PSSD (Post-SSRI/SNRI sexual dysfunction): an iatrogenic, distressing, multidimensional sexual health condition caused directly by the previous use of selective serotonin/–norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs/SNRIs)/tricyclic antidepressants (TCAs).
Semisollunar, hemisollunar or demisollunar: partly gyn-aligned, partly andr-aligned and partly something else; partial alignment with womanhood/femininity and manhood/masculinity; part sollunar, part anything else.
Synonym with twilightian/twilian (demieclipsian/semieclipsian/hemieclipsian, demisollunarian/semisollunarian/hemisollunarian), demieclipsal/semieclipsal/hemieclipsal, semieclipsical/demieclipsical/hemieclipsical. -Ap
Demisolstellunar, semisolstellunar or hemisolstellunar: being partly nonaligned or neutrally aligned, partly man-/masc-aligned, partly fem-/woman-aligned and partially something else; part solstellunar, part anything else; demigyne-aligned, demiabinary-/demineutral-aligned and demiandrous-aligned.
Synonym with constellian/constellatien (demigalaxian/semigalaxian/hemigalaxian, demisolstellunarian/hemisolstellunarian/semisolstellunarian). -Ap
Quoisonancy/quoisonance or quoiphoria: a term for when you can’t tell whether you experience gender dysphoria/euphoria or not; the state of feeling that sonance terms don’t apply to them; being unsure what sonancy is, and therefore being unsure if one has experienced it or not; a person who does not identify themselves as having a particular sonant/phoric term; someone whose relationship with phorias/sonancies is complicated/confusing; an alternative to “questioning”, in order to communicate exhaustion or frustration with searching for a better sonance term for oneself; not knowing where one fits on the sonances spectrum.
There are probably innumerable/infinite ways of defining it, based on quoigender, quoi- orientations and quoigenic. Quoiphoric was coined by anon sent to @plurgai. Although anon not specified if this applies to sex/gender sonances or any type of -phoria, I remain it without mentioning in the definition, it can represent both and additionally including paraphoria, wistphoria etc. -Ap
Demisolstellar, semisolstellar or hemisolstellar: demigender of solstellar; partial alignment with manhood/masculinity and neutrality/nullity; demisolar demistellar; part nonaligned, part masc-/man-aligned and part something else.
Synonymous with solstian (demisolstellarian/hemisolstellarian/semisolstellarian, solstacian, deminovarian/seminovarian/heminovarian or anterian solstellarian/novarian). -Ap
Demistellunar, semistellunar or hemistellunar: the semigender/hemigender or demigender of stellunar/nebular; someone who partly align with womanhood/femininity and neutrality/nullity, either simultaneously or asynchronously; demilunar demistellar; part non-aligned, part woman-/fem-aligned, part something/anything else.
Synonym with equinoxian (demistellunarian/semistellunarian/hemistellunarian, duskian celestian, equinian or deminebularian/heminebularian/seminebularian (anterian nebularian)/stellunarian), heminebular/seminebular/deminebular. -Ap
Demistellar, semistellar or hemistellar: being partly nonaligned/unaligned or partially neutrally/nully/abinarily/abinarially aligned. This doesn’t necessarily reflect one’s gender identity, as a demistellar folk can be anonbinary or binary, for example.
Synonym with celestian (demistellarian/semistellarian/hemistellarian), however -ian terms are commonly defined as “non-binary genders from the galactian alignment system”, they can be used interchangeably without being nonbinary. But I’m creating these terms also because I they sound cool.
Sollunar: solar and lunar person; an individual that is aligned with womanhood/femininity and masculinity/manhood, either simultaneously and/or fluidly.
Stellunar: an individual that is aligned with femininity/womanhood and neutrality/nullity, either simultaneously and/or fluidly, without necessarily being classified as non-binary.
From stellunarian, describing a “lunar person” and “stellar folk”. -Ap
Solstellar: a person who is aligned with masculinity/manhood and nullity/neutrality, either simultaneously and/or fluidly, without necessarily being classified as non-binary.
The term comes from solstellarian, which means solarian and stellarian, that were synonymous to “solar non-binary person” and “stellar non-binary person”. -Ap
Dialkiagender (or dialkigender): the fusion of dial(ga)gender and palki(a)gender; usually connected to feelings of positrois androgyny, being equally imposing, titanic and having a great impact on the person’s life. But it’s also mysterious, alluding any sort of pinpointed description other than “kind of an androgyne or ambinary but not quite 100% there” or something of the sort.
The individual feels like it can change or fluctuate depending on how much time they spend on an impactful space and how long an impacting experience lasts, but the initial feelings it’s connected to will still be there.
It’s like arceusgender without the giratinagender aspect. Dialkia is a fan term for the ancient statue in Eterna City (Pokémon Platinum/Adventures manga), which is ambiguously shaped to represent Dialga/Palkia. -Ap
Feminization or feminisation (feminilization/feminilisation):a broad term, but when we are into LGBTQ+ terms, it often prescribes someone who is fluctuating from an unfeminine gender state to a femininity/muliebrity, can be someone who goes into a feminizing/feminising (transfeminine) hormone therapy, but not necessarily. It’s synonymous to “sissified” and “devirilized”/”devirilised” (devirilization/devirilisation), considered almost like the polar opposite of “virilized”/”virilised” (virilization/virilisation), “masculized” (masculisation/masculinisation), “unfeminized”/”unfeminised” (unfeminization/unfeminisation), “androgynized”/”androgynized”/”gynandrized”/”gynandrised” (androgynization/androgynisation/gynandrisation/gynandrization) and “neutralised” (neutralization/neutralisation).
Femmavire, femmevira, feminiavire, feminavire, feminevira, feminivira, femevira, fempuerella/fempurella, femvirmina, femeravir, femmeravir, femiavire, femievira, femviera/femveira, gynevira/ginevira or gyneavire/gynavire (ginavire/gineavire): a gender that is both feminine and femasculous/femmache; a femmascle-aligned gender femininity; a feminine(-aligned) identity that is femmascule in nature/liaspec; femmasle(-aligned) that is feminine in nature (fin); feminera/femera/feminilier/femvira and femvir
Femasle, femascule or femascle: an identity that embraces both femaleness and maleness, while not being one’s gender nor sex descriptor, falling out sex/gender binomial.
