Variamory/Varigamy: any relationship orientation/amory that does not conform or fit into societal ideals of relationships (such as monoamory and monofidelity); variant gamies/amories.

Examples: nonamory, agamy, nonheteroamory, ludum, gamyflux, polymonoflux, polyfidelity (more specific to varifidelity), homoamory.

Coined by @variant-archive​

Queeramorous/queergamous could be a thing too but I guess queergamy/queeramory is more for QLQ people. 

– Ap