if there is a term for a gender that fluctuates strongly between being very very cold-feeling, and very very hot-feeling. I don’t know how to better describe it, and no other blog will help me because everyone thinks I’m a troll… Please help!

The closest I know of would be Heagender, which is an all-encompassing thing for glarogender and feugender. When your gender depends on the weather and temperature. You’re welcome to coin something if that doesn’t fit!

Tubercugender

Tuberculum = tumor in Latin

A gender that’s like a burden, or tumor, on you and prevents you from discovering your true self. Exclusive to neurodivergent people.

Colors explained:

Yellow = the euphoria of finding a term that fits you

Dull green = how your gender negatively impacts you

Pink = neurodivergency

Brown = refuge and safety from escaping your gender

Neon green = the way your gender helps you accept who you really are

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I’m not sure if there is supposed to be an image there, I can’t see it for some reason. But thanks for the submission anyways!

-Fy

So basically I’m attracted to feminine males/females/non binary people but I’m also attracted to masculine females/non binary people. Is there a term for that? None of the research I do gets me anywhere. (The reason why I don’t just go with pansexual is because I know there are terms for being attracted to femininity and masculinity, and I just want to know if there is a term that fits my sexuality? Also I don’t really feel like pansexual fits me exactly)

I don’t think there’s any one term that is currently available that you could use. Mascu- is attraction to masculine gender expression, and Fe- is attraction to feminine expression. Perhaps you could use them in some sort of combination? or you can coin something new!