It could represent one’s sense of oneself. It combines femella/femelle with masle/mascle/mascule, French words for male/female. -Ap
Angiera, angilier, lierangi, puellangi, feminangi, angifemina, angipuella, angivira, androgynera/androginera, gynandrera/ginandrera, erandrogyne/erandrogynous (erandrogyny)/erandrogine, puellandrogyne/puellandrogynous (puellandrogine/puellandrogyny), feminandrogyne/feminandrogynous (feminandrogyny) or andreragynous/andreragyne/andreragine (andreragyny): a genderera androgyny; female(-aligned) non-binary gender that is androgynous in nature; a gender that is both gynandrous and female; a female-aligned gender gynandry;
Can be viewed as an eramascfem/mascfemera/femmascera/femascera (erafemasc/erafemmasc/mascerafem/femulinera/erafemuline/femeramasc/femmeramasc/mascfemmera) identity (combining mascera, mascfem/femuline and femera). -Ap
Genderhetero, hetrogender, hetergender, genderheter, genderhetro, gendretero, gendretro, heterosexualgender (hetersexualgender, hetrosexualgender), hetgender, str8gender, straightgender, genderstr8, genderstraight or genderhet/gendrhet: an orientationgender tied to being het/str8; where one’s heterosexual identity heavily affects, correlates with, or influences their gender; for when your gender and your heterosexuality/hetero-orientation are inextricably linked with each other; an affinitive sentiogender/affinative condigender, characterized by feeling some attachment or alignment to a gender through their attraction to (an)other/opposite/different/dissimilar gender(s).
The original heterogender flag was sarcastic/meant to mock non-binary equaric supremacists (exorsexists who discriminate nonbinary people attracted to genders unlike their own alignments) and used interchangeably as “straight-aligned” (taking the piss/poking fun/reclaiming ironically). Plus it was also used historically to indicate duaric (m/f or w/m)/enanteic relationships. -Ap
Uranodionian (uranodioning): the bisexual gender; a sexually ambiguous person; bisexous; ambivalent oriented/mixed orientation-gender; experiencing heterosexual and homosexual attractions; being uranian and dionian; both variant & conformant; an equaric duaric; a contraic/enanteic symmaic; straight gay. Encompassing bi women (uranodioningin) and men (uranodioningtum).
Dionianism/dionism (dioning/dionismus): the heterosexual gender; a comprehensive term for queern’t/gender conforming gayn’t people. Encompassing straight men (dioningtum) and women (dioningin). The opposite of uranian.
Twink Girl: a short, skinny, cute, boy-ish queer woman, may likely present herself as similar to a traditional male twink, embracing traits that are generally seen as (de)gendered and unmasculine; could be also a twinkish vincian/virsic gal (female mlm/a gurl that is gay for men) or turlian (turiagirl/virl).
Nbiangender, nonbiangender, enbyangender, nonbyangender, nblnbgender, nlngender or nbyangender: a juvelic diamoricgender/cypricgender tied to being enbian/nblnb [nln/nbian, nbyan/enbyan, nonbyan/nonbian].
Genderhomo, simulsexualgender, gendersimul, controsexualgender or homosexualgender (homosexual-gender): where one’s homosexual/simulsexual (controsexual) identity heavily affects, correlates with, or influences their gender; for when your gender and your homosexuality/homo-orientation are inextricably linked with each other; an orientationgender tied to being homo-/simul-/contro-; an affinitive sentiogender, characterized by feeling some attachment or alignment to a gender through their attraction to the same/similar gender(s).
This is mostly a redesign of the homo(orientation)gender, as it was recoined with humangender/hominigender/homigender/humanigender (humanogender, anthrogender/anthropogender). Homogender was also a word for same-gender/equaric relationships.
It can be an umbrella term for lesbiangender/genderlesbian, lesbogender (lesbigender/lesbiogender), gaygender/gayangender/gaegender/gheygender, gaigender, vinciangender/turiangender (gaymangender/gaymagender), sapphigender (sapphogender/sapphicgender), achillegender (achilleangender/vinciagender), equaricgender/equarigender, enbiagender (gaenbiangender/gaenbiengender). -Ap
Romion: a term to describe deltheon men (and additionally mspec trixions). Can be also a word for multi-spec reilians, some deltheon adonic (mln) and multispec strenbian (str8/strayt nln) people feeling connected to the concept.
Trixion is straight/strayt trixic (nlw). Romion (rorien/romien or romian/rorian) comes from romerion (straight mlw/romeric). -Ap
Jutian: a term to describe deltheon women (and additionally mspec torions). Can be also a word for multi-spec riveans, some deltheon maedic (wln) and multispec strenbian (str8/strayt nln) people feeling connected to the concept.
Deltheon means m-spec straight, while torion straight/strayt toric (nlm). Jutian (jutien/jution) comes from julietion (straight wlm/julietian). -Ap
Dioxian: an orientation label for when the user switches between jutian and romion or are both simultaneously. Basically, “I like boys in a straight way and girls in a straight way”. User may be non-binary and/or use other labels.
Mixing dio- from dionian and -xian by @hexian-info. Jutian (jution/jutien) is a word for an mspec straight woman (julietion) and romion (rorien/romien or romian/rorian) an m-spec straight man (romerion).
It’s similar to omnistraight but not necessarily genderfluid. Can be also used by multispec rivereans. -Ap
i decided to go ahead and make some mspec gay flags! they follow the pattern of my mspec lesbian flags but flipped, in a way. i hope yall mspec gays like em~
@beyond-mogai-pride-flags since i’ve been using the term vaporwavic since i discovered it, i made an alternate flag! only four stripes because i use it to describe my nonbinary identity 🙂
i’d appreciate a rb or have it added to the vaporwavic post, so other people under this identity can see it 🙂
Hey. I’m seeing your post now. I’m reblogging this so Fy can see this and edit the post (if Fy come back). -Ap
Polycelibacy: polyamorous relationship that avoids reproducing models of a conventional relationship (“I have a girlfriend, but I don’t intend to go live with her”).
