fivetrench:

I diagram that I really hope people will see and learn something from. As a vincian guy, I’m so tired of people using mlm & gaylm terms interchangeably. They have very different meanings & it excludes a large majority of mlm folks when people use them as if they’re the same.

(For simplicity, I did not mention enben or m-spec veldians/solians in this diagram. I am aware that the terms listed also include nonbinary folks & that m-spec turians/veldians/cintheans exist!)

And before anyone says that vincian is gaylm exclusive, it is not. Here is the coining post, which explicitly states it was created as an alternative to achillean (MLM).