Autoecto- or ectoauto-: feeling attracted to yourself and other people than yourself; being auto- and ecto-, strictly, fluctuating or fluxing in between.

I combined both auto- and ecto- flags. Not to be confused with straight gay (homohetero), autohomoerotic or contraic/enanteic symmaic. ~ ap

Autosexual flag found here and ectosexual flag found here.