Translated from policelibato. Someone said it’s the same as solo polyamory but I’m not sure. -Ap
Mesi AroAce or Mesi AceAro: both mesi aromantic and mesi asexual; refers to someone who is on the aroace spectrum (both ace and aro spectrums) but is not completely suptiliaroace (suptilic aroace, suptiliaro/suptiliace).
It’s not necessarily amplusic/amplus-spec, as mesial means non-suptilic/non-strictly. Coined by @gendertherapist. -Ap
(Fl)uxousness, (fl)exous/ness or fluxine (fluxinity): a experiencing a gender quality with fluctuating intensities; a qualifier/identifier used to explain or define gender identities, expressions/presentations, and connections associated with genderflux/flexgender.
Can be an umbrella term for femflux, mascflux, angiflux/androgynousflux (gynandrousflux/gynandreflux), neutralflux/neuflux, outherflux/outherineflux (eliflux), linflux, minflux, finflux, ninflux, oinflux, uinflux, ainflux, aporineflux, aginflux, xenflux/xinflux, xenineflux/xeniflux, nullflux, etc. -Ap
Wistphoria: “something like dysphoria but less concrete, particularly when one’s desired body is either impossible by the laws of physics or impossible with the genetic cards one has been dealt.”
I’d appreciate if someone else define it better. -Ap
Gender-expansiveness: An umbrella term sometimes used to describe people who expand notions of gender expression and identity beyond perceived or expected societal gender norms. Gender-expansive people feel that they exist between genders, as on a spectrum, or beyond the notion of the man/woman binary paradigm.
[ID: 10 stripes with two dark reds, red, yellow, 2 dark yellows, yellow, oranged and two oranges. End ID.] -Ap
Gender-collectress/collectrix: When your gender is femininely fluid or flux, but you can’t find just a few terms to describe what your fluctuating gender is, so you “collect” gender terms that fit you.
I’m not implying “collector” is masculine/gendered, but if you want alternatives there’s collectour, collectrum, or collecter (collectionist if you experience syllogomania/collectionism and hoarder if you have compulsive hoarding disorder).
It could be a form of feminine gender-collecting/hoard and/or a gendercollecter/gendercollectionist that uses grammatically “fem.” language. In my case, I use colecionadora de gênere in my native idiom. -Ap
Phrenodivergence or phrenodivergency: phrenically/mentally divergent from typical, including those that are neurologically divergent and/or psychologically divergent from typicality.
-phren- is a word root derived from Greek φρήν, meaning soul/mind, similar to thym-. The word is meant to encompass both neurodivergences and psychodivergences, as an autistic experiencing psychotic traits and bipolar episodes I consider myself both things, and where I live I often see people distinguishing/splitting them.
Phreniversity/phreniverse/thymidiverse/thymidiversity/thymiversity/thymiverse/phrenodiverse/phrenidiverse/phrenodiversity/phrenidiversity/thymodiversity/thymodiverse, as diversity is a vague concept, can encompass both phrenotypicals/phrenitypicals and phrenatypicals, useful for neurotypicals and psychotypicals associated with mental health and antimanicomial fight.
For this flag I used 9 colors findable in mad pride, neurodivergent and mentally ill flags. [ID.: nine stripes of light maroon, purple, violet, teal, light green, gray, desaturated red, darker red and neutral purple. End ID.] -Ap
Transfelinity or transfelidae (trans-species + felinity/felidae): being a feline trapped in a human body; to identify as a catlike species other than the one that was assigned at birth; for humans, to identify as a felid other than human.
Ideoandrogynous/ideoandrogyny (ideoangi/ideangi), ideogynandrous/ideogynandre (ideogynandry), ideoambinary/ideambinary or ideomascfem(me)/ideofemmasc/ideofemasc: a word for those who relate to having an experience that rely on androgyny or other “projections” of LIN (androgynous in nature) ideas, without being (necessarily) close to binary genders; being both ideogyne (ideogynous/ideogyny) and ideoandrous (ideoandry/ideandry/ideandrous or ideandre/ideoandre) [ideandrogyne/ideandrogyny/ideandrogynous].
Also a form of mesobinary. Although many people theorize the L- in lingender comes from male/female, there’s also an L in masculine/feminile. [ID.: 5 stripes of hot pink, yellow, white, yellow and blue. End ID.] -Ap
Viandrogyne/viandrogynous, viaandrogyne/viaangi/viaandrogynous, viafemache, viavire/viaavire, viavirmina, viagynandre/viagynandrous, viapurella/viapuerella, viaeravir, viabirl/viabyrl, viaboygirl/viagirlboy, viaguygal/viagalguy or viambinary/viaambinary: being both viawoman/viafemale/viaera/viagirl/viagal/viapuella/viafemina/vialady/viavira/vialier (viagyne/viagynous/viagyny) and viaman/viamale/viavir/viaboy/viaguy/viapuer (viawerman/viawereman/viandrous/viaandrous/viandre/viaandre/viandry/viaandry) or viafem (viafemininity/viafeminine/viafemme) and viamasc (viamasculine/viamasculinity).
Viandrogyny/viaandrogyny (viagynandry) is both on mesobinary/ambibinary and viabinary spectrums. It’s not a viagender (as liaspec/liagender).
Non-gibberish definition: a word for those who relate to having an experience similar or close to both binary genders, while not (necessarily) being 100% ambinary.
[ID.: 5 stripes of violet, white, grey, white and violet. End ID.] -Ap
Ideomasculine Pride Flag
Ideomasculinity (ideomasc): a word for those who relate to having an experience that rely on masculinity or other “projections” of MIN (masculine in nature) ideas, without being (necessarily) close to binary genders.
It’s an ideobinary term, the ideogender identity is already called mingender [ID: 5 stripes of blue, yellow, white, yellow and blue. End ID]. -Ap
Ideomasculinity (ideomasc): a word for those who relate to having an experience that rely on masculinity or other “projections” of MIN (masculine in nature) ideas, without being (necessarily) close to binary genders.
It’s an ideobinary term, the ideogender identity is already called mingender [ID: 5 stripes of blue, yellow, white, yellow and blue. End ID]. -Ap
Ideofeminine Pride Flag
Ideofemininity (ideofem): a word for those who relate to having an experience that rely on femininity or other “projections” of FIN (feminine in nature) ideas, without being (necessarily) close to binary genders.
