coining some new terms because i haven’t seen any for this yet and i’ve been looking
(all of these are highly inspired by the terms and flags for being sex/romance repulsed, sex/romance favorable, and sex/romance indifferent, commonly used by aspec people. i thought i could borrow a lil bit from one of my communities to make terms for my other one <3)
fem repulsed: repulsed by being called feminine terms and/or pronouns, whether or not your gender is feminine.
masc repulsed: repulsed by being called masculine terms and/or pronouns, whether or not your gender is masculine.
neutral repulsed: repulsed by being called neutral terms and/or pronouns, whether or not your gender is neutral.
and that last bit? about the fact that these terms can apply to anyone no matter their gender? its bolded for a reason. anyone can use these. transmascs, transfems, transneutrals, people with xenogenders, people with no gender, cis people, everyone can use them.
i personally am making these because the first one applies to me. Even though I am genderfluid and am very frequently a girl, being referred to as such can and does still make me dysphoric.
the only people who cant use these terms, of course, are TERFs and other bigots, who should instead go eat pavement ❤
(also, if theres already terms for this and im making a fool of myself because i didnt look hard enough, feel free to lmk)