It’s an ideobinary term, the ideogender identity is already called fingender [ID: 5 stripes of dark pink, yellow, white, yellow and dark pink. End ID]. -Ap
Ideofemininity (ideofem): a word for those who relate to having an experience that rely on femininity or other “projections” of FIN (feminine in nature) ideas, without being (necessarily) close to binary genders.
It’s an ideobinary term, the ideogender identity is already called fingender [ID: 5 stripes of dark pink, yellow, white, yellow and dark pink. End ID]. -Ap
Xaexell, xaerell, faexell, xensari, cenxari or xenxari: a term for those who are xiaspec, niaspec and liaspec. They can experience the xia/nia/liaspec-ness in any configuration, including but not limited to: being all three at once, being static in one or two but the others are fluid or flux, or being fluid between all alignments.
It’s the combination of censari, xenrell and faexari. The coiner of the xenoic version of faesari and cenrell used viaspec (viagender spectral) terms instead of ideospec (ideogender spectrum), her explanations used finspec/minspec terms instead of fiaspec/miaspec, other times using them interchangeably. So xenxari can be linspec/xinspec too.
[ID: 6 stripes of orange, light orange, purple, light purple, green and soft green. End ID.] -Ap
Uranian: a comprehensive term for LGBT+/queer people used in the late 19th and early 20th centuries. An English translation of the German word Urning. It’s often conceptualized as the “homosexual gender”, a “third gender” and a descriptor for gay men (urningthum) and lesbians (urningin/uranierin/urnin/urnigin), as opposed to dionian (dioning), meaning “heterosexual gender”, feminine/straight woman (dioningin) and masculine/straight man (dioningthum), stemming from the idea common in early sexology that a gay man has a partly female psyche, and a lesbian has a partially male soul.
Uranismus (uranism) has a taxonomy with: uranodioning (uranodionian), representing bisexuals, uranodioningin (bi women) and uranodioningthum (bi men); zwitter, intersex people; and others, making categories encompassing modern concepts of cross-orientation/parosexuality (conjunctive/disjunctive) and non-binarity/intermediate (zwischen).
They were all coined by Karl Ulrichs, which can be considered the modern father of MOGAI pioneering/queerstory. -Ap
Genderchimerized Pride Flag
Gender chimerization/chimerisation: the manner in which different/dissimilar/disparate genders come together to form a singular gender experience.
Gender polymerization: the act of smaller, more focused traits of gender combining together to form a whole, distinct and unique gender experience.
Defined with help from @gender-resource. The word is based on gendersublimed (gender sublimation). [ID.: 9 stripes with orange, red, dark wine, black wine, pear, dark purple, dark blue, dark teal and cyan. End ID.] -Ap
FTMTF or F2M2F (Female-to-Male-to-Female): an individual who was assigned female at birth, transitioned to male, and then detransitioned back to female.
Acey: a slang adopted/reclaimed by some ace people. Sometimes it’s used by aphobes/amisiacs lumping all aspec individuals as aceys, so it’s available for them to reclaim as well, however it’s misdirected, not all a-specs are acespec.
-Ap
Assexuade (assexuada/assexuado): an identity adopted/reclaimed by some acespec lusophones. It’s generally pejorative/acemisic (acephobic), possibly a slur. It denotes asex (assexo/sexless), as in, lacking sex organs, and beings who reproduce asexually. Some asexuals don’t find it offensive. Assexual was recognized officially after assexuad-, so asexual/s is/are often translated as assexuado/s.
Spanish probably has its equivalent asexuade (asexuado/asexuada). Assexuadx can be translated as asexed or asexuated. It’s flexed with gendered suffixes, as opposed to assexuais. This word is also used sometimes as desexualized/non-sexual, as in lacking sexual activity, while not essentially asexually oriented. -Ap
Sgait, sgaight, sgayt, sgrayt, sgayght, sgrait, sgraight, sgaiyt, sgraiyt, sg8, sgr8 or sgrayght: when one’s attraction feels both straight and gay in a non-binary way; and/or being both gain’t and straytn’t/unstrayt (gayn’t & unstraight/straightn’t in nonbinary ways).
Phœmian (phœbian + artemian): describes someone who is mascfem-aligned [simultaneously masc(uline)-aligned and fem(inine)-aligned]. This includes partially lingendered folks, those who are connected to androgyny (with or without actually being lingender), someone whose gender experiences are similar to lingendered people, etc. A subset of sollunarian.
Hellenian: the combination of helian and selenian; describing someone who is femache-aligned (guygal/boygirl-aligned or simultaneously man-aligned and woman-aligned/female-aligned and male-aligned). This includes partial machembres, those who are connected to femachehood (with or without actually being a femache), someone whose gender experiences are similar to femaches, etc. A subset of eclipsian/sollunarian.
Angiavire: a femache(-aligned) [male-female/helian-selenian] non-binary gender that is mascfem (masculine-feminine) in nature [lin/min-fin]; a gender that is both androgynous and androgyne (alternatively male, masculine, female and feminine); a sollunarian/eclipsian gender androgyny; a mascfem(-aligned/phoebian-artemian) that is machembre in nature [lia(spec)/main-fein]; both andravire/androavire or mascavire and gynavire/gyneavire/gynecavire/gynoavire (gineavire/ginavire/ginoavire/ginecavire) or femavire.
Deltheon: An alternate term for a multi-spec straight folk; an umbrella term folk bi straights, pan straights, omni straights and ply straights.
Some examples of deltheon specific experiences: a multiromantic heterosexual; an omnistraight; a penultisexual; a differosexual; an enanteic/contraic pluralian; m-spec individuals reclaiming str8 as a result of feeling ones’ attraction to certain gender(s)/person(s) is straight.
Its name based on the fakémon Deltheor, representing an eclipse mascot. Alt. names: deltian, delthian; delteon, deltion.
[ID: 6 stripes of wine black, purple, pale blue, pale gold, light pale orange and vermilion white. End ID.] -Ap
Transmascgxrlflux or transmascgxlflux: a transmasculine gxrlflux; the mixture of mascgxrl (tombxy, azurgxrl or tomgxrl), genderflux, transmasc, girlflux/galflux (womanflux), mascgirlflux/mascgxrlflux (mascgalflux/mascgxlflux, tomboyflux/tombxyflux, azurgirlflux/azurgxrlflux or tomgxrlflux/tomgirlflux), trans/mxsc(uline), agender, gxrl/gxl, mascflux/mxscflux, transflux and azurgirl (tomboy/tomgirl/mascgirl/mascgal).
Cispronoun (cispronomial): the phenomenon of using one’s assigned pronoun exclusively; when one’s pronoun set typically aligns with one’s assigned gender; and/or a pronoun set that are common for one’s gender identity, someone who is not crosspronominal (n)or enantiopronominal.
And this is a conformant term. Using colours from transn’t and gender conforming flags. -Ap
Transpronomial (transpronoun): using pronoun(s) different from your assigned pronoun at birth; pronouns that do not align with or are uncommon for one’s AGAB (assigned gender at birth); not using one’s assigned pronoun; someone who is not cispronominal (cispronomial/cispronoun).
And since I once used this as a synonym of cross-pronouning, I suggest enantiopronoun (enantiopronominal/enantiopronomial) as an alternative and specific term.
Just as not all trans people consider themselves gender nonconforming (GNC), the same can happen with transpronominal people with PNC, for example, a she/her binary unipronomial trans woman and a he/him unipronominal binary trans man. -Ap
Gendravire, gendervirmina, gendereravir/gendreravir, genderpuerella/genderpurella, genderevira/gendrevira or gendrangi/genderangi: an umbrella term for all femache-adjacent, femache-aligned, and femache-identified genders. Can be also a personal identity.
Femache is the combination of both male and female genders (liagenders). Gendervira means the same as genderera, although it sounds like a combination of both gendervir and genderera. -Ap
Panavire (pangenderavire): identifying as every femache-adjacent, femache-aligned, and femache gender within one’s culture and experiences; being both panera and panvir.
“femache” can be replaced with ambinary, androgyne or other lia-spec identities. Alt. names: panvirmina (pangendervirmina), panpuerella/panpurella, panangi (panandrogyne), pangendravire, panambinary, omniavire/omnavire (oniavire/onavire, onambinary/omnambinary, omniambinary/oniambinary, omniangi/omnangi, onangi/oniangi, omnipuerella/omnipurella, onipurella/onipuerella, omnivirmina/onivirmina, omnifemache/onifemache), panfemache. -Ap
Hello, All. This is Gent of Gender-Resource. This morning, the Youtube algorithm suggested an intriguing video for my wife and I to watch. There were quite a few conclusions drawn about the MOGAI community and those that in habit it that I would like to address in this response. Very plainly, I believe that Lily is very ignorant regarding the topic and has unintentionally created a somewhat problematic video. While there are some very good points made in this video, there are also a lot of really, really bad ones. Some of these bad takes are discussed below.
The purpose of this post is not to call-out Lily or insight harassment. This post was created to critique the video and respond to some of the points made within it from perspective of someone who is intimately involved with the MOGAI community. Anything that is found in quotes is a direct from Lily within the video.
This critique is really long, so it had been placed under a ‘keep reading’.
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Postorientation/Istero-: Like postgender, postorientation is a feeling that one’s identity is shaped by an orientation that one no longer experiences. From the Greek υστερο, meaning post- or after.
Isteroaesthetic
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Isteroalterous
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Isteroromantic
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Isteroplatonic
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Isteroquasiplatonic
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Isterosensual
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Isterosexual
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Mascvir (mascgendervir), mascuvir, masculivir, manuvir, virmasc(uline), viruline or ulinevir: the mix of gendervir and mascgender; a male(-aligned) non-binary gender that is masculine in nature; a gender that is both male and masculine; a male-aligned gender masculinity.
Mascera (mascgenderera), manuera (manugenderera), eramasc(uline), ulinera, manulier, masclier, masculier, mascuera, masculiera, masculinera, mascpuella, mascupuella, mascfemina, mascufemina or manufemina: the combination of mascgender (mascugender, manugender or masculigender) and gendera (genderera, gendrera or gendrelier); a female(-aligned) non-binary gender that is masculine in nature; a gender that is both masc and female; a female-aligned gender masculinity.
Femlier, femera (femgenderera), femiera, feminiera, femmera, femmelier, erafem(me) or femilier: the combination of femgender and genderera (genderfemina, genderpuella or genderlier); a female(-aligned) non-binary gender that is feminine in nature; a gender that is femme and female; a female-aligned gender femininity.
Femvir (femgendervir), virfem(me), femivir (femigendervir), feminivir (feminigendervir) or femmevir (femmegendervir): the combination of femgender (femmegender, feminigender or femigender) and gendervir; a male(-aligned) non-binary gender that is feminine in nature; a gender that is femme and male; a male-aligned gender femininity.
Isogender Manhood: a man that is neither cis man nor trans man; a manhood that is in between, beyond or removed from the cisgender/transgender dichotomy; a guy/boy that is cisn’t and transn’t simultaneously.
Isogender Womanhood: a woman that is neither cis woman nor trans woman; a womanhood that is in between, beyond or removed from the cisgender/transgender dichotomy; a gal/girl that is cisn’t and transn’t simultaneously.
Bodyflux: feeling like your sense of embodiment fluxuates between weak and strong; sort of related to dissociation, but not actually dissociation. Can describe frequent and inexplicable out-of-body sensations.
Duomorphous/duomorphous, ambimorphous/ambimorphic, ambicorporeal/duocorporeal, duoian/duoic or duophenotypic/ambiphenotypic: having dysphoria/dysmorphia that leads you to desire mixed sex characteristics, or seeing yourself more comfortable/euphoric in having ambiguous sex traits.
While bigenital (salmacian/aphrodisian) refers specifically to genitals and bigonadal to gonads, -morph is general for traits/characteristics, similar to bisexed but specifically “mixed”/”ambiguous”. -Ap
Presentationfluid (gender expressionfluid, expressivefluid, abroexpressing, abropresenting or abroexpressive): having a genderfluid expression/abrogender presentation; changing/fluctuating the way you present.
Abromorphic, abrobodied, abrophenotypic or abrocorporeal: bodily fluid; desiring or planning to have/currently experiencing fluid sex traits, among other observable corporeal/physical characteristics; fluctuating between -morphous/-morphic/-bodied/-phenotypic identities, such as andromorphous (andromorphic), androgynomorphous/gynandromorphous (gynandromorphic/androgynomorphic or astromorphous/astromorphic), dysmorphic, estromorphous/gynomorphous (estromorphic/gynomorphic) and bodyflux.
Transbodied: a term to describe being at the weird and difficult intersection between gender, sex, spiritual identity, and mental illness (sensory disorder, BIID, dissociation, etc.), while understanding that your mind and body don’t match up in some way that isn’t straightforwardly related to gender dysphoria, wistphoria, or transition.
Femboyflux: when one feels mostly or all femboy most of the time but experience fluctuating intensity of femboy identity; the combination of femflux/femmeflux and boyflux/manflux; fluxing intensities of femininity and boyhood/guyness/boyliness/boyness/guyliness/guyhood.
Disclaimer (and my stance on the slur discourse) under the cut.
Disclaimer: I used to think FB is a slur, but I don’t agree with it anymore. Femboy does denote trans woman/transfeminine/TMA (transmisogyny affected) people, just as ladyboy, however this term is commonly used to conote effeminate/feminine men as well, regardless of sex traits/ASAB. I’m a DMAB transfem guy and I reclaim the term for me in both senses, and I feel TME (transmisogyny excempt) and DFAB fem men are also included in the word. -A-P.
Veg(s)-/veggie-: attraction to vegans/vegetarians; the combination of vegansexual and vegesexual; a non-omnivore/non-carnist who chooses to have or pursue relationships only with other non-omnivores/non-carnists. Not to be confused with lachano- (attraction to vegetables).
Unajusted/unadapted flag by @lucyferhee. The colors are very similar to my vegangender flag. -Ap
Pillow King or Pillow Prince: the non-feminine version of pillow princesses {additionally non-neutral of pillow prinx(e)[ss]}. Can be more specific, since some may feel excluded from the term “princess”.
It’s meant to be used by queer people, such as high butches, sapphics, mlm/vincians (turians/florics, gayans/magnians (gay men), virsians/virsics), transhets, binaryn’t people and pluralians, probably anattractionals/nullarians (a-specs) as well. -Ap
Femmandrogyne/femmeandrogyne (femmeandrogyny/femmeandrogynous, femmandrogynous/femmandrogynous, femmeangi/femmangi): an androgyne feeling more femme than masculine (/butch). Sometimes interchangeable with femandrogyne.
Femmandrous/femandrous (femandry/femmandry, femandrie/femmandrie, femandre/femmandre, androfem/androfemme or androfeminine/androfemininity): a gender that is both man/boy/guy and feminine/femme; being miaspec/miagender and fingender.
This is a gender identity, not a presentation/expression term. So it doesn’t mean a feminine man essentially. Using demiboy cyan and demifem red-pink with a pastel violet in the middle. It can be similar to femimale, but encompassing more non-masc androus identities (such as boy, guy, dude, etc.). -Ap
Neuflux (neugenderflux), neutriflux (neutrigenderflux), neutflux (neutgenderflux), neutrgenderflux (neutrflux), neutreflux (neutregenderflux), neuterflux (neutergenderflux), neutraflux (neutragenderflux) or neutroflux (neutrogenderflux): When one feels mostly or all neutrally gendered most of the time but experiences fluctuating intensities of neutral gender identity.
Similar to neutroisflux, but in this case specifically with gender neutral identity. Can be specific combinations, like neutragender, neuter(gender), neut(gender), neutre(gender)/neutral, etc. -A-p
Nbyflux, nbieflux, enbieflux, nbiflux, nonbflux or binaryn’tflux: When one feels mostly or all nonbinary/binaryn’t most of the time but experiences fluctuating intensities of nonbinary identity.
Enbyflux, nonbinaryflux and abyflux/abinaryflux had different definitions, although they are commonly be interchangeably depending the contexts. -Ap
Enboyflux (guybyflux, guenbyflux, menbyflux, werenbyflux, nboyflux, manbyflux, malenbyflux or enguyflux): When one feels mostly or all enboy/menby/guyby most of the time but experiences fluctuating intensities of malenby/werenby identity.
Galbyflux, wifenbyflux, femalenbyflux, engirlflux, engalflux or girlbyflux (womenbyflux): When one feels mostly or all girlby/womenby/galby most of the time but experiences fluctuating intensities of femalenby/wifenby identity.
Ambirlflux or amburlflux (burlflux, ambigenderflux/ambiflux): a form of bigenderflux with girl and boy genders; ambinary genderflux; being both boyflux/guyflux/manflux/menflux/dudeflux and girlflux/galflux/womanflux/womenflux/ladyflux (boygirlflux/girlboyflux).
Enbxrl or nbxrl: A gender that is both enbyrl/enburl/enbirl and agender/no gender. The combination of engxrl/gxrlby/engxl/xngirl/gxrlbie/xngal/gxlby/gxlbie and enbxy/gxyby/gxybie/engxy/xnboy (zeninœ/zeninoe/zenineo & zeninea/zeninae/zeninæ); non-binary bxrl (zeninoa/zeninao).
Can be a quxdgender/quxdrigender/quadrxgender/qxadgender/qxadrigender, trxgender/txrgender, tetragender/txtragender/tetrxgender or (en)bxgender/xnbigender. Not to be confused with xnbirl/xnbyrl/xnburl, which is xnby (zenine) with birl or (e)nby with xoy/xirl/xuy/xal (zenina/zenino).
Bxrl or Ambxrl: A gender that is both (am)birl and agender/no gender. The combination of gxrl/gxl and bxy/gxy. It could be either a(n am)bxgender or a trxgender.
Ambirl is the combination of ambigender and boygirl/girlboy. Bxrl is not the same as xmbirl/xambirl, which means xoyxirl/xirlxoy (xoyrl/xoirl), similar to xangi. -AP
Menbie/menby or manby/manbie: an AMAB non-binary person; a binaryn’t man; or a DMAB nonbinary man.
“Menbies” is commonly used to talk about CAMAB enbies, implicitly implying they are all men (but the M- could be from MAAB (masculine or male assigned at birth)). Similar to enboy but not necessarily boy and to theyMAB but not essentially they/them user. It’s used negatively sometimes, so I’m reclaiming it.
Using girlmenby flag colors. [ID: four stripes of yellow, white, blue and dark blue. End ID.] -Ap
Transfembxyflux: A gender that is both transfemboy and agender/no gender; the combination of transfem/femboy, fembxy/fxmbxy/fxmboy, bxy/femboyflux, bxyflux/genderless and genderflux/boyflux.
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From the Queer Resource Center of The Claremont Colleges:
Stem [Stemme] – A person whose gender expression falls somewhere between a stud and a femme.
The design was loosely inspired by a turned version of the Pan-African flag. The purple and deep pink represent femme identity, loving, and self-love, while the greens represent butch identity, loving, and self-love. The browns represent black pride, identity, and experiences.
Transandry (transandrie/transandrist, tranandrist/trannandrist/trannandrous, tranandry/trannandry/trandry/trandrous, tranandrous/tranandre/transdrie, trandrie/transdrous/transdry/trandrist/transdrist or trannandre/transandre): an umbrella term for anyone who is a trans man (or any other wergender transness) and/or transmasculine.
While not all transmascs are trans men, some trans wermen don’t identify as transmasc either (or trans masculine-of-center). -Ap
Transgyny (transgynist or transgyne/transgine): an umbrella term for any person that is trans woman (or any other wifgender transness) and/or transfeminine/transfemme.
While not all transfem(me)s are trans women, not all trans women identify as transfem(me) either. Even when transfemininity is used to encompass trans womanhood, many of them wouldn’t feel represented with the association of feminine-of-center (or another word for fingender/feminine gendered feelings). For example, a woman can have a masculine gender (identity).
Lavender relationship (formerly lavender marriage): a duaric mixed relationship (between a man and a woman), undertaken as a relationship of convenience to
conceal the socially stigmatized orientation of one or both partners; a duaric couple in which one or both members have marginalized orientation(s)/are attractionally or affectionally variant/non-conforming.
The relation is often amorous (romantic/queerplatonic) or gamous (marital). -Ap
absolutely! sonic used to consider emself namefluid so we worked together to make sure this term’s definition was accurate. i’m including the namefluid flag by beyond mogai also, just as a reference, with an expanded definition based on sonic’s experiences:
namefluid/abronomial: when the significance of your name changes, compelling you to choose a different name when comfort associated with a different name becomes greater than the comfort associated with your current name; when your name or name preference shifts fluidly between two or more selected names, sometimes shifting to a name not yet considered. flag design by beyond-mogai-pride-flags on tumblr
nameflux/fluxonomial: when your level of comfort with a certain name varies, never becoming uncomfortable, but does not necessarily compel you to choose a different name; when the intensity of your name’s significance varies between apathy and complete euphoria. is not mutually exclusive with namefluid. flag colors inspired by the genderflux and namefluid flags
Transnominal or Transnomial: when the gender(s) of one’s name(s) differs from one’s assigned at birth; transcending one’s birth name; identifying as a name different from one’s assigned name; not identifying as your assigned name at birth. Not necessarily experiencing name dysphoria.
Using multinomial flags yellow and purple with transgender flag colors. [ID: 7 stripes of pink, blue, pale purple, white, light yellow, pink and blue. End ID] -A-p
Transoutherinity: a term used to describe trans* people identifying with outherine/otherly gendered feelings to a greater extent than with femininity or masculinity.
Transaporinity or transaporainity: a term used to describe trans* people identifying with aporine gendered feelings to a greater extent than with femininity or masculinity.
Struich/Struight or Struch/Strught: a transhet butch. Similar to my other straight butch flag but this one includes transmascs/trans men and other non-women too. – Ap
Frayrose or Fray-aroace: being both frayromantic and fraysexual; only experiencing sexual and romantic attractions towards those that they are not deeply connected with, and lose that attractions as they get to know the person.
Pan- Hetero- (panhet): experiencing forms of attraction that are hetero- and pan- (examples: pansexual heteroplatonic, heterosensual panromantic.); a panflexible hetero- or heteroflexible pan- folk; when you’re pan but your attraction leans towards the other gender(s), as in feeling stronger attraction to dissimilar gender(s), or become attracted easier to people of gender(s) unlike your own; fluctuating or staying in between het(ero) and pan orientations, or simply mixing or encapsulating both identities.
Representing transbians reclaiming the bihet slur. Combining my bi trans lesbian flag with a het flag, resembling my lesbihet flag. Could be called (trans)bihetbian (transbihetbian), translesbihet and (bi)transhetbian (transhet lunian/bitranshetbian). It could also represent a (bi-trans)str8bian.
Representing transbians reclaiming the bihet slur. Combining my bi trans lesbian flag with a het flag, resembling my lesbihet flag. Could be called (trans)bihetbian, translesbihet and (bi)transhetbian (transhet lunian). It could also represent a (bi-trans)str8bian.
Philogyny: fondness, love, or admiration towards women. Its antonym is misogyny/gynemisia. It is not to be confused with gynephilia/gynesexuality, which is attraction to women or femininity (and whose antonym is gynephobia).
– Ap
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Philandry: fondness, love, or admiration towards men. Its antonym is misandry/andromisia. It is not to be confused with androphilia/androsexuality, which is attraction to men or masculinity (and whose antonym is androphobia).
Philandry: fondness, love, or admiration towards men. Its antonym is misandry/andromisia. It is not to be confused with androphilia/androsexuality, which is attraction to men or masculinity (and whose antonym is androphobia).
Genderneutral or G±/G∓: a term describing the genderflux state when one feels that their gender is simultaneously present and not present; being in between gendernegative (G−) and genderpositive (G+).
Combining colors from the genderpositive and gendernegative flags, with a pale dark green in the middle representing neutrality. Could be also be seen as genderambivalent (G≈).
See also: demicomgender, demiagender/demigenderless, lackgender, genderliminal, genderdox, schrödigender/schrögender. – AP
Butchy Femme Pride Flag
Butchy Femme: a femme-leaning futch or futch-leaning femme; midway between femme and futch. The counterpart of soft butch. -Ap
Simi-/Similo- or Simulti-: the attraction to multiple gender identities that are similar to one’s own. The opposite of differo-. Similar to simul-/homo-/SGA, but multi-/MGA.
Examples: a man attracted to people of man-related and man-leaning alignments, such as miaspec; a symmaic polygender folket, attracted to their own genders; a suptilian attracted to other suptilians, diastimians and kymenians.
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Trinary or ternary abinary (ternabinary) suggested by @gender-resource) is the subsequent category after “binary man” and “binary woman”, instead of calling it aliagender, third-gender, “tertiary monogender” or neutral/neuter. It could be null/genderless/”none” or “neither”. Basically an abinary folk that is not atrinary/nontrinary/trinaryn’t. Thus can be monogender/unigender, anthrogender and suptilian, while not essentially comgender/allogender/zedgender.
Abinary (aby or AB): an umbrella term for gender identities totally unrelated to the gender binary (such as maverique, neutrois and agender).
[ID: 6 stripes of blue, pink, lime yellow, white, pale yellow and goldeny yellow. End ID.] -Ap
Panjectum: when your Objectum attraction encompasses all categories regardless of the object / When you are open to developing relationships in any Objectum or Conceptum category, regardless of object or concept
Plushum: an objectum person who is primarily or exclusively attracted to stuffed toys.
Plusho-: An attraction to stuffed animals/ stuffed toys & related objects.
Pelu-: An attraction to stuffed animals/ stuffed toys.
Echopelu: A term for when the user feels their Pelu- attraction is due to their neurodivergency/feel as if the object in question is an extension of themselves due to neurodivergency
Toy-: An attraction to hard toys & related objects (ex: Figurines)
Inflateajectum: An attraction to inflatable objects and pool toys
Spirictum: A form of Objectum where your partner is a spirit / has a spiritual form that may or may not be capable of transferring from one object to another, or has two or more spirits merged into one (ex: a phone case merging with the phone)
Virtuosum: An attraction for specifically art and artistic things. (Even art theory itself)
Crimasum: An attraction to the concept of Christmas, or “Christmas time”
Lesboy (boy lesbian): a cusper lesbian, cross-aligned (guy-aligned/solarian gal or girl-aligned/lunarian boy), multigender/polygender (girlboy/boygirl), sapphogender/lesbogender guy or otherwise a boy that is gay for women.
Similar to saphboy/saphguy, gyneurnimasculine (lesboi/saphboi), boydyke/guydyke and lesbutch. Just as these terms don’t mean necessarily “lesbian man” or “male lesbian”, lesboys aren’t all men, they can be pleonotic boys.
[ID: 6 stripes of dark violet, redish pink, pastel orange, light cyan, soft blue and darker blue. End ID.] – AP
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Orientated/Oriented
Orientated/Oriented: experiencing a non-romantic, non-sexual attraction that is significant enough to label in addition to romantic and/or sexual orientation(s). The attraction being experienced does not need to be defined. Can be used alone or combined with other terms (e.g. gay-orientated).
With both oriented aroace and oriented alloaro being coined, I thought it’d be nice to have a general term/flag for anyone to use. Orientated is a common alternative spelling for oriented. I didn’t actually know what else to call it (it seems silly to coin a new term but use the same definition), so that’s why I just put both terms
Noboric: an umbrella term for anyone NOT attracted to binary people or anybody who is not boric.
This includes enborix and anattractionals/panaspecs. It doesn’t mean necessarily being nomascic and nofemaric since there are non-binary men and non-binary women. – Ap
Boric: an umbrella term to describe any attraction to binary people and a standalone label for anyone who experiences non-straight attraction to binaries.
a trauma-related aesthetic gender based on the traumacore aesthetic & community. this gender may feel painful, dissociated, or lost.
THIS GENDER IS ONLY APPROPRIATE FOR TRAUMA VICTIMS TO USE, MUCH LIKE TRAUMACORE.
original traumacoric flag made on this post, but as traumacoric is one of my headmates primary identities, i wanted to add on a descriptor to the post.
Cross-aligned: when one has a gender alignment that does not align with their actual gender identity and/or gender experience. For example, a woman-aligned man is a man who experiences a connection to womanhood, despite not being a woman.
Cross-aligned: when one has a gender alignment that does not align with their actual gender identity and/or gender experience. For example, a woman-aligned man is a man who experiences a connection to womanhood, despite not being a woman.
a gender that cannot possess a polar opposite. An eugender without an antigender or an ungender, or vice-versa due to an impossibility of the reverse form.
I made some variations of the hetera- flag I used for a request yesterday
Left is heteracespec, center is heterarospec, right is heteraspec
Note that I have this flag as an alternative to the straight flag specifically for straight aspec people, just like I have the transhet flag for straight trans people
I made some variations of the hetera- flag I used for a request yesterday
Left is heteracespec, center is heterarospec, right is heteraspec
Note that I have this flag as an alternative to the straight flag specifically for straight aspec people, just like I have the transhet flag for straight trans people
Binarian (binary gender alignment): someone whose personhood is aligned with a binary gender(s); being either man-aligned/male-aligned and/or woman-aligned/female-aligned; experiencing masculine &/or feminine gender alignments.
Amatoromantic: defined as if you got a crush on only the opposite sex, you would identify as straight at the time. or if you had a crush on more than one person with different identities you could be bi or any other one, etc
Amatosexual: defined as if you got a crush on only the opposite sex, you would identify as straight at the time. or if you had a crush on more than one person with different identities you could be bi or any other one, etc
rosboy: a feminine boy; someone who both considers themselves a boy and has some significant connection to femininity, either in their gender or expression; a feminine-aligned boy; an umbrella term for all identities that involve being both a boy and feminine
azurgirl: a masculine girl; someone who both considers themselves a girl and has some significant connection to masculinity, either in their gender or expression; a masculine-aligned girl; an umbrella term for all identities that involve being both a girl and masculine
these flags are based on the feminenby and masculenby flags and the man and woman flags! prefixes come from the words “rose” and “azure”, which are specific shades of pink and blue respectively. both of these prefixes are similar to how many european languages say ‘blue’ and ‘pink’, and the english words both relate to nature, which i felt unified the terms!
Beyond MOGAI Pride Flags 
